Pfc. Richard W. Hafer

Pfc. Richard W. Hafer

Richard W. Hafer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 28, 2005.
Pfc. Rick Hafer''s love for his two half-sisters led him to join the Army, family members said. "His sisters were his whole life," said Sherry Barclay, his former stepmother, who raised him for much of his childhood. "He said when he left that he wanted to keep our home ground safe for them to live in." The 21-year-old was killed Nov. 15 when two Black Hawk helicopters collided in Iraq. He lived in Nitro, W.Va., and was based at Fort Campbell. He is survived by his father, Richard Hafer. At 6-feet-5-inches and 275 pounds, Hafer was known for his "commanding presence," 1st Sgt. Perry Bunn said. Hafer was a star defensive lineman in his Laurel Valley, Pa., high school, but poor grades kept him from entering college to play football. He hoped joining the Army would enable him to pursue his college football dream. "He wanted to prove to everybody that he could be somebody," Barclay said.

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February 15, 2014

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March 31, 2013

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matthew brafford

February 16, 2014

I will keep u in my heart

matthew brafford

February 15, 2014

Well Ricky ur kind words has helped me out throught my life u told me if u don't put your heart first u will hurt in the end. U was like my big brother and I miss u I hope too c u when I get there and thanks for all u have done for me u know what I'm talking about love u always my son is named after u and I have a Matt to so Matt and Ricky are always togeather

March 31, 2013

We remain grateful today for Richard Hafer, for his service and sacrifice for this Country.

Peggy Childers

November 15, 2011

To the family and friends of Pfc. Richard W. Hafer:
Please accept my remembrance of Richard on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Peggy Childers

November 15, 2010

To the family and friends of Pfc. Richard W. Hafer:
Remembering Richard on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Peggy Childers

November 16, 2008

To the family of Pfc. Richard W. Hafer:
Richard gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

In Memory of Richard ~ (Debra Estep)

November 15, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Richard, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

SSG Josh Forbess

November 13, 2008

"In 3 days, it will have been 5 years since I last seen or talked to you. I hope that I make you guys proud of what I do everyday not only by you, but what I try and do for other wounded Soldiers. I still fight with my guilt daily. I know that you are in a better place, but it still hurts. My love to you, and your family. "Comanche Pride""

A Smith

May 20, 2008

I personality knew Ricki and have seen and felt the impact of his departure. I think of him so very often and mourn for his family. It has been a while now but he is in my thoughts especially at football season when my boys play. When I stand and listen to our nation's anthem A tear comes to my eye and I ask him to watch over and keep the boys safe on the field and say just how much he is missed by all. Nitro WV is where he was deployed from but here in our little town in New Florence, Pa he is always our HERO.

Althea B

July 26, 2007

I want to thank you for your courage and bravery in standing up for what you believe in. May your soul rest in peace.

Garnet Jenkins

November 15, 2006

I am Deeply saddened to learn of the loss of Pfc. Richard W. Hafer, three years ago today.
The price this young hero and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
May Rick, rest safely in the Loving Care of God and may the Peace of the Lord continue to be with the Hafer family.
There will never be enough ways to humbly thank these heroes for their Supreme Sacrifice, my brother among them. KIA~Vietnam, 1967.

May you find Strength in your Faith,
Comfort in God's Love, and
Peace in knowing this country remembers Rick's Sacrifice.
I am deeply sorry for your loss.

Sandra parker

April 20, 2006

Pfc. Richard W. Hafer, you are somebody !!!! and you will always be remembered in my prayers for your ultimate sacrifice.

May God BLess You and Your Loved Ones!!!

Matt Thompson

November 19, 2005

To The Family Of Pfc. Richard W. Hafer,



My condolences and thanks to Pfc. Richard W. Hafer, and his family, for the ultimate sacrifice given by this courageous young man.



I am sure Pfc. Hafer knew what was at risk, and equally sure what he was risking his life for.



Words cannot express the sorrow, appreciation and thanks I have for the courage of a man that has helped preserve this nation created and blessed by God, and also enriched the lives of many peoples abroad.





Many Thanks, and May God Bless You All!

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