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Suarez
December 8, 2024
I remember you and your team escorting us whenever we rolled out of Abu. Always at convoy briefing. We drove many times. You were a nice person. A personable person. A great soldier. I remember the day. I will never forget you or your team for your sacrifices. Thank you and your family. You are always with me.
Gayle Stone
July 5, 2020
Always remember Brian ...speak of him often as a reminder of the cost of Freedom...This morning is one of those mornings July 5, 2020......Pastor Gayle
Melinda Clary
October 26, 2019
So truly loved and so deeply missed, but you gave us a treasure chest of happy memories to recall. Happy Heavenly Birthday, Son! Love, Mom
Charlie Gili
October 24, 2019
Hello,
We apologize for being so late in expressing our deepest condolences to you and your family. We want you to know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this holiday season and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo, service branch, rank and hometown of Brian Matthew Romines US Army Sergeant.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families, friends and others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
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Melinda Clary
June 6, 2019
Hard to believe its been 14 years since the casualty officer came to my door and delivered the devastating news. Time had flown by, yet stood still at the same time, which sounds a little crazy. It seem so long when I think of how long its been that Ive hugged you or heard your voice, but at the same time, 14 years has gone by in a flash. I will remember, love and miss you forever and then some! Im glad you were there to greet Pa. No doubt youve been reminiscing since he arrived. I miss him so very much too. Losing you devastated him as much as it did me and weve cried together many times. He was a great support system for me and Ive often visualized your great reunion with him and smiled. Ill see you both again someday, but until then Ill be loving you and missing you.
Mom
Joe
June 5, 2019
Always remembered. Never forgotten.
Joe
March 19, 2018
Thinking of you.
shawn cannamore
June 6, 2014
Miss You Bro, Miss How You Always Had That Smile On Your Face And How You Could Make Any Of Us Smile
Mom
November 11, 2013
Happy Veterans' Day, Son! If only I could thank you in person for your service and sacrifice. I miss you and love you so very much!
November 9, 2013
I feel like I know you since I have have many walks and talks with your Mom! She even taught me about pennies from heaven !?
What an amazing young man I believe you are. And you certainly became the man whom your family encouraged and taught you to be! Thank you for your service! May we all remember the great freedoms we have in this fear USA because of courageous people like you!!
Michael Gauthier
May 27, 2013
Today is you're day buddy! I've slacked and not written on your wall, spent an additional 19 months in Afghanistan. No more for me, thank you for being you. Thank you, the Romines family, the entire USA is indebted to y'all.
ASV, MIke
Mom
November 11, 2012
Fondly remembering the pride you had in serving your country and wearing your uniform, and missing you more than you know. Happy Veteran's Day, Son!! Love,
Mom
June 6, 2012
Remembering your smiling face and longing to see you and hug you. It's been 7 incredibly long years ago today that you were taken from us and I miss you so much. We all do. You've been gone far too long. Please come home.
Peggy Childers
June 6, 2012
To the family and friends of Spc. Brian M. Romines:
Always remembering Brian. "Some gave all."
Amanda (Judkins) Shepard
April 10, 2012
Brian,
I saw ur dad the other day and once again was flooded with memories of u from grade school and beyond! I'll never forget that cotton Qtip blonde hair and the way u so easily could brighten my day with just a simple smile. Ur kindness and ur sacrifice for our country and freedom will live on forever! U are a true hero in the eyes of many and I salute u. Lost now, but never forgotten!
Erin Holden
November 11, 2011
Happy Veterans Day! Thinking of you today and everyday! Love and miss you!
Amy Pribble
August 26, 2011
Brian,
you've been on my mind a lot today, which is nothing new you're on my mind everyday. I miss you. Everytime I hear a 4wheeler come down Moscow Road, I think of you, jamie, and I riding and how much fun we all had and how many memories we've made. It was never a dull moment with you around! You could always put a smile on my face. I hope to see you again someday Brian..missing you.
Peggy Childers
June 7, 2011
June 6, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Brian M. Romines:
Please accept my remembrance of Brian on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
erin holden
June 6, 2011
Cannot believe it has been 6 years since we lost you. Love and miss you every single day. Thanks for helping me stand when I just wanted to give up! BEST FRIENDS LAST A LIFETIME! I would give anything for just one more day!
Tony
June 5, 2011
Melinda, we at Wreaths for Warriors Walk honor Brian on his anniversary tomorrow and every day. His picture will be on our facebook page to remind everyone of his sacrifice and yours.
Mom
May 21, 2011
My dear Brian, We grieve as deep as we love and I don't guess anyone was and is loved more than you. You touched more lives in your 20 years than most do in a lifetime. I'm so very proud of you and endless happy memories fill my head, yet the hole in my heart seems to grow. I love you, I miss you, and I live in the faith and hope that i will see you again someday.
Joe
May 20, 2011
Brian, Your memory still there. That candle still burning in my soul. Remembering you and sending a prayer for you and your family. God Bless!
Joe
August 23, 2010
I don't celebrate the holidays anymore since I've come home and I get extremely emotional almost everytime I read or hear of another fallen warrior. I've only breifly known you but your memory stay's lit like a candle in my soul. Never forgotten. God Bless you and your family and all those that serve past, present, and future!
erin
August 22, 2010
i miss you...and i know you were with me during the hardest time of my life. thank you for your support and love. i think of you every single day. "best friends last a lifetime"
JOSEPH HOLDEN
June 7, 2010
HEY MAN I KNOW THINGS HAVE BEEN WEIRD DOWN HERE AND A LOT HAS CHANGED, BUT I CARRY YOU WITH ME EVERYDAY AND KNOW YOU WILL WATCH OVER ME ONCE AGAIN AS I DEPLOY. TAKE CARE LOVE YA
Peggy Childers
June 6, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Brian M. Romines:
Remembering Brian on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
June 19, 2009
”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,550 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna
Peggy Childers
June 6, 2009
To the family of Spc. Brian M. Romines:
Brian gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Michael Gauthier
March 19, 2009
Hey Guy, I was attached to your company while in Iraq. (Cilvilian, Textron) Better known as "ASV Mike" Thanks for everything, there will always be a place in my heart for YOU!
Chet Romines
January 19, 2009
May God Bless and God Speed to the ones left behind. I did not know you but I am sure that you are in the arms of God now.
Pastor Frank Noyes
September 16, 2008
Dear family of Spc. Brian M. Romines,
We want to say thank you. We understand that no words can be adequate for your sorrow. We certainly do not want to intrude upon your privacy. As Americans we want you to know that we deeply appreciate the ultimate sacrifice your loved one has made for all of us. We also would like for you to be aware that with this letter comes our special concern and prayers for you. We are all safer because young men and women who love their country, and know the value of a free nation, are willing to put themselves in harms way, and lay down their lives to keep this nation free and safe for all of us.
Your sacrifice is also very great. We know that we can give little comfort; however, the knowledge that your loved one did not die in vain, but died in the service of our country, gives each of us a noble example of the value of life, and the responsibility of freedom. We hope this will bring pride and comfort to you.
We at Gethsemane Church believe that there is purpose to life. We send this letter with our deepest appreciation for the greatest of sacrifices, you and your loved one have given to this country. We know it is not enough, but please allow us to assure you that your loved one is not forgotten.
Very Sincerely
Frank G. Noyes
Frank G. Noyes (Pastor)
Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
(Jn. 15:13)
Dan Vize
July 28, 2008
Hey Brian, ran across Legacy as a result of a Run for the Fallen that I will be participating in later this week.. Will be going back over late this year and will be there with your brother who seems squared away... Anyway just felt compelled to say hey and state the obvious that you will be remembered always...
Maureen Sanders
July 25, 2008
Hello Brian, Hey the unit is headed off again do me a favor, keep watch over them and , keep harm away from them.
SFC Sanders
Zachary
July 11, 2008
Brian, Hey buddy, just thought i would come by and say hello, I saw your brother the other day, he seems to be doing fine, well man looks like Im going to Afghanistan soon and Ill be doing the same job you were so just do me a favor and watch over me buddy, Ill do you proud I promise well I will talk to you soon man bye buddy
Carren Barnes
June 15, 2008
Brian,
Today is Fathers Day. I know where ever you are you are smiling down on your dad. I have rarely seen a dad like yours. You always had a special relationship with him. I only wish you could have had the chance to be a dad. I have seen you with children and you always had the touch. My boys still miss you everyday.
We just got home from vacation. We spend the anniversary of your death together every year doing something I know you would have enjoyed doing. This year it was playing in the ocean. Last year we went to a ball game. I refuse to cry on that date cause I know you would rather see me having fun with the boys. I miss your smiling face.
Erin Holden
June 6, 2008
It has been a very long 3 years. So much has happened that I wish you could have been a part of. I know you have been here, but I wish that I could just see you once more. I love you so much and miss you terribly. Until we meet again..XOXO Best Friends Last a Lifetime!
In Memory of Brian Matthew ~ (Debra Estep)
June 6, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Brian, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
May 4, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Romines!
Dana McGuire
October 1, 2007
Brian.
I hope you look down on what your family and friends are writing and smile as big as I think you should!
Alot of great things have been said here about you, and tho I've never met you, I have to believe them! You are well loved.
I thank you for your sacrifice. I don't know how we all would have become as good of friends with out the circle my brother, Brad, mentioned earlier.
Your grandma brownies DO rock! I look forward to when I can get another! :)
And your mom makes one of the coolest and most well behaved volunteers for our SAR dogs we could ever ask for! My dogs love her :)
Those two show me how much giving comes with your family and I'm sure you were another link in that chain.
Take care, man. Watch over us as I'm sure you are.
Dana McGuire
EMT - Union Co. Ambulance
Brad McGuire
October 1, 2007
Brian,
Life is full of circles. You and I share a circle.
It is only through you that I gained a connection of support and good will that kept my days in Iraq a bit easier to deal with.
Granny Sue's Brownies...they ARE legendary brother!!
Many a time mail cll would go down, they boxes rolled off the M-1113s just as hot as if out of the oven. I'd get lucky and there'd be a batch of Granny's Brownies...the moment the box opened...dude, it was as if a formation was called across the FOB.
All the love she put in there for you came across in her notes and letters upon the tinfoil .......
and then the aroma would hit!!!!
Couldn't hold em back.
When I returned I had to stop and say "Hi". Met Granny and Jim and Melinda...found out I had even more family in Anna than I realized. Thanks brother, you stand easy and keep watch on your family. We've all got a bit more here to do, then we'll join you!
God Bless ya Brian!
B
Jaynie Bigler
September 29, 2007
Brad McGuire told me about a website for Blue Star Mothers and I found the link to Legacy.com and to your guest book, Brian. Some wonderful tributes have been left for you. People here really miss you and are inspired by what you and your family have sacrificed.
Through an amazing set of circumstances since your passing I have become very close to your grandparents and your mom. Brad and his brother, Dana, and their parents, Dan and Irene, are all part of that. I feel like I know you. Granny Sue and Jim and Melinda keep your memory alive. And I see that your best friend, Erin, does too. We have never met, but I felt a connection to her as well as I read the entries here because of her nickname for you. My nickname for Brad in our e-mail correspondence is simply "B". I hope to meet Erin someday. She has to be someone pretty special.
God bless you and your family and friends.
August 18, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 19, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Romines and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Erin Holden
June 6, 2007
Loving and missing you just as much today as 2 years ago! You are my best friend! As you know, I got married about 2 weeks ago...I know you were there in spirit! I love you ~B~!!!!!! God Bless!
Best Friends Last A Lifetime!
Garnet Jenkins
June 5, 2007
In tribute to Spc. Brian M Romines, with a Multitude of Thanks, for your Brave Young Soldier's Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
May Brian Rest Safely, in God's Loving Care and may the Peace of God continue to be with the Romines family.
Those who Made this Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them. Killed in action Vietnam in 1967.
"I will lift up my eyes to the hills- from whence comes my help?
My help comes from the Lord, Who made heaven and earth." ~ Psalm 121:1-2 ~
I am sincerely hoping that you continue to feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you each day, as this Grateful Country Remembers Someone Very Precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
I am So Deeply Sorry for your loss.
Brian Goodiel
May 28, 2007
On this memorial day i just want to say thank you!! I hung out with Brian a few times here in the states and seen him on a weekly basis while in Iraq. He was a great man! The sacrifice he made will never be forgotten and is very much appreciated. Again I just want to say thanks and let the family know that i pray for them and his is NEVER forgotten. I got a tattoo after i came home of the soldiers memorial (helmet boots and dog tags) that says never be forgotten and i got it in memory of Brian especially and all the others that gave their life for this great country.
Erin
April 4, 2007
i love you so much and miss you terribly. i still can't make myself believe that this is reality, i just don't want you to be gone. you are and always will be my very best friend! remember, 'best friends last a lifetime'
J. McCabe
March 16, 2007
Brian, wanted to let you know I just finished processing for my deployment. Leaving soon for a year over there. Keep an eye out for me buddy. Miss you man. LTC Mc
Dusti Stone
March 11, 2007
Hey Brian, its Dusti just wanted to say that your a GREAT person. I remember the day we met and I remember the last time I saw you. I will never forget the times we spent together. You mean everything to me. I love you Brian and always will. You and your family were so great to me. Love you always Dusti.
Melinda Astin
November 10, 2006
Happy Veteran's Day in Heaven, Son. I am so very proud of you and miss you more than you could ever imagine. You remain my hero and my inspiration, things no one can ever take away or keep from me. I love you like a fat kid loves cake! Don't forget to save a place for me next to you. Love, Mom
ROBYN GARSIDE
August 5, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON ALWAYS. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Erin
July 30, 2006
Hey B-- can't believe its been over a year. a lot of things have changed since the day you were taken away from us. although your body is gone, you still remain a part of my life. i think about you everyday and miss you so much. i keep thinking that maybe, just maybe, this will get easier. but it just doesn't seem like it. i dont cry nearly as much as i used to, but there is still an almost constant ache i feel inside. its so hard losing a best friend, a pain i do not wish upon anybody. i remember that dreadful night that your mom gave me and my family the awful news. it seems like just yesterday. it was a terrible terrible day. but the memories of you and the times we shared together are what helps me though the days. i check on your mom often and keep in touch with your dad. i dont visit him nearly as much as i think i should, but when we do spend time together, it is great. little brennan is adorable. last time i was out there, he just broke my heart. i was sitting in your bedroom floor playing with him and his hotwheels and his farm. he stopped what he was doing and looked at my bracelet, pointed to your face, and said "thats uncle brian." it was so hard not to just lose it, but i just smiled and said "yes it is." i was at a loss for words. i know you were there with us. he is such a cutie, i see a lot of you in him. brian, i love you and i miss you so much! i know i've told you this so many time but you are the BEST bst friend anybody could ever ask for!Thanks for all the memories! You are a true hero B and i can't wait till the day we meet again. Until then, i'll keep you in my heart. take care of us down here. we need you sometimes (all the time actually, just sometimes more than others).
Melinda Astin
June 7, 2006
Dearest Brian Matthew: It's Mom (again!!!). Can't believe a year has passed since you so bravely and unselfishly gave your life for us and our freedom. I simply cannot describe the emptiness we harbor and the void we cannot fill, but I find extreme comfort in the pride you gave me and knowing your in heaven.
I wrote a poem over Memorial Day weekend I'd like to read to you. Get out the kleenex.
"THE ARMY UNIFORM"
Reality had hit its mark
the day he went away
to go to Basic Training.
I cried and cried that day.
While at Basic graduation
I began to see
eighteen years of changes.
It was so strange for me.
For the blonde-haired child
that stole my heart
had somehow been transformed
from a little boy into this "MAN"
in an Army uniform.
But it was late one summer's night
in June 2005
that my whole world came crashing down
right there before my eyes.
You see, my son had left for war,
My heart completely torn.
but PROUD HE WAS TO SERVE US
in his Army uniform.
I just had laid my head down
to get some rest that night.
The telephone began to ring
and then I saw headlights
outside my bedroom window
"At this time???" Who could it be??
So I jumped up, ran over there
to see if I could see.
My husband reached to grab the phone
My nephew called to warn
about "some military lady"
in an Army uniform.
OH NO!! DEAR GOD, THIS CAN'T BE REAL!
I know this isn't good!
I ran downstairs and out the door.
There to my left she stood.
About that time she saw me
and quickly spun around
But she stood straight and clicked her heels.
I'll ne'er forget that sound.
But it was the WORDS that followed
that I didn't want to hear.
Although my heart already knew
she confirmed my biggest fear.
I felt as if my blood drained out.
My arms and legs felt weak.
I couldn't hardly catch my breath
and I could barely speak.
Went back inside and I got dressed
to my parents house I'd go
to tell them of the tragic fate
of the grandson they loved so.
Twelve days passed when came the day
my son, we laid to rest.
For him, his final race was run.
He'd done his very best.
A flag-draped casket was before us
and a long ling had been formed
of sad military people
in their Army uniforms.
And as they all walked by him,
they stopped.....gave a salute
to their fallen brother and
the freedom he pursued.
It was beneath a big blue sky
as we stood o'er his grave.
Both familiar folks and strangers came
to honor one so brave.
It wasn't long the shots rang out.
They numbered twenty-one.
What followed was the chilling sound of "Taps" that had begun.
Emotions we could not contain.
Laughed some, but mostly cried
for the patriotism shown that day
had our hearts CONSUMED with pride.
Now there stands a wooden cabinet
and I gaze inside to see
all the articles that's placed inside
which sparks a memory.
But most PRECIOUS of my treasures
inside the cabinet they adorn
are the medals, boots and dog tags
and his Army uniform.
You are truly our hero and I miss you more each day. You will NEVER be forgotten.
ALL MY LOVE.....Mom
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
June 6, 2006
Brian, one year ago today you were taken. You are my hero and you will never be forgotten.
Jayna Hart
June 6, 2006
Dear Brian,
Even though it has only been a year since you left this world, know that we are still thinking about you every day. Hopefully as time passes your family will come to terms with your passing, but it has not been easy I am certain. We will never forget that you gave your life for us back home to be free. May those who remember you leave messages here in your memory today, the day you were taken away. THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS, SGT. BRIAN M. ROMINES
Erin
April 10, 2006
B-
It's been over 10 months since you left us, but you continue to live on in my heart. Joseph is finally coming home, but there is still part of me that wants to believe you'll be coming home too. But you came home a long time ago. I miss you like crazy and love you with all my heart. You are and always will be my very best friend! Thank you for everything. And just like the picture of us on your computer said "Best Friends Last A Lifetime"!!! I can't wait to hug you again and hear your laugh. Forever Yours,
Erin
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
February 28, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Romines family in the loss of Brian. I did not know Brian, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Brian it is coming up on 9 months since you were taken. My heart was touched by all the many wonderful/beautiful things written and said about you. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten. Dad, I wished Brian was wrong in his statement to you. As you do I wished he was alive and not taken.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Carolyn Evans
February 15, 2006
Always our Hero. Gold Star Mother
Yolanda Ortiz
January 12, 2006
I would like to thank Brian for fighting for this country. Brian was a great person. The Romines family is lucky to have someone who is sweet,kind and very brave in there family. He will always be remembered. So Thank You Brian Romines
Charles Norman
December 23, 2005
I know it will be hard this Christmas without him but always remember he is enjoying Christmas with our father. And oh what a feast it is being before Jesus. He is walking with angels because Greater Love has no man than to lay it down for a friend. He is the example of perfect Love when it comes to sacrificing your life so others may be free. God Bless you all during this first Christmas. And rejoice with Jesus during the day of his birth because Brian is in Heaven rejoicing with you. Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. The Norman Family.
Tracey (Brown) Warren
December 22, 2005
To Melinda,
I’ve been thinking of you lately, and keeping you in my prayers, and when my mom said that you had asked about me I felt the need to write. I hope you read this – I still check the guest book for Maddy. I guess I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and praying for you. Our situations were different, but we’re still both spending our first Christmas after having lost a son, and it is so very hard. Just know that you’re not alone, and it’s okay if (like me) you don’t feel much like celebrating. I never met Brian, but I’m sure he and Maddy both want us to be happy at Christmas (I know they’re watching over us). But I also think they understand that this year, it’s just so hard. May the peace of Christ be with you.
-Tracey
Erin Stute
November 23, 2005
HAPPY TURKEY DAY! I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU! THINKING OF YOU TODAY AND EVERY OTHER DAY! I LOVE YOU!
Charles Norman
November 13, 2005
Just want to say that you were thought of and your family on Veterans Day. Without sacrifices like yours, This country and others would never knew the salvation and freedom that we and they have today. May you rejoice with your loved ones that have past and enjoy the company of our father and his saints. May God help your family with the grief of your loss and comfort them by knowing that you rest with your king and walk on roads in a world of silver and gold. God bless you Brian and your family. Amen
Joseph Holden
November 12, 2005
Hey man I just wanted to say that I think about you all the time. You have not been forgotten. I am still in Iraq but I am being safe for all of you guys. I will look after your mom for you, she is a great woman and a great friend. I love talking to her and I know she misses you but she will be alright. Talk to you later, HOOAH
Erin
November 10, 2005
"Happy Veterans Day Babe! I'm thinking about you today (and every other day of course, but especially today). I miss you more than ever and I love you so much! You are the best!
Love, Your Bestest Friend in the WHOLE WIDE WORLD :) ~Erin~"
Erin of Anna, IL
Kellie Huckelberry
November 4, 2005
Brian,
Hey there! Just wanted to let you know there just isn't a day that goes by that we don't think about you. We have your picture on a shelf along with my dad, two grandpa's and Tyler J's. All five of you are in your military uniforms. I also keep a picture of you in my office. Happy belated Birthday by the way!! Dalton and Makaya have put your picture at the school in honor of our fallen soldiers. They are getting ready for their big Veterans Day Program and both wanted you to be a part of it. Makaya has placed on your picture a silver dog tag with a gold cross. It's really pretty. Dalton still talks about you playing army with him and Makaya still can't get over you dancing with her in front of all her friends. They miss you very much. Brian, I know your up there watching over us and I know you see me smile when I think of all the good times we had. I am so grateful to be able to have that. So until we meet again, We love you and miss you.
Hugs and Kisses,
Kellie Jo
Erin Stute
October 26, 2005
HAPPY 21ST BIRTHDAY BRIAN! WE LOVE YOU! :) YOU ARE THE BEST AND MY VERY BEST FRIEND~ALWAYS AND FOREVER
LOVE,
ERIN
Zane Smith
October 13, 2005
Brian,
you moved away from us in high school but we had lots of good times playen ball together, riden bikes, playen the playstation all of that good childhood stuff. I sure wish we would have known each other more since we have grown up a bit. my prayers go out to your mom and dad im sure there are so many that miss you and are proud to have been in your life. I have recently joined active duty Army and i am doing it in your honor Brian. may you forever rest in peace and one day we will meet again. Thank you Brian
forever your friend
Zane Smith
Melinda Astin
August 23, 2005
Son, I simply cannot tell you how much you are missed by ALL of us. I cry daily because the emptiness overtakes me. I can't describe the feelings we all have as the words just aren't "potent" enough, but devastated pops into my mind. Erin checks on me regularly and Ben has stayed in touch as much as he can. James even checks on me from time to time. You had so many friends who have "adopted" me. When people ask me how I'm doing, I've been telling them not to ask so I don't have to lie. Oh my gosh! As I was typing this, the song "I Miss My Friend" came on the radio. Do you remember me writing & telling you that I heard that song on the way back from Marion when you caught the Greyhound bus to go to Basic Training. I just THOUGHT you going off to Basic was hard. I really do miss my friend. Please keep your eye on Granny & Pa as they are having a lot of difficulty dealing with this. I guess the pain runs as deep as the love we all had for you. It's a bottomless pit which means our love for you was endless too. Please continue to remind me in your own gentle way that you are only a memory away. Oh to be able to hug you, kiss your cheek and tell you "I Love You" again. But I wouldn't want to take you away from heaven that long. Please save a spot for me. I hope to see you again. Love, Mom P.S. Go slow, wear your seat belt and watch for deer. hahaha Don't forget Uncle Todd's birthday is tomorrow.
Erin Stute
August 7, 2005
dear brian...is erin again. its been 2 months without you and it is not getting any easier. i thought it would be a little easier with time, but i feel like its getting harder. i'm visiting your mom every week. i wanna make sure she is doing ok. we all have our days, good and bad. but it seems like the bad are taking over the good. joseph has called your mom several times. he feels terrible that he couldn't be here for your mother and i. he misses you very much and loves you like a brother. we all love you and miss you. i will continue to check in on your family. its the least i can do for them. afterall, they made me feel like family during this tragedy. we truly lost a wonderful person. i lost a brother and a best friend. god bless you brian, you are a hero. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU ~B~. forever yours ~E~
Charles Norman
June 28, 2005
I am one of Randy,s best friends that has worked with him since 1989 at Vienna and am disabled now. Just want to say that I was really hurt when I found out. My sister Leslie called me and told me that a Romines was killed in Iraq and to call Randy and see if it was Brian.Randy lived with me for a little while in Johnston City. Brian would come over quite a bit and me and my daughter got to know him. He was a fine boy and I hear a better man. I would like to wish you all the comfort in the world while you all try to come to terms with this lose. I know there is a special place in heaven for those that have lost their lives for the cost of freedom. Also wanted to know if you recieved flowers from me and my family. We sent a peace lilly by the Norman family. I just hope you did because I had to call a online website to deliever them. I did call Donny Cholsen and let him know. He really liked Randy and Brian and said he would pray for the family. I hope that this note will find you all in good health and mind. We will be praying for all of you and stay in touch. God bless Charles Norman and Family Ps could someone give me Randys email address and number again I have lost them in my cell phone a couple of days ago. thanks
Dawn C
June 22, 2005
Dear Spc. Brian,
I wanted to Thank you for all of your hard work, your courage, and the sacrifices you have made for our country. You are a true inspiration and Hero. It is honorable men like you who courageously maintain the freedom of America for us and for our future children and make this country a safer place to live. God Bless you and those you love. Your family has a very special Angel now.
Lori McClellan
June 21, 2005
Brian,
I never met you but I work with your dad. I have the deepest respect for you and your life. As I do for your dad. Many of us that work with him that never met you came to see you off. We cried with your family, laughed with their memories and feel their pain. We will never forget you and what you stood for when you joined the service of your country. Good luck and God speed on your newest journey in the heavens. We all appreciate your sacrifice.
Erin Stute
June 21, 2005
Hey B...
It's Erin. This will be the 2nd time I've signed this guestbook, but I had a couple more things to say. You would have been so proud of the turnout for the motorcade that brought you home, the amount of people that showed up to the service, and the people that lined the streets to see the procession. It was truly amazing. Your mom is right, the community has really pulled together. I know its probably more than you would have wanted, but you deserve it babe. You deserve EVERY BIT OF IT! I know I have told you this several times, but I will never feel like I have told you enough. I love you B. You are the best friend I have EVER had and I miss you terribly. Your mom has been wonderful to me. Everyone made me feel like family and your mom is now my new mom. With her help and support, I have dealt with this better than I ever imagined. You should be very proud B. You are a hero, just like you wanted to be. You were a hero long before any of this. Just signing up for the N.G. made you a HERO. There are many people, including myself, that never signed those papers. I am so proud of you and am honored to say you are my best friend. Joseph loves you too B. He's doing a little better, but feels guilty that he couldn't be here for any of the services and to help your mom. I met your dad too, for the first time. He felt terrible because he didn't recognize me. Everyone I have talked to says you talked about me all the time. I don't know what you said, but I'm sure it was good :). I love you B and I miss you. As soon as the cornfields grow up a little bit, I'll have to make a special trip to "see" them. I took pictures of our bridge and the parking lot we did doughnuts in. You will never be fogotten. You are my Guardian Angel and my HERO. Forever in my heart!
~Erin Stute~
P.S. Did I mention that you are my best friend? lol
Melinda Astin
June 21, 2005
Dearest Brian: It's Mom AGAIN! Your service was awesome. None like I've ever seen or probably will ever see again. The community has really pulled together to honor you and you would be SOOOO proud. I just saw where McCabe signed your guest book and he had attended your service. I remember you talking about him and I'm sure you would've been glad he came. I wish I knew how to reach him, but I don't. You'll have to tell him thank you for me. Don't ever forget that I love you like a fat kid loves cake. Ben & Fritz miss you terribly. Denbow (recruiter) and Easton (the soldier you volunteered to take the place of while he was on leave) are really having a difficult time. I've done my best to try to "comfort" them is some small way and make them understand that this was not their fault in any way. They both feel very guilty and I'm having trouble convincing them that this was just all part of God's plan for you to be in heaven and to be a hero. I'll continue to check on them and reassure them that you wouldn't want them to feel guilty. I talk to Ben when I can which helps me feel closer to you much more than I can possibly tell you. I now consider him my "adopted" son. Just remember I will always, always love you and "Go slow, Wear your Seat Belt, and Watch for Deer!" Rest in sweet peace baby boy. Mom
P.S. I'll tell Ben & Fritz you are still looking out for them and still have their backs, OK?
LTC James McCabe
June 19, 2005
For the parents of Brian,
I was on a family vacation in NY when a fellow officer called me and told me of Brian's death. I am sorry for your loss. I knew Brian for a short time when he worked with me in the Joint Operations Center before he deployed. It was a great pleasure to have known him.
President Lincoln once wrote a mother who lost 5 sons during the Civil War. He acknowledged that no words of mine can usage the loss you have suffered. But I want you to know you do not grieve alone. For those of us that knew him in Springfield-we all feel the loss of his spirit to this earth and our lives. He was truly a great guy. What endeared Brian to all of us was his easy going attitude and humor. Brian was also a great story teller. Whether it was about wrecking the Lightning truck, playing with his nephew, riding 4 wheelers, or a bike with his dad, you listened because he told them so enthusiastically you couldn't help but enjoy it. We will all deeply miss your son.
A captain during the Revolutionary War once said It is better to have fought and died in a good cause than to linger to an old age and die in one's bed, never having offered a service to one's god or country. That is what Brian did. He has made the ultimate sacrifice. We are saddened by his loss but better for having known him. With deepest sympathy, Jim McCabe.
P.S. Hey Brian, I composed the above to your folks between Ft. Drum, NY and Hershey, PA last week. But I'm glad I waited to post it. Kristen, Katy and I drove to Anna for your services. It was awesome man, Roustabouts, family, friends, fellow soldiers, I'd guess over 1000 people. The services broke everybody up. General Thomas gave your folks Purple Hearts, Bronze Stars and folded flags. They played echo taps. Regular taps just kills me, but echo taps is so solemn. Folks that weren't at the funeral lined the streets for you also. I lost my Mom and Grandfather in March and May, so it was a little hard to face death a third time so soon. But I know you did your job. It's what we all signed up for. Take care and rest easy my friend. Others will take over your work from here. Jim
DAWN La MEE
June 18, 2005
BRIAN, YOU DON'T KNOW MEE BUT I WANTED TO THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU GAVE TO OUR COUNTRY. I PRAY FOR COMFORT FOR ALL YOUR LOVED ONES.
Donna (Dickerson)Anderson
June 18, 2005
My heart goes out to you and your family. I didn't know you Brian, but I know your mother. I can see her in all the pictures I have seen of you. Thank you for serving my country... God bless you Melinda and family...
Ashley Green
June 18, 2005
Brian,
Not a Christmas goes by that I don't think of the 2 little bleach blonde kids playing on the floor at my Grandmas house. I know a large amount of time has passed since our paths have had the chance to cross, but that doesn't matter. God puts people in our lives for a reason and I am so proud and honored to have known you at all. Our families will always be connected and I will always think of you with pride. May you live forever in the kingdom of God and bless all those around you.
Cheryl Anderson
June 17, 2005
Brian, Thank you ever so much for all that you gave so that we may remain safe and free. You are a true American Hero and I am so very proud of you! Though I didn't know you personally, I knew a lot about you and heard only good things from your mom. She and I go way back to grade school and were best friends all through our school years. She is so lucky to have had you in her life and I know you will live on in her heart forever!
Jeremy Duty
June 17, 2005
Brian, We only hung out a few times back in Junior High. You were a great guy and I truly enjoyed the time that we did spend together. You are true hero to our country and our community. As I currently serve in the US Navy. I wake up every morning and do my very best in your honor. I salute you and your bravery.
Tawni Johnson
June 17, 2005
Brian I did not know you but I know your best friend Erin. I hope that you may now find peace and rest. From what I have read you were an amazing man, soldier and son. The lives you touched will forever be better for having known you. I know you'll be watching out for your fellow soldiers, friends and family from heaven. May your family and friends find peace knowing that you are safely home, and you are a true american hero!!!
"All gave some, some gave all"
Rest in peace Spc. Brian Pomines!!!
Dana Wiseman
June 16, 2005
Brian, i will never forget you or forget all the great times at vienna park....all of your friends will always miss you and we will never forget you!
Jayna Hart
June 16, 2005
Dear Sgt. Romines, Although you are a stanger to me by name, you will forever be a hero in my heart. I didn't know you directly but was a penpal to some in your unit. When I wrote to my penpal I always included prayers for you as well as all the others in 2/123. I am sure you were a good soldier, and served your country with pride. It is because of your heroism that we are able to be free. Thank you for wanting to protect us all. Now it is your turn to be protected and the angels above will see to that. You are at peace now soldier, at ease.
You will be in all of our hearts throughout Illinois and all over the world. May your family with time find peace and accept your passing. God bless you Brian.
OUR BUDDY FOREVER - From the Joint Operations Center, Illinois National Guard State Headquarters
June 15, 2005
Kristin Wyatt
June 15, 2005
Brian,
You will be greatly missed, not only for being a fellow soldier, but also for being a really good friend. I'm glad that I had a chance to work with you in the Joint Operations Center and your presence will forever be with the staff. I'm going to miss you so much because you always knew how to make me laugh. Thank you for serving our country.
Katy Dean
June 15, 2005
Brian, Thank you for everything!I am so honored to have met you. We worked together for a short time. You always made me smile, Your presence made work enjoyable. I will never forget the memories and will cherish them forever. I will never forget the post it notes you left all over the office and all the free pizza you got for us. I am so greatful that I had the chance to meet you. You are a true American hero.
-SPC Katy Dean
Brooke Woolridge
June 14, 2005
Brian I just wanted to express my respect and to just say you are the true American Hero I am honored to have known you and while I was around you, you always put a smile on my face no matter what.
Jessica Molter
June 13, 2005
You are a true hero. Thanks for all you did in keeping us safe and free. We'll miss you a lot!
Melinda Astin
June 13, 2005
What a GREAT son! I guess it is inappropriate to sign a guest book twice, but honey I feel like I need to say more. I could go on and on and on and on forever singing your praises. You have made us so very proud. I haven't ever felt so inadequate, so empty and incomplete. Honey, you should be so proud of yourself. I had NO idea just how many lives you had touched in your 20 short years. I know we were just plain, common folk....nothing fancy. But Brian, you now have the attention and respect of everyone from people just like us to the Governor, Lt. Governor and yes, even the President. I stand in awe and salute you. Like my instant messenger name read, "My Son is my Hero and my Inspiration". What an inspiration you have been and continue to be. And as much as you tried to take care of everyone and protect them, I can only imagine you are now in heaven telling God to take it easy and rest, you'll take this shift. Brian Matthew, there simply are not words for how I feel, so I end with only a sigh and a big salute to my American hero. Love as always, Mom P.S. Go slow, wear your seat belt and watch for deer. I ALWAYS told you that when you left me, and don't want to break the habit now. Remember how we would always laugh and try to see who could say them all the fastest? It leaves me with a smile.
Melinda Astin
June 12, 2005
Brian: I was truly honored and blessed to have had you in my life. You were the best son anyone could ever have. I wouldn't change you for the world. You are and always will be a true hero and you cannot imagine how you have impacted our lives. I love you more than you'll ever know and you will always be in our hearts and on our minds. Rest in peace my sweet son. I believe you are now my personal guardian angel and it is now, when I cannot carry myself, that you carry me. You are gone, but never forgotten. I love you. MOM P.S. Go slow, wear your seat belt and watch for deer.
Bill Harrell
June 11, 2005
Your are a true American Hero. It is because of your sacrifice that others may live in freedom. My Father is in your unit right now in Iraq with the A co. 2/123 Fa. He said You were a great guy who always joked with him. Thank You Brian For Your Unselfish Giving so that we may remain a free country, and that others may one day also enjoy FREEDOM. God Bless You!!!! And Your Family!!!!!!!!!!!
Erin Stute
June 10, 2005
You are a true American HERO. I love you and I miss you terribly. I feel like you are my Guardian Angel. God Bless you! You are a very special young man in my life. Joseph and I are very honored to have been so close with you.
Arebell Johnson
June 9, 2005
Thank you.Many blessings to you and your family.
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