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Mabel Pulda Obituary

Mabel Pulda, 93, died peacefully on Saturday, August 23, surrounded by family members and friends. Mabel, known to all as Mary, experienced 93 years of life well and fully lived. She was the matriarch of a large and loving family that includes daughters Margery Blonder and her husband Fred, Elizabeth Tapper and her partner Peter Simkin, and Harriet Ben Ner and her husband Avner; sons Arnold and his wife Patricia, and Robert and his wife Kathy, her son-in-law Howard Rifkin, and her sister Carolyn Sumner. She is predeceased by her husband, Louis, and her daughter, Ruth. Mabel also had 15 grandchildren and 5 great-grandchildren, many nieces, grand-nieces, nephews, grand-nephews, and countless friends.

Mabel held strong views, values and steadfast principals, by which she influenced many and inspired others. She firmly believed in and lived her life according to democratic (with a small and capital D) and ethical beliefs, informed by modern Jewish and Zionist values and practices - principles and actions which she practiced consistently and inculcated in her family. Mabel was a committed political activist, an early and unswerving opponent of Richard Nixon, his ilk, and his cohorts.

Mabel was born in Brooklyn, NY, and moved with her parents, Harry and Minne Krepshan, sister, and brother Sidney to New Britain, CT. She graduated from New Britain State Teachers (now Central Connecticut State University) and became a teacher in elementary school until she married Louis and moved to Worcester in 1939. In Worcester she was an active and valued member and supporter of many civic, religious, and charitable organizations, including Hadassah, of which she was a Life Member and special honoree in 2005, Rachel's Table, the Worcester Public Library, past president of the Congregation Beth Israel Sisterhood, member of the Worcester Democratic City Committee, a volunteer in the Palliative Care Unit of UMass Hospital, and a volunteer Home Visitor for the Jewish Family Service. She was also a foster parent and host to friends and relatives; her dinner table was always open to guests and strangers. Through kind word and thoughtful intentional deed she had a salutary influence on the lives of countless family and friends near and far.

The funeral will be held at Congregation Beth Israel, Jamesbury Drive, at 3:00 p.m. on Monday, August 25. Memorial week observance will be held at the residence of Robert and Kathy Pulda, 6 St. Paul Drive, through Friday. Donations can be made to the Pulda Scholarship Fund, c/o Congregation Beth Israel, 15 Jamesbury Drive, Worcester, MA 01609 or Worcester Chapter Hadassah, c/o Harriet Tullman, 10 Maxdale Road, Worcester, MA 01602

Perlman Funeral Home, 1026 Main St., is in charge of the arrangements.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Aug. 25 to Aug. 26, 2008.

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Cheryl Weagle

September 9, 2008

Dearest Liz, Peter and family: We are saddened to learn of Mom's passing. What a blessing to have had her for so long. Celebrate her life as she would want you to do. Our deepest sympathy to the entire Pulda family.
Our love and prayers are with you,
Cheryl and Cliff Weagle

Diana Hamilton

September 3, 2008

To Liz, Peter and Family,
I am so sorry to here of the passing of your beloved Mother Mary. I remember the first time that I met her with her beautiful smile. I was invited with Ida for my first Seder. It was a wonderful time for me and I have kept in touch with Mary all these years. Mary ALWAYS made you feel like family. All of you have lost a wonderful Mother and the world has lost a wonderful lady.
May you all find comfort in the beautiful memories she left behind.
Diana Hamilton

Alan Levine

September 2, 2008

To the Pulda Family.......I was saddened to hear of Mary's passing.....boy this summer has not been kind to you guys.....she was a wonderful woman who always made everyone who visited feel like they were at "home"...especially to Harriet and Robbie, (who know me best) my sincerest condolences.....may God give you strength to deal with life's events....all my best. Alan

Kathy Laperle

August 26, 2008

May it help in someway to know that friends are sharing in your sorrow. She will be truly missed, I feel honored to have know this wonderful woman.

Margaret Morrissey

August 26, 2008

To the entire Pulda family,

I am so sorry for your loss. Please let me know what I can do to help you through your time of grief.

With Sympathy,

Steven and Susan Pulda

August 25, 2008

To the entire Pulda family,
We were saddened to hear of the passing of Aunt Mary. She was a very special lady and will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.

Jennifer Laperle-Sclamo

August 25, 2008

To The Family,

I was truly saddened to hear of the passing of your family's matriach. I have many, many, fond memories of working holidays and your family gatherings on Coolidge St. May you find solace in the loving memories you have and in knowing that Mary lived a long, full and wonderful life. She will always hold a special place in my heart as I'm sure she will in all whose lives she has touched.

With Deepest Sympathy,

Ruth-Ellen (Burack) Flanagan

August 25, 2008

So sorry to hear that your Mom has passed. I was just looking at some photos that my Mom Edna Burack has of Mary and was getting ready to send them along. I will do that soon. I had one of Ruth also at my sweet sixteen party! Again, sorry for your loss. You have a lot to be proud of after reading about her life.

beverly larson

August 25, 2008

Dear Liz and Family,

so very sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. Sincere sympathy to the entire family

sincerely
Beverly (Tobolson)Larson

Rhoda Schulzinger

August 25, 2008

Dear Pulda Family, My thoughts and sympathy are with all of you. I know that you all honor the values lived by "Mabe" and that wonderful memories of her will help during this difficult time. With much love, Rhoda

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