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Scott Bailey Obituary
TOBACCOVILLE, NC - Scott Alan Bailey, 31, of Tobaccoville, NC, was born March 2, 1977, in Columbus, Ohio, son of Marian Kanaan Bailey and Dr. Paul Bailey, formerly of Youngstown, Ohio. His life tragically ended August 21, 2008, following a bicycling accident, an activity which brought him great joy. He is survived by his wife, Theresa (Terri) A. Flagg, Tobaccoville, NC, (formerly of Owego, NY, and Norfolk, VA); Paul Andrew Bailey, ten month old son; parents, Marian Kanaan Bailey, Winston-Salem, NC, Paul Henry Bailey, Tobaccoville, NC; Phillip Bailey, brother, of Winston-Salem, NC; stepmother, Julia Bailey, Tobaccoville, NC; stepbrothers, Daniel Moore and Dr. Jason Moore; parents-in-law, Paul and Maxine Flagg of Interlaken, NY; nieces and nephews, Alyssa Bailey, Reynolds Bailey, Jason Breckner and Lauryn Breckner; loving extended family including aunts, uncles, cousins, brother and sisters-in-laws, many friends, and his classmates and faculty of Wake Forest University School of Law, who meant so much to him. Scott was a graduate of Virginia Wesleyan College, a Wake Forest University Law Student, and was a talented musician and former music teacher. Scott was a special kind of person who left a mark on all who knew him. He was talented and intelligent, a loving husband to his wife. Scott loved his little boy so very much; they shared a very special bond.
Scott's family wishes to thank physicians, nurses and all staff at Wake Forest University Baptist Hospital. In lieu of flowers, donations to Brenner's Children's Hospital would be greatly appreciated. A Celebration of Scott's life was conducted Sunday, August 24, 2008, at the Tobaccoville Community Center, Tobaccoville Village Park, 4225 Tobaccoville Road at Doral Road.
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Memories and Condolences
for Scott Bailey
Adam Hodges
August 23, 2009
I am very sorry about the passing of your son and my friend Scott. Many of us knew him as Scooter and I attended school with him from 4th through 8th grade. He was a shining example of an individual who stood up for his beliefs loudly and clearly. He would stand up and applaud when no one else would because he held himself to a standard not even conceived of by nearly all of his age group. Even among his friends he stood alone much of the time but always commanded their understanding in the long run. He stood up for me. He could call people out and be critical and they would be forced to recognize the criticism with only temporary antipathy due to his comical nature. He would make me mad because I couldn't get mad at him. The ease of his ability to be outrageously funny was only a compliment to his superior intellect. He changed my life because he stood up for me.
So as I try my best to stand up for him I am very proud to be able to say he was my friend. Yet I am also ashamed that I was not able to stay closer to him in our later years. I shockingly only realized through a friend about this passing yesterday. Here I am over a year later yet Scooter, his wife, child and family and all of his friends will be in my thoughts for all time.
Byah McGee
December 13, 2008
Marian, I was out of town a lot in August, and I didn't know about Scooter until Bob Tally called me today, because he'd seen the story in this morning's paper (Dec. 13). I can't tell you how sorry I am. Of all of Richey's friends, Scooter is the one I remember the best. We loved him. Richey lives in Oakland, Calif. He doesn't know. I will call him today. My heart goes out to you. I can't even begin to imagine how hard this must be. Please know that I am thinking of you. I'm so happy that Scooter has a little boy. I send, with my sorrow, my love. Byah
Jeremy Rowlette
December 7, 2008
I am deeply sorry to hear about the tragic passing of Scott, or Scooter, as I knew him. I only heard of his passing today through an old mutual friend. We attended FCDS together, 1st grade through third grade and I have many fond childhood memories playing together. I especially recall playing with chemistry sets together around the third grade - Scott was quite the young genius scientist. My prayers are with Scott's wife, his child, and his entire family.
The Elliott's Fairgrounds Jam
October 29, 2008
Thank you Terri and Bernie for allowing us to kick off and play at Scott's tribute in Virginia Beach at Abbey Road.
We are not professional musicians only just back porch pickers who get together once a month to pick at a local jam at a local coffee house.
And right before Scott moved he was coming to our jam and what was so great was that there were several former students (at least 4) in the group of Scott's.
He was a great guy and a great player and even though he was talented enough to pretty much blow any of us out of the water he never did and it was so fun when he would join us (and Bernie too!)
All of us at the Elliott's Coffee House jam will always remember Scott and his favorite picking tunes... Soldier's Joy, Red Haired Boy and Salt Creek.
Carly Smith
October 28, 2008
Terri, I only just heard about Scott's passing, and I wanted to tell you how shocked and sorry I am. Scott was a great person and it made me happy knowing the two of you were together. I haven't seen Scott since we were all at Virginia Wesleyan, but he was an unforgettable person who clearly touched the lives of everyone he met. I hope that you can find comfort in your son Paul and all your happy memories of Scott. You are definitely in my thoughts.
-Carly (Daniels) Smith
Chris & Cheri Barbour
September 18, 2008
We are so very sorry for your loss. We remember Scott with warm/happy memories. From Kelley Music, meeting up with Terri and Scott at Merlefest and Scott playing at our yearly Luau.
Know that you are in our hearts and in our prayers.
The Barbour Family
Chris, Cheri, J, Kelly, Seann and Katie
Chris Thomas
September 17, 2008
I am at a loss for words except to say that we will all miss Scott.
Scott was my first mandolin instructor, he was encouraging & patient. He always greeted me with a smile and a “HEY CHRIS THOMAS”. We discussed what made music good and discussed things that you can’t touch. Scott was broad and diverse in what he listened to and always had good suggestions for new listening.
After a while we found that we had other interests in common. We talked about flying/airplanes, sailing, and family and of course music.
After I stopped taking lessons I would occasionally stop by to just say hello. He always greeted me with “HEY CHRIS THOMAS” and a big king sized smile.
Last year Scott stopped by our local jam. Scott called “Salt Creek” (which he could flat-pick at an impressive speed with good tone). When it was my turn, Scott said “GO CHRIS THOMAS”. I am sure that I smiled. After the jam we spoke by ourselves for a few minutes. He told me how happy it made him when I played “with” him (it had been 4 years since I started with zero experience). I smiled too.
His smile and ever present enthusiasm will be missed.
Amy Ferebee
September 17, 2008
To Scott's Family,
And especially to Terri,
I am so, so sorry. Please accept my deepest condolances. I grieve with you for the loss of my picking buddy and friend, your dear one.
Terri, call me any time,
757-434-5385
Amy Ferebee
Jim Hockett
September 16, 2008
I am a former student of Scott's. He was my guitar teacher and when it was time for me to go he was my friend.
Please accept my deepest and sincere condolences. Scott was a nice guy and a great guitar player.
I have had the pleasure of studying with, playing in jams with and being taught by Scotts.
My prayers go out to Terri and Paul and all of Scott's family.
Charles Wilson
September 15, 2008
God bless the family. I took mandolin lessons from Scott at Alpha Music in VA Beach and had the privledge to play with him many times in casual settings. He was a great musicain and a great guy. I remember he always had the hint of a smile on his face like he knew something that no one else did. He will be greatly missed.
Chuck Wilson, VA Beach, VA
Laurie and Tommy Dawson
September 14, 2008
Dear Terri and family,
My son Tommy was a guitar student of Scott's. I am so sorry to hear of his death. Scott was such a talented musician and such an inspiration to a 9 year old boy who looked up so much to Scott and whom Scott always treated with such kindness and respect. We had not had contact with Scott in a couple of years-its wonderful to know that your lives were so rich with your marriage, the arrival of a baby and Scott's law school progress.
The world has lost a gifted, gentle soul and Tommy and our entire family are thinking about you and are so sorry for your loss.
Kat Foley (Blais)
September 14, 2008
To all of Scott's Family,
May God Bless you all as you mourn the loss of such an amazing man. I knew Scott at VWC and mainly got to know him playing tennis for the Marlins. Our paths crossed quite frequently those first years through study and listening to him strum the guitar. What a talented individual he was in every which way. It saddens me to think we lost touch after college.
Terri, I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Just know that Scott is up there smiling down on you and your son.
With Love,
Kat Foley (Blais)
VWC '99
rebecca anderson
September 14, 2008
terri and family,
no words are right. we simply want you to know how much you and your family are in our thoughts.
craig and rebecca anderson
(your neighbors in va beach)
Liz Ross
September 6, 2008
Our family was devastated to hear the news about Scott. My daughter, Meredith, was a two year student of Scott's at Alpha music. He was a great role model and teacher and was such a pleasure to see each week.I looked forward to hearing of the progress refurbishing your sailboat and of your sailing adventures. His enthusiasm for life was contagious. We were able to have him play for a dinner party at our home and that evening remains one of our fondest memories. His guitar and voice made it an unforgettable evening. Scott enriched our lives. Terri, our hearts go out to you and your precious baby, Paul. We have you and the rest of your families in our prayers. May you find peace which surpasses understanding in the days ahead.
AJ Long
September 4, 2008
too much...too much.
I have so much love in my heart for that man. It was tough when you left for NC...
Terri...language is a poor vehicle to express what you must be going through...can't even imagine. I am at your service - seriously.
AJ Long
mary mcdonnell
September 1, 2008
Terri, little Paul, the Bailey and Flagg familys, we send you our prayers and emotional support during this time of sorrow and adjustment. We will miss Scott at the lake and feel blessed that we got to experience him and his music and he and Terri's wonderful singing. He was an engaging vital spirit and we can only imagine how it hurts to lose him. We send all our love to you from LA. Whatever strength you can muster is enough . Please go easy. .Sincerely, The Mcdonnell /Mells- Mary, Randy, Olivia, and Mike
Mary Lynn Dooley
August 31, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I had the pleasure of knowing Scott at Oak Hill Academy and he was the sort of person that you never forget.
Shiella Parker
August 29, 2008
Terridactal (terri) It's mama (somer lovin's mom) just wanted to express my deepest heart felt love and understanding for what you have, and are, and will be going through. you brought sooo much laughter and love into mine and somer's life and we think about you always. this beautiful man scott, will NOT be forgotten ever by anyone that knew him. I just wanted you to know babe, that I am here for you anytime night or day. please call me. much love to you and that precious angel. God's peace always with you.
Love always Shiella.
David Hines
August 28, 2008
I used to teach 2 doors down the hall from Scott for over 3 years at Alpha Music, and he was one of the nicest,and most intelligent persons I've ever met. There is a huge void where he left us, and the many people that he entertained, and were his friends, family, and aquaintances, will miss him dearly.
Rachel Jacobsen
August 28, 2008
Terri, Friends & Family;
Along with everyone else, I'm sending my loving, supportive, peaceful, healing energy your way...
-VWC 01
Bob Clinard
August 28, 2008
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Joanne Renn
August 27, 2008
I was so sorry to hear about Scott's accident. He was a joy to have as a student athlete and brought happiness and smiles to all of us everyday. Sincerely, Joanne Renn
jo nathan dudley
August 27, 2008
God Bless your family during this difficult time. I knew Scott in college and I loved how much he enjoyed life and I admired his love of music. My heart and prayers go out to the Bailey family.
Stephanie Geraci
August 27, 2008
Thinking of you. My prayers are with you.
Tim & Tamariel Christopher
August 27, 2008
My cousin Scott will be missed very much! My heart goes out to all that loved him so very much. Athough we lived accross the states from each other I did get to spend some great times with this side of my family. Times that will never leave my memories. The thought of what could have been tears me up inside but I know he will live a long fabulous life through his freinds and family. Finding the right words in a situation like this are all but impossible for me to grasp. But what bings me peace is that he left this world knowing he had family that charished him and friends that respected and admired him. There are so very few that can leave such a legacy, touch so many people as Scott did in his all to short life. We will miss you Scott... : ( If I listen close I can hear you playing music in heaven... wow what an awesome place to play!! Love Tim & Tamariel
susan E. Johnson
August 27, 2008
My Dear Marian, I pray that God surrounds you with his peace and comfort .
Tiffany Sapp
August 27, 2008
Marion,
My heart goes out to you and your family. I am so sorry for the loss of your son. May God bless you, your family, his wife, and child. He is with God now in the place that was made for him- such a beautiful place. I am sure Scott is embracing it all with a big smile on his face. He loved you very much and he will live in your heart forever.
Eric Zerneke
August 26, 2008
Something like this should not happen to someone full of so much positive energy. Scott was a very kind and caring person. I didn't know him well, but he left a large mark on me watching him care for his students and his enthusiasm for music. He taught my son guitar and a love of all things musical and I believe he will always be remembered through their music and his positive impact on his students. I wish I had known him better. I will miss him greatly and give my regards and sympathy to his wife and son.
Jonas Wood
August 26, 2008
I remember first meeting Scott at his student Pink Floyd recital in Norfolk. He was very dedicated to sharing his love of music with others. I'm proud to have been one of Scott's students and will never forget him or what he tought me. Thanks Scott. You will be missed.
Ashley Bennett
August 26, 2008
Terri, I am so saddened to hear of your loss. But I am so happy to hear you had a baby! I miss you and if you ever need anything Im still here for you. I love you terri. Take care.
Mavel Velasco
August 26, 2008
I will never forget Scott’s drive to live life to the fullest nor his ability to produce music that touched your soul. I will always remember him playing the guitar in a Mexican café and communicating with other musicians, not in Spanish but through his music.
Diane Hotaling
August 26, 2008
Scott's Virginia Wesleyan College family mourns his loss. His smile and good nature and deep thoughts touched many in his time on campus. May peace be with his family always.
Jennifer Christy
August 26, 2008
Dear Terri,
I was so sorry to hear about your loss and am praying for you every day. I know you have an awesome family who will make you laugh even when you feel like crying. I wish I were there to give you a big hug.
Love,
Jennifer
Tammy Williamson
August 26, 2008
Dr. Bailey and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I can only imagine what you are all going through. May God comfort you in this time of sorrow. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Tammy Williamson
(I work for Dr. Tony Porter)
Tory Moffitt
August 26, 2008
Your family is in my prayers.
Sam and Shelley Harvey
August 26, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Emily & your Larchmont neighbors
August 26, 2008
Terri --
Your Manchester Avenue family didn't get the sad, sad news until Sunday night. We miss you, we love you and Paul and Scott, and we will hold a little memorial service on Saturday evening at the block party. Please accept our hugs from afar, and know that there are plenty real ones waiting whenever you're ready to visit. We will miss Scott's gentle soul.
Amy Yarbrough
August 26, 2008
To the family of Scott "Scooter" Bailey,
Everything about this article tugged at my heartstrings. "WFU law? Student?" "Why?" I thought. I read the article and turned to the obituary. His picture made an immediate impact. He in his hat was reminiscent of Hemingway or Whitman and Leaves of Grass, and I felt the impact that this person must have made on society. He looked "alive"--like a deep thinker-philosopher--like a carefree yet intensely passionate lover of life! I read the birth date: March 2, 1977. I was born the day before, on March 1, 1977. This caused me to ponder this person's--this stranger's--life. Was it a coincidence? A sign? But then the eyes reminded me of a person I had seen before and I looked again at the name, this time in proper order: "Scott Bailey." Yes, it had to be "Scooter" from Mount Tabor High School! My whole being stopped and my eyes shut. For 30 seconds I involuntarily paused to take in the news. "No! Just yesterday we were kids, young teenagers getting drivers' licenses, and trying to figure out who we were."
It wasn't difficult to recall memories of Scott. Although I did not know him well, me being a new student at the time, his popularity among his peers was apparent. I remember his friendliness to new people and his sense of humor, as well as his leadership style and creativity. He had a strong face and captivating eyes. Tall.
I began to search for clues to discover if this was truly who I thought, yet really knew, it to be. I read on and found no mention of Mount Tabor. I googled his name and found the Guest Book. Scott's positive impact on the world and people around him became increasingly apparent as I read the remarks from the diverse array of people around the country who knew him, including his early music teacher. Mount Tabor became small. The teenager I had known briefly had accomplished so much in his young life! Then I saw the reference to "Scooter" and the identity was verified. But I was captivated by all of the comments people had written, so I read on. Finally, I saw Matt Wasson's beautiful, strong message, which really reasserted the value of the early days. We were invincible then.
During this time and always, may God be with his wife, Theresa, as she searches for answers and struggles with the tremendous loss and new challenges. God blessed Scott with a son who will carry on his name. May Paul grow up to love the memory of his father.
Although we can't doubt God, we can hope that our life is spent in such a way that when we, too, shall pass, the people will remember us as fondly as they remember Scott.
Most affectionately,
Amy Yarbrough
Jessica Rok
August 25, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. Scott will be missed by many. Your family is in my prayers.
VWC alumni 00'
Jessica Rok
Jay Rakes
August 25, 2008
Dear Terri,as you know i taught with Scott for a few years at Alpha music.we had our rooms right next to each other and would hang out alot and talk or he would play me a new tune he was working on or i would show him something on the guitar i had just figured out.i figured out somewhere over the rainbow and he learned my version of it and came in with a couple of improvements that i have incorporated into that piece.i saw scott a couple of months ago when he came into the store and he was just beaming about his new son,his marriage to you and law school and i hugged him and told him it was great to see him and didn't know that was the last time i would be seeing him.i just can't tell you how deeply we are all saddened at alpha music.scott is truely somewhere over the rainbow and we will see him again.godbless Terri and your new son and family,Jay Rakes.
Elena Fabber-Ganz
August 25, 2008
Terri and Family,
I cannot begin to tell you how sorry I am to hear about Scott's passing. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
antionette sheppard
August 25, 2008
dear Marian,
i am so sorry to hear about your lost. I know how much you loved your son.. may heaven smile on you and your family in this time of breavement. you are all in my continual prayers.
antionette sheppard
mus coworker at
forsyth medical center
emergency services
Peter Howell
August 25, 2008
Dear Terri,
I can't tell you how sorry I am to hear about Scott. He was such a wonderful and talented person. Despite the sadness for his loss, I truly feel grateful for having known him.
One thing that has struck me while thinking about Scott is that despite his immense talents, his intelligence, and good looks, he was never above listening to or befriending anyone. He was a passionate, free thinking person, but was also kindhearted and loyal. There was just so much to admire about him.
I wish nothing but the best for you, Paul, Phil, and the rest of your families.
Pete Howell
Lisa Hall
August 25, 2008
Terri and family,
Kevin and I were shocked and saddened to hear of Scott's passing- we send our deepest sympathies... Kevin had just saw Scott this summer and commented on how happy he was to be in school and a new daddy.
Kevin worked with Scott for several years at Alpha and they enjoyed many hours of conversation in the lesson area by the drink machine. I would wait for Kevin while he taught in that area as well, and Scott would often come by and we would chat about Terri's herb garden, house renovations, music or just silly things to pass the time.
I remember helping Terri and Scott move into their new place in Norfolk and we had such a good time laughing at him about his rock garden out back and decorating dilemmas.
Scott truly did not have a mean bone in his body. I don't think I ever saw him angry and he had such a love for people. I am frequently brought to tears just thinking about the great loss we have all experienced in Scott's passing.
Michael & Wendy Carter
August 25, 2008
Paul & Julia
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that our prayers will be with you and your family, especially with your daughter-in-law. Our deepest sympathy is with her and you both at this time.
Christy Severt
August 25, 2008
Marian and Family-
My deepest sympathy goes out to you all during this very hard time. I personally did not know Scott but I heard a lot about him through Marian. Marian, you and your family are in our prayers.
With Love,
Shotgun and Christy Severt
Nancy Cheek
August 25, 2008
Dr. Bailey,
I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I am a patient of yours and you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Somer Parker
August 25, 2008
Dear Terri and Baby Paul, & Bailey Family:
I am shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Scott's passing. The world has lost a truly LOVELY and unique person. To echo the sentiments his many friends, colleagues, and admirers have shared here, I can say that Scott really was a free-spirited and kind person who always made me think of things in a manner that might not have crossed my mind in a million years otherwise.
His sense of humor and passion for life was captivating and contagious. I cannot think of a time in which Scott was not smiling or laughing—even when things weren’t so great. He was one of a kind, to say the least.
I feel blessed to have known Scott through his wonderful wife, Terri. I was lucky to work with both of them at Coastal Grill and Centanni’s in Virginia Beach during my chaotic teenage years. Their friendship had a profound influence on the person I am today. While they may or may not know it Scott & Terri both helped me through very tough times by just being the kind hearted people they both naturally were. It is no wonder they shared such a special love—a love that will endure for eternity.
I had the pleasure of seeing the Bailey Family when they came to Virginia Beach in late June. It was wonderful to have seen them and especially heart warming to see the joy on Scott’s face when he spoke of baby Paul. He was in love with his son and his face lit up when speaking of him. While none of us will let our own memories of Scott fade, I can only hope baby Paul will someday realize what a truly wonderful man his father was.
Terri, I am so very sorry for your loss but I am always here for you if you need anything—or if you need nothing, I’m here! To the Bailey family, you raised a wonderful son and brother. I am sorry for your loss as well.
While there aren’t words to take the pain away or help things make sense, I hope you can seek solace in the fact that Scott was and always will be loved by all who knew him. He was a talented, devoted, compassionate person. We have all suffered a tremendous loss here on earth, but we have gained one amazing guardian angel to watch over us from above.
May God’s peace and blessings comfort each of you today and always.
With Sincere Love & Sympathy,
Somer Parker
Susan Ives
August 25, 2008
My deepest sympathies go out to the Bailey family. Have not seen Scott in years since VWC but I remember what a wonderful spirit he had. My heart goes out to all that were close to him.
Susan Ives
August 25, 2008
My deepest sympathies go out to Scott's family. He had an amazing spirit. I have not seen him in years since VWC but my heart goes out to all that were close to him.
Danyle Midgette
August 25, 2008
Hello Terri- we all went to VWC together. I'm very sorry for your loss. I know the loss for both of you (and all family and friends) is very devastaing. Scott was a very talented musician. Continue to keep your head up and play his music. Your family is in our prayers! Best wishes, Danyle and family
Marion White
August 25, 2008
Terri,
My prayers are with you doing your time of bereavement. I do not know you but I am a co-worker of your sister, Andrea and I was sorry to hear about the lost of your husband Scott. May God continue to be with you and your son.
Marion White
Jolene Dee
August 25, 2008
I am very saddened to hear about Scott’s sudden passing. It had been many years since I had seen Scott and Terri, but you guys have always been in my thoughts and memories. My heart and prayers go out to all of you.
Joe Family
August 25, 2008
To the Bailey Family,I'm so very sorry to hear about your loss.From what I've read he sounds like wonderful man,father,and all around good guy.My family thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.May God Bless You!!!
Lauren McGhee
August 24, 2008
Dear Terri & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. PLease know I have been praying for you and your family during this time.
God Bless,
Lauren McGhee
(Jason's 1st Grade Teacher)
Alison Greenwood(Dattoma)
August 24, 2008
My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to all of Scotts family. I went to OHA with Scott and he was a truly special person.
Claude and Tara
August 24, 2008
Marian,
We would like to send our deepest condolences to you and your family. We will continue to pray that you will be comforted while you try to endure during your loss.
Jerry Bryan
August 24, 2008
Terri,
Please accept our sincere and heart felt condolences for your loss of Scott. We met Scott through you and feel lucky to have known him.Everyone who met him,liked him.
Please know that You and Scott were cherished members of our Coastal Family,and we are proud to think of you as Friends. Our thoughts and prayers are with you more than you know.God Bless you and your son.
Jerry and the Coastal Grill Crew.
Harry Stillerman
August 24, 2008
Dear Bailey Family,
Please know that our family's thoughts and prayers remain with you all. My memories of Scott are filled with countless afternoons spent playing driveway basketball and jumping on the trampoline, and are filled with fun conversations riding home on the school bus. What I mostly remember is how he exceled at anything he wanted to. He obviously achieved the same success as a husband, parent, musician, teacher, and student. I am glad for my friendship with him.
Love,
Harry Stillerman
Melissa Rose
August 24, 2008
Terri, you don't know me but I am a friend of Andrea's in VA. I have been praying for you and your family. I'm so sorry for your loss. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers!
Missy Rose
margaret kastner
August 24, 2008
Terri,
My heart goes out to you. I was just talking to my daughter about you a couple of days ago. I am truly sorry for your loss
Jennifer Michels
August 24, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of the sudden passing of Scott. My heart and prayers go out to all his friends and family. I havent see scott since OHA, but i will never forgot him, we sang together at our High School Graduation. I was not suprised to hear of all the achievements he had made in his life, he was a good friend back then and someone i could always relate to. He was an amazing person, in life and in death.
Rest in Peace Scott.
Angela Gwynn
August 24, 2008
To Marian and family, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. You have my deepest impathy. I'll keep you in my prayers and pray that God is with you during this troubled time.
patsy marrero
August 24, 2008
my deepest sympathy goes out to all of scotts family...i am in shock to hear this news ...although i havent spoken to scott in many years he was a huge part of my life and i will never forget the memories we shared..god bless all of you through this difficult time and know me and my family are praying for all of you.
Cher McMonigle
August 24, 2008
Your family will be in our prayers. I cannot imagine the pain to loose someone so unexpectedly, especially a loving father. I am so sorry for your loss. We are friends of Andrea's and appreciate learning about Scott and what he meant to all of you. My heart aches for all of you.
Jenny Brannon
August 24, 2008
Marian, from your stories of pride about Scott and your beautiful grandson you painted a picture of a man full of life and personality and I can tell how much he will be missed. I am so very sorry.
Bryan Plumlee
August 24, 2008
To Scott's Family,
Please accept our families' deepest sympathies. My 10 year old son, Jack, was Scott's mandolin student for 4 months. I've not been able to tell him of Scott's passing, yet.
Scott was a gifted musician, but he had a special aptitude for teaching music. I was sorry to see him leave Virginia Beach for law school. However, as an attorney, I knew Scott's ability to teach would serve him well. I know the Winston Salem community and the Wake Forest family has lost a good soul and a formidable intellect. I know his family is hurting terribly, and I can only thank them for sharing Scott with us.
We will miss you Paul. God Bless.
August 24, 2008
Terri, Sweet Baby Paulie and Scott's Family,
I only met Scott a couple of times but knew he and Terri through Andrea Breckner. They were so sweet and wonderful with adorable little Paulie! Oh, I miss those chunky thighs! ;-) On their last visit up to Virginia they even took our kitty for us! I just pray for you all that you will be held in the Lord's hands and that you will feel the peace that surpasses ALL understanding! Terri, I'm so sorry and wish I could be there to hug you! I know Paulie will bring so much comfort to you especially right now. May he grow to be just like his daddy and come to know how much he loved him! That he would know what a hero he was even after his death for saving all the lives he did with his organs! We love you guys and will keep praying for you all!
Love, Brittany & Shawn and the Voyles Half Dozen
David Boland
August 24, 2008
To Terri & Paul Andrew as well as the Bailey and the Flagg families.
We are so sorry for you loss.
May God Bless you.
As I sit here in Owego Ny writing this note I am looking across the Street at a former Flagg home.
For some strange reason the house looks diffrent to me today. I swear there are tears runnig down the front of it.
Again GOD BLESS YOU ALL
Dave and Kate Boland Owego NY
Lauren Hurst
August 24, 2008
Marian, My heart goes out to you during this tragic time in your life. May God hold you and your entire family as you walk through this difficult time. Please know you are loved and cared for and that your ED family is here for you. From my heart to yours,
Mona Flax
August 24, 2008
The shock and the sadness we all feel from this tragedy cannot be described. Scott was my son, Jeremy's guitar teacher, mentor and friend. We have nothing but wonderful memories of Scott, his recitals and his smile. My heart goes out to his family.
Mike, Lori (Shore) & Tucker Smith
August 24, 2008
Paul, Terri, Paulie and Family:
My heart goes out to all of you. I hope that the slideshow in tribute to Scott will bring you all wonderful memories and will be something that little Paulie will cherish as he grows up. It certainly displays the love that Scott had for his precious little boy.
May our loving God bring you peace and comfort. Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dr. Ed F. Patton
August 24, 2008
The Oak Hill Academy Family and I were shocked to learn of the tragic accident involving one of our alumni. Scott is well remembered as a student at Oak Hill graduating in 1995. He was captain of the tennis team, an important member of the Academy Choir, and involved in many other activities. To his mother, Marian, father, Dr. Bailey, brother Phil, and his wife, you are in our prayers and thoughts. May God be with you.
Richard Roth
August 24, 2008
Although I never met Scott in real life I spent countless hours talking and playing games with him. Scott and select few helped me through hard times and were there to share the good times with myself. I loved him like a best friend.
I honestly don't know how to process this. i am writing this writing a few minutes of being informed of this tragedy..
I wish i could do more than explain how much I loved him as a friend...Scott, you will be greatly missed. Your friendship and guidance you have given me throughout the past three years will loved and lived for the rest of my life. You were always there for me and I will never forget you my friend.
Love forever
Richard Roth (Hellford)
Becky Copeland
August 24, 2008
Words cannot express my sorrow... I met Scott a few years ago in Virginia Beach, when he and Bernie were playing at GF Keagan's. I instantly became the Maynards #1 fan, and over time got to know the wonderful person who is Scott Bailey. His love for Terri was always foremost, followed closely by his love for music, friends, and lively discussion. More recently, I have been overjoyed to hear the pride and excitement in his voice ever since the day he told me they were expecting Paul. Scott was one of the most intelligent, kindest, and most caring people I have ever met. My heart breaks for all of us left behind in a world just a little colder and quieter without him. Terri and Paul, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I love you.
James
August 23, 2008
I only knew Scott for a very short time and it was through World of Warcraft. He was in a guild of many, many friends and will be missed by us all. Scott always had time to talk to you with that quirky sense of humor. I regret I never got to know him better. :(
RIP Scott
My deepest sympathies to his family and friends.
Rob (coup) Wang
August 23, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Although I never meet Scott face to face, I know what a special person Scott is. Scott will be miss by all hearts he has touched. I sorry but the is no words that I can say to express my sorrow for Scott and his family
Arnold & Gen Agustin
August 23, 2008
We came to know Scott through our close friends and his in-laws, John and Andrea Breckner. Terri and Scott shared the same sense of free-spiritedness that was a welcome change of pace from the world we are so used to -- It's easy to see how they found each other. It was always refreshing to talk to Scott because he could put a spin on the most mundane subject and coach a smile out of you somehow. He especially enjoyed talking about his son, Paulie, as I found out when he and I exchanged humorous child-rearing war stories earlier this summer. There's no question he really was excited about being a dad and that's the part that makes this truly hard to accept.
Our hearts go out to Terri, Paulie, and Scott's family for their tremendous loss. The world just got a little less fun without him in it...Rest in peace, Scott.
Stacey Reggardo
August 23, 2008
Scott (blee) you will be sadly missed, you were always there when i needed to talk to someone or needed advice (it was always great advice). You showed more passion for your family and your music then anyone else that I know, and after all you did for me I dont know whatelse to say. You were a great friend, a very proud family man and a great source of entertainment and inspiration with your guitar during boring boss fights. You will be missed. All my love and best wishes to your family xo
Jeremy Dudash
August 23, 2008
To Scott’s family, my prayers and heart go out to you.
I also knew Scott from playing World of Warcraft.
We had many laughs and good times in the lock channel.
You were an awesome gamer and musician.
Good-bye my friend and rest in peace.
Dac
Neubia Williams
August 23, 2008
The memories I have of Scott, while few, are cherished. As others have pointed out, Scott was an instant friend. Our first at length conversation was at "Get Downtown," a music festival of sorts in downtown Winston. That's when I met Terry, his dad, and found out about little Paul (still not quite ready for his debut). Subsequently, Scott made the classes at Wake just a little more bright with a warm smile and a willing spirit. We talked music, more than law school. I admired his passion for his art form. Later, I admired how much he wanted to be near Paul, hold Paul or otherwise spend time with the little person he loved with all he had. This loss is devastating to the Bailey family, Wake Forest, Winston-Salem, all the young musicians he mentored, and all the lives he touched. We will miss you friend! The way you lived inspires us all!
Gail and Mike Smith
August 23, 2008
I'm so sorry about Scott's passing. May you find strength in our Lord Jesus that he will carry you through this diffcult time. May you gain comfort knowing that he is in heaven watching over you. He is now at rest. May God be with you and your family during this time of loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Gene and Lois Raymer
August 23, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Bailey family during this time of
loss. Scooter (as we knew him)
was a friend of my Son Lee and they
spent many hours playing together
when they were younger. We will
never forget Scooter.
Steve Ciganek
August 23, 2008
Our deepest sympathies are with you at this time. Scott was a wonderful teacher and mentor to my 11 year old son. His guitar lessons were more often as much about asking my son what he thought about things in life and the why -and the music part was a passionate formality. I admired and respected Scott and his wife for being supportive of each other and making the adventurous move to Law School in Carolina. Many folks just talk about doing things, but they actually shared dreams and were living them. Scott had a powerful mind, strong heart and would have been a great lawyer in all the finest ways. We will miss Scott a great deal.
Steve Ciganek
Sam Ciganek
Lee Ellen Knight
Ralph Peeples
August 23, 2008
Scott will always be a part of the Wake Forest Law School. We will miss him.
Christopher Pereira
August 23, 2008
Scott was a special person, the type of person who I considered a friend after the first time I met him, and just became a better friend the longer I knew him. His time on Earth was far too brief, not only for those who knew him and will miss him, but also because of the many people he hadn't yet met, whose lives he was sure to touch. I'll miss you Scott.
Terry Hicks
August 23, 2008
From the moment I read the article on the front page of the paper this morning, I have felt numb. Scott was my music student in sixth grade at Cook Middle School. That was my first year of teaching. His class was so enthusiastic and gifted. Scott was all of that multiplied by 4. He wanted to be a part and help do everything that had to do with music and performance. We became good buddies and kept in touch after I left Cook the following year to go to Reynolds HS. Across the twenty years that have since passed, he was faithful to stay in contact. We had spoken twice this past spring. He wanted me to meet his "incredible wife." I could tell that his love was deep and planted. Then, he told me about his son -- a life changing experience. We had planned to get together. I thought of him earlier this week. He valued people, friendship, he had passion for the journey, commitment to relationships, always sought to be genuine in word and deed. As a young teacher, I knew that I'd encountered an extraordinary life in Scott (Scooter). I often felt he was my own son or at least little brother. I feel a great sense of loss. His soul was deep and he genuinely knew how to bring joy to a room full of people.
I feel for all of you, Marian, Phillip, Dr. Bailey. I especially feel for you Terri and Paul. He so clearly and passionately communicated to me the deep love he had found in you. He was intent on being the best Dad.
Certainly, that vibrant spirit lives on in our minds and hearts -- and, I believe, his presence will be clearly present in his son. My hearts deepest prayers for peace are with you all. I am so thankful to have known Scott as my friend. The world definitely turns slower today.
Amber Nelson
August 23, 2008
Scott was a wonderful person. He was always beaming with positive energy and always willing to brighten someone's day. We are all blessed for him to have touched our lives for the short time that he did. We are all better people for knowing Scott Bailey. Though he lived a short life, he lived a fuller life than most and, of course, he did it his way. I will miss our lunchtime debates. He truly made life more interesting and will be missed at Wake Forest.
Mickie Speas Burrow
August 23, 2008
Paul & Julie:
My heart goes out to you and family, especially Scott's wife and little boy. He was so proud of him. Scott always came by the office and spoke. We had developed a special bond. He was a very special young man. I know everyone at the law school will certainly miss him.
Mickie Speas Burrow
King
Katherine Stewart
August 23, 2008
I only met Scott once and as stated by others, he seemed to enjoy life and, in particular, family. He left me with an everlasting memory of his talent for music and humor that evening. I only wish I had had the privilege and pleasure of seeing more of him. My thoughts and prayers are with Scott's family.
Mark Kehayas
August 23, 2008
Scott was such a special person. He became my son Alex's guitar teacher during a very difficult transition period following the death of his mother. Scott saw that my son needed to loose himself in music following his loss and facilitated it in so many different ways. From this i could see what a fine and decent person he was. He has had my son in his home when he visited North Carolina and his kindness towards my son will never be forgotten. His leaving us is such a loss. My family sends our sympathy to his.
Suzy Whisnant
August 23, 2008
My deepest sympathy goes out to the family of Scott. He was a special person with a special way of living the life he loved. May all of your memories comfort you. He will be missed by so many.
Tom Roberts
August 23, 2008
Years ago I knew Scott as a friend of my son Mark. He reappeared this past year as a law student in my Property class. He was, those many years ago, a great kid and he was, this past year, a bright light in class. As I think of this tragic accident, and his wife, son, his parents and Phillip, and his many, many friends, my heart goes out to them for their loss. My most sincere condolences.
Bently Wong
August 23, 2008
Hi Scott,
I feel like I've known you for a while. I was really looking forward to where life was going to take you. I remember when you first told me that you were going to go to lawschool.
Now it looks like you have been taken away from us.
I will keep Terri & Paul in my prayers.
God Bless,
MsD
Tim Doty
August 23, 2008
I first came to know Scott as Blee, a character he played in an online game we both played. As time passed my wife and I got to know Scott better and became friends. He was sharp, and dare I say opinionated, yet kind and patient. As we found out more about our lifes outside the game we realized Scott's wife Terri grew up 10 miles from my wife and I.
It was on one of thier visits to her parents my wife and I met Scott for the first time. It was strange to put a face with a voice I had talked to on the computer for years. Yet Scott was the same smart, kind guy he had been online.
I recall Scott playing his guitar over vent while raids would be put together. I recall the intelligent debates we would have on the online forums. I recall the way he would ask if somethign was a good idea, when he knew damn well it was but was willing to let you take the credit for it. What I recall the most though is his voice, I can here it still...
Linda Banyay
August 23, 2008
To Scott's Family,
Wendell and I join you in mourning the loss of Scott, a thoughtful, loving and gentle soul. He was a wonderful musician and Wendell appreciated his talent. His energy, his kindness and his love for his family were evident in all he did. We send you our deepest sympathy, our prayers and our affection.
Linda & Wendell Banyay
Gregg Cranmer
August 23, 2008
Scott,
Most people would scoff at us for playing World of Warcraft. I cherish it, meeting people like you online, we are not hung up with physicality. We get to know the truth of the person. While some argue anonymity is the reason for ignorance the exact opposite can be said for truthfulness. My time with you online has left me wanting and coveting. While we have never met in person, your radiant cheerfulness and slapstick humor will always be missed. Not only is Gilneas one less player short, but the world is now a darker place without you in it.
You will be missed my Friend.
Gregg
Jason RENARD
August 23, 2008
I was privileged to meet Scott through friends and music at Abbey Road in Virginia Beach along side Bernie Lee. He was a very talented musician, a friend to many and always willing to meet new people. I also was able to meet his wife at a few venues prior to the birth of there son. He was proud to here that she was expecting. They both would come and sit at our table and share a good laugh and stories. He was also very excited about attending law school. Scott was very intelligent and was very out going. He will be miss by a big group of friends and musicians here in VB. My prayers are with your family.
Matthew Wassong
August 23, 2008
Let me be the first to express my sympathies to Scott's family, Paul, Marion and Phil, as well as the rest of the Bailey family, for this unexpected loss. Though Scott and I hadn't spoken in years, he was a very important and instrumental part of my life. We had great times, as well as bad, but when it came down to it, if I needed him, he was there. I haven't seen him since his first year in college, but all the experiences we shared made us best friends for life. He made me a more enlightened person and shed light across my life as I'm sure he did for everyone that crossed his path. He was a special person and I'll always be grateful for my good friend, Scooter. Love always, Matthew Paul Wasson
H.L. Wilson
August 23, 2008
Scott was the kind of friend that everyone needs and anyone would be proud to have. I always admired his optimism and can-do spirit. I will miss him greatly. Scott, if you're reading this, I love you man.
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