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Shirley Fraioli Obituary
Shirley is survived by her loving family; her husband, Mario Fraioli; two sons, Mario Fraioli, Jr. of Worcester, Matthew K. Fraioli of Auburn; two daughters, Jayme L Fraioli and Lisa M. Fraioli, both of Auburn; her father, William Kirwin, Sr. of Millbury; three brothers, Michael Kirwin and his wife Frances of Worcester, William Kirwin, Jr. and Anthony Kirwin both of Millbury; four sisters, Jane-Marie Mrazik and her husband David of Oxford, Denise Dalpe and her husband James of Millbury, Christine Godbout and her husband Roger of Worcester and Patricia Kirwin and her companion Jay West of Millbury, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins.
Shirley was born in Worcester and lived here most of her life before moving to Millbury. Her mother was the late Patricia (VanAlstyne) Kirwin. She was a graduate of North High School. Shirley enjoyed being a homemaker and loved being with her family, especially her niece, Alicia and nephew, Sean. Among her many interests she enjoyed sewing, baking, walking, and camping. She loved to read, and enjoyed spending time with her close friends. Shirley was a devoted wife and mother whose time spent with her family was precious to her. She will be missed dearly by her family and friends. Shirley was a former member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel-St Ann Church, and was a long time volunteer for the American Cancer Society.
Shirley's funeral will be held Monday from the MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL, 370 Plantation St. with a Mass of Christian burial at 11:00AM in Our Lady of Mt. Carmel-St Ann Church, 24 Mulberry St. Calling hours in the funeral home will be 4-7PM on Sunday. Burial will be in Notre Dame Cemetery. Flowers may be sent or contributions made to the Susan G. Komen For The Cure, 5005 LBJ Freeway, Suite 250, Dallas, TX. 75244.
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Memories and Condolences
for Shirley Fraioli
Lisa Fraioli
August 1, 2008
Mom,
I can't believe it has been a month already since you passed away. I went to Foxwoods and sat by the pool at the campground yesterday and thought about all the great memories we had here. Every day is getting harder and I am missing you more everyday. I love and miss you so much Mom!
Love,
Lisa
RIP Mom 3/25/1958-7/1/2008!
Amy Bradstreet
July 28, 2008
Aunty Shirly-I am constantly thinking of you and how empty I feel, knowing that you were excited about the girls coming down for the summer. I am glad that they got to see you and you them. Your with my Nana and my daddy now and I have all of you in my heart knowing that you are all watching over my family. You will always be in my heart. I love you very much and miss you. Thank you so much for all you did for me when I was a kid. I will never forget your kindness.
Love you forever:
Your neice Amy
p.s. When you see my daddy you tell him I love him and miss him so very much. When you see Nana tell her that I love her and miss her and often reminise about when she was determined to turn me from a tomboy to a girl..lol
William F. Kirwin Jr.
July 16, 2008
shirley,
I am always thinking about you we all miss you Mon will see you in heaven she,s going to be mad at you because you wern,t suppose to be there,but she will not be alone anymore I am going to miss you you make sure you take care of Mom take her shopping!
I Love You
Billy
Christine Godbout
July 13, 2008
Shirl-
I miss you and think of you everyday. I know that you are with Mom and that gives me strength. You both will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Love you
Christine
Michael Marino
July 11, 2008
Matt,
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Joseph Dyer
July 6, 2008
Mario,Mario Jr,Mathew and Jaime:
I was awa in Florida and Mike just got ahold of me... My first reaction was SHOCK, my second reaction was NO NOT AGAIN...I am deeply saddend by the loss of my Aunt, but find solice in the fact that she is now with Nana watching over us all..
I MISS YOU AUNT SHIRLEY !!!!!
Love Joey
Patty Morrissey & Daughters
July 6, 2008
Mario & Family-
It is with a heavy heart that we try to begin to say our goodbyes to Shirley today... Although I know it really isn't goodbye... it's until we meet again...
She has been a good friend, & more like a sister to us than anything.
Together we all shared happy & sad times, our hopes, disappointments, triumphs & tragedies through the years... It's difficult to try to imagine her not here to share the big & small things in life.
I will miss her stopping by for coffee with Kathy & Maryellen, reminiscing about Julie & the old days...
Lending me a book she thought I might like to read & her thoughtfulness in making the shamrock pajama pants & shirt for Bridget, giving Liz SAT Prep programs, & trying to help find a dress for Ange's prom...
All of the "everyday things" that made her such a "special person" to so many...
To Mario Jr,Jayme,Lisa & Matt:
you will honor your mom as you continue finding success in your careers,happiness in your everyday lives, & find that special some one to share the rest of your life with.. Remember your mom will always be with you & shares those moments with you.. Be kind to each other, & help your dad, he'll need it.
To Shirl:
I'm jealous Shirl... You're with your mom, my mom, Julie, Danny, & my little angel Sarah... I can imagine you guys are having one hell of a reunion!!!
Watch over us Shirl, in the darkness of the days to come, when it will be difficult to get through the long nights.. help us remember all the memories that will keep you close in our hearts & give us the strength we need to make it through another day.
God Bless you & keep you... until we meet again...
We love you & we miss you!!!!
bev al maria steven samaris and the twins toscano
July 5, 2008
to the fraioli and kirwin family ,we were as close as family and raised our kids together we are sadden by the lost of shirley however we look to the brighter side and know god has something special that only shirley can do so rest in peace and carry gods word
Andrea Handfield
July 5, 2008
To the Fraioli Family,
I had the pleasure of working with Shirley at Clark University, and what a wonderful lady she was. She will be missed. With deepest sympathy.
tom markiewicz
July 5, 2008
mario, i am heartfully sorry for your loss!!! may all your memories bring smiles. i have not seen you since our school days but never forgot those wonderful years.
your friend always
tom
Lisa Fraioli
July 5, 2008
Mom,
I think about all the memories we had together. I love you and miss you so much! I am missing you more everyday!
Love,
Lisa
RIP Mom
Michael Dyer
July 5, 2008
Auntie
i will always miss you but i will always know you are alive and well in my heart and you were always my wind beneath my wing i will miss you so much
Love your nephem Michael and Christina
Tricia Joyce
July 5, 2008
To all the Fraioli family,
I first met Shirley when we volunteered together on the same Rocketland committee. I liked her immediately and knew what a great Mom she was. I enjoyed seeing her through the years with our kids activities. My heart is heavy and you are all in my constant thoughts. The sorrow will be great. Please take care and be good to yourselves.
TERRY+JEAN
July 5, 2008
DEAR UNCLE BILLY + KIRWIN FAMILY+FRAIOLA FAMILY.WE ARE DEEPLY SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR DAUGHTER,SISTER, WIFE+ MOTHER + OUR COUSIN.JUST IMAGINE HOW HAPPY AUNT PAT IS TO WELCOME ONE OF HER DAUGHTERS TO BE BY HER SIDE IN HEAVEN. IN DEEPEST SYMPATHY LOVE COUSINS TERRY + JEAN
Alicia & Sean Kirwin
July 5, 2008
Auntie
We miss you and will love you forever. I know that you will be watching over us as our guardian angel and take care of us like you always have. You have taught us so many things and helped us to grow. We will never forget you.
Jack & Pam O'Bryant
July 5, 2008
Mario,
Remember when we were young and carefree and had our whole lives ahead of us. And then you meet Shirley and your life together began. What a wonderful wife and mother she was! She brought a smile to everyone whose life she touched. May your memories be with you forever.
Love,
Matthew Fraioli
July 5, 2008
Constantly thinking about you. I love and miss you.
Lisa Fraioli
July 4, 2008
Mom,
I miss you so much already. I will never forget everything we did together and all the fun times we had together. I love you so much!
RIP Mom!
Jared Olen
July 4, 2008
Matt, Lisa, Mario & Family -
I am so sorry for your loss. It is a time like this when we appreciate the fragility of life but, more importantly, the eternal endurance of one's soul. May you all be comforted knowing that you have another shining angel to watch over you.
With sincerest sympathy,
Jared W. Olen
Kate Lord
July 3, 2008
Our deepest sympathies to you all. We were so saddened to hear of Shirley's passing. Wishing you much strength and peace in the days and months ahead.
love
Kate (Denning), Bob & Rob Lord
Julie Collins
July 3, 2008
My deepest sympathy and thoughts and prayers go out to the whole Fraioli and Kirwin families.
Jennifer Laperle-Sclamo
July 3, 2008
Mario & Kids,
I can't imagine what you all must be going through right now. Please know that you are in my thoughts during this difficult time. May your happy memories carry you through this time of grieving.
Rest in peace cousin.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Kimberly Pitts
July 3, 2008
To The Kirwan Family,
I am truly saddened to hear about your loss. It has been many years since we were all kids growing up on Bell Hill, but I remember you all so well.
May God comfort you and your loved ones at this time. Peace be with you all.
Cathy White
July 3, 2008
To the family of Shirley Fraioli,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. Shirley was a wonderful person and I enjoyed working with her at Clark University.
karen senecal
July 3, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time.
Fred Bukur
July 3, 2008
Denise,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of loss. Although words can not take away the pain that you are all going through, keep in mind that Shirley will always be with you in your hearts and her love will live on through you and her family. I wish you all strength during these difficult times. My heart goes out to each of you.
Amy Bradstreet
July 3, 2008
Aunty Shirley,
I will always love you and miss you. You have helped me many times in my life and for that I will be forever greatful. Tim, myself, Josh, Lacey, and Heather will forever miss you. Uncle Mario, our deepest sympathies to you and the kids and the family.
Love Forever,
Amy and Tim Bradstreet
Casey Handfield
July 3, 2008
On behalf of all of us at Auburn High School, our thoughts and prayers are with the Fraioli family.
David Alfredson
July 3, 2008
Denise,
I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of your sister. My heart goes out to you and everyone in your family.
Matthew Fraioli
July 3, 2008
Mom, I miss you so much already. I don't know how we're going to go on without your physical presence, but I know you'll always be here with us. Love you always and forever, Matt.
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