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Rita DeSimone Obituary
Rita's husband, Louis DeSimone, passed away in May of 2000. She is survived by her devoted children: LuAnn M. Stanley and her husband Sam, with whom she lived, Deborah A. DeSimone and her husband Francis of Millbury, Henry F. Hicks and his wife Linda of Dudley, Robert R. Hicks and his wife Nancy, Thomas H. Stanley and his wife Maureen, all of Worcester, Leonard P. Stanley and his wife Nancy of Spencer; twenty grandchildren; 36 great grandchildren; seven great great grandchildren; many nieces and nephews. Three sisters: Florence Allaire, Beatrice Mason, and Dorothy Paquin and a brother, Wilfred Paquin all predeceased her. Rita was born in Worcester, a daughter of Joseph and Elizabeth (Jason) Paquin and has lived here all her life.
She was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church. Considered by her family as an "Angel who walked the earth" her family was everything to her. Their company, interests and enjoyments were her life. She enjoyed Bingo, cooking and laughing with her family.
Rita's funeral will be held Thursday, June 26th from the MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL, 370 Plantation St. with a Mass at 11:00 a.m. in Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church, 24 Mulberry St. Burial will follow next to her husband in St. John's Cemetery. Friends and relatives are invited to visit with the family from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m. Wednesday, June 25th in the funeral home. The DeSimone family would like to thank the Hospice of Western Mass for their kind care and comfort given to them and their mother during this difficult time.
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Memories and Condolences
for Rita DeSimone
Deborah DeSimone
July 22, 2008
You were the true meaning of the word "Mother". It still feels like you are here. And knowing you, you probably are. I feel your presence every minute of each day. Until we meet again you will be on my mind and in my heart.
LuAnn Stanley
July 18, 2008
To my Precious Mother,
God made a wonderful mother
A mother that never grows old
He made her hair of silver clouds
And molded her heart of gold
Her eyes like bright stars are shining
Her cheeks are fair to see
God made a wonderful mother
And gave that mother to me...
Mom,
I miss you more and more with every day, ever hour, every minute that goes by. You truly were a wonderful mother, you were the best. I feel as though I did not get a chance to really say Goodbye. So mom, this is not 'goodbye' because your love will forever live in my heart. I hope you know how much I love you and how much you meant to me. You made my life complete mom, thank you so much for being the wonderful mother you always were.
Love Always,
Your Daughter LuAnn
Jessica Stanley
July 18, 2008
Meme,
I find it more difficult day after day to face the fact that you are gone. You are and will always be my everything, my favorite, my pride and joy, and most of all, I will forever be your "baby dolly dumpy stinky poo." I was told by Ann Sarasin that you and I were two people that shared the same heart. I couldn't have put it any better. When you left, I felt as though half of me was missing and it is. You were the most amazing grandmother any one could have ever asked for and I, my brother, my mother and every single one of us were extremely lucky to have the years we did with you. The love you shared with everyone was unconditional. Meme you are truly special and I pray that you are my guardian Angel. I never wanted to lose you, and I had wished I could have you forever. Unfortunately, your bodily presence could not stay on earth with us forever but the love you have left with us and I know you will comfort us until we meet again. Say hi to Pepe and Aunt Dot for me, I am sure they have been waiting a long time for you. Rest in peace Meme, I love you a bushel and a peck and a hug around the neck!
AnnMarie Sarkisian
July 17, 2008
Rita,
If only I could see you one last time
I would study your features more closely
Capturing the memory in my mind
If only I could hear you one last time
I would listen to your voice with open ears
If only I could touch you one last time
I would feel your warmth and love beneath my fingers
If only I could smell you one last time
I would breathe deeply forever remembering your scent
If only I could talk to you one last time
I would tell you I will always love you
If only I could have one last minute
I would thank you for being my friend
your eyes always lite up a room and that smile was like seeing a beautiful rainbow
I will miss you my friend
Samuel Stanley
July 16, 2008
Mema we all loved you with all our hearts. As the years pass you will never be forgotten and the memories of your love will remind us of the happiness you brought to our lives.
Debbie Schonborg
June 27, 2008
Jennifer,
What a Eulogy!! You are a "class act" Your grandmother loved you dearly. Your family is so very very proud of you as our family is too.
We all love you!!!
Love your Mother-In-_Law
Debbie
Mark & Tina Arell
June 25, 2008
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
jim and mary stanley
June 25, 2008
with our deepest, heartfelt sympathy
gayle delisle
June 25, 2008
my deepest sympathy to you all. i didn,t know aunt rita too well, but what i knew of her she was a wonderful woman, a very kind and loving person. I,m very sorry for your loss. love gayle
BASIA & MARY KURKIEWICZ
June 25, 2008
Lisa & Family
With Our Deepest Sympathy.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in your time of grief.
Jennifer Ricard
June 25, 2008
To My Family-
We all lost someone special. But remember mema will always make sure we are all ok. We love you and will miss you mema.
Linda Rosenlund
June 25, 2008
Dear Jess & Luanne & family:
We are sad to hear of your loss. We remember all of the funny stories Jess would tell us about her loving grandmother.
Please accept our heartfelt condolences.
Linda, Dave, Sherron & Jackie Rosenlund
Deborah Schonborg
June 25, 2008
Jennifer
May all those precious times you had with Meme help ease your pain, at this most difficult time.
Love your Mother-in-Law
Debbie
Cheryl S
June 25, 2008
Dear Jessica and family,
May all your tears be followed by smiles and laughter, as you recall the wonderful memories you had with your grandmother.
Love,
Anthony, Joe & Cheryl
Rob and Norma Robertson
June 24, 2008
We are so sorry for your loss. Rita was a fun person and full of life. Our hugs and comforts are sent with this. We are so sorry to be so far away physically but will always remain close at heart.
Chrissy Martell
June 24, 2008
Jen, I'm sorry for your loss of your grandmother. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Love The Martell Family.
John Reeks
June 24, 2008
Rita: Your smile and especially your infectious laugh will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved you. I'm sure your friend has a seat saved for you at the table.
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