Staff Sgt. Eric M. Steffeney
Staff Sgt. Eric M. Steffeney
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Cynthia Thomas
February 23, 2020
Theresa and family, I cant even begin to know what you all have gone through and continue to go through. I know Eric watches down on you all and smiles. I only met him one time and Ill never forget how he was telling me all about the Army and I started telling him about the Marine Corps. It was like we got into a little competition. LoL We went back and forth. Now, that I think about it today, I laugh about how we both were goating each other and trying to prove one was better than the other. You all are always in my prayers! Hugs~ I Love you guys~
Sharon Folks
February 23, 2020
Love to you Eric May you be having the best life with the Lord.
Danny Weiss
February 23, 2020
What a sacrifice that Eric made for us! He was a brave man. I honor his memory and the continuing sacrifice the family has to make as they have to live on without him.
Johnny Justice
February 23, 2020
I still don't believe he is gone and it has been 15 years. He had such an infectious smile. It did not matter the day we were having in Iraq, he had a way of making you forget all your worries.
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Alexis Tremblay
February 22, 2020
I miss you everyday... i love you, so much daddy. I always will. Thank you, for being the dad you didnt have to be. Forever my hero..
Jennifer Goodrich
February 23, 2018
Thinking of you today Annette and family. Thank you Eric for your bravery! God Bless!!!
carolyn pruitt
May 31, 2015
Eric was my son-in-law, he was married to my youngest daughter Theresa, but he was more like a son to me and my husband, he is missed every day
Johnny Justice
May 28, 2015
To the Steffeney Family, I still remember hanging out with Eric between missions and during radio check-ins. I will never forget the friend I made while in Iraq. He was the last person I saw before I flew out of Iraq. Miss you Bro!!!!
Leila Campbell
May 4, 2013
To the family of Staff Sgt. Eric M. Steffeney:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Christian Memorial Day Remembrance worship service at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday, 26 May 2013. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the bordering states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 300 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars of our nation's history and give honor to all who have served in the United States Armed Forces and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each 8-foot cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of America's conflicts.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “Freedom:Free, but Costly.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and there place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of the Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the Memorial Garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel. The Memorial Garden will remain until 5:00 p.m. on Monday, 27 May (Memorial Day).
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/286-7296) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/286-7296) or email the office ([email protected]) and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Saturday 25 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sunday, 26 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one's cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
T Steffeney
February 25, 2013
Thank you to those who remember...
Johnny Justice
February 23, 2013
Eric, I still remember all the great times we had hanging out playing Tiger Woods or watching CSI. I miss you man.
SFC (P) Johnny Justice
Peggy Childers
February 21, 2013
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Eric M. Steffeney:
Always remembering Eric. "Some gave all."
August 1, 2012
Still remember and am saddened by SSG Steffeney's passing. I recently posted some pictures from my time in Iraq in 2004 which include some of him here:
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April 20, 2012
To the family of Staff Sgt. Eric M. Steffeney:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Christian Memorial Day Remembrance worship service at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday 27 May 2012. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the bordering states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 300 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars of our nation's history and give honor to all who have served the United States and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of America's conflicts.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “Lest We Forget Freedom's Cost.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of the Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the Memorial Garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/456-4410) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/456-4410) or email ([email protected]) the office, and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Saturday 26 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sunday 27 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one's cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Ron Cook
February 23, 2012
I'm Remembering Steff on this fateful day.The bravery he showed 2/23/05 still astounds me. Not a day goes by that I don't think of his sacrifice....RIP brother!!!!
Johnny Justice
February 18, 2012
Miss you bro!!! You helped pass the days during the time we crossed paths. Laughter is the best medicine, and you were the best Doctor for that. He was a great guy and made you laugh no matter the day you were having. I cannot believe it has been 7 years. Steff was the last person I talked to at FOB Bernstein as I made my travels home. He was dedicated to the mission and stopping the attacks on convoys. His life was cut way too short. I wish everyone could have known you.
Ron Cook
February 17, 2012
Steff was a very professional soldier. He had a dry sense of humor, very funny and influential type of guy. He had a distinctive way about him that grew on you and others in his presence. He just had this likeable disposition about him that made him look and feel genuwine. This time of year is very emotional and trying for me. I was a very short distance away from Steff and the last person he talked to on that tragic day. I think of his family that he left behind everyday and the bravery he displayed that day and I commend him and am indebted to him every day for saving my life...SSG Steffeney thank you for your valor, you will never be forgotten.
David Featherstun
May 31, 2011
Was in EOD school with Eric. Remember his wry smile. We would tease eachother about both being from Iowa. Thinking of you this past Memorial Day. God bless your family.
Dave
May 7, 2011
To the family of Staff Sgt Eric M Steffeney:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 29 May 2011. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 200 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one. The Memorial Garden’s perimeter will be manned by members of the Patriot Guard and a honor guard from AMVETS Post #1 of Mendota will be posted at the entrance.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars in United States history and give honor to all who have served their country and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of our nation’s wars.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “A Believer’s Look at War.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/456-4410) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/456-4410) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 28 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 29 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Peggy Childers
February 24, 2011
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Eric M. Steffeney:
Please accept my remembrance of Eric on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Johnny Justice
February 23, 2011
Miss you Bro,
Johnny
Tuz Apr 04 - Jan 05
April 26, 2010
To the family of Staff Sgt. Eric M. Steffeney:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 30 May 2010. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses to represent all of the wars in United States history and give honor to all who have served their country and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled “A Day of Remembrance.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception; weather permitting will be outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (612/970-7866) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 29 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 30 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Peggy Childers
February 23, 2010
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Eric M. Steffeney:
Remembering Eric on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
July 15, 2009
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Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna
Jordan
June 9, 2009
I dont know where to begin. I just had my 18th birthday i wish you would have been here to share the time with me and i also graduate this saturday. i have signed my contract with the marines and i am leaving for boot camp July 29th i just wish you were here or atleast i could here you tell me what you think of who i have become i love you and will forever your son
Jordan
Johnny Justice
May 25, 2009
Eric,
It has been over 4 years since I have seen you last and it is still unreal to me that you are gone. You are still missed.
John Walker
May 24, 2009
To the family of Eric Steffeney:
I would like you to know on this Memorial Day, that as a native son of Iowa living abroad, I join the nation in honoring Seth's memory and add my gratitude to his family for your sacrifice.
Leila Campbell
April 20, 2009
To the family of Staff Sgt. Eric M. Steffeney:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 24 May 2009. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled “Answering the Highest Call.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception in the Chapel’s Fellowship Hall.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (612/970-7866) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 23 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 24 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Peggy Childers
February 23, 2009
To the family of Staff Sgt. Eric M. Steffeney:
Eric gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
April 28, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Staff Sgt Steffeney!
Sage Stuart
April 28, 2008
I served with Eric in Fort Carson in the Late 90’s. He was a true and loyal friend. I will remember him always.
Leila Campbell
April 19, 2008
To the family of Staff Sgt. Eric M. Steffeney:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 25 May, 2008. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain, LTC Kenneth L. Beale, Jr. will preach a message entitled “The Price of Freedom” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat. 24 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun. 25 May, a “PrayerVigil for Peace” will be held. You are invited to stop by and light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden, then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Administrative Assistant
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
brian bradley
April 4, 2008
This was a bad few months for all of us. I was the lucky one. I survived as did the soldiers that he saved by simply doing the job that he loved to do. I know...Ive been doing for 11 years and I will never forget any of my brothers. I hope that I can live up to his standards.
Tim Wade
March 1, 2008
I was with Eric when he died. I was with the 278th out of Knoxville, Tn, My unit was the 190th Eng. Eric was a good man he was very Freindly and I would consider him a good friend who is missed. My heart goes out to his family.
Micah Long
October 25, 2007
You know I don't think I ever knew your name was Eric. I miss you Earl
Kurt Malcolm
September 27, 2007
My brother, may peace be with you. I served with Eric in the late 1990s at Fort Carson, Colorado. He was waiting to go to EOD school. I remember the day he shot a hole through a quarter at 30 meters with open sights with his M-16. I liked him from that day on. He was a good friend and a damn good person. I couldn't believe what happened when I first heard about this. We didn't spend a lot of personal time together back at Fort Carson, but I will always remember him! My blessings go out to his family and friends. Noone is ever truely gone, as long as they are remembered! Take care my fiend, our thoughts will always be with you.
July 16, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Staff Sgt Steffeney and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Jordan Steffeney
June 21, 2007
I havent ever written in here and he is my dad i havent ever written because words couldnt suffice for what happened and even after 2 years of searching for words to use and searching for a reason i still havent got one. In the last 2 years i cant help but say ive grown up alot in the last 2 years my first 2 years of high school ive taken jrotc ive learned alot about leadership and what it takes to be a leader but it never taught me what i was looking for and thats probably because i dont know what that is my dad was a wonderful person he was the person i looked up to for everything and now that im older i wish i would have talked to him more about what he did about his job and yea because now that i only have 2 years left in the kid world i dont know what i want to do i think i might want to go into the army or marines but i dont know what i want to do there i think EOD or Special Forces but i dont know i dont know who to talk to it about and im scared to talk to my mom about going into the military because i dont know how shell react but thanks for listening to my ranting the thoughts of my dad will never change he is the best guy ive ever known and i love him more than anythgin ever
Johnny Justice
February 24, 2007
You are still remembered and missed. I wish you were still here.
Theresa Steffeney
February 23, 2007
Eric, I love you and I miss you so much... Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. It has been two years and still I often wonder, "why did it have to be you". You were the most amazing man I have ever known and I will never understand why you were taken from us so quickly.
It is because of you that I became the person I am today. You were never critical but always supportive and even pushy at times, I would not have done half of the things I did in my life if not for you. I have never met anyone like you, I remember you saying " you can do it sugar, I know you can". It is because of your confidence in me that I remain strong enough to deal with losing you. You will live on in our hearts forever.
Those who loved Eric will always remember him for the unconditional love, the constant support he has shown us, and just the way he would look at things and say "everything will be fine". He had the most amazing smile, attitude, and personality. As for the kids and I he was the most important person in our lives. It is still difficult to get through each day,
How do you carry on when such a huge part of you is gone? I love you, honey, always...
Love,
me
Garnet Jenkins
February 23, 2007
In Remembrance of this Fine Young Soldier, Staff Sgt. Eric M. Steffeney, on the 2nd anniversary of the day he gave his life for our Country and for Freedom.
May Eric, rest safely in God's Care and know that he is a True American hero, that shall Never Be Forgotten.
May the Peace of the Lord be with the Steffeney family.
There will Never Be Enough Ways, to Humbly Thank these Heroes, for their Supreme Sacrifice, my brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.
"And God shall wipe away every tear from their eyes,
there shall be no more death,
nor sorrow, nor crying,
there shall be no more pain.
For the former things have have passed away."
Revelations 21:4
May you find peace in knowing the love and memories you have, will remain in your heart forever and that this Country Remembers Eric's sacrifice.
I am So Deeply Sorry for your loss.
carolyn pruitt
December 21, 2006
my nameis carolyn pruitt eric was my son-in-law. we will miss him very much this christmas. it has been a hard 2 yrs but we are going on with our lives
eric we love you and miss you
David (Anthony) Adams
October 10, 2006
I haven't written anything in here yet. I'm not that great with the written word. Eric was like the father I wished I always had. I never needed much in the way of right and wrong, I just needed someone there for me, just in case. And Eric was that person. That's what was so hard for me. But it's been a long time, life must go on, however difficult it is at times. We all know you would want us to remember you as the smiley friendly soldier who always put his family before anything else. Like I said, I'm not good with the written work, I jump around too much. So... Eric, your love for your family and loved ones will never be forgotten. I couldn't have had a better father.
ROBYN GARSIDE
August 17, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOUR CHILDREN. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Leila Campbell
April 26, 2006
To the family of Staff Sgt. Eric M. Steffeney:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 28 May, 2006. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain, LTC Kenneth L. Beale, Jr. will preach a message entitled “What Are We to Remember?” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Administrative Assistant
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
February 21, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Steffeney family in the loss of Eric. I did not know Eric, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Eric it is almost a year since you were taken. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Vangi & McKaLyne Lunsford
February 7, 2006
Psalm 23
1
The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.
2
He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters,
3
He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
4
Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
5
You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.
6
Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.
This is a verse that I have found to be comforting to me during my husbands death. Remember that when it seems that no one else is round, God is still there with you! And he will be your rock!
My daughter,McKaLyne, and I send our heartfelt sympathy for your loss! God Bless this warrior, God Bless those whom serve freedom's cause! They are our true HERO's!!!!
If you need anything, please feel free to contact me!!!
Wife & Daughter of the Late
Sgt. Audrey Daron Lunsford
KIA May 23, 2005
Holly Frein
September 12, 2005
God bless you and your family...Thank your for your bravery and heroism. Thank you for protecting us.
Debbi Chapman
August 4, 2005
I have tried a few times to sign this guestbook. But words never seemed like enough. Eric served at Fort Bragg with my husband. Matthew and I got married 8 days before he and Eric deployed the first time. Eric always asked me.....when are you and Chappy getting married? And then he would ask me to make him a peanut butter pie. I told him I would have one waiting for him when they got back from this last deployment. I will never forget the fact that I never got to make him that pie. There isn't a day go by that I don't think about Eric. I know the sacrifice he and his family have made for all of us. I know that on any given day during those months that could have been my husband and I feel guilty. I thought the world of Eric. I think the world of Theresa and her strength and courage. Matthew is now here at Eglin teaching the future EOD.......he says he is teaching them the right way, the safe way.....the Eric way. He said he saw Eric's class picture hanging on the Schoolhouse wall. Matthew speaks frequently of Eric these days. He loved him.........he was so easy to love because he was a wonderful man.......to all who came in contact with him.
Danielle Pruitt
May 13, 2005
Eric was a great uncle, and a wonderful person. He always took people for who they were. I remember him trying to give me advice on how to get a boys attention when I was staying with Theresa and him. He was always able to make people laugh, and he was a great father to all three of his kids. It will never be the same without him.
Johnny Justice
April 28, 2005
Eric was a great man, He did not deserve to die that way. I met Eric while deployed in Iraq at FOB Bernstein in Tuz. He always knew how to make you laugh and take your mind off the deployment. I will miss you greatly and know that you will always be remembered in my heart. Thank you for your dedication in this tough world.
Susan Johnson
April 20, 2005
May God bless your family and bring them comfort. Thank you brave soldier for your selfless sacrifice for the freedom of others.May you now find peace and rest in the loving arms of Jesus.
Robin Kane
April 12, 2005
Theresa, I can see in your face and hear in your laughter how much love Eric gave to you. And how truly happy and in love you are with him. Always hold on to that! It is a very special gift to have a love like that.
Although I was not close to Eric, I feel great compassion and pain for all of you. Months after his death my heart still weeps for you with great sadness. My hope for you, is that you can find some kind of solice in all The Greatness Eric is and was and the magnatude of appreciation we all have for what he did for each one of us every day. He will be missed profusely and loved profoundly forever. Eric is a hero!
Theresa Steffeney
April 5, 2005
I just want to thank everyone for all of the nice things you have added to this guest book, I am going to print out a copy of this and save it for the kids.
It has been almost 6 weeks now and the unit will be home today, for me this is excruciatingly painful... knowing that by all rights my husband should be coming home too. I miss Eric more than most of you can imagine. I'm not sure how I get from day to day... I guess I just keep waiting to "bounce" but haven't quite made it there yet. Jordan and Alexis are hanging tough, giving me the same hard time teenagers are supposed to give their parents. Blake on the other hand breaks my heart sometimes with the things he comes up with... The other night he asked me to write down the spell that Piper, Phoebe, & Paige use to summon Gramms. He put it under his pillow and put a picture of Eric beside him and went to sleep. The next morning he woke up and asked me "did Dad slept beside you" and when I said no, He told me, "Well he slept beside me". At least now I do know that Blake understands what's going on (at least somewhat).
I realize this posting is longwinded and personal, but I really need to try to find a way to deal.
Again I thank you all for your kind words, support, and prayers.
Sincerely,
Theresa
Eric, Honey, I will always love you and I miss you so much.
Love Always, ME
Griffin Trenbeath
April 5, 2005
I knew Steff from my attache time at Bragg. Though we only knew each other for a few months, he played a major role in my success as an EOD tech. He was a great man who always had a can do attitude. You will be missed.
Barbara Manley
March 25, 2005
Theresa, I'm sorry about Eric. I know he was your lobster in life, he made you smile when no one else could, I remember your days of saddness many years earlier. Then Eric come to your life and that all changed you and the kids become a tremendous family, and your eyes glowed when you spoke of him, we met at family reunions, had brief conversations, you to belonged together you could see it. I'm proud that he served and protected all of us in this country, we are unable to do that ourselves. I hope you and Jordan, Alexis, and Blake will know that Eric was the Star in more peoples lives than anyone could even imagine, He is a Hero! My thoughts and Prayers are with all of you.
Eric playing with the robot
March 24, 2005
Bart & Elaine Fritze
March 23, 2005
Theresa, I can only imagine what you are going through. Eric was a wonderful husband to you and a terriffic father to Jordan, Alexis, and Blake. We are all better for having had Eric in our family even for such a short time. Erics' death has left a big hole in all our hearts. We will miss him very much. Remember, if you need anything, I'm just a phone call away. I love all of you very much.
Jeff Elliott
March 23, 2005
I served with Eric at the EOD shop at Bragg, and with him in Iraq in 2003. Eric was a great friend, and just a great guy! I have so many memories of the times we spent together. He could make the most hectic situation better, by his grin and a single word! Eric you are a true HERO and I miss you my friend!
Shawn Richardson
March 22, 2005
I did not know Eric personally, but he was supporting my unit when he died. During his time at FOB Bernstein, he disarmed multiple IEDs, which saved many lives. Comments at the camp about Eric echo the comments in this guest book. He was a hero and a friend to all he encountered. Eric, thank you for saving the lives of Soldiers in my platoon. You will never be forgotten.
2LT Shawn Richardson, PL OD
FOB Bernstein, Iraq
Carri & Sherry Folks
March 19, 2005
We have both known Eric since he was 15 years old. He was a very important person in our lives throughout his high school years. We remember all of the fun times we had when he would come over to our house, and loved watching him play football for the Wahawks! He was a quiet, sensitive, caring guy, and very loveable. We will miss him greatly, but we know he is watching out for all of us. Eric, we admire your bravery and dedication to our country, and love and miss you. Theresa, although we never got a chance to meet you, please know that our prayers are with you and your children. Annette, Lori, Gerald and Gary, our thoughts and prayers are with you too. It's nice to see the impact that Eric has had on so many lives. He is a really special guy. God bless you all.
Beth Ward
March 16, 2005
To Your Family from Our Family:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Thank you for such a great sacrifice to keep our country safe and free!
Rodney & Alice Burdette
March 15, 2005
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Eric M. Steffeney. Please accept our condolences and deepest prayers for all of you. We are the proud parents in-laws of Andrea (Andi) and Staff Sgt. Jamie Ulm.
Andi Ulm
March 15, 2005
I want to share my deepest sympathies from myself & my husband(SSG Jamie Ulm-797thEOD in Iraq) with Eric's family & friends. I know that SSG Eric Steffeney was a special man as any man or women who is & was a part of the EOD family has a special heart, bravery and dedication to a job & family that they love and do for each of us to be safe. As SSG Eric Steffeney is among the angels with our dear friend SSG Dan Gresham, we are thankful they look over our men & women still over there and each of us are blessed by any of these men & women that touch our lives. He is a true HERO & will never be forgotten. We are truly sorry for your loss.
CAROLYN & ALLEN PRUITT
March 15, 2005
WE ARE THERESA'S PARENTS WE THOUGHT THE WORLD OF ERIC WE LOVED HIM AS A SON NOT A SON-IN-LAW HE WAS THE BEST THING TO HAPPEN TO THERESA HE WAS A GREAT HUSBAND AND FATHER I KNOW THERESA AND THE KIDS WILL MISS HIM VERY MUCH THERESA WE ARE HERE FOR YOU ANY TIME(DAY OR NIGHT) JUST CALL US WE LOVE YOU
LOVE MOM & DAD
Marco Antonio Abarca
March 15, 2005
I work with Eric's uncle, Rich Chapman. He told me of Eric's many accomplishments as a man and soldier. You can take great pride in the fact that he rendered over 50,000 pieces of ordinance safe in Iraq. His actions undoubtedly saved the lives of countless innocent people. We are very sorry for our loss and you are in your our prayers. Thank you for Eric's service to our country.
Joan Hess
March 14, 2005
Theresa, Jordan, Alexis and Blake,
Keep strong in the faith, and know that Eric is waiting for you. I love you all. Hope to see you soon.
Joan
Gresham Family
March 14, 2005
To the Family of SSG Eric Steffeney, we offer our deepest condolences and know that Eric will be greatly missed by you and his unit. You are in our prayers.
Jason McClintock
March 14, 2005
I really don't know what to say people like Eric aren't supposed to leave us, he made everyone around him a better person. I know that he will be sorely missed. Eric left his mark on us and he will never be forgotten.
Juanita Cahoon
March 13, 2005
I did not know Eric very well but I do know that he was the Lobster in Theresa's life. He is a very lucky man to have had the family that he has love him so much. To have that and to be admired for his work by his peers is a fortunate way of life itself. It sounds like in his line of work he knew life was full of risks and yet, he took advantage of time by laughing, loving, listening and teaching all of those around him. I regret that my cousin lost her great love but at the same time, I am grateful to Eric and to all the others who have sacrificed their families and their lives to protect ALL of us. They will always be Heroes in my eyes.
John Hartt
March 12, 2005
I've been friends with Eric for a few years. Being around Eric made you feel like everything was going to be ok. I will definately miss him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. Eric, rest in peace brother.
Zane Tolliver
March 11, 2005
Eric I know you are listening somehow. I just wanted to tell you that I miss you and that you have meant a lot to my Mom and Dad, helping with the pond and cutting the grass. Even after serving in the military for 17 years, I still have a hard time understanding...why? It was easy for me to rationalize my life in the military, but I have a hard time rationalizing the loss of someone so young and someone so close to our family. I have know you but for a few years, but I guess I never really knew you, except by the way you did things, by the way you helped others and by the way you were around your family. For this I am grateful for the times we did meet at the family reunions or by the pond! Thank you!!! Theresa and kids, we love you and are praying for you. Let us help if we can! Love Zane
Jack and Beth Smith
March 11, 2005
Please know that you and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. May God strengthen you day by day.
Anthony Adams
March 10, 2005
I've never been much of a talker, but I have to say something here. I don't know how I would have made it through my teenage years without Eric. I will miss him. There is an emptiness that will never be filled.
Allen Pruitt
March 10, 2005
SSG Eric M.Steffeney was my bother-in-law.He married my little sister and took on the responsibility of a wonderful wife and two children.He adopted these two children and loved them like they were his own.He and Theresa later had a son together.Unfortunatly Eric will not get to see HIS wonderful children grow up.Eric was truly a wonderful person who (although I am older than he was)I admired and looked up to him for all that he was and for what he stood for.We will miss him dearly.As for my little sister,she is a very strong person.She will go on with her life(missing Eric everyday)and do the very best she can to raise their children to be as wonderful as their father was.Theresa,if you need anything!!,call me!!I love you very much.
Your Loving Brother
Joey Cano
March 10, 2005
I wouldlike to send my deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Steff. SSG Steff was an awesome guy and getting to know him while serving with him in Iraq was a great experience. I remember talking with him and finding out what it takes to be an EOD Tech. He is the one that has made me think of persuing the EOD feild. He was a great guy and I am glad to have met him and hear of his experience and family. May the Lord Bless His family and those Steff has touched.
SSgt Dennis Thompson USMC EOD
March 9, 2005
I did not know Eric but as a Marine EOD Tech with two Iraq deployments behind me;this loss is felt across the entire EOD field. My thoughts and prayer go out to his friends and family. EOD is a very close knit community and when we lose a brother it hurts us all. God bless you and your family Eric and may you rest in peace !!
Ed Pinson (USA,EOD,RET)
March 9, 2005
God Bless you SSG Steffeney! May you rest in peace. I did not know you personally but you are a fellow EOD Tech. My symphathy goes to those left behind. The testimony of those who knew you speaks for itself. The world would be a much better place with more men like you.
Aaron Golson
March 9, 2005
Eric was my team leader for the last year and a half. He was the best team leader I have ever had and he was a great example to me, to work with him was a honor. I was stationed with Eric for the first four months in Iraq. And every time we got the call for a IED we would go to the HQ to get the info for what we had. When Eric walked in the door you could see a change come over the people. Because SSG Steffeney was there and he was going to make every thing right again. As I continue through the EOD field I hope that I can take all that he taught me and become a better tech and a better Man. Eric was My friend, my mentor.
Eric Loar
March 9, 2005
I met Eric in EOD school. What a great guy. He always seemed to know when to throw you one of his mischievous grins to let you know everything was going to be OK. I wish that I could have worked with him more often in the field. I sure will miss the big lug. Rest in peace my brother.
Marc Babicz
March 9, 2005
The time I was able to spend with Eric was short, but in that short time on the water and in the classroom he was able to teach me as much if not more than I was able to teach him. His attitude and sense of humor made him a pleasure to be around. Eric will be missed by myself and the entire community.My thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends who were fortunate enough to have been blessed with knowing him better than I.
Melissa Kahn
March 8, 2005
I had the chance to meet Eric and his family at Fort Carson, CO. My ex-husband Geoff Weichelt was in his unit. I remember the first time that I asked Geoff,"who did you go to luch with today?" and he said "Steffeney" I was thinking ok now who is this woman that my husband is eating with. Come to find out it was only Eric who was no threat to me at all. My husband was very good friends with him, so therefore I became very good friends with his wife. It was so wonderful to have such good friends. When Geoff and Eric would go on VIP missions Theresa and I would go out to dinner with the kids or go shoppping. Anything to keep us busy and to keep our minds off of missing our hubbies. Eric was always so happy and he was actually one of Geoff's friends who I enjoyed coming over to the house. Theresa I know he loved you to death and like I told you in an earlier e-mail, feel blessed to have gotten to have the years with Eric that you did because some people will never in a lifetime be able to find that kind of love. Stay strong and keep his memory alive.
I'm glad to have known you Eric!
Love always,
Melissa Kahn
Daphine Tolliver
March 8, 2005
Dear Theresa, Jordan, Alexis and Blake - We were blessed to know Eric, and thank God for the short time he was with us. May God comfort all of you in your sorrow. We love you. Aunt Sissie & Uncle Jimmy
Picture of Eric in Iraq
William Todd
March 8, 2005
I have known Eric Steffeney for about 8 years now. We first met in EOD School. He was a SPC and I was a young Sergeant. Over the years we ran into one another on deployments and VIP missions. Then in 2002 I was stationed at Fort Bragg with him. It
was only then that I really got to know Eric, I feel blessed to have known him. He has enriched all of our lives; he made us laugh and helped us as a unit through some very stressful and demanding times. You see Eric had a very special quality, his demeanor. He had a calming effect on those around him. No matter how stressful the situation he was steady and was able to help those around him to focus. His influence and leadership in this unit was a large part of our success in the past three years. In those three years we have deployed to Iraq twice and saw three members of our company wounded. He has been a leader and a friend to all, and I will miss him dearly. I will miss his sense of humor, his cheerful nature, his compassion, and his calming influence. I loved him, and I am very proud to have served with him and to serve with all the soldiers of this company. Eric died doing something that he believed in; he gave his life so that others may live. His passing will not be in vain. He lives on in all of our hearts. We as a company and a community will honor his sacrifice by continuing to fight the terrorists and their devices here in Iraq, and all over the world. We (EOD Soldiers) will continue to save life and protect property!
Jon "Chuck" Conner
March 8, 2005
He was my best friend.
He taught me alot.
I loved him like a brother.
I miss you EARL!
Joe Hjelmstad
March 8, 2005
I had the honor of serving in Iraq with Eric. Not only was it nice to work with someone as professional as Eric but he was a great friend to talk with on long nights. Family, fishing, and hunting were some of the top subjects for hours of conversation. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family that he talked so much about. Thanks for always being there Steff!
David Pruitt
March 8, 2005
hey i hated for this to happen to such a great person and family member that i care for; so if there is anything i can do please let me know. I love you Teresa, Jordan, Alexis, and Blake.
Eric getting ready to go to Iraq 09/30/2005 I love you !
Theresa Steffeney
March 7, 2005
Here is a picture of the most wonderful husband and father of her children a woman could ever ask for. I am still struggling.. but could not bare not to have a picture to go along with all of the nice things you all have to say. Thank you all for your expressions... I love you, honey... always, Love, Me
Angel Beers
March 7, 2005
Although I was not blessed with the chance to meet Eric face to face I can see what a wonderful caring man he was in his legacy, his three children. My heart, prayers, and thoughts go out to those he left behind and treasured most, his wife and children.
Sean Tolliver
March 3, 2005
I didn't really now Eric very well. I met him once at a family reunion, and right of he talked to me about my decision to go in the Army. Papa Tolliver talked about how he would come over and cut grass and talk to him about fishing and his kids. I wish I knew him better.
Glenda Jones
March 1, 2005
I did not know this brave and honorable young man but Feb 26th was my birthday and such a sad day because of his passing.
My brother was killed in Vietnam in 1969 and his memory will always be with me.
The world will not forget Eric either. He awaits you in a better place. Thank God for men like him.
Frances Evans
February 28, 2005
With deepest sympathy, VFW Post 9640 and DAV Chapter # 31 Tazewell Co.
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