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Deacon John P. Steuterman, age 60 of Weymouth Nov. 24, 2008. Beloved husband of Jean E. (Foley) Steuterman. Father of James M. & his wife Shawna Steuterman of Milton, Anne E. & her husband Matthew Gorham of Bridgewater, Mary A. Steuterman of Weymouth & the late Matthew J. Steuterman. Brother of Rev. James M. Steuterman, St. Ann's Church North Oxford, Paul Steuterman of Lehigh Acres, Fl. & the late Peter M. Steuterman. Grandfather of Abbie, Sadie & Colin Steuterman all of Milton. Prayer reception for Deacon John on Friday Nov. 28, 2008 at 2 PM in the St. Jerome's Church, 632 Bridge St., N. Weymouth. Visitation will follow from 2-8 PM. Relatives & friends invited. Vigil Prayer Service will conclude visitation at 8PM in the church. Funeral Mass on Saturday at 11 AM. Burial St. Francis Xavier Cemetery, Weymouth. In lieu of flowers, donations in John's memory may be made to St Jerome's Parish, 632 Bridge St., N Weymouth, Ma 02191

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette on Nov. 26, 2008.

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Tom Melanson

November 20, 2024

I still drive thru the neighborhood now & then and go by the Steuterman and Melanson houses. Great memories, especially John always checking-on / helping my parents. So nice of John, as always. It makes me smile and he is missed. Tom Melanson

Jean

November 24, 2023

May the winds of Heaven blow softly and whisper in your ear how much we love and miss you and wish that you were here. You left us to be with Matthew in Heaven fifteen years ago today.

Jean

February 25, 2023

A Happy Heavenly 75th Birthday to you, John! I´m sure Matt will host a big celebration to mark this special day! I love you to Heaven and back. Give Matt the biggest hug from me, and know that you both are missed and loved so very much.

February 26, 2018

Happy 70th birthday in Heaven, John.
I'm sure Matt hosted a big celebration
for you with Mammy's spaghetti and meatballs, and a cake with 70 candles on it. Jim lit a candle for you yesterday
in St. Patrick's Cathedral in Ireland.
You spent so many wonderful vacations there. You live on in the hearts and minds
of those who love you. Till we meet again. 143 Jeannie

Lynda, Paul, Kurt, Lindsey and Meredith Volkringer

November 27, 2012

Hey John,

Hard to believe you have been physically separated from those of us you left behind for four years. In our hearts, we can still hear your laughter, remember your telling a joke or a funny story, your talking about your love and concern for your family, and many other details that made you who you still are to many, even to this day. Then, we remember that you are gone, and our hearts are sad. Missing you and wishing we hadn't lost you so soon. Just wanted you to know that we haven't forgotten you, John Boy. Hope all is well and til we meet again, may He always hold you gently in the palm of His hand. Give Matt a hug for us and have him give you one in return from us, as well.

Love you much, buddy.

The Volkringers

Joanne Bachelder

November 25, 2012

You are missed every day in so many ways but the legacy of love and family that you left behind continues to do you proud. Give Matt a hug from me...till we meet again

November 24, 2012

Four years ago today you went to Heaven
to live with Matthew. It just doesn't
seem possible you've been gone this long.
We love and miss you each day. Jeannie

February 25, 2011

Happy Birthday Dad. I love you...Seamus

Matt

August 7, 2010

John Boy,

Just thought you would like to know that Gracie said "Bo Bo" for the first time today. Wish you could have been there to hear it.

Love you!

Seamus

December 23, 2009

My father absolutely loved Christmas! Now I understand that sounds simplistic in that most Christians (or Catholics in Johnboy’s case) greatly enjoy the holiday. I also appreciate that many who do not consider themselves religious take great enjoyment in the time spent with family and friends during the holiday, especially the opportunity to witness the magic and wonder of the day evident in the eyes of a child. You do not need to be religious to appreciate that.

But I can honestly say that I knew nobody who took as much joy in the holiday as my father. The only thing I believe may have made the holiday even better for him would have been the incorporation of fireworks. The man loved fireworks! To the point that he and I would “discuss” when and if fireworks were appropriate at different events – more specifically those involving where my 3 kids would be present. He would “win” most of these discussions of course – or perhaps not and bring them anyway.
There is so much about Christmas that reminds me of my father. Beyond the many memories from my childhood, and all the special toys Santa gave Matt and I as a result of our good behavior, I will forever remember how much Johnboy loved arriving at midnight mass early enough to listen to the choir prepare; or how hard he would work on his sermon if he was going to preach at any of the masses – especially a children’s service; how his voice sounded when he sang Christmas music or the “long natured way” with which he told the “history of the candy cane” from the altar. You had to sit back and get comfortable in your seat for that story!

Even after all his children were grown and “no longer believed in Santa”, after his mother passed away and with it the recipe for spritz cookies and certainly most amazingly after Matt passed away in 2003 – Johnboy still loved Christmas! He relished in the opportunity to assist in the celebration of the mass, to wish his friends and family a hearty Merry Christmas, to make his famous holiday sandwiches and to perhaps play Santa Claus at a family holiday party. He took such joy in the central purpose of Christmas, which was to remind us that God had sent his only son to Earth on “our behalf” to preach the opportunity for salvation. The promise that if we believe, and action those beliefs, that we would be rewarded with life everlasting in Heaven. It is with this attitude and belief that my father went about his life not just during the weeks between Thanksgiving and December 25th, but the year round. It is perhaps a cliché to say it, but Johnboy “had the Christmas spirit”. I did not think that Christmas could improve for my father.

That was until my Abbie was born in August of 2005. From that period on I remained Johnboy’s son of course, but to a certain extent I morphed more importantly into “Abbie’s ride” to family parties. When the twins were born in 2007 my importance as his oldest child, became absolutely secondary to the fact that I helped care for his granddaughters and his grandson. To a degree it became secondary to Shawna’s importance – after all she gave birth to them – I just picked up the insurance for the hospital stay!

Once my children were born, Christmas continued to be about all the ideals I listed above, but the joy with which he greeted the season expanded to levels I could not appreciate prior to having children of my own. I have pictures of my father dressed as Santa Claus holding Abbie as a toddler on his knee and I am convinced that there is a “sparkle” in his eye he is so excited to see her reaction. Last Christmas he put together the kitchen we bought Abbie, Colin and Sadie, complete with all the stickers he put on the “fake food” and the wooden doughnuts that the kids “had to have”.

Not having my father or Matt here to celebrate Christmas again this year is going to be tough. I do not need to provide reasons why. I know they would be obvious to anyone who has ever lost someone they love. But to be honest, I am extremely excited for Christmas!
I can not wait to see how my kids react on Christmas morning! I am greatly looking forward to spending time with Shawna and the kids, my sisters and mother, my brother in-law Matt, little Gracie, and Mike O’Sullivan on Christmas Eve. I am excited to share Christmas day with my in-laws and wish Gram a Merry Christmas and a Happy 85th Birthday! It will be a great few days.
In the end I come back to a foundation of the message my father preached from the altar on the day we buried Matty – “the circle of life” – “the promise of a new beginning”. Since Matt passed away, I have been lucky enough to marry a wonderful, beautiful woman, blessed to witness the birth of my 3 children – who thank God have been healthy. Since Johnboy passed away, I became an uncle for the 4th time, a Godfather for the first time and during the next coming year we await another addition to the growing family. I have wonderful friends and family. I am healthy and have many great experiences and opportunities in front of me for both my family and friends. I am truly blessed! I am experiencing the circle of life my father spoke of that morning in January!

It is with such an attitude that I await the promise of Christmas morning, the arrival of the baby Jesus! The opportunity to express my thanks to God for a life I am lucky to have the opportunity to lead. I am looking forward to singing aloud at midnight mass, and feeling that Johnboy and perhaps Matt (maybe he would sing with us) are singing along side me. It is with this attitude that I “cried a small bit” when Abbie brought home some of her artwork from pre-school the other day – a colored in candy-cane with the history of the candy-cane typed in the corner. I do not believe in signs so much – but it was just the night before that I told Shawna I am going to miss hearing that history this year. Who knows – maybe Johnboy heard me!

My hope is that everyone enjoy the day with their family and friends. A “simple hope” I know – but the “reason for the season” is pretty simple after all as Johnboy would say – “The Savior has been born”.

Merry Christmas everyone!

November 20, 2009

This Tuesday, November 24, will mark the first anniversary of John's death.

In retrospect, the year seems to have passed quickly, but each day is endless without John in our lives.

Thank you for your steadfast love and
support since John's and Matthew's deaths.

It continues to carry us through each new day.

God bless. Jean

jean steuterman

January 7, 2009

Hi John, I can't seem to get out of my own way. I'm trying to understand why you had to die.
Please help me to find peace of mind
and heart. I love you. Jeannie

Volkringer Family

December 21, 2008

Dear Jean, Jimmy & Shawna, Mary, Annie & Matt,

I love the 2 photos of JohnBoy that you placed in the memorial photo album. In the first one of him relaxing in the rocker on the front porch, he looks so peaceful. In the second one of him standing on the rock, he looks as free as the wind. That is how I want to remember him now ...at peace ... and ... free from all pain and suffering. John really had a full life in the years that he had and lived it with a joy and zest that not many people do. He left me with many outrageously humorous memories. I especially loved the
e-mails he sent me that were signed the "Freakin' Deacon." You can't keep it any more real than that. John was definitely serious when it was called for (not too often, I dare to say;) but as a rule, he didn't take himself or life too seriously. What a wonderfully admirable quality that is to possess. He is the one most influential person who taught me how good it feels to laugh (often it was his jokes that had me laughing so hard that I thought I would ... well, you all can guess, I'm sure ... and also to appreciate the gift of laughter in our lives. Just wanted you to know that I am thinking of each of you today and also thinking of John and thanking my God for each and every one of you. We really miss John. Paul keeps thinking he'll get a call that John is going to be in SC and they'll go to breakfast at the Waffle House ... John's favorite place when he came South! I keep waiting to receive a funny e-mail to which I can send off a silly reply in return. I still haven't removed him from my e-mail address book. I just can't bring myself to do that. I want to be reminded of him often because though it brings a tear to my eye it also brings a smile to my heart that we got to even have John in our lives to begin with. Amazing how God sends just the right people into our lives, isn't it? So happy our kids were at St. Francis together, in Girl Scouts together, played soccer together, etc., etc. and that both families have the memories of our Disney trip together, as well. Though we now grieve John's absence, we also know we are blessed to have known him and enjoyed and now be forever touched by his huge spirit. As you walk your way through this Christmas season, try to be comforted by the joy that John "distributed" whenever he had the opportunity and take comfort in knowing that these memories will make you all feel more joy than the crushing pain of loss ... in your own good time.

We all love you very much and ask God to be with you every single step of the way.

Peace to your hearts,

Paul & Lynda, Kurt, Val & Isabella and Lindsey Volkringer &
Craig & Meredith (Volkringer)Schauer

Sr. Nancy Duffy,SNDdeN

December 9, 2008

Dear Jean and all the Steuterman Family,
I just learned of John's death. My sympathies go out to you and the family. I will always remember his humor, great love of family, and faith in God. We discussed the quotes on his magic board at B&W. He was so spiritual. I had the connection of being an SND and he recalled many memories of the hallowed halls of Plantation St. in Worcester.
It was a blessing to meet John and also support him in illness. God be with all of you as you hold his memory,
Sincerely,
Sr. Nancy, SNDdeN chaplain

Tom Zukauskas

December 4, 2008

Dear Jean and Family
It was an honor to have known John. He was a kind and caring man. He was very supportive to our family especially in our time of need with Anne Marie's illness. He will always be remembered by our family as a very special and compassionate person.
The Zukauskas Family

Annie Steuterman Gorham

December 3, 2008

Hi Dad,

An entire week and one half without you here on earth. Your departure has not yet truly hit me. Matty and I look through pictures on a daily of you - we smile and cry at the same time as we reminisce about all the fun times we shared together.

I went back to work today, only to learn that our classroom fish also passed away over the weekend. I was handed the difficult task of explaining to my students that "Rainbow" had gone to fishy heaven. After entertaining numerous questions and comments, I also explained to my children that my Daddy entered heaven too, while I was "away." They were aware that you were sick and were concerned, as I began to cry. After assuring them your water did not become too cold, like Rainbow's - I promised my students that my Daddy, who is the bestest Daddy in the whole wide world, would take care of and feed their favorite water friend. That brought such comfort to my little preschoolers. It also brought me much comfort, Dad.

As I enter into my fourth month of pregnancy, I am reminded of how blessed our baby is to have two, strong guardian angels watching over he/she. Although I would much rather have you and Matty here on earth with us - I feel so safe, knowing you are up in heaven, watching out for and protecting us all. I feel your presence Dad, that in which I am eternally grateful.

I just miss you so much Dad.

I love you with all of my heart.

xoxo
Your Daughter,
Annie :)

Al Esposito

December 2, 2008

"Deacon John" I was honored by allowing to be a witness at your Deaconazation Ceramony, it is with saddened heart that I learned you have passed. I enjoyed our conversations over the Hood business, you will be missed.

Joanne Thurberg

December 1, 2008

Annie, Matt and the Steuterman Family,
I am very sorry to hear of passing of your Dad after his courageous fight. He was such a spiritual man who had so much love for family. Remember all the good times as your memories will be with you forever. Please know that I am here for you and if there is anything I can do for you please let me know. Again I am so sorry, my prayers are with you all.
Love ya JoJo

Wendy Silvia

December 1, 2008

I was saddened by the news that John had passed away. I worked with John at Food Enterprises. He was a wonderful man and will be missed by everyone who knew him. May you find comfort in the memories you have of John.
In Sympathy,
Wendy Silvia

Lucy, Dalissa, Anya, and Tiffany

November 30, 2008

Dear Anne and Family,

We are sorry to here of the recent loss of your loved one. Our thoughts and prayers are with you on this difficult time.

Your friends at Target Pharmacy

Mary Guerin

November 29, 2008

Jean, Jim, Annie and Mary and all My Steuterman Family,

It was with great sorrow that I received the news of John's death on Friday. God chose to call John to his eternal rest on my birthday. We will be forever linked as both cousins and friends. My faith sees the beginnings of his eternal life, on Novemeber 24th as a spiritual gift that both blesses and honors our relationship with one another.

I had the good fortune to spend time with John when he came to San Diego on business his last few years. We had the opportunity to get to know one another as adults and to appreciate another another, not simply because we were related.

The first time we met we planned a polite lunch in Encinitas, which turned into a full day of touring the sights followed by eating dinner in one of our local Irish pubs. We found conversation easy as we learned to trust one another again and share our life stories and shared memories.

His second trip out, we drove his sales route togther, when I took a day off from my food broker job. We topped off the day with a sunset dinner with cousin Mary Jo Peterson over looking the Pacific Ocean. John had a big ice crean sundae.

John's last trip here we had brunch at my house and he got to meet two of my three daughters, Michelle and Genevieve along with Genevieve's son, Jordan (2). I remember the strength and love of his last sincere hug and the tenderness in which he called me little Mary.

John's intelligence, humor, love and faith defined him. I will miss him dearly, even his most silly e-mails. He shared my father's name, college, (Holy Cross) and early death from heart faillure. Despite his faith and intelligence, John lead with his heart, and it simply wore out from over use.

John touched many lives through his love of Jean, his children, his parish, through his deacon ministry and his integrity filled work career. Know that the miles do not deminish the love and sorrow in my heart for John and your family. May God give you strength to endure your loss.

Memories of Peaks and the cottage, time with Father Jim and Katie will forever serve as both refuge and meeting place for all the cousins that began our friendship. The recent memories enhanced and cemented the connections. Know you are not alone in your grief.

with love and prayers,

Mary(Kelly) Guerin
and family

Eric Dosenberg

November 29, 2008

Dear Jean and Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so proud to have had John perform the baptism of my son Ryan Matthew, it meant so much to my family. I'm sorry that I didn't get to go to the services, we were away for the holiday. God bless you and your family.

The Flannery Family

November 28, 2008

To the Steuterman Family: We are very saddened to hear of John's passing. Jean, John, and the boys have been there since 1996 helping our son Brad and his commitee make a success of the Mark Meaney Memorial Golf Tournament, which provides scholarships to Weymouth High Students. Please know that we are thinking of you all. John is so deeply in your hearts; he will never be truly gone.

Kelly and Emily Chandley

November 28, 2008

Dear Fr. Steuterman and family,
We are so sorry for your loss of John. We will pray for comfort for all of you, and that the faith that you help all of us have will also carry you through the difficult moments of saying good bye and those times that will come when you miss him the most.
God bless you all.

Ann/Joe/Kristen Sullivan

November 28, 2008

Dear Jean

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this diffucult time. We were always encouraged and felt better about "things" after hearing John speak at our meetings. He was a voice of inspiration for all us.

Lynda Volkringer

November 27, 2008

Dear Jean, Jimmy and Shawna, Annie and Matt and Mary,

We do not even know where to begin to express our feelings with you. "We're profoundly sorry for your loss" just seems so trite and inadequate! In no way does it seem to describe the depth of what we are all experiencing with John Boy's passing. It is just never comfortable or simple to lose someone you love. Didn't John Boy just seem bigger than life when he was at his best??? His absence will leave an unfillable vacuum in our lives. That piece of our hearts that is grieving for such a wonderful charismatic man will never feel quite whole again. However, to us, it will always feel like a holy place to return to, when we want to feel close to John Boy and spend time with our cherished memories of life with John ... of which there are many. Even though we moved away from MA in 1989, and haven't been able to spend as much time as we would have loved to with all of you throughout the years, there remained a sense of closeness that has never diminished. We have the utmost respect, admiration and love for all of you. You are truly an amazing, inspirational, faithful and strong family. These qualities are what will get you through the challenging days ahead.

Please know how distressed we all are to be unable to share John's final tribute with you all on Friday and Saturday as we had traveled to Chicago to be with Kurt, Val and Isabella for Thanksgiving. Know that we are joining our hearts with yours and are praying that you will be carried through this difficult last leg of John Boy's earthly journey on wings of love and compassion.

May Our Father who truly loves you with an unconditional and unlimited Love fill your hearts with an abiding peace and comfort,

Paul, Lynda, Kurt, Val and Isabella and Lindsey Vokkringer and Craig and Meredith (Volkringer) Schauer

Marty & Judy Ryan

November 27, 2008

We were so saddened to learn of John's passing from our son Tim. We know the great respect and love both Tim and Jennie had for him and how much it meant to them that he took part in their wedding ceremony. The Steuterman family has always had a special place in our hearts and you all are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. We know you as a family of deep faith so I know we can say for certain that Matt and his Dad are together again....we can only imagine what that joyous reunion has been like. They are probably discussing a favorite football play right now!! Take care of yourselves and each other....Love, Marty and Judy Ryan, Wells ME

Anne & Terri Kelly

November 27, 2008

Jean, Anne, Jimmy and Mary -

We are so sad to hear that John Pat has passed away.

We remember his kind and gentle way with our father when he was ill. John Pat would come to visit and for a few minutes, there was laughter and stories and peace.

The world, and our family, was a better place because John Pat was there.

We can imagine the smile on Aunt Mary's face when she saw 'her John' again.

Love to all,
Anne and Terri Kelly

Noel and Marie St Pierre

November 27, 2008

Jean, Jimmy,Ann and Mary our deepest sympathy on the loss of John, he was a wonderful man. May your hearts be filled with wonderful memories. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Mary Wheeler

November 27, 2008

Jean & Family:
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Bob and Joan Ruggere

November 26, 2008

Jean and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of John's passing. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.

Fr Patrick McCafferty

November 26, 2008

Dear Fr Jim and all the family of Deacon John: I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathies and prayers are with you all at this sad time. I will offer Mass for John and for you all in this bereavement. Fr Paddy McCafferty, Ireland (friend of Fr Jim).

We know that you are soaring high Johnboy!

November 26, 2008

Ethan & Lucas Ramos

November 26, 2008

Auntie Annie and Uncle Matt,
We are sorry about your daddy.
We love you xoxoxox

Brittany Ramos

November 26, 2008

Jean, Seamus, Shawna, Anne, Matthew and Mary, I am so sorry for yor loss. John will be greatly missed but know that he is at peace, no longer suffering and reunited with Matt watching over you all.

The Carriere Family

November 26, 2008

Our best wishes and prayers are with you during this period of sadness for the family. Believing that he is at peace and with Our Father provides those that love him a welcome sense of comfort.

Joseph and Elaine Gorham

November 26, 2008

Jean, Shamus, Annie, and Mary
We are so very sorry!!!!
John was the most amazing man.
His brave battle is over and he is at Peace.
There are no words at a time like this so we will just offer our love and support.
Do not hesitate to call us for anything
All our love!!!
Joe and Elaine Gorham

Paula McDonald

November 26, 2008

Dearest Jean & Family,
May you find peace knowing that John is home with Matty and no longer suffering. I know that they will be watching over your family and helping you throught the difficult times ahead.
Peace & Love
Paula

John Terrio

November 26, 2008

Jean there are no words I can say but I am so very sorry for Johns passing
John from the Compassionate Friends

Patrick Steuterman

November 26, 2008

Uncle John...I will miss you so much, your words of faith, wisdom and your jokes! Please say hi to my brother Mike up there and give him a hug for me. Tell Matty I said hi and the same to him. I will be praying for you and your family! i love you...you nephew Patrick

The Steutermans

November 26, 2008

Our love & sympathy to all of you. Our thoughts & prayers are endless for all of us. Love Paul, Nancy, Patrick & Brian

Tom Melanson

November 26, 2008

I want to express my deepest sympathies to all of the Steuterman family. All of you have been extremely warm and caring to my family, particularly my parents who enjoyed having you as neighbors for many great years. You were always there for my folks when they needed you and my brothers and sisters and I will always remember that. It was a source of comfort for us, just knowing that you were across the street. John was a wonderful family man and a pleasure to know.

Ellie & Bob Volkringer

November 26, 2008

Please know that our sympathies are with you in these trying times. John is no longer suffering and is home with God now and this should be comforting to all of you. Take care of yourselves and know you will remain in our prayers to get you through this.

The Steutermans

November 26, 2008

Our love and deepest sympathy to all of you. You're in our thoughts and prayers. Love Paul, Nancy, Pat & Brian

The Sharron Family

November 26, 2008

Fr. Steuterman -
We are so sorry to hear of your loss.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.

We love you Johnboy!

November 26, 2008

Annie Steuterman Gorham

November 26, 2008

I love you Dad and miss you terribly. Thank you for being the absolute best father a little girl could ever ask for. Thank you for being the "rock" of our family. My world will never be the same without you. You meant so much to so many people - to me, you were not only my father but my best friend, someone I could confide in and be honest with. You are my hero Dad and will forever remain my hero. Your unwavering faith in God, commitment to your family, loyalty to friends and strong work ethic - are values I try on a daily basis to uphold. I always have and always will want to be just like my Dad. As I write this, I picture you on the front porch of Whitehead Lodge, sitting in a rocking chair, reminiscing about the "good old days." I so treasure the time I spent with you, Uncle Jimmy and my Matt on the island. Matty and I would always remark on the sense of peace that seemed to envelope you as we boarded the ferry. That is how I picture you now Dad, at peace. Although my heart is broken, please know that I understand that it was time for you to go home.

Please visit me in my dreams. Please also tell Matty that I love him with all of my heart.

I love you Johnboy!

xoxo
Annie :)

Julie Clark

November 26, 2008

Jean, Annie, Jimmy, & Mary
I am so sorry for your loss. John was a wonderful father and husband.
Jean, please let me know if you need anything

jean steuterman

November 26, 2008

I love you, I love you, I love you.
I can only imagine what a "heavenly" reunion you are experiencing with Matty. You are the best thing that
ever happened to me, and it's an
honor to be your wife for the past
37 years. I just don't know what
I'm going to do without my best
friend. Take care of us, Da, and know that I will love you forever.
Jean E. Beans

joanne bachelder

November 26, 2008

Dear Jean and all the kids....We are so sorry about John....We just want to say we love you all and are here for anything you need...Hold on to all the wonderful memories you have shared and know he is safe in the arms of God and welcomed home by Matthew....love and prayers during this difficult time...joanne, kate. brady and spencer

jean steuterman

November 26, 2008

I love you, I love you, I love you----
Remember to give Matty a big hug and kiss for me now that you are together in heaven. Please continue to take care of us as you so unselfishly did while you were here on Earth. There's a new star in the sky and its name is "John Boy".
143 FOREVER, Your Jean E. Beans

William Wildes

November 26, 2008

Heartfelt sympathy to John's family and friends. He answered God's call to the diaconate. May he rest in peace. And may he be prayerfully remembered as a good and faithful servant. Deacon Bill Wildes, class of 1977

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