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Blanche Fay-Hiltz Obituary
Blanche's husband Basil Hiltz passed away in 1992. She is survived by her five children, Harold Fay of Winchendon, Walter Fay of Fitchburg, Angie Hanley and her husband Gary of Shrewsbury, Arlene Oroszko of Worcester and Esther Merly and her husband Jose of Worcester; a brother, Frank Garrow in New York; 18 grandchildren; many great grandchildren; nieces and nephews. Two sons, Earl and Wallace Gary and a daughter Linda Roberts all pre deceased her. She was born in Bloomingdale, New York, one of thirteen children born to Nelson and Florence (Chamberlin) Garrow and has lived in Worcester all her life.
Blanche was a Foster Mother who cared for many children in need over the years. She was well known for love and giving to her children, the community and anyone in need. She volunteered many hours of her time to the Friendly House in Worcester. Blanche was a member of St Paul's Cathedral. She enjoyed decorating and won newspaper recognition for her skills.
The funeral will be held Saturday, September 27th from the MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL, 370 Plantation St. with a Mass at 10:00 a.m in the Cathedral of St. Paul, 15 Chatham St. Burial will be in Worcester County Memorial Park in Paxton. A period of calling hours will be held from 8:30 a.m to 9:30 a.m in the funeral home.
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Memories and Condolences
for Blanche Fay-Hiltz
Kimberly Cooper-Balser
October 7, 2008
It's been sometime since I first was told about this guest book. I sat on it and wanted to decide what wonderful things I could write about my Aunt B. I realized that this book just isn't big enough, there isn't enough room to write everything. So I read all the other entries and reflected back on something that a friend of mine said to me when my Nana passed away "Life is ultimately measured by the love you leave behind". She was/is loved greatly. She was the richest person that I have ever known and I, we were all blessed by having known her. She will forever live on in the hearts of those who loved her and those who she loved so greatly in return.
Shireen VanHoy
October 1, 2008
Angie, Arlene, & Esther:
I am so sorry for so many things---I wish things could have been different and I am sorry I didn't know my grandmother as much as I should have. I thought about her and you all often. I wish I would of known sooner(I found out today) about Grandma's passing because I would of been there. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers always. Love Shireen (Linda's oldest daughter)
Arlene
September 28, 2008
Mom, thank you, thank you, Thank you. You have giving me the best gift. I love you with all my heart too.
donna everson
September 27, 2008
Dear Esther and family
Sorry to hear about your mom, we know that losing a parent is a great and painful loss. Know that through this time our thoughts and prayers and those of many are with you and your family.
Love and Respect Donna and Tom
Ellen Henriquez
September 26, 2008
Cousins,My heart is with all of you at this time of your loss,so many memories of christmas time with all of you,and growing up being around each other all the time your Mom made so many people happy with the love she had for everyone, and how so would help anyone that needed it without a question .All of you had one special Mom God will take care of her, she will be missed . You all are in my prayers. With love cousin Ellen xxxooo
Linda Marando
September 26, 2008
I am so sorry for your great lose. I met your mother when i was working at Overlook Visiting Nurses. She was such a wonderful lady. She would have done anything for anyone. She touched my heart in the short time that i did get to know her. You would walk through the door and hear her say hello love!! And feel like you were at home to hear that made you feel good. To go from having a really bad day. And then to walk through Blanche's door. You felt so much better. I will keep her in my heart forever. My deepest sympathy to all of you in this great lose.. Linda Marando
Dennis & Lorna O'Day
September 26, 2008
To Esther,Jose and Zachary. We are so sorry to hear of your mom and grandmother's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Denny & Lorna O'Day
Lisa Dalrymple
September 26, 2008
Esther, my prayers are with you and your family. May you find comfort in your memories of your mother in the days to come. With deepest sympathy. Lisa Dalrymple
Arlene Oroszko
September 26, 2008
Mom, how do I say what is in my heart, I love you so very much, Ill miss having are little talks and hearing you say, I love you with all my heart alway will and hello love. Mom you have done so much for so many. Steve love you so much and alway told me I was so lucky to have you as long as I have. God bless, Im sorry for telling you about Linda. Ill miss you mom. Im sorry mom. Mom you were a great woman and you needed so little and gave so much to so many people that you did'nt even have to know. Good by for now Mom.
Harold Fay
September 25, 2008
I'm gonna miss mumma dearly, she will always be in my heart and praiers. I know she is in heaven with her family at peace once again.
Patricia OConnell
September 25, 2008
Angie and family,
Sorry for the loss of your mother,
God bless.
marie and michael merly
September 25, 2008
Esther,Jose,and Zachary,
We love you guys. You are all in our prayers.
Briana Blanchard
September 25, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. I know you were very close to your mom and took wonderful care of her. Briana
brenda chase
September 25, 2008
How do you ever forget a woman like grandma, she was always so generous with her time and love. She opened her house and her heart to anyone who needed her help. She will never be forgotten and never can be replaced.
Theresa, Sean, Kevin & Eric
September 25, 2008
Esther, Jose and Zackary,
We are so sorry for the loss of your mum, mother-in-law and grandmother. Please know our prayers are with you. Esther, we know how close you were to your mum, we hope you take comfort with the memories of the times you had together and the special love you shared.
Nancy Velasquez
September 25, 2008
We're sorry for you loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Nancy, Rick & the kids
Andrea Cottle
September 25, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Laura Grant
September 25, 2008
Dear Grandma
There are so many things and memories about you that no one will ever be able to forget exspecially me. You have taught me love, caring, generosity, sharing, cooking, and always being there for your man. Everyone that didnt know you missed out on knowing one amazing woman. You where the one that made this family. You have taught us all, now it is your turn to be pampered and attended too. You better not try to take care of all them up there, sit back and take every bit of what you deserve. I will never forget you, when I think of you you bring tears of joy and love to my eyes. It wont ever be the same without. I will be looking up at your star GRANDMA and blowing you kisses always. Thanks for being the most amazing grandma and great grandma to me and my kids. To all that didnt or did know her you are her LOVE. Well hello my love rings like the sound of music in my ears. I love Grandma, Love Laura Jean
linda frustaci
September 25, 2008
Esther, Jose and Zachary, I am so sorry for your loss. Esther I know how close you were with your mom, I am so sorry! Your Friend always
Linda (AKA) Beb
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