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Dianne Saitta Obituary
Born October 28, 1965 in Northborough, MA, she was the daughter of James F. & Joan Dennehy Laurence.
Steadfastly principled and forever giving, Dianne led by example and was revered by her friends and family. She will be remembered for her infectious energy and her inherent ability to inspire every life she touched. Dianne's spirit is best evidenced through her children whose compassion towards one another and others epitomizes Dianne's character. Her six children are a testament to her interminable devotion, love and selflessness.
In addition to her parents, Dianne is survived by her husband, Paul P. Saitta of New Canaan; her 6 children, Paul P. (Tripper) III, Tucker J., Teagan L., Katrina (Trina), Thomas C. and Tyler J. Saitta all of New Canaan; and her 3 brothers, James E. Laurence of Lexington, SC, Andrew J. Laurence of Northborough, MA and David A. Laurence of Loraine, OR.
A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, October 30, 2007 at St. Aloysius Church in New Canaan at 10:00 AM. Internment will follow funeral. Calling hours were held on Monday, October 29, 2007 at the Hoyt Funeral Home, 199 Main St.
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Cheryl Diamond Raines
January 29, 2018
Oh Dianne, As we plan our 30th college reunion, I posted our picture at graduation day on the Reunion FB page, and found out that you have gone before us to heaven in 2007. My heart is so broken over this news and especially for your beautiful family. I had looked for you over the years but never could find you. Dianne, your spirit was bigger than life, despite your petite size. Your kindness meant so much to me. You were naturally pretty, so funny, very positive and uplifting, a good listener/friend.....so much fun to be around. I loved your laugh. I am so sorry I am telling you this now...and not sooner. You are loved and missed, sweet friend. Always. xo
Rebecca Peppe
October 28, 2015
Last night I dreamed about you, and woke up and it was your birthday.... Such fond memories xoxo
June 4, 2013
I love u mom
Tyler saitta
Dina Wright
September 10, 2012
Hi Dianne - you came to me in my dreams last night and were very vibrant and happy as always! We were going to a big party and running around trying to get ready - just like old times all the way back to Bathurst Ave! In that in between time of sleep and waking, I thought "I have to call her and tell her about this dream"- sometimes I still have to remind myself that you are not here, but watching us from above. Thank you so much for the visit - it was nice to laugh with you again....
Trina Saitta
August 21, 2011
Mom,
I dont even know where to start. I love you more then words could describe. There have been so many times that i've had to stop and think, "What would Mom do". When im older, i want to be like you, if thats possible. I want to play with my kids and enjoy every second of life just like you did. Family will always come first in my life. You are and always will be my hero. The lake house is so empty without you to take us tubing and waterskiing every day. I also miss those great times going to Mexico, Flordia, and wherever else you would throw us in the car to go to! We all miss you so much and i promise to try to enjoy my birthday anyways, because thats what you would want.
Alexandra Whitaker
January 24, 2010
Dear Saitta
Mrs. Saitta was the best person ever. She was so nice and caring, and VERY fun. I loved her so much. Just like me and Trina say, she was like my 2nd mom. To me... she always will be. I love to think of her as that.
Nicky Mello
March 13, 2009
Paul and Kids,
I became friendly with Dianne when you lived in Duxbury. Your Tommy and my Tommy would roll around like bear cubs while the older kids played tennis at the Kingsbury Club. I come from a family of 7 children (I'm the only girl with 6 brothers..Trina, sound familliar??) and being with her and the kids felt so familliar to me! She was truly a breath of fresh air. I remember shedding a tear when you moved to CT, because I would miss my friend and her beautiful family...You are all in my heart and in my thoughts and prayers..
Dina Wright
January 24, 2009
It is unbelieveable that more than a year has passed since Dianne's passing. I still have an e-mail in my inbox about getting together for dinner that was sent just before she died - I just don't want to delete it. Our trip to see the family last week was amazing - Dianne's spirit lives on in the home and the kids - and the group added another 5 to the mix! Boom - instant party! Paul - you are doing an amazing job and we pray for you and your family every day - God Bless you all- Dina
Kim Crosby
April 8, 2008
Hi Saittas,
I met your family when you guys lived in Darien. My daughter, Caroline Crosby, was best friends with Trina when they were in kindergarten. And then the rest of you all fell in line...Tucker was my son Calvin's age, but Teagan was in his grade. Trina was my daughter Kitty's age, but in Caroline's class. And Tommy and Tyler were on either side of Nolan's age. And, Tripper was the oldest, the hero, the ring leader. Tripper was the All-Star at the baseball games at our house.
Your Mom would pull up our driveway, you would all spill out, and it was an instant party!! Jumping on the Moon Bounce, biking, running, art projects, climbing rocks, hitting fly balls. Fun and chaos ruled. And that is what me and your Mom loved! Your Mom was a force of positive energy. There was never a negative, down moment with your Mom. In fact, if a difficulty arose, she knew you would all move past it, and she would use humor to see you all through it. She embraced life with her whole heart. And I see her in all of you. If I had to sum up your Mom's philosophy, as I saw her, it was, "work hard, play hard".
Her personality was enormous, which defied that tiny, little body of hers. And people loved to surround themselves around your Mom, to absorb her good vibe. She was wanted at every party and activity, to bring 'life' to an event. But often, your Mom would rather hang out with you kids. I think you kids recharged her with enthusiasm and love. I remember her declining party invitations so that she could stay home with you guys. This is what she preferred. So, she would turn down lots of invites, and offer to take care of the hosts' kids, while the rest of the grown ups got together.
She also didn't spend a lot of time on herself. I think she may have been the most selfless, unmaterialistic person I will ever know. I remember her coming over to pick up Teagan and Trina from a playdate, and there were twigs and leaves sticking out ALL over your Moms' hair. I thought, this Dianne is a 'keeper'. She must have just raked the leaves in your yard, and come right over without a second to glance in the mirror. What a gem, in a town of primpers and preeners. It was this easy way of hers, that made everyone comfortable in her company. She made everyone laugh. And she made everyone realize that if she can organize and schedule 6 kids with such an air of 'positivity', then no one else better complain! She had a true 'joi de vie', a joy for life. And this is why she was so beloved.
When your whole family was over, we would do some grown up talking; but then it was always interjected with a run & tickle the kids, push a kid on the swing, and just play with you 'little ones'. And her laugh was always going off. When you guys first started to look for a new home, we both hoped it would be close to us. She looked at the house across the street from our home, and we joked that we could put a zip line across the road so that you kids could zip back and forth from one house to the other. We had so much fun at our home one night, that it lasted till 10:00 p.m....on a school night! Your Mom apologized to the teachers the next day for any tired kids, as time had escaped us, with everyone living in the moment. Your Mom squeezed more life in her time, then many will ever be lucky to see.
She told me so many funny stories about your family. The one where all you kids were in the RV on the way to some vacation destination. And then you all synchronized a "moon" to some random person on the interstate highway. It coincidentally happened to be someone your parents knew!! I think these funny stories follow your family, because humor begets humor.
I remember her telling me the story about the police pulling her over, with all 6 kids in the vehical. Apparently either Tommy or Tyler set off the "emergency" on Star button. The police officer quizzed your Mom to see if she was truly the Mother to all you kids (lest she be a kidnapper). You kids had a blast with that officer and rattled all your names off: Tripper, Tucker, Teagan, Trina, Tommy, Tyler. I think the officer couldn't believe how many of you there were, and how close in age you were......and there was Mom, loving it all. She was so proud of you all. You were her pride and joy. And you kids, and the pursuit of fun together, is what made your Mom tick.
She was so much larger than life, that you almost forgot how cute and smart she was (C.P.A. Accountant!!).
So, if you want to honor your Mom, be good, be strong, have 'true grit', try hard....but you better darn well enjoy life! All the goodness that I saw in your Mom, I see in you. And if any of you ever need to reach out for help, to vent, or want to just come over and have fun, you are always welcome at the Crosbys. It is always a good time with you kids over here. Love, Mrs. Crosby.
Joan Laurence
March 30, 2008
Hi Honey,
Paul told me that this Guest Book would be closed shortly so I decided that I would get my two cents worth in.
Thank You for almost 42 years. Sometimes my grief is unbearable. When that happens I try to stop and force myself to remember one of my wonderful memories with you. Holidays, Trips, Summer at the Lake and, always, anything and everything to do with your kids. You were always so generous in sharing your family with Dad and I. Thank You.
Paul is very impressive in his new role as a single parent. He's involved in every aspect of their lives. I'm proud of him and know that you're helping to guide his way.
The kids are doing remarkably well. They miss you terribly but the qualities you imbedded in them are shining through. They are an inspiration to so many people.
Each one is so Loving, Kind Hearted, Generous, Fun - that's just the first things to come to mind.
I told you many times that your communication skills, alone, with your children would put most parents to shame. You were an incredible Mom. Thank You for that legacy.
Before I sign off I'd like to share that one of the best things we had together is that we weren't embarrased to say how much we loved each other. You showed it in so many ways, but it was always wonderful hearing the words.
Tons of Love, My Darling ,Dianne, Mom
Trina Saitta
March 16, 2008
our mom wastnt like any other mom.she was a great mom.she was gifted by god .she was sent to heaven to take care of the kids that dont have moms.even though our family misses her really bad we have been sourounded with people that love us.everyone has gave great support to giving us meals every night.we our now putting together a cook book with all the meals everyone gave us.Please if you have any great recipes that you would like to share could you please send them to [email protected] for all of your love and support!
Holly Huber
February 8, 2008
To all who loved Ms. Dianne,
Our hearts are filled with sadness, but knowing that God choose your wife, mother, daughter, friend, sister, etc. for a reason means that she was wanted by our Father and He has His reasons. He kissed her, and took her spirit and love for a greater purpose and has left us all with wonderful memories of a beautiful person who has touched us all in a special way. She will continue to be there and look after you all from a view that can only be provided by God, and that is the best view.
You are in my prayers. Blessings to you all.
Eckerd class of '89.
David Bamford
January 31, 2008
To the Saitta Family,
I was also a classmate of Dianne (EC 1988) and am saddened by your loss. She is a loss to all of us as Eckerd College is a special family.
May God be with you,
David Bamford
This is my favorite picture of Dianne and Tripper
Rebecca peppe
January 23, 2008
Dear Saitta family and Laurence family,
I remember the first time I met Dianne, we were roomates and friends from the start. Dianne had a magnetic personality. I was shocked to hear the news. We had not seen each other in awhile, but I look at her picture everyday. I know family was the most important thing to Dianne, I can tell through your stories what a amazing mother and friend she had become to everybody she met. I will miss her, but will never forget her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always. Please know we are here if you need anything.
Love,
Rebecca, John , CJ and Savannah Peppe
Tara Casatuta
January 22, 2008
Paul and Family,
I found out about your mom's death because I had been telling a funny story about her and realized I had not received a Christmas card from her this year. I was so sorry to hear of your loss. It's devastating to anyone who had the pleasure of knowing and laughing with her. Tucker, Teagan and Katrina, the words I read here about your mom were so beautiful. I don't know how you and your brothers can make your mom any prouder...other than to grow up just like her! There are so many stories...One of my favorites one was when she and your dad were attempting to drive the family North for a ski trip in their BMW and pulled off the side of the road and traded it in for a Winnebego! True testimony to her family dedication and sponteneity! She was a fireball of energy, fun, and, most of all, love for you! My thoughts will be with you always.
Saudia Gajadhar
January 17, 2008
Dear Saitta and Laurence families,
I was a roommate of Dianne’s from Eckerd. I just found out today about her passing and I am shocked and very sad. I haven’t seen Dianne since her wedding. I guess we all think we’ll get in touch “someday soon.” I have crushing regret now that I never did. I have thought about Dianne a lot over the years, always with a smile. I remember the first time I met Dianne. It was freshman year, so she was probably 18 or 19. That girl had more pink in her wardrobe than I even knew they made. We were in the library, and in comes this ball of energy stirring up the air, looking for some particular book, and she wasn’t satisfied until she had exactly what she needed. And my college experience was never the same after that. I was glad to know her. I have some great college pictures, so please let me know if you’d like me to send copies to you. [email protected]
Sandy Collum-Sandmeyer (Class of 1989)
January 16, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. I was a classmate of Dianne's at Eckerd College, and while I may not remember her or I may not have known her, she was still a member of the Eckerd family. My prayers are with you.
Dina Wright
December 10, 2007
I am still numb from the news of Dianne's passing and my heart goes out to you and the children hoping that you will remember her spirit and find the strength to live life as she did. I will never forget Bathurst Avenue and the pre-engagement talks with the "we want our rings" signs we made to move things along. What fun we had planning our weddings as young brides. Even if we didn't speak for awhile, we could pick up the next conversation as though we spoke yesterday! You are all so blessed to have had her as a mom and wife and we are blessed to have had her as a friend.
Jerry McAuliffe
December 6, 2007
To Paul and Children,
We wanted to reach out to you as you approach this first Christmas/Holiday
season that will never be the same.
Many folks that you do not even know
have you all in their thoughts and hearts during this time of year where peace, kindness and most importantly family come into play.
These folks know what an incredibly
wonderful person your wife/Mom was
and always will be. God Bless you all.
Sincerely,
Jerry, Lorraine and Andy McAuliffe
Tucker Saitta
November 29, 2007
This is the Eulogy a said at the funeral. Enjoy!
Our Mom
Most if not all of you knew my mom, Dianne Saitta.
But no one really knew her the exact same way as I did.
I’m sure that everybody else knew her to be extremely generous.
Me and my brothers and sister will always remember what a great Mom she was.
For example, Tripper will remember the time when she ran around New York City with him, just the two of them.
I will remember when we first moved into Bridle Path Lane, and we asked her, “Can we put pillows and blankets on the porch so we can jump off the roof onto them?” and she said “sure, but be careful.” Also I remember how we would have a family night where we would play games, swim, or watch a movie together.
Teagan will remember when she threw everybody in the car and drove us to Florida to meet my Dad for a long weekend.
Trina will remember how much she helped us with all of our homework, and how our Mom spoiled her for being the only girl.
Tommy and Tyler remember how our Mom would make them a drink and ice cream every night.
We will all remember how she made us feel like an only child.
But everybody knew her to be extremely generous and great with kids.
Although I felt the same way, I also felt like she was a friend and someone that I could come to and tell her about my feelings, because we were so similar. For example, we liked the same food, we had the same sickness, and we always felt the same way.
Our Mom was irreplaceable. No one in the world could ever compare to her, in our opinion.
And it wasn’t only us who loved her. Our cousins, uncles, aunts, grandparents, and even friends loved her too.
Mom, if you were still alive, we would make sure that you got plenty of rest and didn’t spend your whole life cleaning up after us and making sure that our lives are easy as possible.
There’s a lot of people that loved you that are wondering if they can do anything to help right now. What you can do to help is tomorrow on Halloween, when you’re out trick-or-treating and you’re really cold and tired and you want to go home, do what our Mom whould do: push yourself hit an extra 25 houses, and of course let them eat as much candy as they want. Because after all, it’s a kids’ holiday and our Mom was all about the kids.
Mom, we all love you, and we’ll see you in heaven. I hope you’re looking over us and missing us as much as we miss you. And with that, we hope that you are happy and having a great time playing with all of the children in heaven who don’t have Moms up there.
Teagan Saitta
November 29, 2007
Mom,
I love you so much. I miss you so much too! Life has been so hard and different without you there to help me with stuff. In my opinion and everyone's in the family is that you were the best mom in the world. But now your in a different world. Heaven. We all have heard good things about it and we hope you are having fun reading a book and tanning. But most of all I hope you are making new friends and doing your favorite thing in the evening- (sunset chase)? I have heard about that from Dad. We are getting so many cards from families who care so much about us and especially you. You were so special and you will be remembered forever. All of the family, friends, relatives and even random people care. I think so much of you every day. This will be for me and hopefully everyone that reads this message- you will be in my heart and stay there until the day I die and I have to go up to heaven with you. And I hope it will be the same for you to us, too! I love you and I miss you and I will never stop doing that.
Jennifer (Meek) Palmer
November 27, 2007
Dear Jim, Joan, Paul, Scott, Andy & Lisa (and Ken & Beryl, too):
First of all, I apologize for writing one letter to you all, but I feel as if (as somewhat of a peripheral player) I would say the same things to each of you, as you all occupy the same space in my memory – and that’s nothing but a good thing, as those memories are some of my fondest. (Besides which, you’d thank me, if you saw my penmanship…my mother would not approve).
Anyways, I’ve had five sympathy cards ready to go for over a week now, and I still don’t know what to say. I simply cannot find the words. I’ve typed this first line seventeen times and erased it each time, feeling like it was inappropriate, so I’ll just start talking, because otherwise I’ll never start.
Ok, so (once again) I don’t really know what to say.
But I’m no stranger to loss - having lost my dad six years ago: that was awful, but not in this way. But the one thing that comforted me when he passed away was the stories that people gave me that I never knew about him, and the way he was seen, through the eyes of friends. So let me begin with that:
• The first time I met Dianne I loved her. I wanted to be her best friend.
• The second time I met Dianne I got drunk. REALLY DRUNK.
• The third time I met Dianne I started to talk like her – ending phrases with the “you know?” or “right?” sentiment. (Am I the only one?)
• The fourth time, she was planning every event, every outing, for the rest of my life – the mother/organizer that was part of her DNA.
• The fifth time I met Dianne I knew she was infectious, and would always be part of me. And will always be.
And so, while our time as friends was short-lived (a mere three years), she showed me joy (I wish I could recall half the jokes; I only remember the sound of her laughter), love (I remember her constantly forgoing her own happiness/comfort/safety for the sake of myself or others), happiness (I remember her being on the dock and gesturing to us all and saying how “better can it get?”), and, most importantly, family. For that was always her priority: family. Which was why, perhaps, I identified with her so.
I remember (and this is my favorite) the frantic “sunset chase.” Someone would point out that the sun was setting (we were on the dock, naturally) and she would launch into a frantic race to pack: the cheese; the blanket; the wine; the beer; the glasses; the cocktail napkins (god forbid!!); the camera; the car. You name it – we had to get going!!! So we would all set out, amidst her yelling “We gotta go! We gotta go! We’re gonna miss it!!” and drive like bats outta hell, chasing the sunset at every turn, only to settle in, moments before, to catch our breath, and, within seconds, witness God’s perfection. And, weren’t for her, we all would have done nothing and missed it.
Maybe Dianne understood that that fleeting moment – a sunset – was one of those rare opportunities to: Stop. Sit. Look. Listen. And for one humble moment, appreciate the beauty around us, and the love of the people sitting on that hastily thrown blanket. It might have been the only time I think I ever saw her actually stand still, frankly. In my mind now, she will always be racing towards that next sunset.
Finally, quite fittingly, I also remember the magnet on the shower at the cottage that said “There Have To Be Some Clouds In Order To Make a Beautiful Sunset.”
Anyways.
I cannot begin to imagine your loss. I feel it myself, and I haven’t spoken to her in well over a decade and a half. She was infectious, impossible, and irreplaceable. And so very loved.
I think of all of your losses and cry a river of tears. But I also think, as I always will, that the best sunsets are filled with clouds. And each time I see this, I will remember Dianne.
With all my love,
Jen
(Meek)
Suzanne & Doug Cole
November 17, 2007
To the Saitta family,
We just found this site, and Tripper we are so touched by your words to your Mom and by Tucker's at the funeral. She was a wonderful person and was loved by all the children who were brought in by her spark and fun spirit.
There are so many people who care about you all. We are here for your family to support you through this very difficult time. Know we are all thinking of you each day.
Our sincerest sympathies,
The Coles,
Doug Suzanne Courtney & Jeffrey
tripper saitta
November 15, 2007
mom,
I miss you soooooo much mom. I keep thinking your going to come back but you arent going to. The whole family loves you and would do anything for you to come back. Me and all of my friends loved you sooooo much. You did everything for us. You were like a best friend to me and ill do anything just to have you back in the family. God i miss you and i hope you are having a great time up in heavan. I wish i had one last chance to give you a hug or a kiss, I love you mom...
Amy (Trottier) Buttiglieri
November 12, 2007
To the Laurence and Saitta Families,
I am incredibly saddened to hear about Dianne’s passing. It has been many years since I last saw her, but I will always remember Dianne’s energy and enthusiasm. She was such a positive person; full of joy. I think back to Dianne waiting tables in the summer as a young woman. I was impressed because she made it seem effortless and fun…and I thought it was so funny that she couldn’t help sneaking a slice of pizza from her family during her shift! Diane had a real love of life and family, which I am sure will always burn brightly through her children. My prayers and heartfelt sympathies go out to all of you.
Bobby Fitzsimmons
November 9, 2007
Paul:
You have been in my thoughts since I heard the very sad news about Diane. Even before this I often thought of Diane every time I lit a candle remembering her families backround in the business. Both Michele & I now find ourselves looking at each other wishing we stayed in touch with you both. You were always good friends to us & people that we wish had stayed in our lives. I know that its been a while Paul but I would like to tell you that we would be happy to lend a hand to you & the kids in any way should we be able to help. I will continue to pray for you & Diane & the kids. Please take care of yourself our thoughts are with you. God bless Dianne, she was great.
Bob Rabinoff
November 7, 2007
Dear Paul and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this devastating time. God bless all of you.
Louis Prosperi
November 7, 2007
Dear Mom, Dad, James, Andy, and David,
I am so sorry about Dianne's passing. She was an amazing person who inspired and brightened the faces of everyone who knew her.
You are all like a second family to me, and Di was the little sister I never had. And even though part of me is sad about Dianne being gone, I can't help but smile when I think of her (and I think she would want it that way). She had an enthusiasm for life that was contagious. Everyone should be so lucky as to have someone like Dianne in their lives. I love you all, and you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
moira sowarby
November 6, 2007
Paul,
I can not even express my feelings right now. I am so numb! Dianne was much more than a sister in law to me and has always had a special place in my heart. She was a dear friend. I can go on, but I think what is most appropriate right now is to tell you and your the terrific 6 children a story as to how I will always remember Dianne. She had more life and more hours in a day than anyone else I know. If she was not playing with her children than it was always another child. My boys could not wait to get up to their cousins house so Aunt Dianne could throw them in the pool! Remember the day when the four of us went out on the boat? Dianne was so excited to cook the 32oz rib eye on the boat grill. Well, that grill went in the murky water and it was dark. She looked at you and John and said,"which one of the 2 of you are going in to get it". She gave up after maybe 3 mins and before you know it, Dianne was stipped down to her underware and sport tank and in the water. She really wanted that steak and she was determined in that cold,dirty water to find the grill. It only took her 20 mins.
But she found it and we ate great that night. She was the best and I will always share my memories with your family. It's the memories that can not be taken from us. I love you and your children and with all the support you will get through this. Moira
Andrea Brandeis
November 6, 2007
Dear Paul, Tripper, Tucker, Teagan, Trina, Tyler and Tommy,
We knew you for one short year in Duxbury when Ben and Teagan were @ Berrybrook School together. Remember our fun time on the pirate ship trip in Plymouth together. :) I loved being around Dianne because she was an amazing mentor as a mother. She had a beautiful heart. We are devastated by the news. It is hard to believe. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
With love, Andrea Brandeis & Family
christine eustis
November 6, 2007
To the Laurence and Saitta Families:
I am so truly saddened to know that Dianne is gone. She had a positive energy and a wonderful spirit that I was privileged to know. She was certainly reflective of the goodness and warmth in both of your families, and through you her memory will burn brightly. Love to you all and know that you are in my thoughts throughout your difficult time of healing.
Shannon Gannon
November 4, 2007
I am so sorry for your lose. I wish to send you my deepest condolences. She was a beautiful girl and i'm sure she will be deeply missed. I work for the laurences and respect them all very much. May Dianne rest in peace.
Carol Rooney
November 2, 2007
Dear Paul and all the kids, We were so shocked and sad to learn of Dianne's passing...the teachers at the Methodist Preschool in Darien told me this morning. What a special person, full of love and life, and a rich spirit! Our hearts are with you, and we'll always remember Dianne sunny smile and bright eyes. She lives in each of you.
Dave Legere
November 2, 2007
To Jim, Joan, Paul, and family,
I am very sorry to hear about the loss of Diane, I wish to extend my deepest condolences to you and your family. I only new Diane for a very short time and was amazed by her enthusiasm, family spirit and zest for life. I know that you’re great strength, family and friends will help you at this time of loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones during this difficult time. Remember, "Those who live in the hearts of others never die."
Kevin Cella
November 1, 2007
To the family of Dianne:
I am so sorry to learn of Dianne's passing. I will always remember Dianne as the kind and generous person she was. She will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Krystyna Romano
November 1, 2007
Dear Paul and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Diane was one amazing person. She cared about EVERYBODY. She is now smiling from heaven and I know she is watching over her children. Try to stay strong and remember all the happy times and that every day that goes by you are closer to seeing her again.
You are in our prayers,
Krystyna & John Romano
Susan Lodi
November 1, 2007
I am so sad to hear of Dianne's passing. We went to High School together and she was always kind and thoughtful. We all had such fun years. seeing her about 2 months ago I see now was a gift from God. her and all her family are in my prayers. Godbless and thank you for Dianne.
Michael & Gina Barron
November 1, 2007
Paul, Know that we think of you and your family every day. Stay strong.
Valerie Romano
October 31, 2007
Paul,
I am very sorry for your loss and have had your family in my prayers.
Valerie Romano
Anne Mc Nelis
October 31, 2007
Paul,
i know there are no words that can make this easier for you but know that you and your children are in our thoughts and prayers.
James Lenney
October 31, 2007
Paul, please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. Jaime and Shahnaz
Heather Henry-O'Connor
October 30, 2007
My heart goes out to Diane's family at this very hard, time in their live's. So sorry to hear about this loss. Diane was a very very special person, indeed. I only had the pleasure, to meet her a few times. Her intense energy and giving heart.. inspired me in my own life. I will never forget her. The world is a much sadder place, having lost her.
Michelle Bombard Perry
October 30, 2007
To the Laurence and Saitta families,
My heart goes out to you all. Dianne was a special person with a beautiful smile. Please know that she will be with you always.
danny harold
October 30, 2007
To Tripper,Tucker,Teagan,Trina,Thomas,Tyler
Today, you will need eachother more than ever! The big will have to help the small and the Family will cry. This awful experience will someday pass.
Your father is STRONG and full of LOVE. Together, the memory of your mother will be forever.
With all our Hearts, Danny Harold and Family
Lisa Segal
October 30, 2007
To the Saitta family,
We were privileged to have Dianne in our neighborhood for a short time, but I will always remember her charisma, optimism and kindness. Our thoughts are with you all. Regards, Lisa Segal
Jeff Willman
October 30, 2007
To Dianne's families,
I am very sorry to hear of Dianne's passing. Memories of great times with Dianne from high school and college will be with me forever!
Thomas and Barbara Maher
October 29, 2007
To The Family of Dianne,
We are so sadden by her death. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Thomas and Barbara Maher
October 29, 2007
To The Family of Diane,
We are so sadden by her death. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Fred Abberley
October 29, 2007
Paul,
I am very sorry to learn of Diane's passing. She will forever be in my mind as the fun, caring and loving friend, mom and wife we all knew her as. Words cannot express your loss and that of the children. My heart goes out to you.
Fred
David Cerundolo
October 29, 2007
To the Laurence and Saitta families:
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you in this most difficult time. Words fail to express proper condolences, but we know that your faith is strong and the love of those around you will sustain you. We regret being unable to attend services in New Canaan, but we are with you in spirit, and will see you soon in Northboro.
John and Anna Cerundolo,
David and Debbie Cerundolo
Charles and Robin Salmans
October 29, 2007
Paul and family,
Our prayers are with you during this time of devastating loss of a wonderful young woman, wife and mother.
Freeman & Cara Winslow
October 29, 2007
Dear Paul and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Dianne. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Mike Donnelly
October 29, 2007
Joan,Jim and Paul
I am so sorry to hear of the tragic news of Dianne. I can not imagine your pain but want you to know my family and I are thinking of you all
Sandra & Michael Moraros
October 29, 2007
To Jim, Joan, Paul, Tripper, Tucker, Teagan, Trina, Tommy and Tyler and the rest of the Saitta/Lawrence Families: Our Deepast Sympathy, thoughts and Prayers are with you. In the short time that we were lucky enough to be a part of Dianne's Legacy, she created roots the same as she had for her family-Deep and Attached. The first day we met her, she became a big part of our life immediately, almost un-describable. Mirror Lake will NEVER be the same. We must cherish the good times we had with her, and hold on to the memories. We must use those memories and all of the energy she radiated to help us move forward. We will forever miss her! Love Sandy & Mike
John and Mary O'Hara
October 29, 2007
Throw your arms around Dianne Lord and kiss her smiling face.
Jerry McAuliffe
October 28, 2007
Mr. & Mrs Laurence, James, Andy and David, I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the pain and grief you are experiencing. Whenever I think of Dianne
it always brings a smile to my face. I will cherish the memories I have of her and all of you. God Bless her husband and children. You are all in our thoughts and prayers
Jerry, Lorraine & Andy McAuliffe
Meg (McGinley)Cunningham
October 28, 2007
Dear Paul+Family, I heard of your loss via the St.Mary's grapevine. and I am so very sorry.Diane's love and support will surround you and your children in these coming days and all that follow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you on this journey.Peace~ Meg
Garth & Rhonda Fraser
October 28, 2007
I apologize for not being with you at this very sad time. My memories of Dianne and her family will forever be in my heart. We are so sorry for your loss.
Ginny & Gary Cole
October 28, 2007
It is hard to imagine what you, Diane's family, are going through at this time, but may God hold you tightly in his arms and see you through this. We are sending our prayers, and those of our church here in Florida, to fill you with hope and peace in the days to come. Know that the world is truly a better place, having had Diane in it. She'll have six young Saitta legacies carrying on the qualities she (and you all) gave them. And Paul, you and the whole Laurence family will have wonderful memories of her laugh, her love, her pranks, and her warmth. God bless you all, and keep the faith!
Mary Manago (Sullivan)
October 28, 2007
Joanie, Jim, James, Andy and David, I am so sorry about the untimely passing of Dianne. She always had such an amazing ability to make people smile. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you from Kansas! Mary Sullivan and daughters
patty casella
October 28, 2007
Paul, Aunt Joan & Uncle Jim,
I don't know what to say. None of us have stopped thinking of you all during this time. I wish there was more that we could do for you. Paul & her children are in our prayers.
Patty Casella
Mary Ann Murray
October 28, 2007
A large part of the spirit of the "Mirror Lake Warriors" was called home to the great resting place in the sky. I am sure that before Dianne left this earth she planted in each of our hearts the seeds of Joy,Energy and Empathy. I love you Paul, Tripper,Tucker,Teagan,Trina,Tommy and Tyler, Joan and Jim and I also know that your wonderful memories will make your hearts a fertile place for these seeds to grow and your tears will help them sprout.
Love,
An honorary Mirror Lake Warrior,
Neighbor and Friend.
Mary Ann Murray
Tracy Bertonazzi
October 28, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. What a tragedy. God bless you and your children as you heal. We are thinking of you.
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