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Mari
June 27, 2024
Missing you
Gina Brassfield
November 30, 2021
I have been sitting here for over an hour reading Joshua’s guest book. I loved reading the words of so many that thanked him for giving all. And how so many remember that beautiful smile! We think of him all the time. I say we because my children and my grand children talk about him all the time. We want them to know what an amazing, kind, handsome hero he is. “Our Marine with wings!” Love you and miss you!
Mari
August 16, 2021
Thinking of you always
Becca
December 15, 2020
Still thinking of you Joshua.. thank you for your service, May you be RIParadise Soldier
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Brad Iverson
February 23, 2015
To josh's family: I had the honor of serving alongside your son for his first two years as a marine. I had the gift of getting to know him during that time. He always had that infectious smile on his face. I am a better person having known him.
Josh, here's to you. We'll meet again someday. I think about you all the time.
Ivan Montes
November 2, 2014
Josh....you are not forgotten. I think about you daily, you were always a great friend and we all miss you.
Levi
April 18, 2014
Just want you to know those in your hometown haven't forgotten your sacrifice, even if we were too young to know you. RIP Marine
Tyler Martie
August 1, 2013
I'm trying to get into contact with Joshua's family. I have a couple pictures I found on an old laptop hard drive that I think they would really appreciate. I can be reached on Facebook, just search my name.
I miss him everyday. I have a memorial bracelet that never leaves my wrist, and plan on getting him commemorated with a tattoo.
Josh, I love you, brother. Keep watch over us, and all our brothers still there. We'll meet again.
June 13, 2013
I just wanted to let you haven't forgotten. I think about you all the time. i know you're in a better place now. I miss you. Josh you will never be forgotten!
Matthew Askren
June 3, 2013
Joshua and I were in the same boot camp platoon together. I hope his family understand how much his sacrifice means to his brothers in arms.
Charlie Gili
March 31, 2013
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also to let the Alonzo Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in Afghanistan. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and photo of your loved one. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
April 20, 2012
Our family thanks Lance Cpl Joshua Alonzo for his service to his country.
Peggy Childers
November 22, 2011
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Joshua C. Alonzo:
Please accept my remembrance of Joshua on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
L Greene
September 11, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. May LANCE CPL.JOSHUA C. ALONZO rest in peace and you find comfort in knowing that he is. My thoughts and prayers are with JOSHUA and your family. Remembering JOSHUA this Sept. 11 2011.Thank You an American HERO!~GOD BLESS~
Julio Rodriguez
August 30, 2011
To the families of our American Heroes,
I want to thank each of you for your personal
sacrifices on behalf of my family and America.
May God comfort your souls and bring peace in
your hearts that your loss is not in vain.
God Bless our valiant warriors families in the
ages to come.
RIP courageous ones!
Psalm 25:20
Julio Rodriguez
MSgt USAF (Ret)
Vietnam 64,65,66,68-69
Jeannie Perry
May 27, 2011
Thanks Lance Cpl. Alonzo.
Peggy Childers
November 22, 2010
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Joshua C. Alonzo:
Remembering Joshua on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Elizabeth Raab
June 5, 2010
Your legacy will forever live on in the hearts of those who knew you and shared in your struggle to protect our country and the ultimate sacrifice you gave so that we can be grateful for what we have. Your family, friends, loved ones and fellow soldiers will stay in my thoughts and prayers.
A Proud Military Mom.
May 31, 2010
Another emotional Memorial Day - we will always honor you and miss you everyday. We love you so much. Aunt Rita & family
May 31, 2010
Chris we love and miss you. I love you so much. Love,
Aunt Rita
Kenna Larra
March 2, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
February 21, 2009
February 21, 2009
Maj M. B. Parlor
February 21, 2009
Devil Dawg:
May Your Soul Rest - In - Peace.
Semper Fi,
"Major Pain"
In Memory of Joshua ~ (Debra Estep)
November 22, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Joshua, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
June 15, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Lance Cpl Alonzo!
The Buck family
May 3, 2008
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Joshua C. Alonzo, our thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss. what he has done for our freedom will not be forgotten. May God comfort and bless your family.
Dennis & Pam Robertson
November 27, 2007
It is hard to believe that it has been a year since we received the call about Jimmy, Joshua & Heath. They were such brave young marines. I thank them for giving their lives so that we can have our freedom. I pray that God is able to help you ease the burden of your loss. We pray every day for the families of the soldiers and marines that lost thier lives and for the soldiers and marines that are still over there. Thank you for raising such a fine young man.
SEMPER FI Lance Cpl Joshua C. Alonzo
Aunt & Uncle of Lance Cpl James R. Davenport
November 25, 2007
Joshua C.ALONZO**James R. Davenport**Heath Warner**For our fallen Brothers,We shall FOREVER stand in REMEMBRANCE..SEMPER..FI...B.V.C.
Jim & Ida Warner--Heath's Grandparents
November 22, 2007
Dear Alonzo Family: Today is a bittersweet day for your family, the Davenport family and our family as we remember this the first anniversary of their being taken from our families.They are walking on God's street where there are no tears nor pain. As we all are still walking through the grieving process. We thank Joshua, James, and Heath for the ultimate sacrifice they made of giving of their lives. All three remain forever in our hearts and will not be forgotten. We salute you three young Marines. We pray for all those who have lost their lives and those still serving and those veterans who have served, so that we can remain a free nation. We salute you all! God Bless America. Semper Fi !!
Debbie , Kenny Coffey
November 22, 2007
Our continued thoughts and prayers out to the ALONZO family ,Knowing now what they have always known is one of the many reasons that our HEROES shall NEVER be forgotten.Rest well brother as prommised that star spangled banner shall FOREVER wave,Your name stamped in steel shall be FOREVER clutched in the tallons,And your spirit shall FOREVER soar high in the skies in the symbol of our great nation..THANK YOU.For all Hard Chargers, COME by NORTH--COME by SOUTH--COME by EAST--COME by WEST ,We were all gathered and united on that great day as strangers and upon those last [4] spoken words we are FOREVER..BROTHERS!!!.......B.V.C.
Eva Vandiver
November 9, 2007
We have not forgotten you and the sacrifice you and your family have made.I remember you when you were a little boy at Green Acres Elementary. Our family went to Mrs. Davis's Veteran's Day program last night as you were honored. You will always be remembered as a sweet boy with a big heart.
October 3, 2007
To a hero:
THANK YOU so much for all that you have done. You were truly a angel on earth.My sympanthy to the whole family. And thank you for allowing us to contiune to have this freedom that we get to enjoy each and every day. For every fallen soldier there is a star in the heavens and I will countiune to bow my head and pray.
R.I.P Angel
August 16, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 3, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Lance Cpl Alonzo and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Melissa Warner
June 14, 2007
Dearest Alicia,
What an honor it has been to get to know you,as our son,s went to heaven together. Thankyou for your son,s sacrifice. We love you and may God bless you! Proud mommy of
Pvt. Heath warner, Melissa
Bert Holler
May 29, 2007
We are so sorry for your loss. Joshua was a hero in the finest tradition of the United States Marine Corps. We also have lost a soldier. Spec. Nicholas P. Brown was KIA on January 22, 2007 in Mosul, Iraq. We feel such a mixture of pain and pride. Please accept our prayers and sympathies during these hard times. We thank Joshua for his service to the country he loved so much. Thank you,
Robyn Garside
April 5, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Susie Lander-Meroniuk
March 18, 2007
My condolences to the Alonzo family. My nephew Christopher Riviere was also part of the 2/3. He and Joshua are up in heaven and are now our guardian angels. May God Bless you during this time of loss.
Susie Lander-Meroniuk, Las Vegas
Casey Wyle
February 7, 2007
Im Sorry About Josh..I Did not know him..my borther is in 2/3 and im sure that my brother knew him..may he rest in peace..Semper Fi Marine
Debbie Braden- Verrett
February 4, 2007
Im so sorry for the loss of this young Marine. My son is with 2/3 . We morn the loss of his brother LCpl Alonzo. May God comfort you all.
Amber Gutierrez
February 1, 2007
I was so sorry when I heard about Joshua's death. It was so hard for me when my mom told me that my cousin was killed in Iraq. He was the best cousin in the world. I am so sorry i only had 13 years to get to know him, but I will alwyas remember those 13 years and how close we got to know each other. He was a very good person,and he could get along with anybody. I love him and he will always have a huge spot in my heart.
Lee Sirotnak
January 26, 2007
Please accept our deepest sympathy for your loss. Your family is in our prayers, that the Lord provide you peace and comfort. Joshua will live on in the hearts of those who knew him, and also in the hearts of those of us who did not know him, but honor him for his courage and sacrifice. Semper Fi and God Bless.
Leah Frakes
January 21, 2007
Alonzo Family,
Joshua was a good friend of ours. My husband, you may know him as "Frakes", was stationed with him when they were in Afghanistan. All of Austin's pictures and stories have Josh in them. We miss him deeply and are grieving with you. Thank you. You raised an amazing young man. His memory continues to be a blessing to our family.
Love,
Leah and Austin Frakes
Chris Ruiz
January 19, 2007
To the family of josh,
I send my deepst sorries to you. Josh was a good man and a great friend. I knew him for a short while but he always had a smile on his face. Take care
Anna Cunningham
January 19, 2007
To the family of Joshua Alonzo:
I send my deepest sympathies to the family of Joshua Alonzo. I went to school with him in Dumas, Texas and graduated and I have to say that he was a very kind person and I thank him for the courage he had to go over there and fight for all of us. God is with him everyday now.
AUNT DELORES ALONZO
January 13, 2007
HAVEN WILL NEVER BE THE SAME WHEN YOU GET THERE YOU R ONE OF A KIND YOU DID THE FAMILY PROUD
Glen Nevogt
January 7, 2007
“Paid in Full”
In Honor of The War Against Terrorism’s Fallen and Injured Marines
Marines through and through, they paid the price
Six thousand miles away, we live the life
For which they paid with their blood, spirits and bodies
We will never forget what they paid in full
We hope and we pray that somehow their loved ones find comfort
In God, in the flag, in the memory of their loved ones’ bravery
They’re gone now but we see them still…proud, strong, willing
Covering each other’s backs… courageous, moving forward
What kind of love did they have for us to be willing
To give it all for the Black, White, Jew, Christian, Muslim?
We don’t comprehend but we honor you now and forever
You are Our Marines…some living…some not
Forever in our minds we will cherish your lives
Lives too short yet immortal they’ll be
Highest brotherhood of the few, the proud
They stand at attention, and we gaze with awe
Some know their names not, but our admiration for them
Flows limitless within us, between us
They sacrificed their limbs or their lives
Freedom still rings, a soft sound across the miles
It tolls slowly; all of creation takes note
Of the lives that were lost for people unknown
Out of sight but not lost; forever among us
The starched blues marching straight
Toward the place where we will meet them
Many years from now…how we loved them…
Well done beloved Brothers and Sisters…You’ve paid it in full
Always Faithful Marines, You Have Paid it in Full
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
January 3, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Alonzo family in the loss of Joshua. I did not know Joshua, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Joshua you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Jennifer borden
December 31, 2006
Alonzo Family..My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Nyi nyi Sett
December 27, 2006
To the family of Lance Cpl. Joshua C. Alonzo- I will be praying for you all. I am thankful for the freedom. Lance Cpl. Joshua C. Alonzo was in the same Unit with one of my friends.
Cordy Diaz
December 15, 2006
To the family of Lance Cpl. Joshua C. Alonzo, My Deepest Sympathy and Condolences for the loss of your loved one. He will never be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Linda Metzger
December 13, 2006
I am so very sorry for your loss. I am the grandmother of Pvt. Warner who died with your son. I can certainly feel all the pain you are feeling. Please accept our deepest sympathy. I pray that God holds you in the palm of his hand and comforts you.
L . Metzger
(private Warner's Nanny)
Claire Zawistowski
December 11, 2006
Dear Alonzo Family,
Even though we have never met, I feel as if we are a part of a "family". My daughter's fiancee was killed by a IED in Iraq on 10/3/05. It is my prayer that you will feel God holding you as close to His heart as He has held my family this past year. May you know God's comfort and peace as you travel down this difficult road.
Steffani Fowler
December 11, 2006
Lance Cpl. Joshua C. Alonzo
I still remember the first time I met you when you graduated with Andy at SOI. You were so funny and full of life. I will miss you so much although I didn't know you that well but you still have a special place in my heart. RIP Josh..
LCpl.
December 6, 2006
I loved working with Alonzo. He was a great Marine and an awesome friend. He brought a lot to our unit and is greatly missed. I pray for his family everyday and know this must be extremely hard. May God bless you all.
Sergeant USMC
December 5, 2006
I never worried with Alonzo covering my backside. May you feel the peace and comfort that he did his job well and was taken in God's time. His loss is felt deep.
Yea thou he walked...
Rick & Cathy Robidoux
December 4, 2006
Please accept our family’s heartfelt sympathy for your loss. Your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Marine Parents of
LCPL Craig Robidoux &
LCPL Derek Robidoux
Gary Allain
December 3, 2006
Lance Cpl. Joshua C. Alonzo
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
Susan Holbrook
December 3, 2006
While I didn't know Joshua, I wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with your family. From the Tributes it sounds like he was a very special person and will be missed greatly. I had sons to served in Iraq and I can only imagine the sadness your family is going through. My sincere smypathy and prayers are extended to you and your family in this tragic loss of your love one. I also send my deepest respect to your love one for the sacrifice that he gave in serving his country. May God wrap HIS arms around you and comfort you.
Yolanda Valdez
December 1, 2006
To the Family of LCpl Joshua C. Alonzo:
We understand what you are experiencing and feeling. No amount of words can ease the pain of your loss. We know firsthand there are no words of comfort at this time. We lost our only son 9~3~2004 at the age of 19 and it fells like yesterday. Just know that there are Marine families across the USA who is experiencing your loss and pain.
May he rest in peace knowing that he was loved and remembered by those who knew him as well as strangers who admired his courage and sacrifice. My deepest condolences, sympathy and prayers go out to the entire family. May God grant you peace, strength and comfort. I will keep your family in my prayers along with all the families of our American Hero’s. Another Fallen Hero ~~~ Thank you.
Joshua ~ My family and I are thankful for the Bravery, Courage, Determinination and Service to fight for our country (our freedom), from you, my son and all the others in our armed forces for the sacrifice made for us. You all will not be forgotten.
We also have a Marine daughter and Marine son-in-law. I still fly my Marine flag and have my Marine tag and sticker on my vehicles because I'm PROUD of my SON and ALL THOSE MARINE MEN and WOMEN out there. I will always be a Marine. We are proud of all of you. “Land of the Free, Because of the Brave”
Once a Marine, Always a Marine!
Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!
Proud Marine Parents of an American Hero
(LCpl. Nicholas S. Perez – KIA 9~3~04 – Al Anbar Province, Iraq)
Pam & Dennis Robertson
December 1, 2006
To the family of Lance Cpl Joshua C. Alonzo. Our newphew Lance Cpl James R. Davenport was also killed the samed day. Please accept our sympathies to you and the other marine who died in this incident. These boys are true hero's as they fight for our freedom. We say prayers for all the men and women who are in the service. We will keep your family in our prayers.
Joseleen Katigbak
November 30, 2006
My sincerest condolences. I will be praying for you and your family during this difficult time. My son Joe is in the same platoon as your son. He grieves for your son and has been praying for your family. My heart goes to your family. Joshua will always be remembered. Thank you for son, he served for our country and for our freedom. In God we pray, Joseleen (Bluestarmom)
Don Elseroad
November 30, 2006
In recognition of Lance Corporal Joshua C. Alonzo's Honorable Service in the United States Marine Corps, the Tri-Cities Tennessee, Detachment Number 969 of the Marine Corps League would like to extend our appreciation and gratitude for his service to God, Country and Corps as well as our sincere condolences to his family.
SEMPER FIDELIS
Don Elseroad
Junior Vice Commandant
MCL Detachment #969
Trudy Lowe
November 29, 2006
My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.
Joshua and April Morales
November 29, 2006
To Joshua's family and friends-
My family and I are praying for you and your family during this difficult time. We send our deepest empathy as we lost our Marine on 11/30/05 in Fallujah. We are comforted to know that our Marines are serving their country with such honor and bravery. We are so proud of our Marines and all of our other service men and women for all that they have done and continue to do to keep us safe and to give us the freedom we have that so many take for granted.
They are true Heroes and need to always be remembered for their selflessness and sacrifice to better our world. We will forever be united in the loss of our heros. We are so sorry for your loss and hope our words will ease some of the pain, and maybe fill some of your emptiness.
Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!
Our sincerest gratitude for their bravery-
The family of Cpl. William "Billy" Taylor
2/6 WPNS
KIA outside of Fallujah 11/30/05
Garnet Jenkins
November 28, 2006
My Deepest and most heartfelt sympathy goes out to the family of Lance Cpl. Joshua C. Alonzo.
The price this young Marine and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
There is so much thanks to be given, to these young heroes, for their Courage, Service and Dedication.
May Joshua rest safely in God's Care and may God's Loving Comfort and Grace be with the Alonzo family.
I am the sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago.
May you find strength in your faith, comfort in God's love, and peace in knowing this country is praying for you.
"Wait on the Lord, be of good courage and He shall strengthen your heart"
Psalm 27:14
Renee Owens
November 28, 2006
Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your Hero, and my sincere thanks for his service. May God grant you peace.
The Land of the Free, Because of the Brave
In memory of PFC Chase Edwards, USMC
KIA 4-6-06
November 28, 2006
To the Family of Lance Cpl. Joshua C. Alonzo:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
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