Lance Cpl. Erik R. Heldt
Lance Cpl. Erik R. Heldt
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Erik R. Heldt Obituary
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Robin Heggemeyer
September 9, 2021
I live in St. Louis, MO and they have a tribute for all our service men lost since 9/11. I just want you to know how touched I was and tell you thank you for your loved ones service and to thank you for your sacrifice. Praying that God's peace and comfort are with you all. God bless you all!!
So proud of our Marine!
Erik Heldt
June 16, 2015
Jason Maloney
May 29, 2015
Ten years is right around the corner and how quickly time has passed. Feels like yesterday. To Erik's parents, I wish and pray that peace and comfort have come to you by now and that your memories are only good ones. As you know it changes your whole perspective on life and your personal disposition. For my brother to have had him with him that 16th of June meant that Erik was a great Marine and individual. My brother had a strong loyalty and love for his Marines and Erik must have made a great impression. Your family is forever in my prayers and thoughts and Erik's service and sacrifice for his fellow Marines lives on today. He is not just a forgotten memory or dash in time. He is an impact and moment in time that changed lives forever. News of Ramadi today should not be on your mind. Throughout history battles have been win and lost, and with that borders redrawn. You can't rewrite history. Erik and John will be forever remembered that in their moment of battle and time, they led from the front with boldness, courage and unselfishness to protect their fellow Marines and meet the enemy face to face. They chose a path rarely chosen, and for those who walk that path even fewer have the courage to continue in that path that they know full well could be a short, and dangerous path. God bless your family and as we meet the ten year anniversary and continue forward, know that there are Marines out there doing things better because of him...Respectfully.
Jason Ostrum
August 2, 2013
Thank you for your service to this great country we call AMERICA. I became good friends with a relative of yours Loren and he never told me about you and I served in the army from 1993-1998. You will never be forgotten and being my father is a retired marine SEMPER FI!!!
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Peggy Childers
June 16, 2013
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Erik R. Heldt:
It has truly been my honor to sign Erik's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Erik will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy
June 4, 2013
In memory & honor of Erik. We will always be grateful to him for his sacrifice for us.
Peggy Childers
June 17, 2012
June 16, 2012
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Erik R. Heldt:
Always remembering Erik. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
June 16, 2011
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Erik R. Heldt:
Please accept my remembrance of Erik on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Ryan Reynolds
March 10, 2011
Erik and I left together from st.louis to go to boot camp together then school of infantry, we were very close throughout training. Though We were assigned to different units we remained close. I took leave for Erik and Cyrstals wedding in Herman. I only had 2 days but I wouldnt of missed it for anything. I know he would have done the same. I was at Abu Ghuraib prison in Iraq when our units crossed paths. It was a great feeling running into my friend. By just a quick hug and a few words my morale was lifted by him. That was just the way he was, always putting you in a better mood. I was devestated to return to that same church not much later in life to see my buddy laid to rest. My heart to Erik's family. Your son, bother, husband is a hero. I am honored to say that I was able to serve at his side. Sweat, laugh, and cry many times with one of the greatest men I,ve ever met.
I love you buddy, see you again someday.......... semper fi.
In Humble Gratitude for your Service
October 2, 2010
Peggy Childers
June 16, 2010
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Erik R. Heldt:
Remembering Erik on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
June 17, 2009
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Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna
Peggy Childers
June 16, 2009
To the family of Lance Cpl. Erik R. Heldt:
Erik gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
michael robertson
May 25, 2009
you are missed dearly friend...
Jessica Koth
May 25, 2009
Well, another Memorial Day and we are thinking of you all! We miss you Erik and you're in our prayers daily!
Judy Flacke
May 24, 2009
On this memorial weekend I honor your son and respect your sacrifice
Melissa Hamre
November 24, 2008
I just said Happy Birthday to my brother, John. I know Eric will celebrate with him in my place. I will never think of one without the other. My prayers are always with you. Take Care, Melissa
In Memory of Erik ~ (Debra Estep)
June 16, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Erik, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
May 4, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Lance Cpl Heldt!
Erik in the bouncer
Jessica Koth
April 16, 2008
Hello Heldt family,
I am writing to let you know that we're always thinking of you. He was a good man and a wonderful friend, our son Erik (whom we named for him) and our daughter Sophia will always know him. We love you all! We miss you Erik!
Eric Heldt
March 4, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Mom and Dad
March 4, 2008
Today would have been Erik's 29th Birthday. He is sadly missed by all of us. His daughter is growing so fast into a lovely little lady. His nieces and nephews all talk about him as their "soldier hero". Matt and Chris miss their little brother's sense of humor. His father and I just cherish the time we all spent together. He will never by forgotten. Rest well son you are always in our thoughts and prayers.
melissa Hamre
October 30, 2007
To Erik's Family,
I promised you I would never forget Erik and I won't. As veteran's day and my brother's birthday draw near, they are never far from my thoughts. I have always found comfort that they are together...working and playing, and watching over all of us. If ever I can help you in any way please feel free to contact me. God's peace and love to you all.
Melissa Hamre, proud sister of Cpt. John W. Maloney, U.S.M.C.
August 19, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 19, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Lance Cpl Heldt and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Aunt of a Lance Cpl deploying soon
michael robertson
June 17, 2007
hey bro i just wanted to say ill never forget you. i miss you.
Garnet Jenkins
June 15, 2007
In Remembrance of Lance Cpl. Erik R. Heldt, with a Multitude of Thanks, for this Brave Young Marine's Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
May Erik Rest Safely in God's Loving Care and may the Peace of God continue to be with the Heldt family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them. Killed in action in Vietnam in 1967.
"I consider that our present sufferings, are not worth comparing with the glory that shall be revealed in us."
~Romans 8:18~
I am sincerely hoping that you continue to feel the thoughts of Caring and Support that surround you each day, as this Grateful Country Remembers Someone Very Precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
I am So Deeply Sorry for your loss.
patrick finnigan
May 28, 2007
hey bro i miss you and love you.
Melissa Hamre
May 1, 2007
I know you still look at this from time to time, and I want you to know that I will never forget your son. Neither will my children. They know that Uncle John went to heaven with another angel, named Erik and that they were never alone. God bless your family.
Cpt. Maloney's sister,
Melissa
Aunt of an United States Marine in Iraq
September 16, 2006
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006
ROBYN GARSIDE
July 31, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Melissa Hamre
May 30, 2006
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Erik R. Heldt,
I have written very rarely to anyone, however I hope you received the message I sent almost a year ago. My brother was Erik's CO, Cpt. John W. Maloney. I have not forgotten how they lived together and how tragically they went together. I will forever find peace that my big brother was not alone on that fateful day and still stood watch over his men. It's the way he was. He said he was taking 200 of his finest men with him, and have enourmous pride that your son was one of them. Not a day goes by that I don't look up and think of them together. Please find comfort that my brother is still taking care of his men. With all of my heart, Semper Fi,
Melissa
Proud Sister of Cpt. John W. Maloney
Donna Stokes
May 22, 2006
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Kirby Jinkerson
May 22, 2006
God Speed my friend.....
CW4 (RET) FRED G. BAYSINGER
November 11, 2005
One of the United States' finest - tragic loss to Family and community
Johnny & Donna HERRMANN
October 7, 2005
Dear Family and friends of L/CPL ERIK R HELDT,on the 8th of september my wife and I had a great time visiting the nice city of Hermann. During our tour through the city we passed a German beer hall and I noticed a picture of a U S MARINE on a flyer,that stirred my emotions and my love for the MARINE CORPS. AS A vietnam veteran and former member of the 1st Marine Division having witnessed many battle losses while in combat my hero's will always be fellow MARINES dedicated to ensuring our freedoms by serving doing the toughest job in the world. There is no doubt in my mind that ERIK loved what he was doing, and being a Marine was the iceing on the cake. My wife Donna and I send our condollence and love to his surviving family members and friends. Master gunnery sergeant Johnny Herrmann(RET) USMC SEMPER FIDELIS
Anna Penn Ford
July 20, 2005
I never knew Eric personally but My sympathy goes out to the family. I was born and raised in Montgomery/Gasconade area.My oldest son was in a car wreck with his father in -law. May god keep his family and his wife's family in the palm of his hand. My prayers and thoughts are with this family and all the families of this war.
John Maloney
July 19, 2005
I'm so sorry for your loss. Captian John Maloney was my son. The world lost two fine young men. I didn't know Erik but he sure sounded alot like John. Thank God for your sons willingness to help others. God bless and keep You. John E. Maloney
Michael Mueller
July 5, 2005
I work in Warrenton at Holland USA. I would like to pass on a poem written by a fellow employee of Holland USA.
"Thanks Lance Corporal Erik Heldt"
As I passed your grave
This is how I felt
I didn’t know this young Marine
But I know the freedom for others
That he foreseen
And I know our country
He was fighting for
Yet chills went up my spine
On that hot June day
As this brave solider was put away
Flags were lowered to half-mast
It seemed the procession would never pass
The whole community came to a stop
With tears in their eyes
Yes, even a Cop
Here’s what I imagined
You might have to say
Look up look up across the way
Old Glory she’s flying
A little freer today
I’ll accept your respect
But forget the sorrow
Old glory’s going to fly
Even higher tomorrow.
By George Thurman
6/30/05
I didn't know Erik personally, but he has been my thoughts ever since I heard the news of his passing. My deepest sympathy to all the family members. My prayers are with you.
Delores Alexander
July 5, 2005
To the entire Heldt family: I do not know Erik or his family, but wanted to send my families deepest sympathy on your loss. As the wife of a Federal Police Officer, I have similar worries that my husband won't come home, but I rest easier knowing that people like Erik are over there fighting to keep the terrorists from entering our great country. Crystal, please know that I will continue to keep you in my prayers, from what I have read, Erik was a Christian, and it gives me great comfort knowing that he is with the Lord, and I will get to meet this great Hero someday. My parents are from Hermann, and my mom also sends her deepest sympathy. God Bless You All, and GOD BLESS AMERICA!! Thanks Erik for your sacrifice, we will NEVER FORGET. From very thankful Americans, Delores & Eric Alexander, Dave & Karen Waldecker, and Selma Waldecker
Theresa Bonuchi
July 2, 2005
Crystal,Taylor and the Heldt famity:
I did not know Eric well, but hearing Crystal talk about him make him a very special Husband, Son, Father and Marine. The only comfort in this tragic loss is to know that you now have a guardian angel & that he is safe with his grandmother Nadine,who was also a special person. Words cant express my sympathy for this fallen HERO. Crystal you are in my prayers. From a former Marine
Semper Fi
Theresa
Mike Trim
July 1, 2005
It's hard to summarize my friendship with Erik, for I truly considered him to be a brother. Most of my best memories growing up included him, and the close group of friends we had. Losing Erik was a tremendous blow to all of us, but amazingly, it brought all of us together. We all realized how lucky we were to have him in our lives. It has now brought us closer, and made us not take any day for granite. To all the Heldt family: your son, brother, and husband will NEVER be forgotten. I look forward to visiting with you on my next trip home. My deepest sympathy,
Mike Trim
Phyllis Shaw
June 29, 2005
I have just returned from bicycling the Katy Trail. We came into Hermann on the day Erik made his final journey home. I was profoundly moved as I thought of this young man returning to the heartland of America--but now living forever in the heart of God. Please know that you have my heartfelt condolences.
Karrie Heberle
June 29, 2005
I had the privelege of knowing Erik very well and am very sorry that this tradegy happened to him. "Heldt" will be remembered as our country's hero and our hometown hero. His little smirky grin will forever be embedded in my mind. Erik was a courageous man through playing football to defending our country. He has fought to bring us our freedom and to him I am grateful. I am sorry for your loss and wish that I could have been home for the services. Please know that you guys are in my thoughts and prayers. Much sympathy to Crystal and the rest of the Heldt family. Erik's battle is now over and he may now rest in peace.
Gary Leimkuehler
June 29, 2005
Crystal and the Heldt family, we see on the news daily of the many men and women that sacrifice their lives for our freedom, Erik will never be forgotten for his ultimate sacrifice. He is definitely a home town hero. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Angela, Gary, Kirsten, and Garrett Leimkuehler
Dena Lane
June 28, 2005
Crystal and Family,
I did not know Eric but I'm also over here in Ar Ramadi, Iraq and I was really upset when I heard not only that another one of my brothers in arms was killed but he was from my home town. I'm really sorry for your loss. But it is good to see that our home town supports us 100%. My prayers are with you.
Joshua Hamre
June 27, 2005
To the family of Lance Cpl. Erik R. Heldt -
On behalf of myself and the Maloney family, I extend to you our condolences on the loss of Erik. May God's grace help us all through these difficult times.
Sincerely,
Joshua J. Hamre, brother to Captain John W. Maloney, USMC.
Semper Fi, guys.
Terry and Linda (Epple) Parsons
June 27, 2005
Called Mom and got the news about Erik. Although we never knew Erik or Crystal our hearts go out to all the families. Our thoughts and prayers will be with the families always.
Terry and Linda Parsons
michael "squeek" robertson
June 27, 2005
crystal,
im so sorry for your loss he was a great inspiration to me and an outstanding friend. i will miss him dearly. just remember "greater love hath no man than this, that man lay down his life for his friends" john 15:13
you are in my prayers.
Cynthia Bickmeyer
June 27, 2005
To The Heldt Family
Our deepest sympathy to your family.
Your family has given the ultimate sacrifice for our country. I know no words can express our gratitude for what your family has given. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dennis and Cynthia Bickmeyer
Nathan and Michele Koelling
June 27, 2005
Our deepest sypmathy is extended to the Heldt families. Losing a family member is never easy, and despite what people say, you never get over it, but you learn how to deal with it. We personally thank Erik from the bottom of our hearts for protecting our freedom. God bless all of you, and we pray that He is with you during this time of grief and sorrow.
Michelle Liston
June 27, 2005
Crystal,
I am keeping you, your family, Taylor and the Heldts in my thoughts and prayers.
Erik was a great person and will be greatly missed. The outpour of love, support and patriotism witnessed over the last week represents that.
I love you Sis and I am very proud of you.
Michelle (DePriest) Liston
Stephanie Lambing Jane & Ed Torres
June 26, 2005
To Erik and Crystal's families,
I am very sorry for your loss and my heart goes out to you during this sad time. I was a freshman during Erik's senior year of high school and remember cheering him on during the football games. He was an amazing player and an all around great guy. My family and I thank him from the bottom of our hearts for giving his life to protect our freedom and way of life. Erik and all of the brave men and women in the military are extremely special people who will never be forgotten.
Melissa Overkamp
June 26, 2005
Dear Crystal and Heldt Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at such a difficult time. You have always known what a great person Erik was, but many of us are just finding out what a great person he was, and truly a hero, who will never be forgotten.
God Bless!
Curt, Melissa, Allen and Kyle Overkamp
Cheryl Cantwell (Weber)
June 26, 2005
To Crystal & the entire family,
Although I only knew of you and Erik distantly, it is with great sympathy that I extend my thoughts and prayers for you during this most difficult. I commend Erik's dedictation to our country. God Bless!
Angela Dobrick
June 26, 2005
To the family of Erik, I want to thank Erik for fighting for this country and making me proud to be here. I wish more then anything that I wasn't writing this message to you, but my deepest smypathy for you all. You will always have your memories and his love. I'm so sorry for your lose and hope that things will get easier. Even though I don't know any of you, I still wish you all the best and hope that you all make it through this rough time.
rosie mundwiller
June 25, 2005
to Erick's family,
On June 15, i lost my mother also, and i thought i cried just about as much as i could, then i heard about Erik, and i cried some more. Words seem to fail me when I think about your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you all.
Peace and Strenght
Greg Birkmann
June 25, 2005
To the Heldt Family,
My deepest sympathy goes to all of you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I honor Erik for his courage and bravery. You should be so proud that Erik was fighting to defend the things that the rest of us take for granted everyday in our lives.
I can't imagine the pain that your feeling, but I only wish that one day your feelings of grief and sorrow are replaced with those of pride. He truly was, and always will be a great hero.
Greg Birkmann
Harold and Mary Steiner
June 25, 2005
We dare not imagine the depth of your grief. Words elude us... know that you remain in our hearts and prayers.
Greg, Daria, Cole, & Jenna Zerr
June 25, 2005
Our deepest sympathy for the tragic loss of a great friend, son, brother, and husband. We are humbled to have known Erik and thank him for the sacrifice he made for our great country. We are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Connie Niebruegge
June 25, 2005
Gary, Patty, Crystal and the entire Heldt Family:
Even though I did not have the privilege to know Erik personally - I did have the privilege to watch him grow up in the Hermann schools. My husband (Lee) & I have always been avid Hermann football fans. Watching his team achieve the perfection it did was motivational to my youngest son and the rest of the 2002-2003 Bearcat team.
More inspirational than his achievements in high school, though, was his true dedication to his family and country. It was always evident to everyone in the Hermann area when talking about our young men serving our country.
I deeply feel for you and although I cannot truly feel the depth of your loss I share a spot missing in mine for our fine young man from Hermann who always did us all so proudly!
My family's thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.
Jeff & Christy Grass
June 25, 2005
To all of Erik's family,
I want to extend our deepest sympathies at this time of grief. Find comfort in the fact that Erik was fighting for the most wonderful cause of all......FREEDOM.
For the whole town to come together and show their support at a time like this, Erik must have been a very special person and had touched many lives while he was with us.
Peace be with all of you.
God Speed!!
Matt, Beth, Danielle, Noah & Morgan Engemann
June 25, 2005
To Erik's Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. No words can express what we wish to say to you. Just remember to cherish all the wonderful memories of Erik. We will all continue to thank him, and the rest of those in our military, each day for the sacrifices they have made for us. God bless you and keep you in his care.
Robyn Kohlbusch
June 24, 2005
Heldt Family,
I am truly sorry for this tragedy that has hit your family. Erik was a friend and classmate who will be greatly missed. I admire his courage and determination to do the right thing, not just for himself, but for everyone. I wish I could of been there to support you in your time of need, you are all in my thoughts and prayers
Debbie Vanausdoll
June 24, 2005
Crystal,Taylor,Patty,Gary,Sheila:
My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you in your time of grief. My prayers will be with you. God Bless Erik and all the men and women who fight for our freedom. For without them, we might not have, what we sometimes take for granted. Freedom!
Mr & Mrs Penick
June 24, 2005
Our thoughts are we Erik's family and freinds. Thanks to all the men and women in our armed forces who make this a free country.
Angela Ferrario
June 24, 2005
To the entire family,
I am so sorry for your loss.
If it was not for brave men like Erik we, as US citizens, would not have what we have today. Our soldiers make it possible for us to sleep peacefully knowing that we have the best of the best out there defending us. Erik was the best of the best.
You all are in my prayers. If there is anything I can do please let me know.
I am also sending you the love and prayers for those who work at Boeing Travel. A few months ago we had sent Erik a care package. In return we got a nice letter of thanks that touched everyone's heart. Everyone at Boeing Travel was shocked to hear the news and saddened.
Again you are all in our thoughts and prayers
Jennifer (Miller) Holifield
June 24, 2005
My deepest sympathy goes out to the entire Heldt family. I being an army wife live with the fear of this tragedy myself. I remember both Crystal and Erik from highschool and give you my sympathy during this difficult time.
Jeannine (Masur) Eldringhoff
June 23, 2005
Heldt Family
You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. I did not know Erik, but was in school with Chris. Thank you Erik for fighting for the freedom that we enjoy.
Arlene Wickell
June 23, 2005
To the Heldt Family,
You don't know me, but I just had to send this message to express our deepest sympathy to all of you, we know what you are going through, we lost our 21 year old grandson in Iraq December 3, 2004, he was also killed by a car bomb but he did save the lives of his fellow Marines and is truly a hero as we know your son and husband is. We feel your grief and pray that you will find peace and comfort from the Good Lord, we know that God has a plan for all of us, but why our loved ones have to go at such a young age is hard to understand, we also know that God wanted these good Marines in heaven with him & that their time was up, we will see them again in heaven.
Again let me say that we feel your pain,it is sooo very hard & it hurts so much. But like I said we will see them again & they are looking down on us. We thank your son & husband & father as everyone thanked our grandson for giving the untimate sacrifice. Our Grandson was buried on what would have been his 22nd birthday. I am sorry I am talking so much about our grandson, but I want you to know that we know how you feel and what you are going through. Our Grandsons name was Cpl. Matthew Wyatt.
Corrine Bradley
June 23, 2005
We are so sorry for the loss of your spouse, son, brother and father. We can't imagine the grief that you all are going through. Our heart goes out to the Heldt family and we are thankful to all of you for the sacrifice that your loved one has made for all of us. Erik will not be forgotten for what he did for this country. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time and for years to come.
Matt, Corrine, Grant and Roman Bradley
Renee, Jim, Jen and Becca Poulsen
June 23, 2005
To Crystal and the entire Heldt family-may God Bless you and comfort you in this terrible time of grief. Thank you for allowing Erik to join with the many others who have fought for the freedoms that we as Americans tend to take for granted. They are truely selfless people and I know that he will always be remembered as our "HOME TOWN HERO". We will keep you and your families in our hearts and prayers.
Bob & Sharon Leeper
June 23, 2005
Dear Patty & Gary,
You may not remember us we went to high school with you.
We were so sorry to hear about your son.
I did not know him, but he must have been very special, to have served two tours in Iraq.
May his spirit rest in a land of peace and may you find comfort in the gentle hands of the great spirit.
Bob & Sharon Leeper
Bob Edwards
June 23, 2005
Our deepest sympathies go out to the Heldt family. I've worked with some family members over the years, and am sorry to hear of a loss to a wonderful family.
Chris & Jenni Leibach
June 23, 2005
To the entire Heldt family:
We wish there was something we could say that would make the pain go away. We feel truly blessed to have known Erik and that we can say we have our freedom because of him and the other wonderful servicemen and women. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Diane Poor
June 23, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this horrible grief.
Lauren Erfling
June 23, 2005
Our deepest sympathy is with the Heldt family. We are privileged to have had such an honorable man from our home town. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
God Bless
Lauren Erfling & Brad Kohlbusch
Shannon Dieckman (Leeper)
June 23, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I am so sorry about your loss, I can not even imagine what you all must be feeling at this time.
I did not know Eric, but I went to School in Hermann and knew Chris and Crystal, and many others that did know him well.
My families thoughts and prayers will be with all of you, and we all now know Eric as a very selfless, courageous person.
Sorry for your Loss,
Shannon Dieckman
Patrick & Jessica Isaak
June 23, 2005
Our prayers go out to Crystal and the Heldt family. Erik will be sadly missed. I can't imagine the pain. We thank Erik and all of the other Service Men and Women fighting for our country.
Mandy Corum
June 23, 2005
I just want to say that I am sorry for your loss... I also want to thank Erik for giving my family of three boys freedom. WHat he fought for will not be forgotten..Even though I do not know him or the family I must say that in my book he was a hero for this country and my family ..... I will continue to pray for your healing as time goes by...... God bless you..
Jean Habsieger
June 23, 2005
Crystal and Family,
My heart goes out to you in this difficult time. I did not know Erik but have the utmost respect for him and his ultimate sacrifice for all in this Country. I only briefly met Crystal but have known her Father for a number of years also Curtis and his family. Please know that you are in my thoughts. I will say a special prayer for all of you tonight.
Angie Kuebler-Hittson
June 23, 2005
My deepest sympathy to Crystal, Chris and the Heldt family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Erik is a true hero and he will be missed very much. I am very proud to have known such a courageous man.
God Bless,
Kasey Bradford
June 23, 2005
Dear Crystal and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. I did not have the opportunity to know Erik personally, I consider this my loss. What heroic and upstanding service he provided our country.
Our heartfelt sympathy is with you during these difficult times.
Lots of Love From California,
The Bradfords
Marty & Kim Crowe
June 22, 2005
Crystal,Taylor,Patty,Gary,Sheila, Tom, Bobby & Family,
Our hearts go out to all of you. We are honored to say we knew Erik. He coached our son Kyle's 7th & 8th grade football team. He gave his spare time to help coach the team even though he didn't have anyone playing. His classmates are right, he was always caring about others. God be with you all,
Marty,Kim,Christina & Kyle Crowe
June 22, 2005
Erik's sacrifice will not be forgotten. Thank you to him, his friends and family for my freedom and the freedom of the United States. A true hero!
Carla Young
June 22, 2005
I do not know this family but wish to send my deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Erik Heldt. His service for our country is greatly appreciated. Remember the Footsteps Verse and may God Bless. Sincerely, Carla Young
Matt & Jessica Hinten
June 22, 2005
Dear Crystal and Family,
Our deepest sympathy goes to you right now. We are here to lend a helping hand if ever needed. Erik will be honored forever! The Hinten Family
Kay L Tilburg
June 22, 2005
Crystal & Family
My deepest regrets for your loss.
You are in my thoughts & Prayers. Crystal, my colleague & friend at Children's Hospital, please feel the support and love from all of us who cannot be with you this week.
Amy Mundwiller-Epple
June 21, 2005
Crystal and Family,
My heart goes out to you! Erik was such a great guy, he will never be forgotten. His cute smirk and his way of always making everyone smile will always be what I remember best. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Much Love,
Amy and Bo Epple
Charlotte (Heldt) Struttman
June 21, 2005
My deepest sympathies go out to Erik's family & friends. I am a distant cousin of Erik's, but haven't known him well since childhood.
Thank you, Erik, for keeping the fight on their soil instead of ours. You will not be forgotten.
Erica Wolfmeyer
June 20, 2005
Heldt Family & Friends,
I didn't know Erik as well as many others, but what I did know was that he was a man with a big heart for everyone around him.
Thanks Erik for being so brave for all of us!
My thoughts and prayers go out to everyone who knew and loved Erik.
God Bless!
Jessica (Holden) Chavez
June 20, 2005
It is Monday evening, June 20th and I just recieved a call that was not such good news. My best friend from college, Crystal has lost her husband, ultimately her best friend. My thoughts and prayers are with you Crystal and your family. I wish there was something I could say to make it better. I never got to meet Erik Heldt but heard a lot of wonderful things about him from Crystal. My condolences to his family.
Becky Raterman-Oberg
June 20, 2005
My prayers and thoughts go out to the family and friends of Erik. I can remember him when he was small and running around at family events. We share an aunt and uncle but from different sides of the family. I can only thank him for dedicating and giving up his life to help protect and save ours.
My deepest sympathy!
Becky
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