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Scott Sathers Obituary
Sathers worked in enrollment services at Capella University and was on his way home from work Aug. 1, using his usual route, when the Interstate 35W bridge crumpled amid evening rush hour traffic.
Copyright © 2007 The Associated Press
178 Entries
Lori Johnson
August 2, 2011
I thought of Scott again yesterday watching the news. I worked with him years ago at Precision Pours in Plymouth. One year at Christmas time he gave me a 10" walking, talking Homer Simpson, because he knew I loved the Simpsons a lot. I look at that Homer every day as he sits on my desk at home, so I can never forget the great guy who gave it to me. Scott was a funny, wonderful young man and it is still so hard to beleive that he is gone. Much love and blessings to you Betsy, and your entire family.
amanda caswell
January 30, 2011
I want to say scott has been my hero in how he overcame his disability he inspired me so greatly. He was also one of my dearest friends. I'm glad I was able to even know him. I still can't believe such a great man is gone from this earth, but I know he would be proud of me. He is my angel he watches over me no matter where I go. I have faith in the world because of people like scott sathers. I knew when I first met scott, he was the only one deserving enough to be with my gal betsy. I know this isn't goodbye forever just goodbye for now, until we meet again in heaven. When I sing in church choir or at home. I feel his spirit with me and he's smiling with joy. I will never forget him and the day I met such a great vibrant man. He was so electric... I remember that he loved metallica and tom petty. I still have the coach purse he gifted to me. I was so surprised by the gesture, but flattered none the less. He had a amazing laugh. His sense of humor was fantastic. He always made me feel welcomed. He lived such a life ill always remember that most of all. He did what most of us try to do live more each day. We can all learn that lesson and take it with us. Scott your in my thoughts and deep in my heart. I want to live life as much as you did how great that would be.
sarah d
January 13, 2010
Scotty, called the white house bar today and thought of you.
I love you and miss you like crazy.
sarah
tom risk
September 19, 2008
to the sathers family and betsy I am so sorry to have to write this It has taken me so long to do so. I kmow it never gets better as time goes on. I lost a brother 30 yrs ago. please know that scott is in our prayers every day
How you can show support
Scott at Eldora Speedway - June '07
August 7, 2008
Brad
August 4, 2008
Hey Jicky! Just wanted to say hello here on your Birthday. Hope your throwing a huge party for everyone! It was a tough, emotional weekend for everyone, but we know you were there for us - like you always are. Thanks for helping me get through it, and get through everyday!
Sue Szulczewski
August 1, 2008
Scott - Thinking of you today as the 1-year anniversary of the bridge collapse has come upon us. It’s hard to believe it’s been a year already. You are remembered and missed by many. I hope you and my brother are up there tendin’ bar for everyone, and I know you guys are probably fishin’ & golfin’ too. My thoughts and prayers are with Betsy and your family as I am certain that this is a difficult day for them and for your many close friends.
Peace,
Sue Ski
Dan
August 1, 2008
One year ago today I had my final chance to speak with you. I always looked forward to the opportunity to hear what was on your mind. Work has become a much different place without you. Your energy and enthusiasm for life is missed everyday. Many people will never forget you so we thank God that we were fortunate enough to have you in our lives.
Sean McLean
April 3, 2008
Hey Bud,
Not a day goes by that I don't think about you and all the good times we had together. We just went through Brian's and my birthday and I have to say it was not the same not hearing from you and seeing you. You would be real proud of Betsy...she continues to amaze me with her strength...she is someone very special. I would not expect any less from you though. You always did things the right way...all the way. You would also laugh because I am actually taking up interest in NASCAR. My job now has NASCAR Target sponsorship as part of it and I can only figure that this came around because of you. It has definitely made me want to make sure I do it right. Bottom line bud...I just want you to know that there are a lot of us here that miss you a ton. Your smile, laugh, and just good times are missed more then I can tell you. Your ways and memories live on and its what helps me to get through each day. Miss you bud, hope your times up there are as good as the times you gave us here.
Dan Iliff
January 9, 2008
Hey buddy. I was talking with Betsy today about the bit. It will be great to get everyone together to celebrate your wonderful life. I only hope we do you proud as you look down on us. Even though I can't handle 'em, I'll be sure to get a Kettle on the rocks just for you. I thought you'd want to know that I did walk away with the fantasy title again this year since I didn't have to compete with you. I miss all those talks we had about players and trade opportunities. I think you would have liked the new scoring system we used. I think I may try out fantasy Nascar for you this year. I figure all that knowledge you filled me with has to go somewhere. I was just reading the guestbook of my friend Brian who was lost just over 3 years ago, he was defenseman too so maybe you guys can pair up and work together on shutting down the other teams #1 line up there. You are missed.
Megan McLean
December 17, 2007
To Betsy and the Sathers family,
I was looking at old pictures today and it brought back some humorous memories I have of Scott. Scott, Sean, and I were out on Lake Independence back when they were in ninth grade and I was the dorky younger sister tagging along. They told me to drop the anchor and I literally did. As the line was sinking away Scott told me the anchor cost over $100 and my dad was going to be so mad. What did I do… jumped right in. I didn’t save the anchor and they had me going the whole time on the lake. I thought I was going to be in so much trouble. He fit in at our house just like he was one of my brothers. That story still makes me laugh. I just wanted to let you know he is missed everyday. You are all in my thoughts always. God bless.
Carole Carlson-Bursch
October 25, 2007
Dear Bill,
I am so sorry for your loss, and can't imagine everything you and your family have been through. Scott sounds like such a neat guy from his obituary and the nice comments in the guest book. I hope your days are getting a little easier. My husband passed away just before Scott did - I'm soldiering forward, too. I think of you in hopes that you've enjoyed a nice retirement and
have done some of the things you've wanted to, and I'm grateful for the many things I learned while working at P&G. Peace to you and yours, Carole Carlson
Elizabeth Williams
September 12, 2007
Dear Sathers family,
Words cannot accurately describe my sympathy for your loss. A friend of mine from WHS, Scott would buy me the famous WHS chocolate chip cookies from the cafeteria to cheer me up and would autograph any notebook or paper of mine that he could get his hands on with his "professional" hockey signature and hockey number. His zest for life and smile were infectious. He will be greatly missed.
Alyssa Malinski Erickson
September 7, 2007
Over the past few weeks I have been remembering many fun moments that I have with Scott since high school- the common theme in all of them is that they have made me laugh. From camping trips, TPing, our senior cruise, making rice krispie bars, and just hanging out there was never a dull moment. I will cherish these memories. Betsy, I also keep thinking about the wonderful message that you gave and it comforts me to know that Scott lives on in you. You are in my thoughts.
Nate Brian
September 5, 2007
Dear Sathers Family,
I first met Scott in Elementary School. I'm not sure, but I think he was in my Kindergarten class and I'm positive he was in my first grade class. I knew him until I graduated from WHS. Scott was always the cool guy that actually took time to be friends with a geek like me. I remember when I was in first grade, our teacher talked to us about the proper way to brush our teeth. Scott raised his hand and said "you should also brush your tongue so that you don't have bad breath". I brush my tongue everyday and I literally think of little blond Scott with his hand raised every time. I also remember when we went from 6th to 7th grade he said to me, "it's too bad your last name starts with a B, because our lockers will be really far from mine. They are in alphabetical order you know."
Lindsay Simmons
August 30, 2007
Dear Betsy & Sathers family,
My name is Lindsay Simmons and I have worked with Scott at Capella for several years. I recently left Capella because I moved to AZ, however when I heard what happened my heart felt as though it was right there in Minneapolis.
Scott was an energetic, light-hearted, warm man who always made others smile and laugh. He worked hard at Capella and was friends with everyone.
I am deeply sorry for your loss and pray that you find comfort and peace in the coming days and months. Know that even across the country, many people care about scott and your family. My heart and prayers continue to be with you.
Becky Bettinger
August 29, 2007
To the Sathers Family -
We met Bill several yrs. ago when he was down in Macro Island Fl. with P & G with Wally, (I'm Amy Murray's sister) we live in Big Lake Mn. and we just wanted to let you know how truely sorry we were to hear of such a terrible tragedy. Amy kept the whole family up dated with all the news -
Our thoughts and Prayers go out to the family.
Gary, Becky, Emily, and Justin Bettinger
Patrick McCoy
August 29, 2007
I just remember being stoked whenever I got to a WHS class on the first day and saw Sathers in there. I knew it meant lots of laughs for a whole tri. Fond memories. My thougths and prayers go out to Scott's family and friends.
Rebecca Reeves
August 29, 2007
I graduated with Scott from Wayzata and he was also in my confirmation class at St. Philips...I will always vividly remember Scott telling everyone how much he loved the movie Slapshot. :)
My thoughts and prayers are with his wife and family!
Kelly Stanton
August 28, 2007
I had the pleasure working with Linnell Sathers at Fair Oaks Elementary for many years. I'll always remember the days she proudly wore her Wayzata sweatshirt to work because her Scott had a hockey game that evening; a true hockey Mom. May his loving memories comfort you during this difficult time. You are in my prayers.
Scott, being Scott
August 28, 2007
Our Senior Cruise- Scott, Aaron, Sean & Neil
Kristin Hughes (Hayes)
August 28, 2007
Each day I sit down to read the multiple entries people have been leaving and each day I think I will finally write something of my own. But I have had such a hard time putting into words exactly what I want to say- as I am sure others have felt in a time like this.
I hadn't spoken to Scott in about 10 years, yet many of the memories that we all shared passed through my mind often. I first met him in 4th grade when I moved to Minnesota, and ever since, we had been friends. Sometimes we were the kind of friends who hung out and shared dreams, other times we were the kind of friends who got on each other's nerves. But I knew we would always be friends.
I wish I would have had a chance to meet Betsy and see the life she and Scott had built. I have heard only wonderful things about her and I know that Scott was happier than ever.
Scott's death has put a new perspective on my relationships with my family and friends, made me appreciate my own marriage and has helped me realize that I have relationships I need to rekindle. Scott, you're a friend forever!
We'll miss you and never forget you.
William Coryell
August 28, 2007
East of the Sun, West of the Moon.
Seema Kakade Aggarwal
August 28, 2007
The news of the Minneapolis bridge collapse and Scott's death hit my husband Neil and I with such great sadness, especially being so far away from our home town. We wish we could have been there for his funeral. Scott went out of his way our senior year of high school to make me feel comfortable hanging out with the Wayzata high school gang, even though I was from a different high school and a stranger. I will always remember his kindness and his warmth. Neil and I wish the entire Sathers family, especially Betsy, who we hope to eventually meet, comfort in each other, and someday, peace in Scott's memory.
"And in the end, its not the years in your life that count. Its the life in your years." -Abraham Lincoln.
Neil Aggarwal
August 27, 2007
Dear Scott,
I will never forget my friendship with you. I will never forget your crazy briefcase and overcoat that you wore in high school. I will never forget that you were the ring-leader for our great teepee night. I will never forget that you thought of the name "Snaggerwal." I will never forget your afterparty on prom night. I will never ever forget the senior cruise. I will never forget that you were directly responsible for so much of our fun (some of it directed at you of course) for 3 wonderful years of high school. I will never forget the passion and zest for life that you displayed in everything you did. I will never forget that it was you, at prom in the bathroom, who convinced me to ask out my "friend" prom date, who is now my wife. I will always regret that your life ended prematurely, as I know you would have touched many more lives the way you touched mine. Promise me you'll be there in spirit when the old "crew" hangs out.
Jeff Wallner
August 27, 2007
I met Scott around the time of Junior High, and continued a friendship through sophmore year of High School. I only now regret not knowing him longer. Scott left a lasting impression on me as our lives went seperate ways. As so many other people have said, his attitude towards life was second to none. Any time you felt as though something was not going your way, you just had to pause and think how Scott Sathers would have handled the situation, and immediately you felt better. I have so many great memories growing up thanks to Scott and his friendship. I'm sorry that I could not continue to "grow up" with Scott, but it sounds like he found a great wife and a fantastic family in that. My condolences go out to his entire family. I will truly miss and cherish those few years I shared with Scott and all the Wayzata buddies.
Jen (Aamold) Kallenbach
August 27, 2007
I met Scott Soph year in math class at Wayzata. The passion with which he came at you was almost overwhelming, but realizing that he was truely genuine was how you knew he was someone special. His charm, wit, sense of humor and grand ideas always kept us on our toes and laughing. He was a dear friend with whom I spent many late night phone convos talking about the gossip of the day, what was troubling us, what we were excited about, or what ever else was on our minds. In a time in our lives when everything was uncertain, I always knew he would be there to support, encourage and of course always give his opinion. Looking back, I am so thankful for all the times shared with the old high school gang. Between footaball, volleyball, basketball, gymnastics and track, Scott was always there to cheer us on (and give us tips of course). But we will always remeber watching #17 on the ice and keeping track of his +/- record. He was a friend like no other, with a passion and loyality that we could only hope to try and match. I will forever hold in my heart all the great memories we shared. His presence here will be missed, but never forgotten.
At Eldora - June '07 - Kenny's car.
August 27, 2007
Sharon
August 27, 2007
I'm a former Minnesotan living in West Virginia and read the Star Tribune every day. I was so sad to read about the 35W Bridge collapse and want to extend my sympathy to the Sathers' family. God is watching over you and all your family.
Hans Frees
August 26, 2007
To Sather's Family & Friends
Always smiling! That's what come to mind when I think back on the days at Wayzata High School with Scott. What a great guy! He always seemed to be in a great mood and fun to be around, the sure energy of the party! Scott, You'll remain in our thoughts and prayers. To the family - Our prayers are with you in these tough times! May the Lord now become a much better golfer!
Robert Wehling
August 26, 2007
I am a relative of Betsy Sathers, kind of her 2nd Cousin, Bob. I, and my brothers Mike and Steve, have always enjoyed Besty, her brother Jason and her parents Bob and Jill. I can tell you that the Ross family are wonderful, positive, uplifting, supportive and loving people. Always elloquent and graceful. And, at this unfortunate and tragic time, these qualities shown through clearly. I have never seen a person with so much poise as Betsy, in the midst of her heart break and grief. incredible.
my brothers and I did not know this great man named Scott Sathers. My brothers live out of state, however, i was fortunate enought to attend the funeral and learn about this rare and great person.
I am nearly 40 years old, and have been a social worker and group therapist for all of my career. Over that time, I have met many families in many different situations, with many different strengths and struggles. I can tell you that from what I observed and 'took in' that I am struck with the notion that Betsy and Scott must have shared a rare, special and intimate connection and love. It sounds like if flowed so naturally from them both. authentic. graceful. natural. evident...
although their marriage together was relatively short, it stikes me that they achieved the kind of love and connection that many couples probably yearn to have and struggle to move toward with their partner. what a joy and blessing to behold and learn about, and be inspired by their love.
Also the 'essence' of who this great man was...these things that I am reading & learning about him and the reflections spoken at the funeral illustrating his quality as a person. qualities that people spend thousands of dollars in attending simenars and workshops and trainings to learn how to attain, were gracefully possessed by this man and flowed very naturally from him. and one main quality that this man is described as having about him seems to be this rare type of 'selflessness' and his giving spirit. while being solidly defined as a person, this man seemed to spread joy and innately know the right things to say and do at the right moments for others. this was made so clear, in so many ways. what a blessing it must have been to know him! and all the friends and family and colleagues, and students and others who were touched in some way by this great man. it so speaks to his essence: the kind of person you seek out, the kind of person you are drawn to, the kind of person you admire...
Often, as an example to illustrate the often unrecognized effect that a person has on others, in group sessions, I would use the example of dropping a small stone into the center of a still pond and asking the group members to envision & note the circular waves of round ripples that flow outward from where the stone was dropped. the area nearest the point where the stone was dropped feels the most pronounced impact from the wave, however, the riples emminate and continue onward...coursing outward...even reaching the far ends of the pond until they are unseen...but still moving and still viable. The ripples reach out and although they are less and less pronounced, they continue to touch places near and far across the environment of the pond.
~ I then pose the question to the group: "what ripples are you sending out?"
Moreover: what is being spread by you as a person in what you stand for as defined by your 'presence' in the world...the way you treat others, the things you say, the things you do, etc.
...Although I didnt know him, I am touched by a distant ripple that came from him. The fortunate, are those closest to him: his wife, his family, the multitudes of friends that I observed at the funeral and that i read about here. they were in the inner circle of the waves that were sent out by this good man as he moved through his life; touching others, inspiring others, loving others, appreciating others...and I would say that he must have been admired and cherished and dearly loved.
although I didnt know you, thank you for inspiring me Scott...thanks for the ripple you sent my way...however distant...I am feeling it and am moved by you. and I think I can sum it up by saying that you inspire me to be a better man.
~ Bob Wehling
Serena Bermudez
August 26, 2007
To Scott's Wife and Family and Friends: I did not know Scott but he and I spoke and emailed each other about becoming an online student at Capella and he was very friendly and had a wealth of information about Capella and sounded like he really loved his job. You are all in my prayers and deepest well wishes.
Maggie Tulkki Peterson
August 26, 2007
To Scott's family
I went to WHS with Scott. He was truly a remakable person, and I will never forget his sense of humor and his genuine kindness. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Philip Granish
August 25, 2007
To the family of Scott Sathers
I’m a master’s student at Capella and Scott was my advisor. He helped me on several occasions, a couple of times going well beyond what he was required to do. He was a great guy. I pray that God will comfort you during these difficult times.
God bless,
Marie McLean
August 25, 2007
Betsy, the Sathers family, and the Ross family -
My husband, Sean, was a very close friend of Scott's. We have been thinking and praying for all of you during this difficult time and will continue to do so in the future.
Betsy, your courage and strength through all of this has been nothing less than inspiring. I want you to know that you have moved me and my family deeply. We only hope to try and live our own lives in the example you have set.
Please take comfort in knowing that we will continue to support you in the days and months to come.
Kristie Dezell
August 25, 2007
What a guy! Scott was the "good neighbor" who chased snakes from my patio, helped me change lawn mower blades, shared laughs, and so many other things.
I am happy that I got the opportunity to know Scott. I am happy that I got to see Besty and Scott be in love. We can all learn from them!
Paul Pruitt
August 25, 2007
Scotty- I will miss our many breaks- your emails to see if anyone wanted to "check the weather" and your infectious "yup yup's" and "jackpots". You were a jackpot of many wonderful gifts Scott. I hope you knew that, I fear we did not tell you enough. Within you was a keen and analytical mind, a snappy dresser; the only adult I know who could pull off pastel ankle socks (a truly stunning array), an ability to offset disappointments with try again even smarter optimism and most of all- a personal countenance so engaging I would always stop everything if you wanted to speak. I will miss our conversations. You had so many wonderful gifts Scott except, we now know, length of years. You got better with age and it breaks my heart that you were taken away in the midst of your pursuit of joy, meaning and life. Most promises in this world are not kept but you were keeping yours. You were building a life with "your gal" Betsy and as I watched at your wake clips from your wedding, I could see in both of your eyes the allure of lasting love and partnership. The greatest single success cannot hold a candle to a life of consistent usefulness and in the 2.5 years I knew you, you were always exceptionally useful. Your flawless and "spot on" usefulness was remarkable Scott and I will remember you as long as I live my friend. I remain at the ready to give you rapt attention, I so hate it that you are gone. Your insights, humor and style will linger large in many breaking hearts forever.
Best,
Paul
Dale and Shannon Hansen (Hals)
August 25, 2007
Betsy,Bill and Linnell,Sathers family and Ross Family:
Our deepest sympathy in your loss. Scott was the person that could walk in the room and put a smile on everyones face. He had a special way of touching hearts. We are very sorry for this tragic loss. We send our thoughts and prayers to you at this difficult time.
Samantha Koren
August 24, 2007
To the family of Scott Sathers:
I am a student at Capella University and Scott was my Enrollment Counselor. I am truly and deeply sorry for your loss. Scott was an amazing counselor he eased my fears about enrolling in an online university and made me feel completely comfortable. I just wanted to share with you my experience with Scott and how wonderful he was to me when I first began school.
Wendy and Kerry McLean
August 24, 2007
Dear Betsy, Bill, Linnell, Bob, Jill, and families,
The month of August certainly has been a long month....pain, heartache, waiting....What a blessing that last Sunday morning the news came that Scott was found. But with that came the next steps to take....planning a celebration of Scott's life. And what a wonderful celebration of Scott's life it was last night and today. So many family and friends all reaching out to you. Thank you for giving us all the opportunity to spend time with you last evening and then celebrate Scott's life today with the church service, luncheon. What an example of faith, love, caring, and reaching out to family and friends you all have given us. And, Betsy, your amazing strength today gave us all an example to follow. You gave us such a wonderful chapter of your life with Scott....you made us laugh and cry...you told us so many wonderful ways that Scott made your life so special. What an amazing husband, friend, and love. You seemed to bring us into your life and let us share some of the most special moments that you had with Scott. Thank you for sharing his wonderful ways with us. What a tribute to Scott, your husband, your friend. You are an amazing person....We will never forget your wedding day and all the happiness that we were blessed to share with you, Scott, your families and friends. We will also never forget the past month and the past two days that you let us be a part of with your families. We share your pain, loss......but we also share the wonderful opportunity to have had Scott in our lives. The McLean family will truly miss Scott....but we treasure all the wonderful memories of Scott and "friends" from junior high school days until now....and especially the time since he had "his Betsy" in his life. God Bless all of you and may God support and love all of you. Our love, hugs, and prayers, Wendy and Kerry McLean
Katie Lambert
August 24, 2007
Dear Betsy,
I had the opportunity to meet you for the first time yesterday and I am so grateful to have had that chance. Since our brief moments together, however, you have constantly been on my mind and I wanted to share something with you that I hope you will always remember.
It is found in the Bible: Jeremiah 29:11. "'For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the Lord, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.'"
Betsy, I know it doesn't feel like God has a loving plan right now, but He does. It is my prayer that in one year, in two years, in one week even, you will begin to clearly see the wonderful plan God has for your life. When that happens, I know you will begin to make sense of all of this and see how God's loving hand is blessing you day by day.
Take care and I'll be praying.
Aaron Redman
August 24, 2007
During 8th grade at Wayzata West I had 5 of 6 classes with Scott, from geography with Mr. Runyon to english with Mr. Billings. From that year on Scott and I were close friends that thrived on the moment and competition with one another. I literally grew up at the Sather household during our high school years, from numerous games of NHL hockey on the sega genesis to completing various "quick" work jobs around the house that Bill asked Scott and I to do. It has been very special to share these past few weeks together with such an amazing family (thank you for including me in your family). It was only meant to be that Scott would meet another incredible family and gal - the Ross's. Jill and Bob you are amazing parents and have raised a wonderful daughter. Betsy Sathers you were the perfect gal for Scott and your strength has been amazing these past few weeks.
I sit here laughing and crying as I think of all the HS memories with Sean, Brian, Jen A, Alyssa, Corey,Kristin, Brad, Neil, PK, Brax and most of all Scott. High school memories that I will never forget with Scott: walking around outside putting oreos on car windows during the night of the Halloween storm, the next morning spending all day clearing out snowed in driveways in the neighborhood, many hours spent trying to be the best at the game civilization on Brax Sodermans computer, Cream of the Crop versus The Thrillers in our one on one baseball games in my backyard, Sather family trips to the Duluth cabin - building the basketball court out of pea rock for our one on one games, the horse games we played on my slanted basketball hoop in our driveway, morning rides to Wayzata HS in the Pontiac 6000 LE blaring Metallica's "Battery" and Megadeath, watching #17 on the ice for the hockey team, tossing the toilet paper around Jen B's house and having to clean it up the next day because her dad did not think it was funny the 2nd time, making Valentine's dinner for Jen B and Jen A, the many roadtrips such as running to Wisconsin, making the 694 / 494 loop around Mpls/ St Paul, roadtrip to Wadena with fireworks,making fun of you because you ran into a stationary pole in the parking lot at school,many trips to the "MOA", girl drama in the group, and of course the Caribbean cruise during our spring break senior year.
Some of my post - HS memories: expanding our video game knowledge to Xbox and playstation, fantasy football drafts, laughing and arguing in the townhome for 2 years, fall sunday itinerarys with egg breakfast - the Vikings - Nascar - double TV's - Monopoly on the playstation - and constantly checking our fantasy football points, the milk list, having you take all my history tests I gave my students to see if you were smarted than them (you always were), Boundary Waters trips, roadtrip to the Viking / Packers playoff game at Lambeau and heckling the Packer fans, the many board games with our random comments of "it's on" and "you play with pure evil in your heart", and your wedding day with Betsy.
Scott was the definition of a true friend. He was always ready to offer advice,always encouraging me personally and offered help when needed. I have been so impressed with his impact on so many people these past few weeks and feel so blessed to have known such an amazing person with a huge heart. The group will not be the same without you. I am not sure how to replace the missing part in my heart at this moment but I know you are with the Lord and I take comfort in knowing that I will see you again. I am thankful that I was able to play one last game of NCAA football at your house on the Saturday before we lost you. You are missed more than words can explain!
Cara (Arnold) Albrecht
August 24, 2007
To Scott's family & friends,
My heart hurts as I sit here thinking of what you're going through. Scott was an amazing man-he certainly lit up the world. I will forever remember the laughs we shared at the old WHS. I am fortunate to have had the opportunity to spend much of the evening with Scott at our reunion-we had a great time. Scott, you are deeply missed, but remember, God only takes the best.
Corey Ehlen
August 24, 2007
Where do you start with someone that brought such joy to the world around him. Such zest for life and committment to whatever he set forth in doing. Many stories could be shared about the good times, and some where he just could drive you nuts like only Scottie could. My favorite recent memory was at Brian's Bachelor Party when we all went sky diving in Superior. Scott got a smaller guy for an instructor. I will never forget him landing and having this guy wavering to get down after the landing. Scott was just walking around with him on his back. It was like he had an upside-down turtle up there struggling to get back to ground.
I believe Scott was so loved as he always made people feel comfortable. I am impressed by the little things he did for his fmaily that we all should do.
Bill and Linnell- It shows what people you are to have a son that calls you ever single night. That can only be out of love and respect for you.
Betsy- As a friend of Scott's, I am so happy that he had the chance to know true love with you. He was lucky to have you in his life. I will never forget hearing how Scott was switching jobs but he seemed most excited that he now had the opportunity to ask you out. You put a new spark in him that I was grateful to see.
Bob and Jill- Thank you for raising such a wonderful daughter for Scott to enjoy his life with. It is unfortunate that it has taken such a time to get to know you better but I can see why Scott enjoyed hanging out with the in-laws. You are such warm and caring people and I look forward to getting to know you better.
Brian, Sean and Aaron- You four made an amazing team. Such adventures. You have lived life more as a group than anyone I know. He was so lucky to have such a bunch of amazing guys to support him through the good and bad times. So caring and always there for him when needed. You were great friends to Scott!
Scott- You were taken from us too soon though you have given us all such amazing memories. You inspire me to live life like you did (except during fantasy draft). I miss you and look forward to meeting again soon. Warm up the Crock pots for us!
Corey
Jennyfer Hildre
August 24, 2007
Betsy and Family:
I do not know you, nor did I know Scott. But my husband is a coworker of Betsy's, and I just wanted to let you know that you've been in my thoughts and prayers ever since the collapse, and continue to be as Scott is finally laid to rest. You have my condolences. All the best to you.
Matthew Babich
August 24, 2007
Dear Betsy and family,
Scott lived a few doors down from me at Thorson Hall while attending St. Olaf. He had a great sense of humor, bought me pizza at 1 in the morning and just was fun to be around. He will be missed. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Buffy (Leuer) Frey
August 24, 2007
To Scott's friends and family,
I know I signed once, but wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you today. I am sorry I couldn't make it to celebrate his life.
I recall a conversation with the SPD youth group one Wednesday evening where we were discussing guardian angels - I know Scott will be with all of you - watching over and protecting you.
Jennifer
August 24, 2007
Dear Betsy & all of the Sathers family,
I only met Scott a few times, but it was evident in those few times what a great guy he was. He always had a smile and a joke to keep everyone around him laughing. He was one of few people that truly loved life. Anyone who came in contact with him knew that and can attest to his great nature and spirit. I am fortunte to say I am one of those.
Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. It was far too soon. I hope that the memories Scott gave you will comfort you and bring you peace.
Steve Kolkind
August 24, 2007
Our family was blessed to meet the Sathers family when we moved to Plymouth in 1985, and feel very fortunate to have watched Scott live life to the fullest. Our boys always thought Scott was so neat by having success in everything, especially hockey and golf, where knowing a varsity player was the ultimate bragging right.
I spent many hours through the years with Bill doing hockey equipment, which usually meant having the boys around for help. Our boys began mowing the Sathers lawn - which we're sure that Scott could easily do - and during these wonderful experiences they learned through Scott and the Stahers family the value and importance of hard work, integrity, honesty, and having fun.
It is hard to find the words to express what Scott meant to us all, as there are so many to choose from. To remember Scott we have planted a young White Pine on our land, and we are sure that it will grow tall and strong, just was Scott (#17) was.
Steve, Mary, Eric, and Kevin Kolkind
Natalie Johnson
August 24, 2007
To the Ross Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Know that God is with you during this painful time. Most of didn't know Scott, but Jason has shared many thoughts about him. He will be missed very much by your family. Please know we are with you spirit Jas and Ronda,
Love all your SnoGhost Friends.
G
August 24, 2007
To the Entire Sathers Family,
I worked with Scott at Capella & it has truly been a pleasure knowing him for the past 2 1/2 years. I never forget when I moved down to the 16th floor he was always there to lend a helping hand and providing me with the tools to be more effective at our job. I also remember the fun conversations about golf and him and B trying to explain NASCAR to me. I am going to miss that (order-taker). He was a very kind soul that will be truly missed by me and anyone else that ever came in contact with him.
Mark & Rebecca Norman
August 23, 2007
Bill,Linnell and Family,
We are sorry to hear about Scott.
May God bless you and the family in this difficult time of sorrow and may your memories bring you some comfort.You are in our thoughts and prayers.
BOB ROSS
August 23, 2007
DEAR BETSY,
I JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT I WAS PROUD TO HAVE SCOTT AS MY SON IN LAW FOR THE PAST 10 MONTHS. WE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER SCOTTIE.
LOVE,
DAD
Mary & Brian Longe (Enright)
August 23, 2007
Dear Linnel and Bill,
Brian and I were so heartbroken as we followed the news of Scott. You both were so comforting to my parents and family when my brother died suddenly last month, and it hardly seems real that you would experience such a tragic loss as well.
May you find some relief tomorrow, through the support of your family and loved ones, as you celebrate Scott's life. It sounds like he was a wonderful person and you should both be very proud at having raised such a fine young man. Our prayers are with all of you.
Jeanne Corbett
August 23, 2007
Dear Family and Friends of Scott,
I am a student at Capella University. Scott was my Enrollment Counselor. Although I did not know him personally, I felt like I did. After going through a difficult time in my life, I decided to return back to school. I was scared and uncertain about this decision. He helped ease my fears by describing his own experience as a student. Scott had a great balance of compassion, warmth, a sense of humor, and willingness to go the extra mile to help me. Even after I started school, he checked in to see how I was doing. Just know that his life touched more people than you will know. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.
Lu Anderson
August 23, 2007
To the Sathers Family,
My deepest symphathy in your loss. I did not know Scott but feel a sense of loss for all of you, Eternal rest Scott, may you fly with the angels.
Janel Hinde (college roommate of Sandy)
August 23, 2007
I didn't know Scott well, but through the few interactions I had with Sandy, she spoke very highly of her brother and when we did meet, he always had a great smile and a full of life spirit. May God comfort you at this time.
Shari Force
August 23, 2007
I did not know Scott but he was a good friend of my brother-in-law, Sean McLean. My thoughts and prayers are with Scott's family and friends.
August 23, 2007
We extend our heartfelt sympathy to you, Betsy, and to all of Scott's family and friends. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May your many memories bring you comfort.
Jerry and Monie Fix
Shawn Groth
August 23, 2007
Dear Betsy and the Rest of the Sathers Family,
I went to high school with Scott and lived two doors down from him at St. Olaf. His kindness, zest for life and infectious smile will be dearly missed.
My deepest sympathies to you.
Russ and Robin Redman
August 23, 2007
To hear about the many ways Scott has impacted all the lives around him, wow. He has always held a tender spot in the hearts of the Redman family- ever since he ventured over to our house, becoming one of Aaron's first friends in Plymouth. There is a hole in our hearts that can never be filled.
Ryan Gould
August 23, 2007
Dear Sathers Family,
I had the opportunity and great pleasure of working next to Scott for 2 1/2 years at Capella University. He was a dedicated, bright, and fun guy to work with. He put great care into his work and he was always brainstorming great new ideas. I was fortunate to know him as a colleague and friend. He will be missed greatly.
At the Masters
August 23, 2007
Rob Slattery
August 23, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you Betsy and the Sathers family. Scott's spirit for life was infectious. I worked with Scott at Precision Pours. I had a chance to play a few rounds of golf with Scott at Baker National and at New Hope. He was alot of fun to play with and could diagnose and offer a remedy for your swing in an instance. He had the rarest ability to needle those he knew with a deadpan look and then a wry smile. He uttered a few classic lines that made me laugh everytime he said them. He loved the political debate. He intoduced me to the Twins Rally Room. Scott's company always offered "good times, good times". He's missed.
Tim Zak
August 23, 2007
I have known and worked with Scott for about two and one-half years. He was everything that this family and friends have written about him. He was an exceptional person that was caring, bright, fun and charismatic. He was creative and always had a big idea he wanted to share. He was a good person and I miss him very much. I have spoken to learners around the country that worked with him and they too expressed was a good person he was to them. I miss our car and Capella stock talk and more importantly his infectious presence, fun spirit and friendship. Please take solice in the knowledge that his goodness extended to all aspects of his life including his work life. It is my hope that in Scott's death he gave life to his last new big ideas, that his death will not be vain: life should be cherished and enjoyed to the fullest each day and that others will not perish as he did because of his ultimate sacrifice.
Sara Dick
August 23, 2007
Sathers Family,
I worked with Scott at Capella University and sat very near him. He was a great person who took his job very seriously, always looking at ways to improve. My deepest sympathy goes to your family.
Allyson Sensenbaugh (formerly Reinert)
August 23, 2007
Dear Sathers family,
I was so saddened to hear about Scott. I worked with him at TGIFriday's in St. Louis Park when I first moved here and he was such a great man to work with. He always had a smile and some kind of joke to tell me and he will truly be missed. To his wife Betsy - I was just married about a year ago too so I can only imagine the grief and loss you are dealing with. My thoughts are prayers are with you all.
Carissa Ellingson (Carnes)
August 23, 2007
I knew Scott from our days at Wayzata. After graduation, we both ended up making the move to 'the hill' at St. Olaf College. It was neat to have the Wayzata bond with Scotty at Olaf. He was just such a nice and caring guy - always willing to give you a hand. Not to mention - Scott was a blast to be around! He was a goofy guy who could always make people laugh - or at least crack a smile!!!
The bridge collapse and Scott's much-too-early departure from his friends and family is a reminder to all of us that life is precious and short. Hopefully we'll all take a small piece of Scott with us and remember to enjoy this one life that we've been given. And remember to smile - Scotty would.
Shane Rink
August 23, 2007
I wish I had the chance to say goodbye to Scott in person. I sat right across from Scott at Capella and I left a Capella abruptly a week before the accident. My last correspondence with him was through email, he assured me that we would stay friends and that he missed seeing me at work. Scott was a truely caring and supportive friend, I will miss him alot.
Katie Wadsworth
August 23, 2007
Sathers Family, I had the opportunity to work with Scott for many years and knew what a wonderful person he was. I am very sorry for your loss and hope you find strength in his memory- he will be greatly missed.
Clint & Vicky Schmidt
August 23, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this tragic time.
Cheryl Smith
August 23, 2007
To family and friends of Scott Sathers,
I am an MBA student at Capella. My heart sank once I found out a Capella University employee was missing from the bridge collapse. Even though I didn't know Scott, my heart was saddened by the tragedy. May God continue to comfort you and give you peace during this hard time.
Audrey Rehm (Rudnick)
August 23, 2007
My heart goes out to Scott's family. I knew Scott from the Wayzata H.S. days. He was always smiling and loving life.
Kris Luopa
August 23, 2007
You are all in my thoughts and prayers through this difficult time. God bless.
Nate and Jessica
August 23, 2007
Dear Sathers Family,
Please accept our sincere condolences for the loss of your beloved Scott. We both had the pleasure of working with Scott - with Nate at TGI Friday's, and with me at Capella. He will forever remain in our hearts with precious memories, and we wish you all peace and comfort in the coming weeks.
Don and Linda Howard
August 23, 2007
We remember youth hockey days when Scott and Mark were just little Squirts. The world will miss Scott, but he will be remembered fondly.
Elena Garcia (Capella Learner)
August 22, 2007
Please know that every member of the Capella family across the country is sending your their thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
Dorothy Goodon
August 22, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Sarah Peterson
August 22, 2007
As a coworker of Scott's I know first hand how much influence he has had on his peers, and the learners with whom he worked. We will all miss his leadership and friendship.
Sean McLean
August 22, 2007
Scott, simply put, cared about everyone. I have watched the guest book grow and it is an example of how many people Scotty touched. I still can't believe you are gone buddy. The memories we have shared since junior high are too many too count. Whether it was trips to the BWCA, running to wisconisn and mexico(okay driving or cruising it there), or watching vikes/nascar games on Sundays with the buffet line open for good times. You always were there for me. Fantasy football will never be the same, I don't know who will ever pick 6 RB's in a row again. I wish I could hear you tell friends one more time why you call me monkey, or why NASCAR isn't fixed but every other sport is, or why I shouldn't be allowed to play carcasan with anyone ever again.
You allowed people to be themselves and always were the entertainer. Things got too crazy the past month and you never got to meet my son Wesley, but know that your memories and what you have done for me are things that I will share with him for a lifetime. I miss you bud, every day. Thank you for being a true friend and always standing by me. Bill, Linell, Betsy and Sandy I am so sorry for your loss and we will always be here for you. Scott blessed us all.
Beth krutzig
August 22, 2007
To the Sathers family, What a tragic day it was to hear Scott was missing my heart felt heavy for all of you. I am very sorry for your loss and send my thoughts and prayers to you all !!
God Bless !
Sue Jewell
August 22, 2007
Sandy and family:
Scott was such a lively student in his WHS days; the stillness must be so difficult to bear in this sad time.
Thoughts, prayers, and love to all of you now and in the coming days...
Sue Jewell
Melissa Caffey (Capella Learner)
August 22, 2007
Please accept my heartfelt condolences for the loss of your prescious Scott.
Scott's new Jeep. Timed picture from the dash while driving to his cabin.
Brian Doyle
August 22, 2007
Scott and I first met back in the good old days of High School. I don't remember the exact moment when I met Scott because I think I knew "of" Scott before I knew the actual Scott Sathers. I knew of Scott because, at least in my eyes he was sort of a legend that I really looked up to. He was always so high on life. He so excited about everything that everyone just wanted to be around him to just to get a little of whatever he was on. He was also so competitive which is another thing that I really admired him for. Weather it was the two of us fighting over the 50 yard line seats at the Friday night football game or us racing through the HS parking lot to be the first one out. Scott also never did anything less then 100%. We would go over to his house every Sunday to watch Vikings games and he would have enough food to serve 50 people. Good food too. Everything from mini hotdogs to Heggies Pizzas. He always had all these theories on things like if you are going to have a pig roast then don't ask your friends to bring the pig. I remember one time he we went over to Fletchers for a few hours. The next think I new we ended up spending the night out at big island with out any camping gear. There was never a predictable moment with him. Scott loved to give me tips on my golf game but he knew I hated unsolicited advice so he would watch me hack away at the ball for hours. I could always tell that it was killing him in side but he would never say a word until I would get frustrated and ask for his help. I am really going to miss my good buddy. He will live on though through everyone that he came into contact with though because everyone he came into contact with he made an impression on. After all we are only a sum of our experiences. I am glad that a lot of those experiences included Scott.
Patrick&Elise Ruby
August 22, 2007
To Mr.& Mrs.Sathers, Besty, Sandy and friends. My wife and I would like to send our thoughts and prayers to you all. I remember growing up with Scott and all the fun we had in school and hockey, we were the defensive partners. I also enjoyed the times we spent together up at his cabin fishing. I will always remember Scott with a smile on his face, he will be truly missed.
Jill Conn (Binkley)
August 22, 2007
Dear Betsy and Sathers Family-
I am so very sorry to hear of your tragic loss. I will always remember Scott as a fun, outgoing guy who lived life to its fullest. One of my earliest, and fondest memories of Scott, was in 4th grade Mrs. Pearson’s class. We were playing a class game and he picked the piece of paper instructing him to sing Stevie Wonder’s, “I just called to say I like you.” He might have been a tad bit embarrassed, but being the lively guy that he is, he came to my desk and sang that song in front of the entire class. May you take comfort in knowing that Scott’s wit and charm touched many people and made the world around him a better place.
Ann Tomshine
August 22, 2007
I was shocked and saddened to hear of this tragedy. I worked with Scott at SLP Friday’s and remember him fondly. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Chris & Raquel Redman
August 22, 2007
My wife Raquel and I would like to send our deepest sympathies to Betsy and the Sathers Family. Being the younger brother of a close friend of Scotts, I had the chance to see what a fun, exciting, and genuine person he was. I have lots of great memories of him and will hold on to them. I'll always be his Brian Harper. We are praying for you and thank you for his impact on our lives.
Jessica Lyle
August 22, 2007
My deepest sympathies in your time of loss. Scott sounded like a wonderful person, and clearly the world was lucky to have had such a person.
Bill White
August 22, 2007
To Betsy,
I can find no words to tell you how I feel for your loss! I did not know Scott well, but I did not need to,to know how special he was, he had to be! because you chose him! the fact that he loved you and made you happy says that about him! I wish I could take your pain away, but only time will do that and in the mean time we all can offer only our love and support.
Leslie Root
August 22, 2007
Dear Sathers Family,
My deepest sympathies are given in your time of loss. I worked with Scott at Capella and actually started there with him in the same training group. He was certainly an entertaining up beat guy and he was able to keep us all smiling even in times of boredom. He will be dearly missed my thoughts and prayers go out to you!
Carie Oksendahl
August 22, 2007
Betsy & The Sathers/Ross families;
I was reading through the other entries in the guestbook, trying to get an idea of what to say. There are no words to really & truly soothe the terrible ache you all are feeling with this tragic loss. I never actually met Scott, but have known Betsy for quite a few years through mutual friends. Everything I've ever heard about him has been wonderful and I am just so heartbroken over this horrible tragedy. My thoughts and prayers have been with you since I first heard he was missing, and I pray that your memories and love for each other take care of you until you meet again.
Much Love,
Carie, Travis, Alysen & Jayna Oksendahl
Sandra Budolfson
August 22, 2007
Words cannot express the sadness we feel. Fond memories of youth hockey in Wayzata.
May the loving arms of Jesus hold you tightly and give you comfort.
Sandi and Bob Budolfson
Judy Leibold
August 22, 2007
Betsy&Family, We are long time friends of yourMom&Dads--our whole family is heart sick at the loss of your husband Scott. Our deepest sympathy- The whole Walker Family--Dan,Dick,Judy,Jane,Ellen,Ann&our families
Andi & Rob Eberle
August 22, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you during this tragic time. We have so many great memories of Scott from when we worked with him at Fridays. He was always a ray of sunshine.
May the love of friends and family carry you through your time of grief.
Angie
August 22, 2007
My heart goes out to you all. Stay strong for each other.
August 22, 2007
Please know our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time. May you find comfort in pleasant memories of times shared.
With sympathy,
Lynn Szostek, PhD - Capella Faculty
Brenda Washington
August 22, 2007
To the Scott Sathers Family,
My continued prayers are with you. I am a doctoral learner at Capella University and would like to extend my deepest sympathy to you.
May God Continue to Wrap His Arms around you while you go through this time in your life.
Jim & Diane Lee
August 22, 2007
Bill, Linnell & Family,
Our deepest sympathy on this tragic loss. We still remember the old Wayzata hockey days of Scott. Our prayers are with you all.
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