Tommy L. Gray Obituary
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Ricky C. Jones
March 18, 2024
If this is the Tommy L. Gray that I am met in Germany in 1990. I want to share may Condolences. He and I was in a Bible Study group in Germany. I was a Quarter Master and he was a MLRS Mechanic.
Charlie Gili
March 8, 2016
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Gray Family know that we recently made a small donation to the St. Gregory the Great Care Package Drive in honor of Tommy L. Gray US Army Sergeant. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
April 21, 2013
In memory of Sgt. Tommy Gray. He has never been forgotten.
Peggy Childers
August 3, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Tommy L. Gray:
Please accept my remembrance of Tommy on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
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Pamela Wiscombe
August 21, 2010
Thank you so much for your service to this country. We are sad for your loss and hope you know that we will never forget you. You served in honor and in grace to protect our great country. May you find peace and comfort. Thank-you so much for my freedom.
Peggy Childers
August 3, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. Tommy L. Gray:
Remembering Tommy on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
September 11, 2009
”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,750 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Mothers of our heroes, please be aware that the Project Compassion sponsors will now help cover the costs of the portraits for you to have one - regardless if the spouse of the hero has one or not!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna
Project Compassion
P.O. Box 153
Manti, Utah 84642
Peggy Childers
August 4, 2009
To the family of Sgt. Tommy L. Gray:
Tommy gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Tiffany Grant
May 22, 2009
Mrs Gray I served in the same unit as your husband, although I did not know him on a personal level he was a family member in the Charlie Co family And his memory I will forever carry in my heart. Thank you SGT Gray HOOAH!
ray jeffrey
January 7, 2009
I have a button with Tommy's name on it.
I was at YJ's Cafe in Kansas City.
There was a bowl of buttons on a counter with names of fallen soldiers.
I chose Tommy's button.
Still have it.
I never knew him but I think of him often because of that.
I hope his family is well.
R Collis
August 22, 2008
It is difficult to know what to say since I want to express my sincere sympathy to the family and friends of Sgt Gray. Please know that your loved one is not forgotten. I wish everyone impacted by this tragic loss strength and peace. I hope that Sgt Gray knew that there are people in America who respect his great courage in serving as a member of the US military. Although I did not know him, I know that he must have been a very special person to be willing to do something that most Americans will never have to experience and for that we can never say thank you enough.
Thank you Sgt Gray!
In Memory of Tommy ~ (Debra Estep)
August 3, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Tommy, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
April 18, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Gray!
July 31, 2007
If this person can stand in battle to ensure my freedom, then I will stand in grief with his/her family to honor him/her. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guest book for the rest of my life, but I promised LE RON A. WILSON (a dear friend KIA 7/6/07, 18yrs old) that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 11, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Gray and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Spc. Gary Smoot
December 22, 2006
I was on the same base with Gray and i was bestfriends with a guy in his platoon. I wished them all good luck while thay were getting ready to leave, that day Gray was killed. I didnt know it would be the last day i would see him. Peace and love to his family. He's not gone because he lives in every soldiers heart.
Garnet Jenkins
August 3, 2006
Paying tribute to this Fine Young Soldier, Sgt. Tommy L. Gray, with a Multitude of Thanks for his many years of service to our country. Rest Well young Hero, in the Mighty Hands of God and know that you are loved and missed.
May God's Grace and comfort continue to be with the Gray family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
My brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.
"And God shall wipe away every tear from their eyes,
there shall be no more death,
nor sorrow, nor crying,
there shall be no more pain.
For the former things have have passed away."
Revelations 21:4
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