David J. Lane Obituary

Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of David J. Lane
US Army Specialist.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.

We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.

Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

I miss you every day David. I always feel you walk with me. Please continue to watch over all of us and know not all of us have forgotten you.

In memory & honor of David for his service and sacrifice for our country.

Maria,
You may not remember us, but we lived in Summerplace Terrace when you did. Our kids played together. We just discovered today that we share another, tragic, bond. God bless you.

Proud parents of
HN(FMF) Robert Nathaniel Martens USN
KIA Sept 06, 2005
AlQaim, Iraq

To the family and friends of Spc. David J. Lane:
Please accept my remembrance of David on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

To the family and friends of Spc. David J. Lane:
Remembering David on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Maria....I belonged to the Army Mom USA group with you. Am sending out messages, and lifting in prayer all the Gold Star families this Memorial Day 2010. David would be proud of you....you are carrying on in his name.
God Bless.

David, I love and miss you son. I am trying to do what you would have wanted. I am an American Gold Star Mother and work with my group at helping Vets. It keeps your memory alive. You are missed by your sister and brothers and in my heart and thoughts forever. I love you son.

For one so young, you did more than many others in this country for your country. You are a hero. I'm sorry I never got a chance to meet you but have gotten to know you a little through your mom. My prayer is that your family finds comfort in the loving arms of Jesus Christ.
Strength and Honor

To the family of Spc. David J. Lane:
David gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families at this time. This is a Nonprofit Organization to honor are Soldiers!
FREE OIL ON CANVAS PAINTING OF THIS HERO. COMPLETE FORM AT WWW.HEROPAINTINGS.COM
Please contact us! Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know David, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Lane!

David was my best friend, one I could turn to for everything. I didn't know about this book until now or I would have signed it long ago. I have so many pics if anybody would like to see them contact me. He was a great man and I think of him morning, noon, and night. David is my hero and I believe he watches over me. I miss him so much. RIP David. Maria... I love you like you were my own mom! He is in a better place now and someday we will meet again.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA

To the families of Lane, Murray, and Shelton,
Please accept our sympathy and prayers for peace in your hearts and minds. Your soldiers are heros, and so are each of you.
Our warriors in theater will be comrades forever, not only on earth, but with even more certainty of spirit beyond these shores.
Our son was with your sons in that vehicle and in that moment when everything changed, for them and for us. And the world changed too, in ways that might not be quantified, but absolutely are qualified; for we all have been served by their sacrifice.
On the very first day that our son was conscious enough to learn of your loss, he asked of them name by name, and his unhesitating response was "Contact their families and tell them, I would have gladly taken any of their places".
So that a buddy would live, even at the cost of his own life, is the soldier's way of love. For his buddies and for all of us, your soldier made that ultimate expression of love.
Their souls are bound together forever. Our hearts are with you always.

The family of Joseph "CatDaddy" MixSon

My heartfelt sympathy to the Lane family in the loss of David. I did not know David, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. David you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

My deepest and most sincere concolences to the family of Spc. David J. Lane. May you rest in peace dear brother. Your sacrifice will not be forgotten. John Marfia A/2/16 "A" Company 1967 RVN

May your family and friends take some comfort in knowing you are a true American hero.
D/2/16, 1st Div
1967-67

Our sincere condolences and prayers to the family and friends of SPC David J. Lane. We are forever grateful for your service to our country. Your sacrifice will not be forgotten. May you rest in peace.
On behalf of your brothers in arms,
Ron Saxton , Secretary, 16th Infantry Regiment Association

David was the greatest friend of all,and the bravest man I will EVER know. I know that you are going to watch over me over-seas buddy.

Maria,
My heartfelt sympathies on the loss of your fallen hero, David. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Maria,
God Bless and embrace you with the comfort that only HE can provide. David is a hero, and, we will never forget the sacrifice, I promise you. God Bless, Stef, a fellow ArmyMom of Three Soldier Son's....

Maria and Family....No words can say what is felt in the heart for the loss of David, A brave soldier. May he rest in Gods loving Arms.....Beverly

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Lane and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Dear Maria and family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. David is a true hero to my family as he died so we may have our freedom. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs and prayers,
Bobbi/Proud Army Mom/Eric (Iraq)

Your family are in my thoughts and prayers-Fairlee C Tx

A True Hero. Sunnie

Dearest Maria & Family,
I cannot for a moment fathom your loss and the pain that you feel. Please know that your family is in my prayers. David is a hero - that gives you little to no comfort at this time. There are no words - but I hope that the gratitude of me and many like me will help a little. Blessings to you and yours - Army Mom, Cheryl "Cat" Holbrook & family

Please know how sorry I am about the loss of your son David. May he rest in peace.

Maria and Family....please know that army families across the USA are grieving with you. I am part of
the group Army Moms USA...where I met Maria. May God give you all strength, and fill you with His peace. David is a "soldier angel"
now...resting with our Lord. He will not be forgotten. Maria..thank you for raising a hero.
God bless you.

Maria & family, We had another picture of David thought you might like to have it.Now David is at peace.Thank you for lending your soldier & hero to us. He is with God now.God be with your family.

David: May the peace of God be upon you in your time of grief. My son is starioned with the 2-16 with Murray, Shelton, and David. I just don't have the words to express how I feel. PFC Mixson and Crookston who were wounded and in BAMC here in San Antonio. Praying for them also.

My prayers are with David's family and friends. I am grateful for his service to our country.

I am a friend of the family of Josh Berlongieri, David's buddy.

Tom Roberts, Community of Christ, Tampa, FL

Maria & Family,
We are all one family from the 2-16 4th INF Charlie.
We've only talked a few times but I feel like we've known David a long time. Your family will always be in our prays & David is now in God's arms. We will all meet him again.Deno,Cheryl,Josh,Jason & Shelby Berlongieri

We were so sorry to hear about your son. We want you to know we are grateful for his sacrifice, and we grieve with you. Your family is in our prayers.
Jeff, Jennifer, & Meghan Burenheide (from TPLC)

Dear Maria,
I don't have the words to say how sorry I am about David. Your email today was a shock. I will remember him always the pictures we shared as Mother's with Son's from the same base. I will keep in touch always and will call soon. May God be with you and your family - I am with you in spirit holding your hand.

Your Friend Linda Schairer
Proud Mother of a Soldier from the 2nd BATTALION, 16th INFANTRY REGIMENT, 4th INFANTRY BRIGADE COMBAT TEAM, 1st INFANTRY DIVISION,
D COMPANY

I would like to express my sympathy to the family and friends of David Lane. But would like also to say how PROUD we are of him for serving his country that he so much loved. You will never be forgotten David for your patriotism to your country and for the freedoms that we have today cause of your service to your country. God bless you David and thank you to all the family members for allowing us to share our thoughts of our soldier that Emporia grew to know.

We deeply express our sympathy to the Lane Family and Our prayers will always be with your Family for David. Our son Josh and Dave were all set to open a shop when there tour was up . He will always be Loved and missed by Family and Friends around the world forever. May God Bless the Lane Family alway's with his uncondional Love, and Peace. David will always be remembered and Loved forever as a U.S. Soldier and a Hero

With deep regret, I have just learned of the death of Specialist Lane. As the State Chaplain of the Georgia Sons Of The American Revolution, I speak for our President, Charlie A. Newcomer, III and more than 1,400 SAR members around the State of Georgia in humbly expressing the condolences of a grateful Society. Wrapped in the integrity of service to our nation and the inestimable values of duty, honor and country, your American hero stood on a wall of freedom for us all. His life and his love of country epitomized every attribute of patriotism the Sons Of The American Revolution hold dear. And, as Americans, we could never repay the debt we owe him ..!! Nor the debt we owe you… his family!!!

Thank you for sharing your soldier with us. As a soldier's mom, I understand your sacrifice. All our love and respect to you and yours.

You should be proud of your son. He gave his life so that we can all live free. My cousin, who died in Iraq in June said in a letter sent to his friend before he died "Keep enjoying the Art of Life, That is what we are over here fighting for." God bless you and yours in this difficult time. You and all other families of fallen heros will be in my prayers forever. RIP David, you are my hero.

Lane we all miss you, we were looking at old pics and some video of you remembering all the good times we had when you were with us. All the smiles you brought to everyones face. We wish that all of you were here with us. I really just want everyone to know what a brave hero you were and that you meant so much to so many. I'm praying for you and your family and I'm so sorry that this had to happen to you. We miss you David. Rest in peace hero.

Another heartfelt "Thankyou." You did make a difference.

Thank you!

May God be with you at this sorrowful time. David's death is not in vain. He is a true hero.

Thank you for your service, soldier. God's peace to your family.

I can not think of what to say and this is the only thing that comes to mind.

THE FINAL INSPECTION

The soldier stood and faced God, Which must always come to pass. He hoped his shoes were shining, Just as brightly as his brass.

"Step forward now, you soldier, How shall I deal with you ? Have you always turned the other cheek ? To My Church have you been true?"

The soldier squared his shoulders and said, "No, Lord, I guess I ain't. Because those of us who carry guns, Can't always be a saint.

I've had to work most Sundays, And at times my talk was tough. And sometimes I've been violent, Because the world is awfully rough.

But, I never took a penny, That wasn't mine to keep... Though I worked a lot of overtime, When the bills got just too steep.

And I never passed a cry for help, Though at times I shook with fear. And sometimes, God, forgive me, I've wept unmanly tears.

I know I don't deserve a place, Among the people here. They never wanted me around, Except to calm their fears.

If you've a place for me here, Lord, It needn't be so grand. I never expected or had too much, But if you don't, I'll understand.

There was a silence all around the throne, Where the saints had often trod. As the soldier waited quietly, For the judgment of his God.

"Step forward now, you soldier, You've borne your burdens well. Walk peacefully on Heaven's streets, You've done your time in Hell."

~Author Unknown~

My most heart felt sorrow goes out to the family and friends.
James F. Garrison
Father of SPC. Garrison Justin F.
2nd BATTALION, 16th INFANTRY REGIMENT, 4th INFANTRY BRIGADE COMBAT TEAM, 1st INFANTRY DIVISION,
C COMPANY

Spc. David Lane & Family:

Know in your heart that you are a true hero and will never be forgotten. All gave some, some gave all. Rest in peace. You will be missed by everyone’s life you have touched.

To the family, as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family, friends, and all Americans for the sacrifice of one of your family members for our freedom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the loving embrace of our Heavenly Father.

I didn't personally know Spc. Lane, but I do know your pain as I recently had a soldier killed in action. Many prayers from our family to yours for your sacrifice, and thank you so much for the hero the world was able know.

Sincerely,
Heidi Perry-Hipp
Calverton, NY
Proud Aunt of Spc. Matthew Murchison
KIA August 4, 2007 Baghdad

My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and they were protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007

I am writing to offer my condolences to your family over the loss of your HERO Spc David J Lane. I lost my son in Iraq on May 6/2007, so I can well understand your pain of losing a loved one so dear.

When things settle down, I recommend that you contact a man named Michael Reagan @
www.michaelgreaganartist.com


He will draw one portrait of the fallen soldier. He does this for free and will draw any picture of your choosing. He has drawn presidents and other celebrities. My husband and I got one and it has helped me with the healing process. Michael is a truly gifted artist that captures the very essence of the person he draws. I look at my picture everyday and it gives me a connection that I cannot explain.

I pray you will be guided by a higher power to give you peace, comfort and strength in this time.

Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
GOD Bless you and your family. Your soldier was a true American Hero and we are all very proud of his service.

(Proud mother of Sgt Joel W. Lewis, 5/20, 3-2 SBCT -KIA May 6/07, Baqubah, Iraq)

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

As the mother of a son who is deployed, I want to send my condolences. Please know that there are many, many people who grieve with you.

REST IN PEACE DAVID TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU

Please know how Deeply Sorry I am, for the loss of your Brave Young Soldier, Spc. David J. Lane. As a parent, who has lost a daughter suddenly, and as a sister, who has lost a brother to war, I am aware of the deep and devastating pain that you are experiencing. The overwhelming heartache, seems to surface through our shock, as the time passes. Please hang on to your Faith and know that you will get through this.

May David Rest Safely now, in the Loving Care of God and know that he Will Never Be Forgotten.
I pray that the Peace of God will be with the Lane family.
I am the sister, of such a Young Hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago.

"Cast thy burden upon the Lord,
and He shall sustain thee."
~ Psalm 55:22 ~

I sincerely hope that you can feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you today and in the difficult days ahead, as this Country Mourns with you, for Someone Very Precious to you, Who Is A True American Hero to all of us.
You are in my thoughts and my prayers.

Spc. david J. Lane
you are my hero
may god keep you in his his arms forever.