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Rick San Nicolas
April 2, 2025
My first time seeing this website
Love you Cuz
I always talk about you and how you hugged me one last time before heading to the airport (even though I had just finished cutting the yard).
We all still look up to you
Praying for you always
Love Cousin
Rick
Lisa Van Arsdale (Maxwell School Class of 2005)
June 21, 2024
I miss you, buddy. Rest in Peace.
Pedro Ofeciar
May 31, 2019
JIn loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Mark ONeill
May 30, 2019
Miss our long chats over dinner at the ANA/ANP outposts in Asadabad. You forever touched my life, and I am truly grateful to have known you. Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord!
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Pedro Ofeciar
May 29, 2019
Major Henry S N Ofeciar, we , your family (Goldstar Families) attended the Memorial Day celebrations At Ft Bliss Texas.
You all well not be forgotten.
Linda Sterling
May 28, 2019
You are missed......
Phil Smith
May 27, 2019
Thinking of you, Argonish and Ball today, and the sacrifice you so willingly paid.
Semper Fi
Phil Smith
Col USMC (ret)
Commander Regional Security Adviser Command, Central, 2007-2008
kenneth freeman
March 12, 2019
still think of you and family often my brother !!!!
ur family made Italy --my youth awesome
Angali Tobias
May 15, 2017
Always in my heart....never forgotten!
Lijun Du
November 20, 2016
Well, 11years after graduated from Syracuse, 9 years since Hank gone. World and life changed a lot, Hank's smile never changes in momery.
Lijun Du
November 19, 2016
Good time at Maxwell School, Syracuse Univ, so much fun you brought to the whole class.
Angali Tobias
July 12, 2016
Thought of you on your birthday July 5th, you would have been just 46 years old! miss you and hope you are smiling and playing with our boys Atti and Bobo in the sunshine XOXO
Pedro Ofeciar
May 26, 2015
Honoring you today, Memorial Day
May 25, 2015
Honoring you on this Memorial Day.
Ret Gysgt kenneth freeman
May 16, 2015
Still in my heart my brother
Jill Sarat
November 11, 2013
Remembering your service and sacrifice today.
Angali Medappa
February 13, 2013
On a flight from ATL to CA for work, I looked into the beautiful sky, the colors of the sun, and I thought of you, Atti and Bobo. I'm thankful you all were in my life and you'll always be in my heart. Rest in peace my love ~ Angali
Jill Sarat
February 1, 2013
I still think of you and your smiling face all the time!
October 24, 2012
Even though you were older than me ( I was in the same grade as your little brother Pete, in Aviano, Italy), I remember you as a fun, happy, good fella! Rest in peace, and Thank You for making our Country a safe place.
Kristina Pace-Gable
Omuso George
August 22, 2012
Henry, as I'm sitting here in Kabul, I was thinking about you today, brother. Thinking about me, you, Hank Askins, Brian Smith, and Ellie Perrazoli in command in the 8th Finance in Germany working for Denny Fields, and the good times we had as detachment commanders. Bro, you used to get so fired up at Fields...it was so funny, but it was because you were so passionate, man. We were so young back then...but we were ready to take on the world, full of spit and vinegar. And like everyone else says, you WERE always laughing and smiling, and full of fun. From the bottom of the heart, I miss you, Bro.
Linda Sterling
July 8, 2012
I just came across a picture of you at my sister's house. She is in heaven with you now. We miss our friend.
Chuck & Lea Ann Pelfrey
July 7, 2012
I think that is the one thing about you sir that everyone remembers so much was your beautiful smile and loved seeing it everytime we saw you!! Miss you very much, but it's good knowing we have you as our special angel!!
July 5, 2012
You would have been 42 yrs old today my love. You are now our angel all around us. You are always close...never forgotten..cherished forever! ~ Angali
Lynda Minard
May 25, 2012
Sure do miss you, sir. You were always smiling.
Tim Selby
May 25, 2012
I miss you always. Can't forget your get together when we were cracking jokes me u and fred.
LTC Steve Garcia
April 24, 2012
Hank,
You are not forgotten by your Wolfpack brothers and sisters. I still fondly remember the good times at Fort Riley training up for our ETT. You remain in our thoughts and prayers.
November 12, 2011
Heard your name read at a Veterans Day ceremony yesterday, Henry. You're not forgotten.
Peggy Childers
August 27, 2011
To the family and friends of Maj. Henry Ofeciar:
Please accept my remembrance of Henry on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
August 27, 2011
Four years today, Henry. You are missed.
MAJ Mark O'Neill
May 26, 2011
Hank was a dear freind and fellow embedded trainer. We spent many a night in eastern Afghanistan talking politics and current events. I miss our conversations buddy! You're in my thoughts and prayers every day.
Linda Sterling
March 1, 2011
It has been over 3 years and it is still hard to know that you are not here. I still have emails from you that I cannot delete.
Joe ,Rey ,Hank and Gen Jellals Bodyguard.
Rey garcia
November 11, 2010
To the family and friends of Hank .
It was my great pleasure and honor to have know to have worked with him and to have counted him one of my friends. Please know that he will always be in our prayers.
October 14, 2010
...I miss your smile...I miss your belly laugh...I miss your sparkling eyes and mischievious ways~ I miss your love..till we meet again
September 1, 2010
I still can't believe you are gone! It still doesn't seem real! We miss your smile and we miss you dearly!
Chuck and Lea Ann Pelfrey
August 31, 2010
You were a great man. We miss you Henry!
Maj. Lloyd and Beverly Prickett
August 30, 2010
STill in our hearts
CARRY ON SOLDIER!!
RET GySgt Kenneth Freeman
Peggy Childers
August 29, 2010
To the family and friends of Maj. Henry Ofeciar:
Remembering Henry on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
August 8, 2010
We just learned of MAJ Ofeciar's passing. To his family and friends we offer our belated but very heart felt sorrow and prayers.
LT Ofeciar was my husband's Platoon Leader in D Co 4-12 IN, Baumholder, Germany (1995-1996). They deployed to Bosnia in Jan 1996. I remember Henry insisting on meeting at the PX on his R & R to share some of his stories and pictures with me. He was so excited to finally get them developed! His million dollar smile,laugh and giving nature will always be my favorite memories. Oh, and the time he was "volunteered" to be the OIC of the Company Christmas party as a single LT. Every time I would ask if he needed any help I got a big smile, a wink and "it's under control." That was one of the best Company parties ever!!
Rest in peace Henry.
Sandra & SSG John Thornburg
Ft. Benning, GA
L/R: "Mumbles", Major "O", "Skinny", "Bitt", "Mitch", "Mizz" Taken at the "Steak House" in Kabul, Afghanistan
Kevin Bittenbender
June 23, 2010
The Three Amigos - "Bitt", Hank and "Mitch" - Camp Darulaman - Kabul, Afghanistan
Kevin Bittenbender
June 23, 2010
Brian Gilbert
May 31, 2010
Sharon and I miss you a lot. It seems like yesterday that you and I were chatting about your upcoming deployment on my porch in Bethesda, MD. Little Henry(almost 3) is quite a character and I wish you could have known him.
Brian (LT/CPT) Gilbert
Shay Canion
May 31, 2010
I met Maj Ofeciar when he came through Bagram Airbase to attend the funeral of his aunt. Although our interaction was short and brief he left a lasting impression on me. One that I will never forget. To his family, I am truly sorry for your loss and I am truly HONORED to have met such a great person.
Shay
Mohammad Mansoor
April 13, 2010
hi this is Mohammad Mansoor Qayoomi from Kabul Afghanistan And i was His Transalatore In Kunar Province of Afghanistan and the only thing which i describe about him was that he was a great and legend man if any one know his familly please pass my regard to them and tell them that i really love him same like my friend
April 9, 2010
Henry, I miss you brother. Kaelyn, who referred to you as "nino" while in FT Benning, (you were a 2LT) is now a mother. You were and always will be a part of the Guzman family. You are truly missed. We love you.
March 3, 2010
I still can't believe that you are gone! I cannot make myself get rid of your e-mail address. I remember when you e-mailed me while you were deployed asking for pencils for the children. You were always such a very caring, sweet young man! You are truly missed.
March 2, 2010
Still on my mind!!!
February 24, 2010
I'll never forget you, I promised!
Cristina, Hank and I- unconditional friends
December 2, 2009
In India with my sisters, Anu, Sagari and BIL Vignesh
December 2, 2009
MBA house parties
December 2, 2009
Opening up his home to us at Spring break-Cristina, Kosuke & Angali
December 2, 2009
Syracuse summers- Milind, June & Angali with Hank
December 2, 2009
Saying goodbye to Bobo before deploying
December 2, 2009
A proud graduate at SU-Henry S.N Ofeciar
December 2, 2009
In India with Natasha, Sarah and Angali
December 2, 2009
Christmas dinner at home-2006
December 2, 2009
Hank cooking at home on Christmas morning- Christmas 2006
December 2, 2009
With Dean Shukla-Syracuse
December 2, 2009
MBA classmates
December 2, 2009
At the MBA dinner dance 2005-Syracuse
December 2, 2009
With Vignesh, Nikhil and Clets
December 2, 2009
In Bangalore, India with friends
December 2, 2009
Hank at his graduation from Syracuse University
December 1, 2009
Our family
December 1, 2009
Hank with sister Orlene
December 1, 2009
Hank and siblings in Kansas
December 1, 2009
Hank as a kid with baby sis April
December 1, 2009
Hank after getting hitched
December 1, 2009
Hank with his boys
December 1, 2009
Tickling baby Avery
December 1, 2009
At Anu and Vignesh's wedding in Coorg-India
December 1, 2009
With Auntie Lucy and baby Avery
December 1, 2009
Always a kid on Christmas...your stocking will always be hung on Christmas my love
December 1, 2009
Always loved...never forgotten~ our Hank
December 1, 2009
Hank and his boy Atticus
December 1, 2009
The Henry San Nicolas Ofeciar award at Whitman
December 1, 2009
Hanks high school in Guam
December 1, 2009
Hank and his cousin Marie
December 1, 2009
The way we were
December 1, 2009
Memorial service in Afghanistan
December 1, 2009
Hank's boys..his heart and soul!
December 1, 2009
Hanks graduation from Syracuse University-2005
December 1, 2009
The day he became my husband...my Hank
December 1, 2009
Guam-remembering Henry
December 1, 2009
Christmas always reminds me of you my Hank! miss you!
December 1, 2009
November 11, 2009
Hank/Sir,
Every day I think of you and your truck crew on that day. When we got the word, I just had prayers for those who were out there. Then we received the word your crew was hit and who may be lost. It could have been any of us, but this day it was your ticket.
I want to say more, but you and your crew are in my prayers. You and your crew are Shipmates and Friends! You are missed!
YNCS Bob Wieland, USNR,
PRT Asad Abad,
Kunar Province, Afghanistan
Joe Hall
October 5, 2009
I just learned that my infantry and finance officer buddy, Maj Ofeciar was killed over 2 years ago. Henry and I were classmates in most of our Army Officer training and over time became very good friends. He even traveled over 8 hours to attend my MBA graduation ceremony in NC and returned to his duty station the same day - what a FRIEND! To that end, he and I had plans to professionally collaborate after his retirement. Henry, I miss you. God Speed and God Bless your wife and Family.
Patricia Ward
August 29, 2009
You're missed more than you'll ever know. It takes a life time to find a friend like you. I'm still looking but fear that no one will ever come close to the friend that you were. You live in my heart.
Peggy Childers
August 27, 2009
To the family of Maj. Henry Ofeciar:
Henry gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Miss you so much!
August 26, 2009
In my heart forever Hank-O!
Lea Ann & Charles Pelfrey
August 21, 2009
I still cannot believe you are gone! It does not seem real! We all miss your smile and sweetness! You will never be forgotten!!
Miss you,
kenneth freeman
August 20, 2009
I miss u my old friend---I have never forgot about you or the family and will never forget
See you at the gates
Semper FI
OOORAAHH Soldier!!
Jessica Herrera
August 19, 2009
Henry,
We miss you, more than you know. The time we were fortunate enough to be close to you will always be cherished. I have so many memories of you,from saluting you to all of our crazy theme parties that I will never forget and most importantly for being there to listen when I needed an ear. Thank you for making me laugh when you made fun of my long toes, for trying to take a picture when I was sick at the park and for many, many more memories that will always stay with me. Thank you for everything you did and for making all of our lives a little richer, we love you and miss you. I will never forget you, will always think of you and will always wish you were still here. See you in a better place...
Karen
March 1, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of Hank's death. My sympathies to all of his family.
I will not forget him, and I wish that I would have had the opportunity to get to know him better.
Peace be with you, my friend.
Michael Caro
January 22, 2009
Major O was Captain O back when I first met him. He was my Boss, as I liked to call him and I had the honor of serving as his driver during my time at Ft. Carson, Co. He was my first and only true commanding officer, in my mind and in my heart no other officer could ever fill his shoes. I loved him like the older brother I never had but always wanted. He inspired me in so many ways, he taught me so much about life and about being a soldier. He taught me to never settle for second best and challenged me everyday of my military career to be the best. For that I will always be indebted to him. He was a true friend and when we worked together we were the dynamic duo. When you died Boss a part of me died with you. I think of you every day that goes by, and I try to live my life the way I always did at Ft. Carson, to make you proud. You will always be my hero. See you when I see you Boss!
Kenna Larraa
December 17, 2008
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MAJ David Cripe
November 12, 2008
I met Henry at Ft. Riley while we were both training up for the mission in Afghanistan. In country I was able to have dinner with him a couple of times at Camp Phoenix. I heard of his death while I was serving in southern Afghanistan. I will not forget him or the other friends who gave the last full measure of devoted service. As it has been said by veterans of previous wars, the heroes are those that did not come back. His family are in my prayers. Thank You Henry for your service to our country.
August 31, 2008
Uncle Henry w/ Baby James Matthew Ofeciar @ Baptisim
August 31, 2008
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