Spc. Val J. Borm

Spc. Val J. Borm

Val J. Borm Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 16, 2007.
Val J. Borm began working at a Safeway Food & Drug store at age 16. He carried out groceries and worked as a checker until he graduated from high school and joined the Army. He stopped by the store about eight months ago to visit when he was home on leave. Rose Gray, a manager, described Borm as hardworking and helpful. "We''re going to miss him," she said. Borm, 21, of Sidney, Neb., was killed by a roadside bomb June 14 in Kirkuk. He was assigned to Schofield Barracks. Borm was born in the Philippines and moved to Sidney with his family in 2000. He graduated high school in 2005 and enlisted later that summer. Borm''s father, Larry, said his son enjoyed his Army service. He said his son liked to play computer games in his free time and was an avid paintball competitor. After Borm''s family was notified of his death, word spread quickly through the Panhandle town of 6,500. "Everyone feels the impact of this, and our hearts go out to the family," said Sidney City Manager Gary Person. He also is survived by his mother, Lolita. "We are here today to honor a real hero," Maj. Gen. Robert W. Mixon said during funeral services.

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Peggy Childers

June 14, 2013

To the family and friends of Spc. Val J. Borm:
It has truly been my honor to sign Val's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Val will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy

Peggy Childers

June 14, 2012

To the family and friends of Spc. Val J. Borm:
Always remembering Val. "Some gave all."

Peggy Childers

June 14, 2011

To the family and friends of Spc. Val J. Borm:
Please accept my remembrance of Val on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Peggy Childers

June 14, 2010

To the family and friends of Spc. Val J. Borm:
Remembering Val on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Peggy Childers

June 14, 2009

To the family of Spc. Val J. Borm:
Val gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Kenna Larra

January 8, 2009

We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks my heart to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,300 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - 100% free.
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Sincerely,
Kenna

June 29, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Borm!

In Memory of Val ~ (Debra Estep)

June 14, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Val, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
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The Buck family

June 8, 2008

To the family and friends of Spc. Val J. Borm, our thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss. What he has done for our freedom will not be forgotten. May God bless and comfort your family.

May 25, 2008

To The Borm Family and Friends

YOUR LOSS is The Great State of Nebraska's & America's as well.
I want to take the time to send a few words and Let you know Spc. Val J. Borm is remembered as a Hero and you are as well with Prayer for your Loss..
May your Memories with him and of him help to comfort you along with God's care.
There just is no word's to take away the loss you feel, for that I am sorry...
I thank you for America's freedom and mine and my families because of men and women like your Val.
God Bless and Keep You in His Peace during these times of Great Loss.

-
The Family Lines of Lt. Presley Neville O'Bannon (A Marine who Raised the first American Flag on Foreign soil, Shores of Tripoli Hero) Proudly Salute:Spc. Val J. Born, YOUR & one of Our Special Gold Star Hero's, from the Philippines and Nebraska who gave his all and then gave more! For his extream service and bravery He stands as an Exceptional Man ... Bless those he served with ..
As His Fellow Comrades Stand Guard, Protect and Bless them Lord.

Proudly a Wife and Daughter of Ret. Navy men
Proud sister, cousin, grand daughter, niece of many that have served...
Rev. T. O'Bannon Brod

August 22, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

August 18, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Borm and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Beatrice Hurtado

July 28, 2007

To the family of Spc Val Borm, our family extends our heartfelt sympathy, prayers and friendship. Val and our son Elias were in the same unit in Iraq. He feels a tremendous loss for his comrade, (his buddy). Val will never be forgotten. He was brave, honorable and a true hero. Please email if we can be of further support to you.

ROBYN GARSIDE

July 11, 2007

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.

A PROUD MARINE MOM

July 3, 2007

SPC Borm, I cannot believe you are gone. It was a major shock to learn that something has happened to you. I feel partly responsible as I was your Senior Drill Sergeant. I feel like I've lost a brother in arms, a fellow warrior, and even a son. I think of the transition you've made from civilian to soldier and I can only pray that you understand how proud I was of you. At times I may have been hard on you guys but you've proved you were harder. I will take your memory with me as I myself prepare to go back to Iraq. I pray for your family and hope they can forgive me. I did my best and I know you've done yours. Bless your soul.

SDS B

June 29, 2007

To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA

Tom Gugliuzza

June 24, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy to the Borm family in the loss of Val. I did not know Val, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Val you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

debbi rivers

June 22, 2007

My grief for the loss of you son is felt. I know what it's like to loose your child in war as my son was KIA 11/12/06 in Samarra, Iraq SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III. It feels that your heart has been ripped from you and you don't understand why this happened to your child. I've felt all you will feel in the coming days and weeks and though I"m not close I am very close by email. I offer any support to you and your family that I can. It's with the Grace of God that I've gotten through each day and with His healing love and comfort that I've been able to once again sleep at night and not cry each day. Believe me I do know how hard it is. May God continue to heal you and your family and contact me when and if you are ever ready, even if it's to vent or cry. Mother of another fallen soldier

Ronn Massie

June 22, 2007

God bless the family and friends of Val.
You will all be in our prayers.
Thank you Val for being such a brave hero.

(In remembrance of Cpl. Joey Cantrell 4-4-07)

Linda Clifton

June 22, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Laura Lenoir

June 21, 2007

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, my son served with you in Iraq and all the guys are taking the loss of the 3 of you very hard. The family is in my thoughts and prayers at this time. Thanks for serving and bless you and your entire family.

Garnet Jenkins

June 21, 2007

Please know how Deeply Sorry I am, for the loss of
this Brave Young Soldier, Spc. Val J. Borm,
As a parent, who has lost a daughter suddenly,
and as a sister, who has lost a brother to war,
I am aware of the deep and devastating pain
that you are experiencing.
The overwhelming heartache, seems to surface
through our shock, as the time passes.
Please hang on to your Faith and know that you will get through this. Ever so softly and slowly, time does heal.

May Val Rest Safely now, in the Loving Care of God
and I pray that the Peace of God will be with the Borm family.
I am the sister, of such a Young Hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago.

"Cast thy burden upon the Lord,
and He shall sustain thee."
~ Psalm 55:22 ~

I sincerely hope that you can feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you today and in the days ahead, as this Country Mourns with you, for Someone Very Precious to you, Who Is A Hero to all of us.

Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)

June 17, 2007

Rest in peace.

Sandy Bonesteel

June 17, 2007

As the mother of a son (my only child) who is enlisted in the Army, I want to send my condolences.

Gary Allain

June 16, 2007

you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.

valorie

June 16, 2007

My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO", Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your little one tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and now they are protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007

debbi rivers

June 16, 2007

To the family and friends of this soldier yet unknown to us but known to those who served with and family, I am so sadden for your loss. I know what you will be going through today and in the coming weeks as I too am the mother of another fallen soldier. I offer you emotional support when and if you want to talk, vent or just share memories, I'm here for you. May God continue to give you peace and comfort at this time. In Memory of my son SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III KIA 11/12/06 Samarra, Iraq

Carol Cline

June 16, 2007

Know in your heart that you are a true hero and will never be forgotten. All gave some, some gave all. Rest in peace. You will be missed by everyone’s life you have touched.

To the family, as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family, friends, and all Americans for the sacrifice of one of your family members for our freedom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the loving embrace of our Heavenly Father.

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