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Joseph Pempek Obituary

Joseph V. Pempek, 74, passed into the arms of his Lord surrounded by his loving family on Thanksgiving Day. He had battled a rare neurodegenerative disease for several years. He was born in Putnam on July 2, 1934 to Louise (Lysiak) and Vincent Pempek. He was predeceased by a brother, Adolph. Joe is survived by his wife of 52 years, Louise (Cutler) Pempek; a son, J. Scott and wife Cheryl, and two granddaughters: Kristen and Rebecca. Educated at St. Mary's Elementary School, Joe was graduated from Putnam High in 1952. In 1956, he received his BA from University of Connecticut with majors in political science and history; his MA in Education from Eastern Connecticut State University: and his Sixth Year degree in 1967 in Education Administration.

Joe served in the U.S. Army in France from 1956 to 1959. After teaching in grades 6-8 at the Griswold Elementary for five years, Joe was appointed Principal in 1968. In 1978, he was appointed as Principal at Moosup Elementary School in Plainfield from which he retired in 1994. Upon retirement from his first love, the educational field, Joe pursued another life-long interest, and became a stock broker (registered representative) and worked in the equities field until 2007.

Serving his community was Joe's trademark. He served on the Democratic Town Committee and served 9 years on the Putnam Board of Tax Review, Board of Education for 28 years, 24 of which as its chairman. He was the primary mover for the Putnam Elementary School and later the Family Resource Center. Joe served on the Putnam Bi-centennial Committee in 1976 and on the Putnam Sesquicentennial Committee in 2005. He was a charter member of the Aspinock Historical Society. Member of and past president of the Putnam High School Alumni Association, life member of Connecticut Education Association, a 40 year life member of the Putnam Lodge of Elks, a member of Putnam Rotary Club since 2000, a member of the Connecticut Retired Teachers Association, Phi Delta Kappa (national education honorary fraternity), alumni member of Tau Kappa Epsilon fraternity. Calling Hours will be Monday from 9:00 to 11:00 AM at the Smith and Walker Funeral Home, 148 Grove Street, Putnam followed by a Mass of Christian burial at 11:30 AM in ST Mary Church of the Visitation, 218 Providence Street, Putnam. Burial in ST Mary Cemetery, Putnam.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to CurePSP for CBD Research, Executive Plaza III, 11350 McCormick Road, Suite 906, Hunt Valley, MD 21031-9956 or the charity of your choice. To share a memory with his family "Light a Candle" at

www.smithandwalkerfh.com

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette on Nov. 29, 2008.

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Valerie Sandberg

December 5, 2008

Mrs. Pempek & Family,

May Joe rest easy now. God bless you all. He was a wonderful man and will always be remembered.

Val Sandberg & family

Jeffrey Lutters

December 4, 2008

Aunt Lou,
I am truly saddened by the loss of Uncle Joe. Both of you have been very special to me for many years. I hold many memories of Joe close to my heart, and he made a serious impact on my development and goal prioritization. I will carry Uncle Joe with me for the rest of my life.
I wish I could be there in person, but hopefully you can feel our prayers and love every day.

Lydia Gullifer

December 3, 2008

Louise & Family~
I just heard of your loss and am deeply saddened by Joe's passing. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Lydia (the purple girl) Gullifer

Patti Martin

December 3, 2008

Dear Louise,
Sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved husband, Joe. Wayne emailed me with the sad news. May Joe rest in peace after battling CBD for so long. May you find strength in your loving memories.

Bill & Kathy Carpenter

December 2, 2008

Dear Louise and Scott,

We were deeply shocked and saddened to read of Joe's passing.

Joe touched countless lives in a positive way during his many years of devoted service to children. Few leave behind such a wonderful legacy as Joe's.

Bill and I are sorry that we were unable to attend the services, but please know that you and Joe are in our thoughts and prayers.

Lorraine Sinkewicz Piurowski

December 1, 2008

I remember Mr. Pempek as a teacher and then principal at Griswold. He was a kind person who cared a lot about kids.

Gerry Tetreault

December 1, 2008

Dear Louise & Scott, With sincere and caring thoughts on the death of your husband and father. I know how much you will miss him. He was a fine person. Love, Gerry

Keith Gregoire

November 30, 2008

Scott I Am Sorry To Hear Of Your Loss. Your Father Helped Me Through
School In Griswold Elm Until I Graduated In 1979. Ill Never Foget His Wisdom God Bless You And Your Family.

Mary and Ben Gallo

November 30, 2008

Louise, Scott and family,
Mary and I are sorry for your loss. We will keep you, your family and Joe in our prayers.
Joe was truly a leader at home, schools, community, fraternity and his country. He will be greatly missed by all.
Love
Mary and Ben Gallo

Jane Cartier

November 30, 2008

Jim and I are so sorry to hear of Joe's passing. He was a man much admired in the community. Jane (McGovern ) and Jim Cartier in AZ.

Cyndi (Schmidt) LaFleur

November 29, 2008

I remember Mr. Pempek from Moosup Elementary School where I attended K-4th grade (1986-1991). He was a wonderful and caring man. My sincere condolences to his family.

Jean and Elaine Chicoine

November 29, 2008

Dear Louise and Scott,
May we send our sincere sympathy on the passing of Joe. May you find comfort in the memories you have shared with your fine husband and father. Sincerely,
Chic and Elaine Chicoine
Sun City Center, Fl

Ruth & Bob Bates

November 29, 2008

Lou; Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Our sympathy and love are sent to you.

Gloria Blanchette Briere

November 29, 2008

Dear Mrs. Pempek:

I offer you my sincere sympathy in the loss of your dear husband. I remember you as a caring and inspiring teacher at Plainfield High School (Class of 1962).

Gloria Blanchette Briere

50th Wedding Anniversary

November 29, 2008

jim taber

November 29, 2008

im very sorry for the loss of your loved one. joe gave me alot of wisdom as a child and student of his in moosup elementary school. he was a wonderful leader and just an outstanding man. jim taber

The Albee's Tim & Robin

November 29, 2008

Scott,
So sorry to here of your loss
of your father. Our prayers &
thoughts are with you, Cheryl &
your daughters in this difficult time.

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