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Jeff Gray Obituary

Jeff Gray, 27, of Richmond, Va., passed away on Tuesday, January 12, 2010. He is survived by his wife, Katherine Garrett Gray; parents, Thomas and Karen Gray; brother, Blake Gray; mother-in-law, Jean Garrett; father-in-law, Bob Garrett; brother-in-law, Matthew Garrett; aunt and uncle, Lynn and Gary Wheeler; and two cousins, Jason and Colin Wheeler. Jeff was a 2004 graduate of Virginia Tech. He will be deeply missed by his loving family. A memorial service will be held 11 a.m. on Saturday, January 16, 2010, at Salisbury Presbyterian Church, 13621 W. Salisbury Road. In lieu of flowers, gifts may be made to the Roanoke Valley SPCA in Jeff's name, 1340 Baldwin Ave., Roanoke, Va. 24012.

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Published by Roanoke Times on Jan. 15, 2010.

Memories and Condolences
for Jeff Gray

21 Entries

Doug Harris

January 21, 2010

Jeff's loved ones and family: I've been staring at the screen for several minutes now, trying to come up with something to say that will, not only sound right, but help you in this time. I don't know what else to say except I'm just so sorry.

All Richmond Hokies

January 18, 2010

The entire Richmond Hokie nation mourns the loss of Jeff--a spirited alumnus who was committed to exemplify his alma mater's motto "Ut Prosim" - That I may serve. He loved helping out in any way he could most of all at our annual wine festival. We love you Jean and Katherine. Our prayers are with you both and we are here for you!

Shylah & Faith Hoff

January 17, 2010

Kitty & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I will never forget Jeff and his unique way of making people around him laugh and smile. His "Thriller" rendition at Chris & Jessie's wedding always brings a smile to my face. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kathy & Dan Blanchard

January 17, 2010

We are neighbors a few houses down from Jeff and Kitty. Although we didn't know them it has been a neighborhood tragedy of huge proportions. We are so sorry!

January 16, 2010

Jean and Family,

I am my prayer warriors have been praying for your family in this time of loss. Seek the Lord, he will comfort you, and I hope your good memories will bring cheer in the future.
Bonita Allen

Bennet & Pamela Ragnauth

January 16, 2010

Tom, Karen, and other loved ones

While I knew Jeff only briefly, I can appreciate what he meant to you as first-time parents. I can't begin to fathom the loss of one's child. Please accept our deepest sympathies, and may God help you to understand losing Jeff at such a young age with so much promise, and may He give you strength and comfort during this most difficult time.

Phil Lawson

January 15, 2010

I'll always remember cutting up with Jeff and laughing like crazy when we weren't supposed to during VocalBlur (Richmond-based a cappella group) rehearsals. As the two oldest guys in the group and the only ones married at the time, we shared a unique bond. It was also fun riding with up together to the gig at Tech in the 300ZX with satellite radio.

Jeff had an incredible talent of literally being a one-man band and giving his all to entertain even just the smallest crowds up to hundreds of screaming fans. While we haven't kept up much lately, I'll miss the random gchats from "beatstriken" at odd hours of the day that would always make me laugh.

My deepest sympathies go out to Kitty and the rest of the family. You all will be in my prayers in the coming weeks and months. I regret that I cannot attend the memorial service tomorrow. I know that it will be a great time of remembrance.

Sincerely,

Liz Crocker

January 15, 2010

Tom and Karen,
I cannot even imagine what you and Blake are going through. When I heard of Jeff's passing tears were in my eyes. I feel like I grew up with him through you, Tom. May GOD be with you and your family through this sad time and always. Just ALWAYS take care of each other!

January 15, 2010

Tom, Karen & Blake,

We were so sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. Please accept our deepest sympathy and know you are in our hearts and prayers during this time. And let us know if there is anything at all we can do for you (790-1288).

May God be with you and all of Jeff's loved ones and friends.

Dale, Debbie & Lisa Tatum

Becca Carr

January 15, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with all of Jeff's loved ones. I remember seeing him performing in the commons at Manchester, on the stage, and as I walking across campus in Blacksburg. Jeff brought joy to so many people's lives.

January 15, 2010

Kitty, I can't stop thinking of you & Jeff.....bright, sunny and good. Our prayers and thoughts are with you & your families.

Billy & Judy Bowles

Denise Clark

January 15, 2010

To Jeff's loved ones,

I am Chris Langgood's Mom. I am so sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. I have been praying for the family. I remember all the time he and Chris spent in my family room break dancing, eating, video gaming, eating, swimming, eating, fixing my computer, eating, playing with my dogs, eating.... I even began to believe I needed to start a college fund for my "second" son. My son Chris is in Australia but I know his heart and thoughts are with Kitty and the family during this time. If there's anything I can help with please call--8370344

January 15, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. Please know we are praying.
Pam and Tyler Moore

January 15, 2010

Katherine, Karen, Tom, Blake, and other family members and friends,
Avis and I were devastated to hear the news of Jeff's passing. We have many good memories of his youth and were looking forward to getting to know him again through Katherine.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We regret that we cannot be at the service, as we are going to be out of town.
Love, Rusty and Avis Gates

January 15, 2010

Tom and Karen,

I am so saddened to hear of the sudden loss of Jeff. I remember him and will always remember him as the little boy playing and laughing. My deepest sympathy goes out to you both and his wife.
May God Bless you and shine his face upon you in this time of grief.
Sincerely,
Brenda Boehnlein

January 15, 2010

Katherine,
We are so sorry. We are standing by to help in any way we can. We are praying for you.
Frank Rennie

Rose Brodersen

January 15, 2010

To Tom and family,
my deepest sympathy and condolences on the loss of your son. I didn't know him but I'm sure he will be sorely missed.

Rose Brodersen, WV CWSRF Program

January 15, 2010

Katherine,
I am so sorry for your loss. I will be unable to make it to the service because I will be out of town this weekend. But I want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Maryann Hartzell

Bev Reinhold

January 15, 2010

My prayers are with you! My kids are in the same age range and I can't imagine what this must be like for you. I pray you find peace in your good memories.

Brooke Stone (Sadler)

January 15, 2010

I remember stepping over you breaking dancing in the hallways of Manchester High School!! You were a wonderful person and you will be missed. I think I speak for everyone when I say there will never be another Jeff Gray...you were one of a kind. Much Love!!

January 15, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with the Gray family. I remember Jeff fondly and am saddened to hear of his passing.

Edie DeJarnette
Manchester High School

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