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Barbara Bashaw Obituary

Barbara J. (Wagner) Bashaw, 71, of Holden, died surrounded by her loving family on Sunday, July 13, 2008, in Saint Vincent Hospital, Worcester, after a long battle with cancer.

She leaves two sons, Robert L. Bashaw and his wife Roseann of Rochdale and Paul A. Bashaw and his wife LuJean of Holden; a daughter, Sally A. Jason and her husband Joseph of Shrewsbury; four sisters, Doris Urbanovich of Oakham, Olive Contois of California, Mary Trudeau and her husband Roy of Westboro and Ruth Ricci of New Hampshire; 6 grandchildren; 5 great-grandchildren; many nephews and nieces. A brother and 4 sisters predeceased her.

Barbara was born in Holden, the daughter of Silas F. and Gertrude P. (Palmer) Wagner, and lived in Holden all of her life. She was a graduate of Holden High School and worked as a Dietician at Holden District Hospital for many years. After her retirement, she volunteered at the Fallon Clinic in both Holden and Worcester.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend calling hours from 4 to 7 p.m. on Wednesday, July 16th, in the Miles Funeral Home, 1158 Main St., Holden. The funeral service for Barbara will be held at 11 a.m. on Thursday in the funeral home followed by burial in Worcester County Memorial Park, Paxton. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Cancer Society, 30 Speen St., Framingham, MA 01701.

www.milesfuneralhome.com

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette on Jul. 15, 2008.

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Ellen Doucette

July 23, 2008

To the family,
Barbara was a wonderful and dedicated volunteer, here, at Fallon Clinic. She will be fondly remembered and deeply missed. Everyone was always glad when she came in to help, as she was a hard worker and helped "get the job done". We are all sorry for your loss.

Mary Pierce

July 21, 2008

To Barbara's family,

My deepest sympathies are with you at this time. Barbara was a very special person. I worked with her at the Fallon Clinic where she volunteered and thought the world of her. Please know she will be greatly missed.

Pat Jouki

July 18, 2008

Sorry for the loss of your mom.

Ron Neal

July 17, 2008

Paul & Family,
My thoughts are with you during this time of grief. I know your mother was a very special person to you and you will cherish her memories forever.

Ron Neal

Christine Fahlbeck

July 16, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Eleanor Norling

July 16, 2008

TO THE BAGSHAW FAMILY.
I WANT TO EXPRESS MY DEAPEST SYMPATHY TO ALL OF YOU WITH THE LOSS OF BARBARA.
I WORKED WITH HER FOR THE PAST MANY YEARS AT THE FALLON CLINIC IN HOLDEN.
SHE WAS A VERY LOVELY WOMAN WHO WILL BE MISSED BY ALL WHO KNEW HER.
ELEANOR NORLING

Rose Smola

July 15, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
My prayers are with you...Sally Jason and Doris Urbanovitch.

Cheryl Kahikina-Marcano

July 15, 2008

Sally, Time were tough as your mom went through treatment, you will always have your lunch date memories. With much thought and sympathy to you and your family. Cheryl

ED Leonard

July 15, 2008

Bobby and family, Patie and I remember your mom and dad from the station, and Patie from HDH. She was a hard working lady that made sure that all you kids had a better life. May she gas her vehicle in heaven at my dad's gas station Eddies Getty! So sorry for your loss.
Ed & Patie Leonard

Darlene Crowley

July 15, 2008

Paul, I knew you many years ago. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time and in the days to come.

Darlene Crowley (Gosselin)

allison decoff

July 15, 2008

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

karen young

July 15, 2008

hi ruth and sally, very sorry for your loss.do not know if you remember me i knew you both when i worked at wyman gordon. again sorry karen young

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