Search by Name

Search by Name

FUNERAL HOME

Smith - Mallahy - Masciarelli FH - Fitchburg

243 Water Street

Fitchburg, Massachusetts

Jeanne Lemay Obituary

Jeanne Ellen (LaValley) Lemay, 71 passed away after a lengthy illness on Friday, November 21, 2008 at her home, surrounded by her loving family.

She was the wife of the late Joseph Raymond Lemay Sr. (formerly of Ray's Trucking) who died in 1993.

She leaves her four sons and their wife's, Joseph R. Lemay Jr. and Dottie of Fitchburg, Robert Lemay of Leominster, Peter Lemay and Jean of Andover, and Scott Lemay and Melanie of Bolton; 13 grandchildren, 4 great-grandchildren, and 1 great grand child; one brother, Forest LaValley and his wife Helen, of Fitchburg; three sisters, Marjorie Avey of Concord, N.H., Marion LeBlanc of Westminster, Katherine Aubuchon and her husband, Victor, of Leominster, and many nieces and nephews.

Jeanne was born on June 17, 1937, in Leominster, a daughter of the late Arthur and Rosa (Degrenia) LaValley. She was educated in Fitchburg at St. Bernard's Schools and graduated from Fitchburg State College earning her Bachelor Degree in Psychology and in 1979 received her Masters Degree in Psychology from Assumption College in Worcester.

Jeanne worked as a private therapist, and worked at the North Central Mass Rehabilitation Center, where she taught private assertiveness training courses for women and also taught assertiveness training classes at Mt. Wachusett Community College, Fitchburg State College and St. Joseph Hospital in Lowell. In 1986, she was appointed as the Executive Director of the Fitchburg Senior Citizens Center and Director of Elderly Affairs for the City of Fitchburg, by then Mayor Bernard Chartrand. During her 18 years as Director she received the Gold Award from the Massachusetts Senior Citizen Director's Association. She was a statewide Officer for the Massachusetts Senior Citizen Directors Association, including the Senior Citizens Directors Regional Association. She was the Founder of the Friends of the Fitchburg Senior Center, a non-profit organization established to provide grants and additional funds to the Senior Center and its many programs. Chosen from among 362 towns, she received an award from the State for being the Most Creative Outstanding Senior Director. She retired in October of 2007 for health reasons.

In her spare time, she was an active member of the Emblem Club, becoming the local then later the Regional President. She will be remembered most for her strength, her devotion to helping the elderly and her love of family, friends and cooking.

Her Funeral will be held on Tuesday, Nov.25, from the Smith-Mallahy-Masciarelli Funeral Home, 243 Water Street, Fitchburg, with a Mass at 10:00 a.m. in St. Bernard's Church, 240 Water Street, Fitchburg, MA.

Burial will follow in the St. Bernard's Cemetery, off St. Bernard's Street, Fitchburg, MA.

Calling Hours will be from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. on Monday, Nov. 24. in the Funeral Home.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that Memorial Contributions be made to the Friends of the Fitchburg Senior Citizens' Center, C/O Sandy Craig, 603 Central St., Leominster, Ma. 01453 or may be left at the Funeral Home.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette on Nov. 23, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Jeanne Lemay

Not sure what to say?





Dawn LaValley

November 17, 2022

Always one of my favorite aunts. I-can hear you voice when I need advice. You are always in my heart!

jane orlando

December 3, 2008

Scott,
So very sorry to learn about the loss of your mom. I know it is not an easy time and my prayers are with you. I hope you find comfort in the happy times you shared and the love of family around you.
God bless,
Jane Orlando

Cathy Cook

December 2, 2008

Dear Scott, Nick, and Jess,
My sympathies to you all , treasure the memories of love.
You are in my heart always
Grammy

Patti (Rowe) Tisdale

November 26, 2008

Scott, thinking of you and wanting to offer my condolences, during this difficult time.The pain and the emptiness never truly go away, but they will be replaced by beautiful memories. Take care Patti

Judi (Henri) Hughes

November 26, 2008

Scott, Melanie and Family,

I was saddened to learn that your mom had passed away. Sending lots of positive energy your way to get through the sad times and hoping time, family and the power of everyone's prayers help lessen the sadness.
Hope you and your family can find some enjoyment in the upcoming holidays with some wonderful memories.

Kelly Martineau

November 25, 2008

Scott and Family,

So sorry to hear about your mother. I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers.

Sadly,
Kelly Martineau

Karen (Gagne) LaPierre

November 25, 2008

Scott, So sorry to hear about your mother. In time, happy memories will help replace the sadness you feel.

Chris Pandiscio

November 25, 2008

Scott & Family,
I am very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. I'm sorry I could not make the services, I am out of town until Wednesday.

Janice Herrin (Brown)

November 25, 2008

Scott,
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Mary Ann Kinirey

November 25, 2008

Scott, I am sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Diane (Ferrera) Boudreau

November 25, 2008

Scott & Family,

I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and may God bless you and your family during this difficult time.

Barbara (Cote) Burns

November 25, 2008

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

Barbara Burns

November 24, 2008

Dear Cousins Peter, Bob and Scott,
I am saddened to hear of Aunt Jeanne's passing. But I know she is in a much better place. Aunt Jeanne was always the life and the light of the party. I know she will brighten heavens pathways. My mom (Pauline) will be so happy to be reunited with her sister again. I'm so sorry that i can't be there in your time of need. My company is really taken off right now and i'm in the process of hiring. I know you have each other to lean on and you will all come through this together. Remember that god is watching over all of you. God bless and I send my love.
Love, Barbara (Cote) Burns

Donna Sciabarrasi-Conlon

November 24, 2008

Scott & Mel,
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. May the memories of your Mom replace the sadness in your hearts.

Janice (Butler) Potter

November 24, 2008

Scott & your family,

I was very saddened to hear of your loss. My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I hope all the loving, happy memories will help you through this sad time.

Mary (Curley) Powell

November 24, 2008

Scott & Mel,
Please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of Jeanne. May fond and happy memories of her, help you through this difficult time.

Anna Hamblin

November 24, 2008

Bob,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Ruth (Fleming) Irr

November 23, 2008

Scott & family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. God Bless you and your entire family.

Lynn (Aupperlee) Bourgeois

November 23, 2008

Scott,

I am so sorry to hear about your mother. My condolences to you and your family during this sad time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Kai Martin

November 23, 2008

Scott,
Sorry to hear of your loss. Big hug to you, Melanie and the kids. God Bless all of your family at this time.

Joe Raimon

November 23, 2008

You are in my prayers.

Dawn LaValley

November 23, 2008

I am so sad to hear of my Aunt Jeanne's passing. But I know in my heart, she is in a much better place. I also know in my heart, that my Dad ( her brother) is very happy to see her again. Aunt Jeanne was always "The Rock" of the family, "The Entertainer"& the Greatest Cook. She always encouraged me when I was feeling down especially when my Dad passed away. She was a special lady who light up a room with her grace,elegance & personality. My Mom often tells me I remind her of Aunt Jeanne. What an honor. My thoughts and prayers are with Joe,Bob,Peter & Scott and their families at this time. She was one terrific Mom!

Sister Anna Raimon

November 23, 2008

To the family of Jeanne I send my deepest sympathy. Each of you will be remembered in my thoughts and prayers at this time of loss. May the soul of Jeanne rest in the peace of the Risen Lord.

Joanne Doucet

November 23, 2008

Jeanne was a great neighbor and friend. Her cooking, and friendship were #1. We had some wonderful times together, and now I wish to send my love to her children and grandchildren. in their time of sorrow.

Showing 1 - 24 of 24 results

Make a Donation
in Jeanne Lemay's name

Memorial Events
for Jeanne Lemay

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

Funeral services provided by:

Smith - Mallahy - Masciarelli FH - Fitchburg

243 Water Street, Fitchburg, MA 01420

How to support Jeanne's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Jeanne Lemay's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more