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Pasquale Montuori Obituary
His funeral will leave the EAST HAVEN MEMORIAL, at 425 Main St. East Haven, CT 06512 Tuesday morning, Sept. 2, 2008 at 10:30, a Mass of Christian Burial at St. Vincent de Paul Church at 11:00. Burial in East Lawn Cemetery. Friends may call prior to the mass from 9:00 to 10:30. A memorial service will be held at Poise Style & Motion Dance Studio, 97 Webster St. Worcester, MA on Sept. 13 from 11:00-1:00pm. In Lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to the family through the East Haven Memorial Funeral Home.
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Memories and Condolences
for Pasquale Montuori
Sponsored by Trish.
Cory Emberson
March 23, 2019
Dear Trish, Steve's family, and his dance family,
I just learned about your profound loss, and I am so very sorry.
I taught with Steve at the Hartford Arthur Murray Studio in the first half of the 80s before I moved to San Francisco. His love of dance and people, and the size of his heart, made teaching and hanging out with him a joy.
He truly cared about his students, and he gave his all to them, from beginners to his advanced students. I can't count the number of students (ladies and couples alike) who caught his spark and love of dancing. He touched many lives in such a wonderful and positive way.
I will never forget you, Steve - until we meet again. My prayers for peace for all of you who loved and cared for him...
Christine Hebert Foskett
January 27, 2010
I danced with Steve in the late 80's and early 90's. He was a great teacher, leader and friend. He will be missed. I am saddened that I let so much time pass before returning to the studio. To his family and friends my deepest condolences.
Visting friends during the holidays
January 16, 2009
Anjie & Matt Coates
September 12, 2008
To Trish, his family and the PSM Family,
Steve was a true gift; he indeed had poise, style and motion in his energetic step. His smiling greeting as we entered each Friday always made us both smile in return.
He had a way of making the incredibly complex look so very simple. Anytime anyone was looking for just the right move you would hear them call from the other room, ‘Steve? We need something here…” and he would watch and say “How about...” and show them the exact move that filled the gap but fit so seamlessly there could be no better choice.
His loss will be felt deeply by any who had the privilege to know him, and to have him influence their lives. He left a stylized stamp upon the dance of any who had the pleasure to work with him, and will forever be a part of their fond memories through out each and every life he touched.
Carolyn Padden
September 12, 2008
To Trish and the Montouri family
Steve will always be remembered as an outstanding teacher and a fantastic leader. He had a wonderful understanding of what it takes to teach those of us with two left feet to dance ever better. He always took the time to greet everyone by their first names and to be sincerely interested in them. He will be dearly missed and not forgotten.
GLENN AND TONI MELTZER
September 11, 2008
WE WILLTRULY MISS OUR TEACHER AND FRIEND!
Steve and Stephanie at The Eastern 2008
September 10, 2008
Stephanie Pandiscio
September 10, 2008
To Trish, Steve's Family, & PSM Family,
I'm wishing you the comfort of loving memories of Steve and the feeling that you'll always be connected to one so close to your heart.
Steve, when we danced, you always made me feel like I could do anything. You will be deeply missed.
The following is something I read and wanted to pass it along.
"What if the brilliant, twinklng stars that bring the dark night sky to life are windows looking out of heaven? And at the very moment when we're wishing on those stars, hoping that the loved ones we have lost are happy, safe, and free...maybe they are looking at those same stars from the other side, makng the same wish for us...sending us all their love."
Peter Athanas
September 10, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of Steve's passing. I was close with Steve in the early 1990's with a group of guys that remember him as a good hearted, fun loving guy. I will always think of him fondly.
Tim Berryman
September 10, 2008
I first knew Steve as the room mate of one of my friends when I moved to the Worcester area 20 years ago after graduating college. We shared mutual interests and became good friends. Although I left the area 14 years ago, I still often thought of Steve and the good times we had together during one of the best times of my life. I'm sad to say we didn't stay in touch as much as I would have liked, but I never forgot him. He will be missed.
Kathleen Moylan
September 8, 2008
Our deepest condolences to you, Trish, and to the Montouri family. We will always remember our classes at PSM with fondness, and we are so sorry for your loss. Sincerely, Kathleen and Kevin Moylan
Patricia Connolly
September 8, 2008
Tricia and the Montouri Family,
I am so saddened by your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Betsy Davis-Smith
September 8, 2008
Although I had not seen Steve in several years the feeling of a great loss is still felt. For a few years I had spent almost everyday at the studio if not taking lessons-just practicing.
My deepest sympathy goes out to everyone who knew and loved him.
Harvey and Jane Duffany
September 8, 2008
With sympathy to Steve's family, friends, and students.
Bill Kadish and Marie Hobart
September 7, 2008
Steve selected the very special music that Marie and I danced to when we did our Bolero showcase earlier this year. Just as with everything else having to do with dance, Steve just knew what would be best.
Also, Steve was my favorite man to dance with!
We will miss his greeting us by name every time we walk into the studio. We will be forever grateful to him for reintroducing us to ballroom dancing.
Our deepest sympathy goes out to Trish and to Steve's family.
With love,
Bill and Marie
Pat and Helen Turano
September 7, 2008
I first met Steve when my daughter Elaine took lessons from him as a teenager, which must have been right around the time he moved to Worcester. He was a wonderful teacher and encouraged Elaine's love of dance. (She's still dancing, now doing jazz and ballet.) A couple of years ago Pat (Pasquale) and I wanted to take lessons, walked into Poise Style and Motion, and there was Steve. He contributed so much to the lives of many people, and we will miss him a lot.
John & Cathi Nyemchek
September 6, 2008
Our deepest sympathy
Mark Nocera
September 5, 2008
We were very sorry to hear about the loss of a dear member of the dance community. We have been colleagues for a long time and we always enjoyed seeing Steve at ballroom competitions.
The dance community is extremely tightly-knit; Steve's memory will no doubt be remembered graciously.
Your friends, Mark and Dawna
September 5, 2008
My sincere sympathy to Trish, the Montouri family and everyone at the PSM studio. Steve will be greatly missed. He was instrumental in the birth of DOCMA which we greatly appreciate. His love of dancing and friendliness will remain with us.
Jo Ann Hyland (No. Oxford, MA)
May 2005: The PSM Gang at "Dancing a la Carte"
September 5, 2008
199: CT Star Ball Dance Competition
September 5, 2008
John Ryder
September 4, 2008
HEFE!
I was one of your more reluctant students, but you had a gift to share. You could speak to me in the way I needed to learn. You made dancing fun and I felt successful!
I miss our little chats over a smoke.
I wish I had taken the time to tell you...
Another lesson learned.
Thank you Steve.
=JR=
Ronald Meagher
September 4, 2008
To Trish and the Montuori family: Words can never fully convey what one wants to express at times like this, but I wish you all much peace through the healing process.
With deepest sympathy
Colleen Thyous
September 4, 2008
It's been a week since you've been gone
And still your memory keeps living on
Through our tears, we find a way
To keep dancing and laughing, as you'd want, each day
To Steve's family, colleagues, and all his friends
Remember through us, Steve's life extends.
-The Beaner
Simona & Michael Suyer
September 4, 2008
To Trish and Steve's family
Shocked and saddened by the news and still can't believe that Steve is gone. We been with Steve from the beginning of his dancing carier.
He had a good nature, very optimistic, always in good spirit and always smiled.
He will be greatly missed and never forgotten by us.
Our deepest sympathy to Trish and Steve's family.
Trish and Steve - "Dancing a la Carte" Dance competition - Springfield, MA - 2004
September 4, 2008
Deborah and Steve - "Dancing a la Carte" Dance competition - Springfield, MA - 2004
September 4, 2008
November 2003 - Steve and "Coco Bean" - Waltz at Maironis Park
September 4, 2008
PSM staff - 2007
September 4, 2008
Preservation Worcester: "Dancing with the City" 2007 - Steve and Deborah receiving appreciation award
September 4, 2008
"The PSM Gang" - 2006
September 4, 2008
Cindy & Ray Lumb
September 4, 2008
To Trish, Steve's family and The PSM Family,
Ray & I are send our deepest sympathy to all of you. We have known Steve for many years. He was always friendly and a pleasure to watch dance, and and we will miss him.
Keith and Jean Aclin
September 4, 2008
To Trish, to the Montouri family and all who have known and loved Steve,
It is with sad hearts that we heard of the news, and with grateful hearts that Steve was part of our life. God blesses us with special people; Steve was one of them and his memory will continue. His grace on and off the dance floor will always be remembered.
Marsha and Alex Voshchin
September 3, 2008
To Trish and Steve’s family.
Shock disbelief and pain! That’s the only way to describe how we feel about Steve’s passing. Steve was our first teacher and he became a good friend. Seven years ago we came to the studio. Steve taught us the love of dance. He encouraged us to become amateur performers and competitors and he did it with great patience, warmth, and understanding. He encouraged us when things weren’t working and celebrated when we were successful. Two years ago we moved to the international style of dancing but we kept our relationship. Steve always made us feel welcome when we came back to the studio and to Maironis. It was like coming back home. He greeted us with his great warm smile and a big hug and asked us about our progress. We will always remember Steve, a man with a big heart, warm smile, and disarming charm. We will miss our good friend.
Theresa Cloyd
September 3, 2008
To the Montuori Family- I extend my deepest sympathy for your loss. To Trish- I wish you peace. Steve was such a great guy.
To Steve- I will always remember your encouraging words as I learned to dance. I will miss your friendship. We will all miss your presence in our lives.
Deb Celularo
September 3, 2008
Steve and Trish you have been a true inspiration to me. There is so much I love about you, so much you have taught me, so much you have given me, and there is so much beauty in the way you danced together I will never forget. My thoughts, prayers, love, and support are with you, your family, and friends. With love and deep sympathy, Deb (who loves "dancing with friends"). Thank you for your friendship and love of dance that has inspired me.
Nancy and Gary Librandi
September 3, 2008
To the staff at PSM
Nancy and I will always remember Steve's smile and gracious manner. He will be missed not only as a great dance instructor but as a great friend and a very classy individual. Our condolences and prayers to all of you.
Mollie O'Connell
September 3, 2008
To the Montuori family, Trish, and friends: Bill and I had the privelege of knowing Steve for about 20 years. The joy he gave to the dance world will go on. God blessed us all.
Ann Peterson
September 3, 2008
Dear Trish, the Montuori and PSM families,
We are introduced to PSM in the Spring of 2007 after sponsoring the Dancing with the City event in Worcester. We enrolled in private lessons soon after and were fortunate to have the talents of Steve and Trish as our instructors. As a 'newcomer" to ballroom dancing, I truly appreciated Steve's ability to guide me through so many dances and always make me feel good. I often would arrive at the studio feeling down and within minutes of waltzing around the floor, I would be smiling and laughing and on to the next dance. We were preparing for my first showcase for the end of the year and the competition in Boston in February. Like so many have said before me, Steve was a great dancer and teacher, but more importantly, a great man. I will always appreciate how he treated everyone with respect. As the priest reminded us all yesterday at Steve'e services, he was called to Heaven to dance with the angels. One day I will meet him there to keep on dancing! Steve, thank you for inspiring me to dance and you will always be in my thoughts and prayers. Ann and Howard Peterson
Liz and Steve Pacheco
September 3, 2008
To Steve's Family, Trish and all of Steve's Friends,
We extend our deepest sympathy. Steve touched so may people with his love for dance and his warm sense of humor. There will always be a space on the dance floor left for him.
Richard Fish
September 3, 2008
Trish and Steve's Family,
I am so sorry to hear about Steve. He was a great individual and he inspired us all to dance. When I danced at the PSM Studio on Friday evenings I remember Steve would be playing the music and he would have a big smile on his face. He watched all the dancers move around the floor and I know he was saying "these are our PSM students and they have become good dancers".
He really was a special person and will be missed. Prayers to you all.
Richard Fish
George & Yvonne Poske
September 3, 2008
With heartfelt sympathy.
George & Yvonne Poske (Spencer, MA)
Beata and Michael O'Brien
September 3, 2008
Our deepest sympathy to Steve's family and Trish. We were greatly sadden to hear of Steve's passing. He was a wonderful friend and a amazing teacher.
Mark and Dang Bibace
September 2, 2008
To Steve's family, Tricia, and friends, we share your loss. I can't believe he's gone. Very sad. I'll always remember his encouragement. Few stories for you. My parents had a wedding anniversary coming up and after taking dancing lessons with Steve at PSM for awhile I thought it would be great if he could come. He did. He gave a lesson and DJ'd. It was the hit of the party. Totally unexpected for everyone. He did it again for our own wedding. Again it was a big hit. My wife and I took dancing lessons with Steve for awhile so we could do our solo dance in style. We had some acquaintances that were having a wedding coming up in a very short time and were looking for a DJ. Hello guys, you need to get your act together quick. Don't worry, I have the guy that can take care of it! Steve Montuori! Would he be able to fit it in? YES!!! Another hit. 3 for 3. Steve always made people feel like they could do the dancing and was a very patient teacher. His smiling face and spirit will live on. We'll always remember him fondly. Thanks for what you gave us Steve.
Richard LeDuc
September 2, 2008
To the Montuori Family, Trish and Friends of Steve:
I was both stunned and saddened by the unexpected passing of Steve. I meet Steve and Trish dancing at Maxwell's one evening not long ago, their love of dance and elegance on the floor inspired me to take lessons.. a gift I'll never forget. My most sincere condolences to Trish, his family and friends.
Michael Maldonado
September 2, 2008
His initials were his calling card.
Here’s a recipe for fun:
- a little Poise
- a smidgeon of Style
- some well-timed rhythmic Motion
- a little shimmy is optional when the desired mood is playful
Everything we are
is an awakening of sorts
and when we’re taught
we find how to look inside
Shall we still dance ... today?
Who’s hand shall we hold when the partner
we had has earned the rite to dance at heaven’s ballroom
where even Beethoven can hear his own latest arrangements?
When our teacher has left us it’s because
he’s done all he can and now we must stand
on our own two feet, while the beat of each rhythm
brings forth the memories of all that he taught us
I want each lesson learned to bring honor to
the memory of our times spent together
I want to keep on dancing ... and not let
these tears ... interfere with the stride of my step
Do you see me? Can you tell I’ve been practicing?
I’m keeping my shoulders back and down,
my chest is out and I’m feeling tall
and I’m holding my posture real cool – yet relaxed
I’ll always remember you;
you’re initials P.S.M.
are engraved in my heart –
reflections in my mind each time I dance ...
M. Maldonado (TheLatinPoet)
Michael and Snejana
Jim Proia
September 2, 2008
Dear Family, Loved Ones, and Friends of Steve,
I was both stunned and saddened by the unexpected passing of Steve. Like others before me have so eloquently expressed, I offer my humble condolences and encourage those that Steve touched to carry on the commerce, artistry, and positive social karma of ballroom dance that Steve performed so well during his short stay with us.
Joe and Diane Sabatini
September 2, 2008
We want to send our condolence to the Montuori family and Trish. Steve transfered his love of dancing to us in the limited time we had with him. This gift will be something we will share with others and carry with us the rest of our life.
Thank God for giving us Steve and his spirit, which will live on through his many friends.
Ildiko
September 2, 2008
I've just heard of Steven's sudden and untimely passing. I'm at a loss for words and deeply saddened by this tragic news. I was looking forward to coming back to classes the very next day of my return, which - knowing that Steve is not amongst us any more - will be on a somber note. My deepest sympathies to all the loved ones who Steven has left behind.
Edna Stefaniak
September 2, 2008
To Trish, Steve's family in CT and to Steve's Dance family,
We will all miss him terribly but I know that he will be smiling and watching over us all daily and most of all, he will be dancing!!!!
Love,
Edna
Joan Bertrand
September 2, 2008
To the Montuori Family, Trish and Friends of Steve:
I/We would like to express our deepest sympathy for your and our loss. Steve touched so many of us by sharing his love for the dance. What started to be a night out for lessons or "mandatory fun" turned out to be a night to look forward to. Although we tried twice to place in Tango and never scored, the pleasure was all in the preparation and the opportunity to partner with you on the floor. I thank you for the joy you brought to me and the sense of accomplishment that I would have never known. Rest in peace. Joan and Bruce
Robert Palenchar
September 2, 2008
Steve was always very welcoming and encouraging to me at his studio. My heart goes out to his family, friends, and students.
Leslie Harris
September 2, 2008
My heart goes out to Trish and Steve's family. Steve was a wonderful man who brought so many people together who never would have had the chance to meet, all through his love of dancing. Rest in peace my friend.
bayda asbridge
September 1, 2008
Steve will be missed by all of us and PSM studio will never be the same. deepest sympathies to his family and friends.
maryanne Colonero
September 1, 2008
Trish, I am stunned and saddened by the news of Steves's passing. My thoughts, prayers and most sincere condolences are with you.
Sincerely,
Maryanne
Amie and Jim Cole
September 1, 2008
Jim and I have only recently started taking lessons at PSM and have so enjoyed watching Steve's skill on the dance floor. We would just sit mesmerized and say "one day.. we may be that good.." We unfortunately didn't know him very well, but are deeply saddened and shocked to hear we will never get the chance to enjoy watching him dance again. Our sincerest condolances and prayers go out to his close friends and family and the many students and fellow dancers whose lives he has enriched. Treasure the memories, they will last forever.
Mike Nagy
September 1, 2008
With deepest sympathy.
Trudy Sand
September 1, 2008
At almost 83 years of age, I was Steve's oldest student and enjoyed my private lessons for 10 years. After 7 showcases at Maronais Park, he was planning #8 for December. He was full of ideas to add to the Quickstep routine we had been practicing. On September 13th, Steve, Trish and I were planning to celebrate my 10 years of private lessons with him. I was getting ready for my lesson on Aug. 28th at 1:30pm when I heard the shocking news of his passing. He was the best teacher as well as the kindest and most generous human being. For me there's no replacement. Steve had many devoted students and friends. He will never be forgotten. Trish, I loved you from the minute I met you and thought you were the best partner for him. You and Steve dancing together was a joy to watch, a perfect fit! I will never again hear Steve saying before my lesson "Are you ready Trud? Let's get rocking." What a loss for all of us. Trudy Sand
Josie and Sal Citta
September 1, 2008
Our deepest condolences to Trish and to Steve's family. Steve was one of a kind--artful, skilled, and yet a truly humble man who was always willing to give of himself. He will be sorely missed. Sept. 5 would have been my first showcase, danced with Steve. Eventhough I will not be able to do that, I do not regret one moment I spent learning the routine he so beautifully choreographed and so patiently taught me. It was my privilege to have been able to do this.
Sal's and my time at PSM has been very special, providing us with something that is uniquely ours--time together. For this we thank Steve and Deborah and all of the wonderful people who are a part of PSM.
Arrivederci to a very special friend.
Lee Joseph
September 1, 2008
To Trish and "Pasquale's" entire family and extended family at PSM,
I am a recent dancer with PSM having started last year for the Dancing With The Realtors event. I trained for the event and could have stopped when it was over.
I took one lesson with Steve after the event finished and I was hooked. He was an amazing teacher but an even greater partner.
I didn't know a lot about Steve personally. However, if I had know his real name was Pasquale, I would have had a little fun with him! Coming from a fellow italian whose real name is Leona Antonetta Theresa Mazzamurro, he would have enjoyed it.
I wish to extend my deepest sympathies to all of you. I will keep Steve and all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
Christine Rouleau
September 1, 2008
Steve,
You will truely be missed by some many. You always had a friendly smile and warm heart to everyone who walked through your studio door. You had so much talent and clearly touched so many people's lives. The Dancing with the Realtor event will not be the same this year and we will all remember your impact and words of encouragement before last years performance. My thoughts and prayers go out to you, your family and all those who have been so impacted by your kind presence.
Richard&Joselyn Renard
September 1, 2008
We feel honored to have know Steve and been part of PSM, Steve made everyone feel like we are all family. We will miss him and our hearts go out to Trish and his family. Richard and Joselyn Renard
Shrewsbury mass.
Suzanne Hamby
September 1, 2008
My heart goes out to Trish and all of Steve's students, family and friends. His spirit will live on in all the people he touched with his kindness and inspired to dance. What a wonderful life he had, following his dream and bringing joy to so many.
Kathy and Hartmut Kaiser
September 1, 2008
Our hearts ache with Steve's untimely passing. For over ten years we have been two of his many enthusiastic students. The fun and joy we have experienced during our lessons at PSM and the delightful Friday night dance parties will remain forever precious memories. Steve was not only a masterful dancer and instructor, but a charming person and a true gentleman.
Our hearts go out to his family and relatives as well as to Trish, his life partner and most gifted of his students. We wish them strength and courage to cope with this truly tragic loss.
Dear Steve, we miss you terribly, but we will keep alive the passion for dancing that you instilled in us. There will always be a place in our hearts for you.
Jim/Cindi Nelson/Chase
September 1, 2008
Steve nade a difference in our lives that was profound. He helped us look at life in a different way, and helped us find a more beautiful world.
Sandra DeRienzo
September 1, 2008
It is going to take some time for the shock of Steve's death to sink in for many of us. Steve, Deb, Trish and the others at PSM made "Dancing with the Realtors" event of 2007 the success it was. Their teaching skill made our Realtors shine at the event. Season II will not be the same without his participation and showmanship. Let's keep on dancing and keep his memory alive.
Joan tufts
September 1, 2008
We feel very fortunate to have spent as much time with you as we did. You were a speciall person and we loved you. Joan & Hughie
Paula & J. McRell
September 1, 2008
You loved dance and you loved life. And what you had you gave freely to others. What a gift we got from you! You will always be in our hearts and with us on the dance floor.
Aline Morris
September 1, 2008
I was shocked and saddened to hear that such a young and fit man has passed away. He was a kind, generous and very well liked man.
My most sincere condolences to Trish and his family.
Steve & Trish Tango
September 1, 2008
PSM Staff
September 1, 2008
Dance Director Steve
September 1, 2008
DJ Steve
September 1, 2008
Dancing memories III
September 1, 2008
Dancing memories II
September 1, 2008
Dancing memories I
September 1, 2008
Janice Carlson
September 1, 2008
My deepest & sincerest sympathy goes out to you Trish and all of the Montuori family, I am truly sorry for your loss. Steve was one of the kindest & gentlest people I have ever met and he always knew how to make you feel at ease. He had such a loving heart, a precious smile, and on the dance floor, there was no one like him. He had that unique talent and ability to have anyone he danced with feel and look like a true artist. Steve was a blessing to everyone whose life he encountered. He was a wonderful teacher and friend & he will be greatly missed. May God be with all of you & help you through this difficult time and may the wonderful memories you have of Steve be your strength. Always in my prayers. God Bless.
Jennifer Brezniak
September 1, 2008
Steve, the time that I spent dancing at your studio was one of the most memorable times of my life. Thank you for enriching my life. For that, I will always be grateful.
kathy st jean deats
August 31, 2008
To Steve's Family
Our deepest sympathies.
Randy Deats and Kathy St Jean Deats
Barb Finer
August 31, 2008
What a shock and what a loss to the world. Steve took his art seriously, treated everyone with respect, kind words and a warm smile, and helped us all feel like Fred and Ginger. If every person could be as good as his/her 'job' as Steve, we'd have more quality in the world. If everyone followed their passion, like Steve, we'd have more happiness.
Only the good die young.
Be proud of what he accomplished. I will miss him.
Steve & students at comp
August 31, 2008
A young Steve receiving a dance award
August 31, 2008
A young Steve working at the studio in CT
August 31, 2008
Karen Nugent
August 31, 2008
To the family, as you know, Steve mattered and is loved by so many. My sincerest sympathy. Many years ago (over 18) Steve "Pasquale as I would fondly call him" and I were dance partners. I was very fortnate indeed. He taught me how to Tango so we could perform for a graduating Notre Dame class. We also then taught some Wachusett Children how to ballroom dance. Those are some of my fondest memories. He kept my dancing spirit alive. I will miss his laugh.
Christina Andrianopoulos
August 31, 2008
Steve was one of the finest and sweetest men I have ever met. Two years ago I had an idea to launch a Dancing with the Stars event with local stars as a fund raising event...first one in Worcester and per chance I drove by his studio PSM on Hope Ave, and I left a message not knowing to whom. Steve immediately returned my call and after one meeting he enthusiastically accepted to work together. Due to his generous contribution of his studio, dance instructors, his time, videoing, photographing, costume donations, endless meetings, endless promotions and parties...the "Dancing with the City I, and II" to benefit Preservation Worcester were successfully staged with the most recent one last March at Mechanics Hall to an audience in excess of 300. The event was also very successful due to the fact that Steve co MC'd the evening with Andy LaCombe making it the first class event it was. But what I will remember him mostly for and will remain embedded fondly in my heart is being invited as a guest at those evenings at Maronis Park when he would introduce me as if I was Worcester's premier media star...and after he had danced with just about everyone who attended and after his beautiful world class performances with his beautiful Trish C...I would run up to him and say, "Steve...please, please dance the Tango with me and make sure you make me look good!" He never hesitated (regardless of how tired he was) and would take me strongly into his arms, with a big smile...and glide me along...making me look and feel as if I was a Goddess on that dance floor that night. Steve, I am one of the fortunate ones who have lots of video of you that I will keep forever to remind me of how fortunate we were to have you provide such joy in all our lives through your love of dance.
Love & Light
Christina Andrianopoulos
WCRN--Dining OUt MetroWest
Anthony and Lori Siagh
August 31, 2008
Trish, and to Steve's entire family,
Me and my husband are just so sadden to hear of Steve's death. He was the most considerate, unselfish, talented man!!!!!! He passed away, before his journey on this earth was even close to to completion. What a loss to many, many friends, family, and loved ones. Our prayers go out to all that loved him.
Steve..... We love you!!!!!
Joyce Jordan
August 31, 2008
Steve was a wonderful person, and a great dance instructor.
He had the ability as a leader in dance, to make his partner
look great, even if she were a beginner. That seemed to be
his only concern--a gentle leader and a gentleman.
He will be greatly missed.
Ron, Lee, & Christa Cote
August 31, 2008
To the Montuori family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Steve was an asset to the world of ballroom dancing. He will be missed.
Gerald Weaver
August 31, 2008
Steve You will be Miss Greatly!
Cheryl and Gerald
Sheri and Alan Brooks
August 31, 2008
Every time we walked in the door of PSM, Steve's warm welcome would greet us. He understood how to treat his students and that extra kindness was always appreciated. We enjoyed taking classes with him and trading our off track humor. We'll both miss him a great deal.
Our heartfelt sympathy goes to Trish and to Steve's family during this very difficult time.
Jim Royce
August 31, 2008
Steve and his welcoming, good nature and salesmanship turned ballroom dancing from a 10-week whim to a substantial, sustained part of my life.
For eight months I have been coming weekly, and sometimes more, 60 miles each way because, for someone like me, Steve put together a place where serious dance was made more accessible.
Some of the friendliest people I've met as an adult have been just this year at PSM--the culture of his studio, how much it seems to take on his own personality--this is a tribute to the man, an insight to his values and an indication of how he decided to run his business and be known in the community. I know I'm very glad to have known him, if only for a short time.
You will be missed, Steve, and my deepest sympathies to his family and other friends.
Patricia Kennedy
August 31, 2008
Steve was an amazing dancer. I'm glad I had the opportunity to learn disco even though I got dizzy with all those spins! I enjoyed learning all the different ballroom styles of dance. I still love to dance. My condolences to his loved ones.
Sincerely,
Patricia Grace Kennedy
"Trish"
Ronald Santosucci
August 31, 2008
A man whom, always had a smile and a kind word for me, as well as others. I will miss that smile.
Patrice McGourty
August 31, 2008
To The Montuori Family:
Steve was one of those people who followed his dream and knew what would make him happiest. His wonderful understanding of people, how to deal with them and how to keep them dancing was a true gift. He was my teacher for 11 years. His exuberance for Disco will always be with me!! I will miss him terribly but will keep on dancing in some way to continue what he helped me build. I am so grateful I knew him.
Caroline Harris
August 31, 2008
Dearest Steve, I want to thank you for inviting me to your PSM home for the last two and a half years. You changed my life like you will never know. I will always be gratefull for the friends I made because of you, dancing all together with such happiness and joy. Your gentle smile made everyone at ease. May you rest in peace, you will always lighten our heart. Thank you sweet Steve.
Tom Hesse
August 31, 2008
Your giving of yourself to help people enjoy their lives, helped make our world a better place; for that I give my thanks.
We'll always remember.
George Pignataro
August 31, 2008
To my teacher, mentor, inspiration and friend Steve. You gave me so much, I'll never forget you. Till we meet again Ciao
Jim Matthews
August 31, 2008
Steve: You touched the lives of so many people with your love of dance. I will miss our talks and your hospitality at the studio.
Roger LaFerriere
August 31, 2008
Goodby Steve, my dear friend.
You showed me that style and grace and class are still a part of our world.
I will remember you always and thank you for giving me the privilege of being in my life.
Roger LaFerriere
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