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MARY G.C. RHOADES
BLACKSTONE, MA - Mary G.C. (Cowan) Rhoades, 90, of Blackstone, MA, formerly of Interlaken and Ithaca, NY, passed away peacefully August 30, 2008 in Medway Country Manor. Born in Edinburgh, Scotland on August 2, 1918, daughter of the late James Robert Campbell Cowan and Gillian Cicely (Lee Warner) Cowan. Loving mother of Patricia Rhoades of Holliston, MA and George R.C. Rhoades and his wife Elizabeth of Port Royal, PA, and devoted grandmother of Anthony E. Rhoades of Sayreville, NJ. Sister of the late Ian W.C. Cowan and James P.C. Cowan. She also leaves sisters-in-law, Susan Cowan of Canada and Joyce Cowan of England; and nieces and nephews in Canada and England. She was formerly married to the late John Stewart Rhoades.
She worked in the clerical department at Cornell University and Ithaca College. Member of the Royal Ashdown Forest Golf Club in Scotland and during her youth played in league golf in Scotland and played in the 1938 Canadian Open, representing Scotland. She also taught her son and grandson to golf. She was an avid gardener and was a member of Blackstone Garden Club and the Interlaken Garden Club and served as a Past President. Member of the United Presbyterian Church of Whitinsville, MA.
Funeral Services will be held Wednesday 11:00 a.m. in CARTIER'S FUNERAL HOME, 151 So. Main St. (Route 126), Bellingham, MA. Visiting time Wednesday 10-11 a.m. prior to Service. Burial will be Thursday in the Lake View Cemetery, Interlaken, NY with a Graveside Service at 11:00 a.m. Relatives and friends are invited to attend.

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Published by Ithaca Journal on Sep. 2, 2008.

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Ruth Harding (Blizzard)

September 3, 2008

Our dear "Mummy Rhoades" was such a blessing to our family! Her genteel manner, her always happy "Cheerio!" "Good work!" and "Oh what fun!", her spark and personality have always been part of cherished memories for me. She shared her love for life, beauty and true adventure with all of us, leaving an inspirational and lasting impression! Rest well, dear friend, until we meet again at our Father's Heavenly home!

Rick Lott

September 2, 2008

Mary was the nicest person I ever knew. I enjoyed her company when she lived close to me.

Fritzie & John Blizzard

September 2, 2008

Mary was a beloved neighbor in Ithaca, NY back in the 1960s, adored by us & our children, Jim, Ruthie & Rebecca (Chickie). We "inherited" her wonderful black & white cat, Mickey & had her for 10 yrs.. Mary was an early member of the Tompkins Co. Gem & Mineral Club which met at The Paleontological Research Institution in Ithaca. She delighted in the fossils there & in the ones she found. How well I remember Mary, her son & our family standing out in the street one chilly night watching the Aurora Borealis. Sorry we lost track of her for all of 30 some yrs. after we moved away.
Indeed, it was our loss but now we know she sleeps, awaiting the time when Jesus calls her forth on Resurrection day to be evermore with Him & the saints in Heaven.

Susan Baima

September 2, 2008

Mary was a very special person and a lady in the true sense of the word. She was genuinely interested in everyone and everything around her. I feel blessed to have known her and only wish I could have spent more time with her. I hope the gardens are beautiful where she is now.
Fellow ex-pat and gardener.

TJ and Sara Sartori

September 2, 2008

Mary was a delight to know! We cherish memories of talking with her about flowers, cats and God. Her kindness and genuine interest in others made her a special friend to many. We will miss her but rejoice in knowing she is with the Lord.

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