Staff Sgt. Hector R. Perez

Staff Sgt. Hector R. Perez

Hector R. Perez Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 28, 2005.
When Staff Sgt. Hector R. Perez was sent to Iraq in March at the start of the war, his family would anxiously gather around the television hoping to catch a glimpse of him on the news. As the months went on and soldiers kept dying, the only person still watching was Perez''s father. Esequial Perez, a World War II veteran, would sit quietly in his wheelchair and hold out hope that his son would return home. Hector Perez, 40, of Corpus Christi, Texas, was killed July 24, when his convoy was ambushed. "I was always proud, ever since he was a little boy," said Esequial Perez, 77, as he cried softly. "He was always a good boy, always joking and playing around." Hector Perez, who had been married to Elisa Perez for nearly 17 years, is survived by daughters Marla, 14, Elisa, 13, and Lily, 4. "Men like him, men like my dad, are the reason for the freedoms that we all share. Remember that he was a hero," said Perez''s sister, Rosa Anna Garza.

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May 23, 2020

1SG Christopher Cappel posted to the memorial.

April 9, 2015

Ben Roper posted to the memorial.

March 18, 2013

Maria Whiston posted to the memorial.

1SG Christopher Cappel

May 23, 2020

Thinking about you this Memorial Day. I miss you brother.
Until we form again....

Ben Roper

April 9, 2015

Staff Sgt. Hector Perez will be remembered and honored at the College Station City Council meeting on April 9, 2015.

Maria Whiston

March 18, 2013

I light this candle for you Hector and for all your family. May the Spirit of God continue to shine in their hearts and guide them through their healing. God bless you always and may God be present in the lives of all your girls!!!!

Peggy Childers

July 28, 2012

July 24, 2012
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Hector R. Perez:
Always remembering Hector. "Some gave all."

Peggy Childers

July 24, 2011

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Hector R. Perez:
Please accept my remembrance of Hector on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

marla perez

August 27, 2010

hi daddy its me marla,

i miss you so much daddy...there is not a day that has gone by that i do not think of you. its been a constinet battle in my mind and in my heart. i sumtimes still think you are out on a misson and one day u will just come to our door and say im home, no one around here really to talk to about this but mom and even then i know she is hurting to and cannot tell me much. but i do want you to know that we are okie and happy :) we never forgett what you did for us daddy and i wish i could have told you how much i loved you dad. you were not just my dad but my bestfriend, and sometimes i think im the only one that hurts for you as much as i do. to this day alot of crayness has happend and i know the only reason im still alive is because you have been looking over me.

i love u dad so so much.

your pee-weee,

MARLA

Peggy Childers

July 25, 2010

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Hector R. Perez:
Remembering Hector on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Gracie Garza

November 4, 2009

I knew Hector a long time ago and I just want to say that he was an amazing person. He was courageous, kind hearted, bold and adventerous. May God Bless him and his family. I will see you in Heaven.

Peggy Childers

July 24, 2009

To the family of Staff Sgt. Hector R. Perez:
Hector gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Christopher Cappel

August 30, 2008

Im so sorry for your loss.I knew Hector back when he was with 1/187 inf.We were in kosovo together.He was my friend.I was really sad to learn about what happened.I wear a KIA bracelet with his name on it.I will never forget him he was an awesome person and a kind soul.
"Go easy brother" I'll see you again someday.

In Memory of Hector ~ (Debra Estep)

July 24, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Hector, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

R Collis

July 18, 2008

It is difficult to know what to say since I want to express my sincere sympathy to the family and friends of Staff Sgt Perez. Please know that your loved one is not forgotten. I wish everyone impacted by this tragic loss strength and peace. I hope that Staff Sgt Perez knew that there are people in America who respect his great courage in serving as a member of the US military. Although I do not know him, I know that he must have been a very special person to be willing to do something that most Americans will never have to experience, and for that we can never say thank you enough.
Thank you Staff Sgt Perez!

Rob

May 25, 2008

Hey buddy drinking a cold one with you this special day.Ellisa , the kids and your family are in my prayers.Will see you again some day.

March 22, 2008

I want to express my sympathy to the family and friends of Staff Sgt Perez. Although most Americans will never experience your sacrifice, please know that there are people who truly care about your loss! May God bless you all.

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

December 31, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy to the Perez family in the loss of Hector. I did not know Hector, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you.Hector it has been over 4 years since you were taken. Please know that you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

November 18, 2007

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Staff Sgt Perez!

August 5, 2007

I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

July 6, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Staff Sgt Perez and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless you all!!

Linda Flannery

June 3, 2007

Honoring one of America's heros. May your famiy find comfort in their loving memories and know all of America shares in their sorrow and in their pride. My flag flies in your memory.

Shawn Haskins

May 12, 2007

You helped me get through so many bad times over there. You always had a joke to bring up our spirits, even through the hardest duties. We followed where you lead, no matter what the difficulties. I miss you so much Hector, and I hope your resting peacefully now.

Gary Allain

March 1, 2007

Staff Sgt. Hector R. Perez
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.

Garnet Jenkins

July 25, 2006

Paying tribute to Staff Sgt. Hector R. Perez, with a Multitude of Thanks for his service and dedication to our country.

May you Rest Easy, in the Mighty Hands of God and know that you are Not Forgotten. May God's Grace and Comfort continue to be with the Perez family.

I am the sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago.



There is an inscription on a Gate at

Arlington National Cemetery that reads;

" Rest easy, sleep well my brothers.

Know the line has held, your job is done.

Rest easy, sleep well.

Others have taken up where you fell, the line has held

Peace, peace, and farewell..."

JONATHAN LUTGENS

August 30, 2005

YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS OFTEN, ONLY A SELECT FEW OF OUR BAND OF BROTHERS WILL EVER KNOW OF OUR SCARIFICES ... YOURS THE ULTIMATE. GOD BLESS MY BROTHER AND SEE YOU ON THE HIGH GROUND. BUSHMASTER 27

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