1st Lt. Joshua M Palmer
1st Lt. Joshua M Palmer
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Ana Escobedo
November 28, 2020
Happy birthday Joshua. You were an amazing friend to me. Your memory will forever live in my heart.
Ana
Brad Palmer
May 27, 2019
Miss you everyday brother. :(
Bill Barnes
May 26, 2019
Memorial Day 2019 is fast approaching and I just realized that I missed posting here on the 15th anniversary of Josh's sacrificial passing on April 8, 2004, old age is setting in and taking its' toll on my memory. along with some health issues that clouds my mind. Years ago I ran across this most precious "read" written by the wife of a fellow Marine who went through "The Basic School" at Quantico with Josh. I now post part of what she had to say because it expresses better than what I could ever say at this point in time, her words:
"This Memorial Day weekend, I will contemplate all that was lost when Josh was killed by an insurgent bullet. Our country and our world lost a great man who could have become a great husband, a great father, a great statesman.
But I will also appreciate all that was gained when Josh offered his life for his country. Our freedom, our way of life, goodness itself could only exist when those who have so much to offer in times of peace are willing to sacrifice all when peace is threatened."
Dave & Ellen Hedman
April 10, 2018
14 years, and you're forever 25 years of age, while Alex turned 39 on the day we lost the physical you. We speak of you so often, and you're in our hearts every day, and will be until we meet again. Your life set an example for all of us to strive to emulate. Your Christmas here with us is so easily recalled. Know that you were, and still are, loved deeply.
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Bill Barnes
April 8, 2018
14 years have now passed and this day still and will ALWAYS be a day of special remembrance of Josh, an honorable, noble and heroically brave man. Man, can this country use more of your kind of quality. May God's grace be of comfort to the Palmer family and friends in his absence.
Brad Palmer
May 27, 2017
Hey Joshua,
I miss you everyday brother. Thinking of our kids getting together. 4 wheeling in the desert. They say time makes everything better, but it doesn't. We used to run around the desert like wild animals. Having a good time. I'm sure there was an occasional fight, but what does family do. Lol. Anyways man. I appriciate everything you did. I look forward to hanging out again.
Brad
Bill Barnes
April 11, 2017
April 8th, 2017, it's now been 13 years since Josh's departure from this world. The memory of him still abides with me, especially on certain occasions such as memorial day, veterans day, when I hear the name Josh, etc. A picture of him in uniform is still my computer's desktop background. As I survey the world around us today, I'm reminded more than ever of his noble character; Josh was truly one special man.
Jarrad
May 25, 2015
Josh, thinking of you today. Semper Fidelis
May 8, 2015
Computer crashed and lost this site until now. As time passes(it's been 11 years on April 8th, 2015) and I age, the memory of Josh's good qualities and attributes still are fresh in my mind. He was a great man and hero extraordinaire; this world could sure use more of his type.
Bill Barnes, Canton,Ohio
May 8, 2015
Computer crashed and lost this site until now. As time passes(11 years on April 8th, 2015) and I grow older, the memory of Josh with all his good qualities and attributes is still fresh in my mind. He was one special guy and hero extraordinaire; this world could sure use more of his type.
Bill Barnes
April 13, 2014
It's been a decade, hard to believe. Josh's picture remains the focal point on our computer screen's wallpaper. I also have it as my avatar on a website forum where I do posting. It's not that I need a visual reminder for remembrance's sake, it's my way of honoring him for the great man that he was and for the inspiration he is for those who know the man and his sacrificial story. Sill remembering Josh though the years, and as long as I am of sound mind and have the physical ability to write, will continue to do so.
Bill Barnes
April 25, 2013
Now it's been 9 years, oh where has the time gone. As the time passes and events tend to fade into the background, still it would be remiss not to remember the person of 1st Lt. Joshua M. Palmer,USMC. Many things are going on in my family's and my life right now to the point I let this past April 8, 2013 slip by me. That doesn't mean I don't think of Josh from time to time; his picture is still the focal point on my "wallpaper" on my computer. It will remain there as a reminder and a dedication.
Dave & Ellen Hedman
April 10, 2012
Eight years ago we learned of Josh's death. He lives on in our hearts as forever 25. May Josh's family know and feel the love we send their way every day.
Bill Barnes
April 8, 2012
Another year has gone by and yet heartfelt thoughts of Josh Palmer linger on. April 8, is now itched in my mind as well as any notable date in my life. My hope and prayer is that the loved ones of 1st Lt. Palmer know that there are those out here who will never forget what a noble and honorable man he was.
Peggy Childers
April 19, 2011
April 8, 2011
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Joshua M. Palmer:
Please accept my remembrance of Joshua on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Bill Barnes
April 8, 2011
It's been 7 years now; seems like an eternity at times, then only a yesterday at other times. As I look around the world and its' happenings, I yearn for those not with us any longer who are much needed to help lead us onto a higher road; Josh always come to mind when such thoughts arise. It is said that "time heals all wounds"; if longings are a wound, then mine are yet to be healed. YOU are truly missed Josh Palmer.
L Neal
March 20, 2011
To the family of 1st Lt. Joshua M. Palmer:
Please know that just as your loved one remains in your hearts and minds; his sacrifice, and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.
April 17, 2010
Noble Josh, I may be several days late on commemorating the 6th year of your passing, but my feeble mind has not forgotten YOU at all. Memory of you is like the North Star, it's always there shining.
Bill Barnes
Peggy Childers
April 9, 2010
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Joshua M. Palmer:
Remembering Joshua on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Brad Palmer
December 25, 2009
Merry Christmas Joshua. We all love and miss you.
Kenna Larra
October 29, 2009
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Sincerely and Respectfully,
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Bill Barnes
April 11, 2009
Five years(April 8, 2004) and I still tears-up at times thinking of you and all the noble qualities your life encompassed. One of those quality was your ability to inspire and bring out the best in those whom you got to know; I think you felt anything less than 100% was depriving one's self of their full potential. You were truly born to be a leader. A picture of you in your dress uniform has been my computer desktop wallpaper for going on 4 years; it's my way of honoring you.
ALL GAVE SOME, AND SOME GAVE ALL
P.S. I originally posted this on April 8, but forgot we are not allowed to use copyrighted works which I did, and so I amended it to this version.
Peggy Childers
April 11, 2009
To the family of 1st Lt. Joshua M. Palmer:
Joshua gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
R Collis
July 28, 2008
It is difficult to know what to say since I want to express my sympathy to the family and friends of 1st Lt Palmer. Please know that your loved one is not forgotten. I wish everyone impacted by this tragic loss strength and peace. I hope that 1st Lt Palmer knew that there are people in America who respect his great courage in serving as a member of the US military. Although I did not know him, I know that he must have been a very special person to be willing to do something that most Americans will never have to experience, and for that we can never say thank you enough.
Thank you 1st Lt Palmer!
Bill Barnes
April 8, 2008
It has now been 4 years since your departure from this world and still, my thoughts and feelings toward you have not wained, nor shall they ever. The first time I met you was a defining point in my life because I saw all the good and noble qualities that you embodied. In this world there's a need for the higher road that few take; your life serves as an example. You are truly one in a million. May God's grace comfort all those close to you; and let us not forget that we can cry with hope because as believers we will someday be face to face again, God promised us that.
Safely Home
Michael Iezzi
April 8, 2008
Joshua,
Thinking and praying for you on the 4th anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends", John 15:13.
Debra Estep
April 8, 2008
To the family and friends of Joshua.
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers today.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Joshua, but he is my hero.
xo xo
Deb
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
March 24, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you 1st Lt Palmer!
Michael iezzi
November 9, 2007
Father we entrust our brother Joshua to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Joshua in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.
July 29, 2007
If this person can stand in battle to ensure my freedom, then I will stand in grief with his/her family to honor him/her. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Le Ron A. Wilson (a dear friend KIA 7/6/07, 18yrs old) that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett (Queens, NY)
July 9, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by 1st Lt Palmer and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Aunt of a Marine
Dave & Ellen Hedman
June 19, 2007
Joshua,
You are one of the best human beings we have ever known. Your sweet mom, Jackie, told me that one of her greatest concerns was that you will be forgotten with the passing of time. I think not. Anyone who has ever known you will never forget the young man with the wonderful heart, the strong will to do the right thing, the playfulness and happy grin, the sharp inquisitive mind, the unusual patriotic bend of one so young, and the happiness people felt while in your company. We thank you, and God, for watching over our Marine son, your forever friend Alex, while he served in Iraq these past 9 months. He is safely on USA soil once again. You are a forever kind of guy, Joshua. We miss and love you, daily are reminded of you, and want to assure your mom and Gramma that we plan to be in your happy company again someday. Do they play "Hearts" in Heaven, too?? Dave and Ellen Hedman (Jaffrey, NH)
Palmer, 1st Lt. Joshua M
June 13, 2007
Arthur Willis Jr.
June 13, 2007
Lt. Palmaer
On this day I had breakfast in your mons Resturant in Banning CA "The Farm House Restaurant" and myself and my Family truly appreciate the great Sacrifice you have made to make our country secure. May God be with you Always. Art Willis CDR USN Retired.
Bill Barnes
April 10, 2007
Hard to believe it has been 3 years since your departure; it seems like only yesterday, mainly due to the fact that I think of you often and recall what an influence you have made on my life. You will NEVER be forgotten; your spirit lives on in the memories of many.
Garnet Jenkins
April 8, 2007
May the Peace of God and the memories of 1st Lt. Joshua M. Palmer, remain in your heart always.
Please know how deeply sorry I was, to learn of the loss of this Brave Young Marine.
A Multitude of Thanks, for his Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
Those who Made this Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them. Killed in action in Vietnam in 1967.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends." - John 15:13
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
John Nieblas
December 5, 2006
Joshua, you touched alot of lives and you are still missed by your friends and family. I know that your younger cousins were really thrilled to be present when President Bush awarded your Mom your bronze star. You will always be in our thoughts and prayers. Love always Uncle Rusty
David & Ellen Hedman
November 18, 2006
Our Marine son and Josh were best friends at USD and at Quantico, hiking, mt. biking, and Jeeping around the country together. Alex brought him home for Christmas, 2002, where we grew to know and love this very special young man. He was playful and fun, helpful, appreciative, very knowledgeable about most anything that came up, dedicated to his country and its ideals, played joyfully in the snow and on the ice with us (mostly new to a southern Californian!), and when they left for Quantico in early January 2003, it would be the last time we would see him, except for a brief hello in April in Quantico. He was very focused and training hard for his military job. Sadly, Josh was killed on our son's 25th birthday. When we discussed that we wanted Josh to be Alex's personal Guardian Angel, Alex said that might not be a good idea, since it was often Josh who led the two of them into the hairiest situations! But we dismissed that, and truly believe that with Josh and God watching over our Marine son as he now serves in Iraq, he is truly in good hands. Joshua is unforgettable. Love from Ellen and Dave Hedman
Victoria Schear
April 8, 2006
Today is April 8 2006 two years since Josh passed on. I did not know him but I wear a bracelet bearing his name and the date he died. I have read the messages of those who did know him and feel I have come to know him through their words. I am honored to wear this rememberance of him and I think often of his dear life. God bless you forever Josh.
Bill Barnes
March 29, 2006
I first met Lt.Palmer at the Quantico Marine Base during Warrior Day in 2003. Our daughter at that time had established a close relationship with Josh while both were in officer training at Quantico. I made a unwise choice during one of the Warrior Day events and broke my right foot while atempting to make a jump off of a 10ft wall on the obstacle course. Josh was the first to come to my aid. He ran quite a far distant in order to procure me a set of crutches; his concern for my well-being during the rest of my time there never diminished. It appeared to me then, and even more so now, that here was a man who was not only strong in his convictions but also he is a man with the gift of the giving of himself for the sake of helping those in need. If I live to be 100 yrs old, I will NEVER forget this hero. No matter what the outcome of this war turns out to be, his life and sacrifice will not be in vain because of the lives he has forever touched; his example has encouraged me to be a better man.
"ALL GAVE SOME, AND SOME GAVE ALL"
Renee Ayres
June 23, 2005
Josh
Just wanted to let you know we miss you. We have your photo here in the house. We will never forget you.
Laura Gilbert
March 22, 2005
Our nation is more secure because of the courage and the willingness of this brave man to serve our country. Forever in your debt. With Love, Laura "Some people wonder all their life if they have made a difference. Marines don't have that problem"... Ronald Reagan
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