Add a Memory
Send Flowers
Make a Donation
Richard Avery Aronow
Richard Avery Aronow
Obituary
Guest Book
Richard Aronow Obituary
Richard A. Aronow was always so eager to share the fact that his lunch buddies at the Port Authority, where he worked for more than 18 years, called him sensei, Japanese for teacher. "Whatever they knew, or thought they knew, he knew more," his wife, Laura Weinberg, recalled.
Among the things Mr. Aronow, 48, of Mahwah, N.J., knew a lot about was markets, whether it was the stock market or the intricacies of frequent-flier plans, and he was forever switching long-distance companies to find the best deal.
As a deputy chief of the agency's law department, Mr. Aronow worked on some huge legal deals ‹ most recently, the lease for the new $1.4 billion International Arrivals Terminal at Kennedy Airport ‹ and he knew the details of all the Port Authority's leases, documents so voluminous that they are called telephone books.
Mr. Aronow was considered a fair adversary; about 20 lawyers who had been on the opposing side of his deals attended his memorial service last month, his wife said.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Billie Elias
June 1, 2025
Members of the Columbia class of '75 mourned his passing on the occasion of our 50th reunion.
Alex Heater
September 11, 2024
Rest in piece uncle
John Wilson
April 26, 2024
I knew Rich in Austin, TX where I lived with him at the 21St Street College House co-op.. Quiet, studios, and friendly.
Cindy Roe
August 31, 2021
Remembering Richard on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....
How you can show support
Donate in Memory
Make a donation in memory of your loved one.
Add photos
Share their life with photo memories.
Plant trees
Honor them by planting trees in their memory.
Follow this page
Get email updates whenever changes are made.
Send flowers
Consider sending flowers.
Share this page
Invite other friends and family to visit the page.
March 12, 2020
May his be forever blessed. Jill Max.
October 22, 2019
Myheart goes out to your loved ones.
Leslie Buch
September 11, 2019
Richard and I were attorneys in the NYC Law Department in the 1980s. We were in different divisions but came into contact because of our work and soon became
friends. I liked him a lot because there was a lot to like about him. Eventually he
moved to a better position at the Port Authority and I saw him less. However, when I was looking for another job I contacted him and he immediately offered to
set up an interview for me at his law dept. This kindness and interest in helping others was typical. I had an interview but things didnt work out and I went elsewhere. If it had succeeded, I would probably have worked in an office close to his on 9/11, with the same tragic result. I think of him often, especially on this day
(now 18 yrs later). Richard was a wonderful person smart, loyal, fun to be with. I am not at all surprised that 20 opposing counsel attended his services. That was the kind of wonderful, fair and humane person he was. May his memory be a blessing.
Dale Aronow
September 10, 2016
To my regret I only met Richard at a couple of family gatherings as a kid. He was a 2nd cousin.We were close in age, I was a year older. I think of him every year at this time. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. I hope that those that remember him continue to donate to Autism charities.
Raquel Pamer
September 8, 2016
I am a Summit County Ohio Deputy Sheriff. I wear a fallen in the line of duty memorial bracelet in honor of Richard Aronow. All though I did not know this man he is my brother in blue. May his family know he will never be forgotten
Sandy Iannucci
February 10, 2016
As I sit here watching the 2006 movie, " World Trade Center"" my mind immediately goes to Richard Aronow. We went to Westbury High together and although I did not know him well, I somehow feel a connection with him since 9/11 along with David Arce, another. 9/11 "fallen Dragon" for WHS. To your family: Please know Richard will never be forgotten and millions pray for you everyday.
Sandy Mutchler
September 11, 2015
Laura, every year since I learned the news about Rich, I have written to you. Last year, the email bounced. I wrote again this year knowing it too would bounce. I think of you and your son - I wish you well. About Rich - may his memory be a blessing.
Milton Olin
September 11, 2013
I only know your through rememberances of those who did. They tell me you were a wonderful man and I wish to make note of that here, today.
Carol Carter
September 11, 2012
Thinking of you and your family on this 11th anniversary of your passing. May your soul rest in peace as you continue to keep watch over those who mourn for you.
Del Newberry
July 20, 2012
Today we mourn the loss of lives in Aurora, CO, as a senseless gunman shot down patrons in a theater. We are reminded of the sensless acts on 9-11, and my heart goes out to the family and friends of Richard today. We will never forget. Love from Texas.
Barbara Boam
March 20, 2012
Barbara Boam & Kim Rogers walked a mile for you (mile #85) on 3/20/12 as a dedication to your life.
December 7, 2011
To The Family,
9/11 was one of the darkest days in U.S history and will be with us forever. I would like to offer my sincere condolences to you. May God's Spirit bring you comfort for eternity.
T. Sterling of NC
Kymberli Colbourne
September 11, 2011
We hold you in our hearts.
Carol Carter
September 11, 2011
In memory of Richard Avery Aronow on this 10th anniversary of his passing.
May your soul rest in peace, as your spirit and legacy live on.
Drew Scherz
May 5, 2011
Rich,
I remember all the good times we had in Austin. The smile on your face and your joyous laugh are forever in my memory. Thanks for all you did for us during our visit to NY. My brother and I loved going to Umberto's for supper in NY (and you did get us to the airport in time).
I will never forget.
Carol Carter
May 2, 2011
Thinking of you on this day, Mr. Aronow.
Finally - they got him.
Carol Carter
September 11, 2010
In memory of Mr. Richard Avery Aronow. Your legacy lives on, Sir. My office recently relocated, and my memorial flag with your name tag still affixed to it moved with me. I have carefully displayed it in my new work area so that those around me will be reminded of you and your sacrifice. Laura and Willie continue to be in my thoughts. My prayer is, that someday soon, the people of this world will live in peace, and have mutual understanding and compassion for one another.
God bless your soul, Sensei. Memories of you live on.
With humble respect,
Carol Carter
September 11, 2009
In remembrance of Mr. Richard Avery Aronow. Your memorial flag is still displayed in my office. Your sacrifice is not forgotten.
Humbly yours,
Carol
Benay Forrest
September 11, 2009
Remembering you, cousin, on this memorial day. Always thinking of Laura and Willie. Know your sprit is forever alive within the thoughts of others.
Doug Abraham
February 15, 2008
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Carol Carter
September 11, 2007
In honor of Mr. Richard Avery Aronow on this anniversary of his departure. You may be gone, but you will never be forgotten. Thank you for your contributions to this world and your ultimate sacrifice.
With deepest respect,
Kristine
October 13, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vane. We will always remember.
September 19, 2006
May your family remember the wonderfuly times you shared during your brief stay on Earth.
Carol Carter
September 11, 2006
Sometime after the 9-11 attacks, a local radio station gave out American flags, each one bearing the name of a victim who had lost their life. One of my coworkers went by and took a handful of the flags, and brought them to work where she distributed them. By sheer chance, I was given Mr. Aronow's flag. It was displayed on my office door for a long time, and was then relocated to the bulletin board behind my desk, where it hangs to this day.
This morning, I stopped and touched his name on the flag, and said a prayer for Mr. Aronow at the time that the plane hit his building five years ago. As I have done numerous times over the years, I also said a few words to Mr. Aronow. I hope he knows that he will never be forgotten, even by people like me who had never met him.
When I first received his flag, I went online and read about what a wonderful man Mr. Aronow was. It is with pride that I continue to honor his memory today.
Laura and Willie, we have never met, but you have been in my heart and prayers for years. Mr. Aronow is with you in spirit. May our Lord bless and comfort you on this day of remembrance. God be with you.
You are truly an inspiration to me, Sensei.
With deepest respect,
P Tabbernor
August 20, 2006
In memory....
Gary Martt
March 29, 2005
I am also someone who lived in the College House Co-op, in Austin, Texas, and Rich Aronow was one of my neighbors. He was just starting law school when we first met. One of my favorite memories of Rich was the time that he & Sandy & I took a road trip through parts of south Texas on Spring Break (1976?) What a grand adventure! I still have a photo somewhere . . .
Rich Aronow was a great person to know and I will always remember him fondly.
Gary Martt
Austin, Texas
J. Alan Kanter
March 13, 2005
As I watched in horror as the attacks were carried out on the WTC and in DC, I prayed that no one I knew would be in the buildings. I feel somewhat uneasy now for wishing that, because no one should ever have had to suffer the fate that awaited them that day. It wasn't until years later that I discovered that indeed I did know someone who perished that day. I lived with Rich in Austin in the late 70's at College House when he was in law school. He was a natural leader then and obviously he went on to bigger and better things. I am so sorry that you both were dealt the same hand as my parents having an autistic child. Who knows, maybe your dream of a school might one day come to fruition.
I will always remember Rich's horn rimmed glasses (which obviously he lost later in life) and his wicked sense of humour.
Oseh Shalom bimromov, hu yaaseh shalom aleinu v'al kol yisrael v'imru amen.
Arthur Payne
October 25, 2002
Hello, I live in Phoenix, AZ. I recently went on a Patriot Parade Motorcycle run; which was in memory of all the victems of 9-11. Each person whom rode was given a wristband with a victims name on it. I rode for Richard A Aronow. I dont know Richard, but I wish his family and love ones the best, and a prayer will go out to them from me.
Sincerly Arthur
Janet Bertelli
September 11, 2002
Laura,
We just this week became aware of your tragic loss. You have our deepest sympathy. May God be with you and your son and continue to give you strength.
Janet & Nick Bertelli
Eileen Gruber
August 30, 2002
Dear Laura and Willie,
My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you, almost a year after that terrible day last September. God Bless you both.
Angie Campbell
April 22, 2002
May God bless you and all of the ones that knew and loved you that where left behind. Peace be with you now and forever more.
Alison Falls McElvery
February 4, 2002
I attended Westbury High School with Richard and had not seen him since the day we graduated. Nevertheless I find myself thinking of him and his family since learning from fellow classmates that he perished in such a horrible disaster. Knowing a face with a name puts a very personal touch on 9/11. I extend my deepest sympathies to his family and friends. Sincerely, Alison Falls McElvery Wetbury High School Class of 71
Laura Aronow
January 25, 2002
Thank you to all who have expressed your sympathy on our loss.
I know that the Times was trying hard to provide a human side to each person, but they missed the major point with Richard.
The largest part of his life was his interest in his extremely large family and his devotion to us, his immediate family. He was an extremely devoted and caring father. In 15 years, he spent virtually every evening with his family. Like a clock, he caught the 7:23 train in the morning and pulled in the driveway at 6:28 every evening.
These aspects were not picked up by the Times, but many have remarked on them since. It is for his constancy and devotion to family that he will be remembered most.
Again, thank you all.
Teresa Jahn
January 9, 2002
We are deeply sorry for your loss of Richard. May his life and love live on in all who love him. May your sorrow be lightened by golden memories of times shared with Richard. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Drew Scherz
January 8, 2002
I lived next door to Rich when he was attending law school at the University of Texas. He was smart, witty, kind and helpful. When I visited New York City for the first time (August, 1978), Rich picked up my brother and me from JFK and took us out to supper and to his parents' house for the night. In the morning he took us to the train station where we caught the train into Manhattan to stay with my cousin. He visited us in the city and we went out to eat in Little Italy before he took us back to JFK.
He was very proud of his home and eager to share it with two friends from Texas. I had never been in the "big city" before. Rich helped make our trip much easier and we felt much more at home because of all that he and his family did. I know I didn't thank him enough then. I will always remember his kindness.
Kristin Malmberg
January 7, 2002
I remember our study group in first year law school . . . Richard added insight and the necessary light moments that helped us deal with the grind of the first year of law school.
IRENE STAPINSKI
December 4, 2001
RICHARD AVERY ARONOW REST IN PEACE
AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA FOREVER AND MAY WE NEVER
FORGET 9/11/01
Tim and Debbie McClurg
December 2, 2001
We just want you to know that our family has chosen your family to pray for everyday. We have a mercy band with Richard's name on it and we will continue to pray for your family through out the years. I will wear it everyday, so I will never forget Sept. 11 and always be reminded that you are in our prayers. Just remember Proverbs 3:5-6 "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge him and He shall direct your path."
Kevin & Jill Hups
November 21, 2001
To the family of Richard Aronow,
Our prayers are with you during this difficult time. We empathize with you in that we, too, have lost loved ones over the years. Although the pain lessens, the memories are still there. Cherish them forever! And may the Lord be your promise, your hope, your salvation, your comfort, your peace and the source of your joy.
"Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." Matthew 5:4
"...so I will be with you; I will never leave you nor forsake you." Joshua 1:5(b)
Steve Orimoto
November 8, 2001
Hey Sensei,
Even though I thought the Times' profile didn't do you justice, it did capture that one, all-knowing aspect of you. I had to chuckle. It didn't capture your sharp wit, though. Sorry to have lost touch with you over the years.
I pray that Laura and the rest of your family is holding up. You'll be remembered.
Aloha,
Steve and Tammy
Showing 1 - 44 of 44 results
Make a Donation
in Richard Aronow's name
How to support Richard's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Richard Aronow's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
Sponsored