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Charlie Gili
February 14, 2020
Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of Darrell W. Boatman US Marine Gunnery Sergeant.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Renee Hunt
November 4, 2015
10 years of missing you. 10 very long years of wondering what could have been. You will never be forgotten but you will always be missed. I love you big brother!
November 4, 2015
been ten yrs Gunny, sometimes it seems like it was just yesterday and sometimes its like forever. Semper Fi
Laura Capps
November 3, 2015
Ten years. Someone told me, " if you love someone you keep them in your heart forever. In time, when you think of that person, the thought of them will bring a smile to your face more often than a tear to your eyes."
Most days I smile when I think of you. Laugh at things you would enjoy. Tomorrow I will cry for all that you have missed.
Missing you everyday.
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Laura Boatman-Capps
June 9, 2015
I know that today you and Roy welcomed Carol with open arms. It breaks my heart knowing the loss everyone is facing, but today her pain ended and she can finally rest.
Miss you today and everyday.
Christina Kittinger
June 4, 2015
I thought about you on Memorial Day this year and other days too. I felt so terrible that I had lost touch with you guys. I actually got this heart wrenching news a little more than 2 years ago, I think. I was trying to find you both and catch up...even if it was just Facebook. I know so many people respect you and think your life was amazing, as do I. I hope many people who never even knew you know how fun and amazing you were. I have silly memories of working on base and having both Darrell and Michelle support me, in the little things like showing up to that fashion show. Gosh it seems like such a long time ago. I sure do think about you, I couldn't imagine how strong your family had to be and are still. You are surely missed.
Jean Bernhardt
May 25, 2015
Thinking of you today. You gave your all to keep your men and the world safe. Rest in peace, Darrell.
Michelle Hall
May 25, 2015
Thinking of you always and especially this Memorial Day. You will never be forgotten.
Linda Ringl
January 27, 2015
To Darrell's family: I will be visiting my brother, a former team mate of Darrell's: Eddie Marts (MSG Edgar L. Marts, Jr.) over Memorial Day weekend. I plan to visit Darrell as well (he is just in the next section from Eddie). If you are going to be in DC for Memorial Day, please contact me. I would love to meet you. I always remember Darrell, because he passed just 3-1/2 weeks before Eddie succumbed to cancer. Eddie was heartbroken, too. I cannot believe it has been over 9 years already. Please know your family remains in my prayers and that I am truly and always grateful for our service members.
Michelle Gravelle
November 4, 2014
9 years you have been gone but you are never forgotten and loved more than words can say.
We love you, Michelle, Paul and Camden
Michelle Gravelle
November 4, 2014
Darrell you are with me always! You are missed so much.
I feel you around me watching over me and my family.
Rest in Peace
Renee' Boatman
June 25, 2014
Happy Birthday Darrell! You are loved and missed more than words can say. RIP big brother!
Laura Capps
June 25, 2014
Thinking of you on your birthday. It's almost been 9 years, yet I still expect to see your smiling face and mischevious eyes. I am reminded of your outgoing personality everytime I look into Emma's face. We tell her about her Pappa Darrell all the time. Rest easy knowing you will never be forgotten
Michelle Gravelle
June 22, 2014
Thinking of you as your 47th birthday approaches. You are always with me, I love you and miss you more than words can say.
Rest in peace Darrell.
Theresa Bracewell-Murphy
May 26, 2014
Thinking of you this Memorial Day. Rest in peace, buddy.
Cpl Tim Thornton
May 1, 2014
I knew Corporal, maybe Sgt. Boatman at Alpha 1/2 - I remember Him being Larger than life with His Big smile and over the top Gung Ho spirit. Rest easy Warrior, your job was well done, I've Talked to several of the men that knew you well in those day, and you are truly missed.
lauren
March 2, 2014
I carry your heart with me, I carry it in my heart.
Every time I catch Emma saying something entirely too smart for her age I think of you. You would've been the best grandfather ever! Thanks for looking out for us. I'll see you again someday. Till then...
I love you and miss you dad.
Joseph Minor
February 11, 2014
Marion Smalls called me today and let me know that you passed away brother. You were a good and fair leader. You will be missed.
Jeremy Benson
November 30, 2013
Boaty, man I miss you more than I could ever express. Though I struggle with many of the same thoughts I mentioned in my first message; I know that you are with me as I try to work through them. Voodoo said it best, you were my "sea daddy" and you always will be. My heart has an eternal piece that has broken away, and it only feels comfort at the thought of you smiling down on me from heaven. God knows I miss you and I pray for your family always. I love you brother!
Doc Benson
Matthew Cruise
November 5, 2013
It is hard to imagine that it has been 8 years...seems like just yesterday we were rolling down route Michigan.
November 4, 2013
You remain in my heart and thoughts with love, Aunt Faith
Kevin Quinitchett
September 10, 2013
Its been 23 years since I have seen you. You were a great squad leader, the epitome of a Marine and a real funny dude. You were part of the best platoon ever and all I have sspoken too hold you in the highest regards with the upmost respect.
Christina Kittinger
July 31, 2013
I will never forget the times Michelle and I would go to the movies just down the street. You shared your life with others so well. I laugh when I think of the time I fell down the stairs at the engraving shop and Darrell laughed at me and told me I lost cool points with him. Michelle I'd really like to hear from you. I am glad to read you have found love again and a way to mend what seemed so overwhelming. Please know that it meant so much to me that you both came to see me when I had Kandice. Marines are family and in Jacksonville you both opened kindness that I will never forget.
Lori Syphrit-Tatum
April 13, 2013
Thinking of you and missing you....love you always!
April 5, 2013
Gunny,
I appreciate the service you gave to our battalion in Habbaniyah.
You are in my thoughts always
MAJ Meadors Lexington ky
Darrian Dennis
March 6, 2013
Miss you Mr.D
Darrian dennis
March 6, 2013
Mr. Darrell u were like my 2nd father, you and my daddy and my godfather were best friends. remember that you trained my dad? You were there for my birth and you knew about my terrible first 4 years of life. You help us out and I will forever be greatful to marsoc eod. Semper fi, i will forever be faithful.
Michelle Gravelle
February 1, 2013
Darrell,
Wow how my life has changed over the years, I married a wonderful man, a Marine , had a baby and I'm happy again, I never thought that I could be happy again after losing you. You were my everything and it took me many years to pick up the pieces of my life without you.
One day when my son is old enough, I will tell him the story of Mr. Darrell :)
My husband was in Virginia a while ago and stopped by to visit you and left an EGA for you, "his brother" he sent me text and told me that he went to visit you and sent me a photo of your marker with the EGA on it and it really touched my heart .
He has come to know you very well over the years.
I am excited for October to come because I have a friend of mine running the Marine Corps Marathon in YOUR honor and I will be there with your Mom, my husband and my oldest son Brent to cheer him on and we will all be visiting you and your father in Arlington, until then rest in peace Darrell, you are always in my heart and on my mind.
Donald Hultz
January 31, 2013
Gunny,
I retire 1 April and my EOD party is 8 February. Without hesitation I asked for my flag to be flown over the memorial on your day, the day you gave all for all of us. Many EOD Marines have fallen but there were non I was as close to. You were like a little brother. I will never forgive myself for not getting to your funeral. I wish we had been closer. If I am blessed enough and get a chance, I will tell my Grandkids your story. I had you give a museum tour to my Mom and her husband at 29 Palms and that evening she asked me “Who was that handsome young man?” See you on the other side and I am sure you will be smiling.
HM2(FMF/SW) Scott Reid
November 11, 2012
Thinking about you and our time together on the 24th MEU. Miss having your leadership and guidance. Happy Veterans day.
DOC Reid
Renee' Boatman
November 5, 2012
You haven't been forgotten, I think of you often and talk about you all the time. I love you so much!
matthew cruise
November 5, 2012
Still think about you, and wear your memorial bracelet each day. You provided so much for us in Iraq. It was and always will be an honor to have served with you. See you in heaven.
November 4, 2012
Darrell, you are in our hearts. Love
June 10, 2012
Remembering, honoring and respecting Darrell Boatman on this fine New England day.
Mark Menotti
February 12, 2012
Guns--Miss your leadership and great sense of humor. Will always cherish the SNCO and Officer cigar smokes on the USS Austin during 2002-03 deployment to OIF I. Semper Fi, Marine! LtCol Menotti
Laura Capps
January 25, 2012
It isn't your birthday, or the day you left us. It isn't Memorial Day, or one of the kid's birthday. It is January 25th...just another day....and I am missing you.
You have missed so much. Emma took her first steps this week, and is cutting a new tooth. Jacob's team is going to the superbowl, and he is convinced that Emma is their good luck charm. =-)
Everyday there is something that happens that makes me want to grab the phone and call you. But your not there.
Last week, I was in the breakroom when a co-worker husband came in. When I asked what he did...guess what...EOD.
He was too young to have worked with you, but knew of you. Seems your name pops up at least once a day, everyday.
Even though you are gone, I see your face everytime I look at Jacob. I am always laughing at your personality when I am with Lauren. My heart breaks everytime I look into Emma's eyes, because it is like looking into yours.
I miss you.
Ian Jardine
January 9, 2012
Hey Gunny,
After all these years I still find myself remembering our service together. No matter what was going on you always had a smile. Serving with you was one of the greatest times in my short career. I hope that wherever you are now that you are still smiling, having a great time.
Matthew Cruise
November 6, 2011
Hard to believe it has been 6 years now. I will never forget Gunny, and all that he did for us while we were in Iraq. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Renee' Boatman Hunt
November 5, 2011
Darrell,
I wish I could see your smile one more time, hear your voice that sounded just like daddy's and tell you just how much I love you.
I wish it did get easier, but it doesn't. Still a day doesn't go by that You are not thought of or talked about. Tears still fall and hearts are still broken.
We all love that sweet, beautiful granddaughter of yours so much. She looks like you! Wish you were here so I could watch you be the awesome "Grandfather" I know you would have been.
With lots of love a heart that misses you,
Kim Straker
November 5, 2011
Honoring the service, patriotism and ultimate sacrifice of this fine American - and sent with the hope that those who love him and miss him so are finding better days to in which they can remember him and all he means to them.
Peggy Childers
November 4, 2011
To the family and friends of Gunnery Sgt. Darrell W. Boatman:
Please accept my remembrance of Darrell on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Mike Beasley
November 4, 2011
To the Boatman family. Please know that the "Fallen Hero Ministry" is praying for your family. This is a part of Sandy Ridge Baptist in Hickory, N.C. Please contact us at srbconline.net so we can get more info. It truly will be an honor and privilege to speak with you. May God Bless your family each day.
November 4, 2011
I miss you so much!
Janie brewer
July 28, 2011
To Darrell's family I met Darrell back in 29 palms in 1994-95 he was such a wonderful human being always smiling as he walked into the door he took line dance classes in 29 palms with my husband and I attended the class also, well he got to be a great friend and would come over to our home and have supper with us play cards and he was such a neat guy like I said lost track over the years knew he was crazy about a gal back home he met and we were pretty excited to meet her but never did get the chance. I know you are looking down on all of your family and friends your a true hero Darrell..
Renee' Boatman Hunt
May 30, 2011
I love you and miss you more than I could ever tell. I think of you often and tears still fall for the big brother that I will never forget. Always one of my guys.
Eileen Parkman
May 30, 2011
Thank you so very much, Gunnery Sgt. Boatman, for your service and sacrifice -- and thank you, to your family, for your sacrifice.
Elaine Westmoreland
May 30, 2011
Remembering you today and always
Theresa Bracewell-Murphy
March 31, 2011
I'm not sure why I was inclined to look up this guest book today or why you came to mind, Darrell. Just glancing through some of the entries and feeling honored to have known you. Sending much aloha to the heavens...
Heriberto D. Zuniga
December 11, 2010
Darrell, today you came to mind and I decided to look for you on facebook, I came across the Fallen Heros Memorial and decided to read on. I was stunned to read about your passing. I'm sorry we lost contact over the years, it's been over twenty years since we last saw each other. We spoke over the phone a couple times, but I thankyou for your sacrafice, loyalty and dedication, Semper Fi. It's my pleasure to have met you, Laura and Jake. I think Lauren came after I left the Corps. Your friend, Commander Heriberto D. Zuniga, Nogales Police Department,
CPL 1st Battalion, 2nd Marines, 2MarDiv 1986-1990.
Great Memories......
Ronn Westmoreland
November 5, 2010
I always have a Jack and Coke during this time of year in your honor. Lynda ran in your memory and Uncle Roy's in the DC Marathon not too long ago. You are always in our thoughts, cousin.
Peggy Childers
November 4, 2010
To the family and friends of Gunnery Sgt. Darrell W. Boatman:
Remembering Darrell on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Rob Kurowski
November 4, 2010
Gunny,
Hard to believe it has been 5 years now. I still remember the day clearly, but more than that, I remember how you were bigger than life. You were a skilled professional that took great care of his Marines (and corpsmen), and your actions were inspiring and heroic and saved many lives. A 1stSgt I once worked with told me that "the essence of leadership is positive influence". You were - and continue to be - a positive influence for many people, myself included. Personally, you reinforced the lesson that being a good Marine is more than just being good at your job, but central to who you are. You brought a lot of spirit and energy to everything you did. For Darrell's friends and family, know he is not forgotten. He is respected and remembered.
Capps Laura
November 4, 2010
Five years....sounds like a long time.Weird, but I still remember the sound of your voice. I feel like I shouldn't miss you so much. I expect to see you on Friday afternoons, picking up the kids. When I hear a motorcycle drive up to a football game, I catch myself watching to see if your face is under the helmet shield. When Jacob is cutting up doing that happy dance(the on you perfected)while playing with the dog, my heart breaks at all the things you are missing.
I wish you could have been there when Lauren and Tony were married. Chuck tried to scare him, but he doesn't have your "SCARY FACE". Your first grandbaby is due to make an appearance in February. Lauren wants to name her Boaty Grace. She wants the baby to have part your name. Lets hope she has some of your charm. I know she would have had your heart wrapped around her tiny fingers whithin minutes. You always were a sucker for a little girl.
Rest easy, Darrell.
I wanted you to know that today and everyday you are missed and remembered.
Elaine Westmoreland
November 4, 2010
Five years. Just as much now as then, you'll be in our hearts.
Straker
November 3, 2010
Remembering and honoring a fine American. Darrell was a loyal, brave and trustworthy husband, father, son, brother and comrade in arms. Some men stand out from the crowd without even trying - some do great things with the years they are granted, and a very few manage to do both - Darrell Boatman was such a man, and while those who love him(and the country he served) are the poorer for his loss, we must also remember to be grateful for his time on earth.
God bless you Gunny, rest in peace.
Respectfully, Kim and Jim Straker, Doha, Qatar, GCC
GySgt Darrell W. Boatman
Michelle Boatman-Gravelle
November 3, 2010
Darrell,
5 years has passed and the love I have for you has never skipped a beat. You are with me always.
"We Remember"
"WE REMEMBER"
Michelle Boatman-Gravelle
November 3, 2010
Wendy Hibser
November 3, 2010
Gunny, I think of you every day & that million watt smile of yours. You were one of the greatest men I have ever met. I am a richer person for having had the priveledge of knowing you. You certainly were a character!! God Bless & Keep you.
Hip
Matt Cruise
November 2, 2010
Gunny, I can't believe that it has been 5 years already. I still carry your memory with me and wear your bracelet everyday. Michelle, I will be thinking about and praying for you and your family. God Bless
SGT GRAY
November 2, 2010
After all these years your still NOT FORGOTTEN!!
It was an honor & a privliage to have served with you.
Still NOT FORGOTTEN!!
SGT GRAY
November 2, 2010
Michelle Boatman-Gravelle
June 7, 2010
Darrell,
It seems like an eternity since I have seen your face or held your hand but I speak to you often and I know that you are there, you hear me and you are watching over me. My life is slowly coming back together, I am rebuilding the pieces of my heart one day at a time. A few years ago I never thought I could be so strong but it is an ongoing process. You are, and always will be with me. I miss you and love you my husband, my friend.
Kim Straker
November 16, 2009
Darrell Boatman: loving husband, father, brother, friend, outstanding Marine.
I watched a video clip of you doing a little dance on a dusty road in a country far from where you now lie. You were "just doing your job" as an EOD (and saving lives as a result)but the sheer exhuberance in that tiny clip showed me something of your attitude to life. All the photos on your memorial site show an amazing smile that clearly went along with your approach to life in all its forms.
Four years after your untimely passing, you continue to inspire both those who love you, those with whom you served and a whole new group of Marines who, like those of us not fortunate enough to know you in your lifetime are still motivated to try that little bit harder in our everyday lives. It's a privilege reading about you Gunny - may you rest in peace.
Lori Syphrit
November 5, 2009
How ironic things are....I was having a dream this morning that I was talking to you after all these years and you were laughing and asking me where I had been all this time. You told me you had been doing really well and that things had been tough for you for a while, but now they were better. I told you that things had been pretty tough for me lately at home and you gave me that BIG Darrell smile and told me everything had a reason and it would all work itself out. You were in a rush and took me by the hand and said you had to go. Before I could say anything, you had run off into a crowd and I couldn't find you anymore. I woke up crying. Later today, I realized it has been 4 years since you left us. Sometimes it feels like an eternity, others it feels like yesterday. I have thought about that dream all day and I wonder if it was really you? Did you reach out to me in my dreams? I miss you dearly. It's been one of those days where all I want to do is cry. It isn't my place to question why you were taken so soon, but it is always in the back of my mind. All I know is that my love for you is constant and never changing. You will always be that special someone in my heart. I miss you more everyday!
November 4, 2009
Our Son, Our Marine,
Four years ago today, my Son, I said "Good-bye" to you in the hospital of Germany,with a pack of "Rolo's" on the table. I could not understand why GOD would take you from us. Yes, we have 5 other children but, you were the one that was always there for us. We did not need to call you and ask you to come and help us do this or that. You always came and said Dad, what can I do to help? It may have been that your Dad wanted to build a storage shed or do some little thing around the house or maybe you would just spend time in the office talking, laughing just being together, while I was in the kitchen making, anyone of many, of your favorite foods. I remember one time just before a Hurricane you said you had to go to Elizabethtown to secure the old folks before you came back to Jacksonville and secured your own. You were always the one that would take care of things.
Nine months later your Father was taken from me. I have asked many times "Why" but I know GOD has a plan. As I sat in church last night I think I have finally forgiven him. I was so mad at him for taking both of you and leaving me here. I wanted to be with you two, and I know someday I will. I will also be in Arlington right next to both of you.
I know we have to move on and I am "happy" now or atleast happy as I can be. I thought the days of thinking that I saw you across the room were over but I realized just the other day that they are not. I was in the PX and I thought I saw you, as I was running to a young GI I realized that it was not you. So my Son, my Marine, you will always be a part of life here and there.
I love you, yesterday, today, and tomorrow.
Mom
October 7, 2009
I met a new patient of mine last night. He was an elderly gentleman who had fallen outside and hurt his hip. I could tell right away he was a former soldier..turns out he was a Marine. I listened to him tell his stories of days gone by and how he met his wife before he joined and how after 56 years they are still together. My thoughts drifted to you and I had to think back on those days when we were in high school, how you asked me to marry you and I came up with some foolish reason why I wouldn't, then you went to Basic. I'll never forget that day you came back and met me for lunch. My heart skipped a beat when you walked around the corner in your khakis and gave me that big smile everyone loved so much. I guess the Lord knows the things we can and cannot handle. I suppose he knew I could never have handled being married to one of the most wonderful guys in the world only to be cheated of beautiful golden years together. I think of you often and miss you dearly. I look forward to the day when I can watch you walk around the corner again and flash that beautiful smile. I'll never forget you. You were my first true love and will always have a special place in my heart!
Lori Syphrit-Tatum
Bradley Ausbrook
October 5, 2009
I worked with Gunny Boatman in Habbaniyah. I was with the the 135th Combat Eng. One of our soldiers was first to Gunny. He was a great man and a Great Marine, Semper Fi brother, from a former Devil Dog. 77-87
September 8, 2009
so many people miss you! we all do. i still remember the last time i saw you. you came to alabama to hang out with daddy and we rode thru the woods on the bikes.... and you tried to push me in the river. ha. i know exactly how he felt now. to lose his best friend. i bet he wishes he could talk to you all the time. actually i know he does. i was going thru the photo albums the other day and saw your wedding photo's. gah . me and daddy both miss you very much. Ashley and Keith Bailey
Elaine Westmoreland
June 25, 2009
Just the other day something came up - a water sport that looks intriging- and my first thought was, "Let's ask Darrell. I bet he'd do it!" And he would have.
Yes, you are missed and so often thought of.
Michelle "Boatman" Gravelle
June 24, 2009
June 25th, your 42nd Birthday!
I honor your life daily by remembering the man, husband and father you were and I often wonder of the man you would become as you aged gracefully beside me, maybe a few gray hairs, a new wrinkle or two and still keeping that beautiful smile! Still very handsome no doubt.
I am thankful for the life we shared together and I speak of you often. You are missed but will never be forgotten!
You will always be in my heart.
May 17, 2009
Jerri Barnes
December 9, 2008
A Thank You to a fallen hero from a grateful American. To the family: so sorry for you loss and I pray the peace of Jesus Christ is with you this holiday season.
With a grateful heart, much love and many blessings,
DENNIS GILBERT
November 11, 2008
BOATY, ANOTHER YEAR HAS PASSED. I WILL NEVER FORGET. JUST THE OTHER DAY I RECALLED WHEN WE WERE AT 29 PALMS EOD AND YOU HIT A STREET SIGN AND SMASHED THE WINDOW OF YOUR PICK UP. THOSE WERE THE GOOD TIMES. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
In Memory of Darrell ~ (Debra Estep)
November 6, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Darrell, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Laura Capps
November 4, 2008
Three days, three months, and now three years....the days keep adding up. I was told that it would be easier to accept as time past. Today, I still find myself waiting for you to call, asking what the kids are up to, or if you can come and pick them up this weekend. I still see all the welcome home banners, attached to the fence at Camp Lejeune, and wonder why it had to be you.
In this short time, you have missed so much. Both the kids graduating from High School, DJ graduating from college, and Lauren's many speeding tickets. (she is following in your heavy footsteps)
Know that today, and everyday there is a family that misses you.
Peggy Childers
November 3, 2008
To the family of Gunnery Sgt. Darrell W. Boatman:
Darrell gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Display at Boatman Advanced EOD Training Facility
November 3, 2008
Karen Nadasky
September 17, 2008
Dear Shelly,
I am SOOOOOOOOO VERY SORRY for your loss!!!! I never got to meet Darrell but I knew you and you are a good soul and I am truely sorry hun!!!! If you EVER need ANYTHING from me at all..........please call or contact me and I'll be there!!!! I will pray for you and your children!!!! I miss ya girlfriend!!!!!!! You STILL look the same...........beautiful and full of class!!!!! Take care ole friend............keep in touch please when you read this!!!!!! [email protected] or 419-499-2594...........love to hear from you............it's been 19+ years and still thinkin of ya!!!!!!
Sincerely,
Karen (Fisher) Nadasky
clifford warner
July 24, 2008
I was there with gunny and i willnever forget what he did those days with us he was a great man
Kenzie Derouen
July 7, 2008
uncle darrell
i know that i never really got to know you that well. but it is because of u that i found my dad Grant McJunkin. you mean the world to me and i know that you are watching over me in heaven. you are a beautiful person inside and out.. u are my true HERO.
the Buck family
June 1, 2008
To the family and friends of Gunnery Sgt. Darrell W. Boatman, our thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss. What he has done for our freedom will not be forgotten. May God bless and comfort your family.
Mary Ellen
May 26, 2008
Memorial Day 2008
Remembering one of our EOD Heroes.
Renee' Boatman Hunt
May 26, 2008
Today and always Darrell is thought of, loved, and missed more than I could ever express!
Yesterday, I was cleaning the mirror he made me a few years before he was killed, and I think I could have used all the tears that were streaming from my face as Windex! I will never forget the words he spoke to me when he gave me that mirror. Priceless!!!! As Darrell had a way with words.
You know what I have come to realize? The earliest memories tend to be the best!
Still one of my guys!
May 16, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Gunnery Sgt Boatman!
Mary Jo Eckstein
March 16, 2008
WOW!!! What a legacy this man left behind. As I read his book I can tell he was one heck of a man. To his family I say THANKS because of him my grandchildren will know that the freedom they know is because of GREAT MEN & WOMEN in the service. My prayers are with all of you.God Bless. Mary Jo
Debbie , Kenny Coffey
February 6, 2008
Our continued thoughts and prayers out to the BOATMAN family.Knowing now what they have always known is one of many reasons that our HERO[S] shall NEVER be forgotten.Rest well brother as was prommissed that star spangled banner shall FOREVER wave.Your name stamped in steel is FOREVER clutched in the tallons,as your spirit FOREVER soars high in the skies in the symbol of our great nation...THANK..YOU....All Hard Chargers**If you are wonded I will carry you**If you are captured I will come for you**If you are k.i.a. I will FOREVER reamber you**COME by NORTH**COME by SOUTH**COME by EAST**COME by WEST..We were all gathered and united on that great day as strangers.As we stood and upon those last [4] spoken words we are ...FOREVER..BROTHERS.....SEMPER.FI.....B.V.C.
Renee' Boatman- Hunt
January 30, 2008
I don't know why no one has written here about Darrell being laid to rest in Arlington with his best friend and father, but just thought that I would share it with anyone who was wondering how it went. I can tell you that it was extremely beautiful seeing them side by side. It was very difficult but at the same time, it gave a closing to something that was much needed. Now we all have a place to go if or when we need to feel close to them. I hope that if you get the chance you will go there and pay respect to not only Darrell and Roy Boatman, but all of those who have given their lives for our freedoms. Darrell you will always be remembered and loved beyond measure. With much love and respect, always your little sister,
Laura Capps
November 8, 2007
I can't beleive it has been two years. It all is so strange when I think about it. It seems like yesterday when we last saw you, but a lifetime ago since we got that call.
So much has happened. Lauren has turned into such a beautiful young woman. You always said she would be a knock out. I guess you were right. She definately has your personality. She knows how to turn on the charm when she needs it, and she never meets a stranger. Jacob has picked up where you left off, and is always trying to take care of everyone. Never complaining about being the go to guy. Having them with me,is like having a daily reminder of you. Somedays that includes the good, the bad, and the ugly.
You were always my sounding board, even when you didn't want to be. I never got the chance to say Thanks you for always listening.
I know that you and Roy are up there together watching out for the kids. That is the one thing that makes you being taken away from us bearable.
We all miss you more than words can describe.
DENNIS GILBERT
November 6, 2007
BOATY, THINKING OF YOU THIS VETERANS DAY. I'LL NEVER FORGET
DENNIS GILBERT EOD RETIRED
Elaine Westmoreland
November 5, 2007
As always, you'll be in my heart.
Lori Syphrit-Tatum
November 4, 2007
Not a day goes by that I don't think of you and what a wonderful person you truly were. Thank you for being a friend to me and the other people who's lives you have touched in some way or another. Thinking of you especially today when you moved on into the sunset. I hope you are resting in peace now.
I love you now and always.
Joyce Boatman
November 4, 2007
This is my first entry on this sight. How do I say how much I miss my son? Two years ago today I said good-bye to him, this was the hardest thing I have ever had to do. He stood by us, when ever we needed anything, grass cut, chair rail in the kitchen, quilt racks made for my walls or just securing the house when a hurricane was approaching.Of course he would eat us out of house and home when he came. It is funny but when Darrell went into the Marine Corp our grocery bill was actually cut in half. Anyone who knew Darrell, knew he loved to eat.
When Darrell died a part of me and my husband died too. We cried everyday. Roy would say when I cried he would hold me and when he cried I would hold him but Michelle had no one to hold her. I soon learned what that was like, nine months later my husband passed away. The only thing I can hold on to now is that I will see them again one day.
Today I clicked on to this book as I felt it was time to make an entry. I went to read the poems and this one has really helped me.
On Dec 3rd, Roy and Darrell's ashes will be placed side by side in Arlington. This is something I know they both would want. They will be together forever.
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
Michelle Boatman
November 3, 2007
November 4th marks the 2nd year anniversary of Darrell's death. Today the Boatman family and friends attended a ceremony in North Topsail Beach where Darrell has a street dedicated in his memory and we honored all veterans of our U.S. Armed Forces.Each and every day Darrell is loved and missed. We are so very proud of Darrell and for what he stood for, he was a wonderful human being with a heart full of love and a smile a big as the sky!I thank God for people like him who serve our country, past and present, they are who keep this nation free. Rest in peace Darrell, you are always in my heart and I cherish the memories we shared together.
November 2, 2007
Theresa Bracewell-Murphy
September 9, 2007
I just left a brief message on another site, but would like to leave my condolences here as well. It's been 2 years since the loss of your loved one, but I've just learned of it today. I was good friends with Darrell in high school and even then he made such an impression that I looked him up a few times since 1985. Imagine the sadness when I find him this way. I'm not surprised to read that he has a loving family and good friends...even back in 84-85 his smile and sweet demeanor made a lasting impression. There is someone mourning Darrell in Florida today. God bless you all.
August 19, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
My Grandfather and Grandmother, they both loved him so much
August 6, 2007
Lauren Boatman
August 6, 2007
It seems like years since I've seen my dad, felt the radiance that he just eluminate at even the darkest of times. But, after reading all of the enrtries here words can't express how happy it makes me to see that after almost 2 years people continue to leave little memories or condolances about my dad. No one can truly know how great my father was. He taught me so much. But he never let me forget that even though I was 15 I would always be his "his angel", well maybe now he can be mine. To everyone that has left some kind of condolance to our family I truly thank you. Though I'll never have my "big smiling security blanket", your thoughts, memories, and prayers have been a great comfort.
I love you daddy...
I'll be seeing you.
July 24, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Gunnery Sgt Boatman and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Aunt of a Marine deploying soon
Elaine Westmoreland
June 25, 2007
In our hearts, as always.
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