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James Nicholson Obituary
Jim leaves his wife of 45 years, Barbara J. (Carlson) Nicholson; one son, James G. Nicholson and his wife Lisa of Webster; two daughters: Wendy Knapp of Fairfax, VA., and Darlest Merkle of Worcester; also many grandchildren, including, James M., Sean M. and Shannon M. Nicholson and many great grandchildren. He also leaves one sister, Dorothy Berthiaume of Worcester; a brother, Richard Nicholson and his wife Roberta of Auburn and many nieces and nephews.
Jim was born in Worcester, son of James and Mabel (Chabot) Nicholson and lived in Webster many years. Jim was a member and Eucharistic Minister of St. Louis Church, he was a member and former Past Exalted Ruler and past secretary of the Webster Lodge of Elks #1466. Jim served in both the U.S. Army and U.S. Navy for a total of 27 years during the Korean and Vietnam Wars. He later worked for 9 years for the U.S. Postal Service in Worcester. For 16 years, he was the transportation coordinator for the Town of Oxford for Project C.O.F.F.E.E. He was also a member of the D.A.V. in Boston.
The funeral will be Thursday, August 7, 2008 with a Mass at 10:00 A.M. in St. Louis Church, 16 Lake St. Burial, with Military Honors, will be in Notre Dame Cemetery in Worcester. Calling hours for Jim will be Wednesday, August 6,2008 from 5-8 P.M. in the Robert J.Miller-Oxford Funeral Home, 247 Main St. (Rte.12) in Oxford. Flowers may be sent or memorial contributions may be sent to: VNA Care Hospice, 120 Thomas St., Worcester, MA. 01608
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Memories and Condolences
for James Nicholson
Joan Walton
September 2, 2008
Jim was a great friend as well as a brother in law. I considered him a good friend. Jim and I would kid each other. And that I will miss. I will never forget how well he treated myself and my sons throughout thier lives. Please be sure of my prayers for him. Sincerely Joan Walton
Karen Smith-Lovejoy
August 16, 2008
Dear Barbara and family,
My heartfelt condolences for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bette & Michael Rampanelli
August 15, 2008
Dear Barbara,
I feel such a loss with Jim gone. I am so glad that he is not suffering anylonger.
I am glad that Michael and I had so many wonderful memories of our visit with Jim this summer.
I am glad that you are doing so well.
I love you Barbara.
Jim was a wonderful man and a man that brought so much love to so many peoples lives.
I remember Jim kidding me about when I was a baby and you and he used to change my diaper.
I love him for loving you and making your life so wonderful.
Thank you Jim for coming into the Carlson girls lives and making it a better life knowing you.
Barbara you are in our prayers and our daily thoughts.
We love you very much.
We loved and we miss Jim very much.
Jim watch over the heavens for the rest of us. Try not to take over.
Love
Lisa Nicholson
August 15, 2008
A heart-felt thank you to all of you from the Nicholson Family. He was a great guy. We all loved him very much and will truly miss his hearty laugh, sense of humor and his kind and caring heart. The wonderful memories that we all have and share will keep him alive in our hearts always. Peace and Love to all. Jimmy & Lisa
Susan Firstenberger
August 14, 2008
Dear Cousin Barbara... I just wanted to send my condolences to you in the loss of your husband Jim. Joan has talked so kindly of the both of you. I know that we never have met but maybe someday we will. Your cousin Susan in Florida.
Andrea, Nick, and Jordan Fitton
August 12, 2008
Dearest Auntie Barbara,
I do not need to tell you how much Uncle Jim will be missed or how much we all loved him, because you already know. He was a great man who was a prominent figure in my life for as long as I can remember. From Thayer Pond to holding Jordan in your kitchen, he always was present with his laugh, love, and heart. We will continue with donut Sundays, but they will never be the same. He was the only man that was close enough to my heart to fill the shoes of my Dad at my wedding. The precious memory of that dance will be in my heart forever. Uncle Jim did leave a lasting impression on everyone he met. He also gave our family the blessing of getting to know and love Auntie Dot. I will be forever thankful for that. We will always remeber our Uncle Jim. Love always....
Steve Nicholson
August 11, 2008
Hi Im soorry I could not make the funeral and my heart goes out to you all. He was a great guy and I for one will miss him for a long time to come. As he would always say to me you know Steve we have one heck of a great last name you know that. I would say back ya Nicholson sounds great dont it. He says you bet ya.
Chuck Mistretta
August 7, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy, thoughts and prayers go out to your family at this time of great loss.
Gary Schultz
August 7, 2008
Uncle Jim, you were more like a father than an uncle. you taught me how to ride a bike, throw a baseball and catch a beaseball. You were there for me through all of the highs and lows in my life. Yet, you never judged me and stood by me through thick and thin. You were a great man, who gave 27 years of military service to your country. During that time you were in two wars (Korean, Vietnam)all our country. You raised your children and your grandchildren with the help of your wife and my aunt Barbara. There is an empty hole in my heart since you passed away. It will never heal even with the passing of time. I will never forget all of the wonderful things that you have done for me. And for teaching me how to be a good man. I will never forget you. You are forever in my heaert and soul. I will miss you very much Uncle. I love you very much anbd miss you!! Your nephew Gary
The Belanger Family
August 6, 2008
Jim, Lisa, Matt, Sean, and Shannon,
We are very sorry to hear of Big Jim's passing. He was a funny man with a great heart. May the Lord Bless you and Keep you during this time. With Love, Mike, Jen and kids
Cathrine Smith-Castell-Mello
August 6, 2008
Aunt Dot & The Nicholson Family
Recently, our Extended Family has had to bear the grief of several passings. It makes us realize how each day with our loved ones truly is a gift. It's the one thing in our lives that never wears out from use. You are a strong family. I love you, Aunt Dot. Please extend my thoughts and prayers to the family.
Kathy Coomey
August 6, 2008
Dear Jim and Lisa
Sorry very sorry to hear about your loss. I know you will have many wonderful memories. I feel like I knew him just from Lisa's stories. He sounded like a wonderful man.
Take Care
Charlie & Deb Morse
August 5, 2008
Jim,
Deb and I are so sorry to hear of your fathers passing. Keep your memories of him close to your heart and he will always live through you.
Debbie Odgren
August 5, 2008
Barbara, I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. Jim was a great boss and friend since our time together at Project Coffee. I was looking forward to getting together for our "Summer Vacation Breakfast". Even though I will miss him, I know he is now at peace. Know you both will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
Franklyn & Patricia jones
August 5, 2008
To the Nicholson Family;
At times like this , words do not do justice for the departed. I worked with Jim when he was a Member of the Oxford Police Reserves. He was a very understanding person and will be missed by all that knew him.
Ruth Charron
August 5, 2008
Dear Barbara,
I am so sorry for your loss. I enjoyed working with Jim at Travel Time.
My prayers are with you.
Ruthie Charron
Largo, Fl
Dean G. Alexandrou
August 5, 2008
Dear Nicholson Family,
From our family to all of yours,
May his memory be everlasting.
The Alexandrou Family,
Dean,Diane,Christian and Danae
Vernon l. Johnson
August 5, 2008
Jim,
May the Love each of you (FAMILY) shared with your Father Permeate in your hearts and Minds to Comfort and Guide You through this difficult Period of time.
My Sincere Condolences,
Peace Be Still
Kelly Murphy
August 5, 2008
To the Nicholoson Family
I would like to express my deepest sympathy to your family at this time of grief. Jim was a really great guy who will be missed very much! Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you.....
Stacie Fallon
August 5, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We loved Uncle Jim very much and we'll miss him terribly.
Sarah Pelletier
August 5, 2008
To the Nicholson Family,
At times like this it is sometimes hard to find the right words to say... Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this trying time. With deepest sympathy.. Love Justin, Sarah & Champ
Sally Belanger-Metzger (Barrie)
August 5, 2008
Sorry to hear about your loss, Jim and Barbara are good friends of my mom and dad, Dave and Barbara Barrie, and just going thru the loss of my dad, I know they are together again, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Rest in Peace Jim
Jean Marauszwski
August 5, 2008
I am sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Eddie Barrus
August 5, 2008
Sorry to hear of your loss
I enjoyed working with Jim at Travel Time Bus lines. He was great to work with.
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