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JOHN C. BARNEY
ITHACA - John C. Barney, local attorney, died at home peacefully on October 8th, 2008 surrounded by his family. He was a devoted husband, father and grandfather and is survived by his wife of 47 years, Joyce; their children, John Jr., Karen (Peter Parkes) and William (Kathleen Kealy); and their six grandchildren, Savannah, Benjamin, Andrew, Nicholas, Zachary and Liam.
John was born the son of the late Sara and Harold Barney on November 18, 1939. He was the eldest of three sons including, the late Hal Barney of Buckingham, Pennsylvania and Richard Barney of Ticonderoga, New York. John grew up in New Jersey where he attended Madison High School. His early years were characterized by a gift for music, winning many local and regional honors with his trumpet. He had his own band which brought music to many a dance or other event around his hometown. Music was always an important part of his life, and true to his character, his musical talents were diverse.
John attended Wesleyan University in Connecticut where he graduated "with distinction" in 1961. Upon graduation he married the former Joyce Ebbinge and entered Columbia University Law School, graduating cum laude in 1964. It was during those law school years that their children were born. John also earned his pilot's license, and flying became a passion he would keep for the rest of his life.
Following graduation, John began the practice of law in New York City with the law firm of Donovan, Leisure, Newton & Irvine. In 1966, desiring a more family oriented community, he moved his family to Ithaca, New York, where he worked with the New York State Law Revision Commission. John left the Commission in 1968 to enter a partnership with longtime Ithaca attorney, James V. Buyoucos. This was the beginning of a long and successful private law practice in Ithaca, which would last until John's death.
During his career, John served the public as an Assistant District Attorney, Attorney for the Towns of Ithaca, Danby, and Spencer and Counsel for the Southern Cayuga Lake Inter-municipal Water Commission. As the senior partner at the law firm of Barney, Grossman, Dubow & Marcus, he had a wide range of areas of practice, from small business/corporate law, banking law, municipal and zoning law, and construction law to matrimonial law. He also had a wide variety of clientele, reflecting his interests and the breadth of his ability as an attorney and counselor to his clients.
While running his law firm, John was also very active in the community. From 1981 to 1995, he was on the Lansing School Board and was President for many of those years. He served on the T-S-T BOCES Board for 12 years, was President of the Tompkins County Bar Association, chaired the Town of Lansing Board of Zoning Appeals, and served on the New York State Committee on Professional Standards for the Appellate Division, Third Department, including one term as its chairman. As Co-President of the Board of Trustees of the First Unitarian Church, John played a key role in the purchase of the Wolff organ for the church.
While John's work defined him in the community, his hobbies and home life were how he defined himself. His family was his first love. John coached all of his children (and others) in their sporting endeavors, and when not on the bench, the sidelines or poolside, he was an enthusiastic supporter in the stands. He spent every year vacationing with them on Sanibel Island, in the Caribbean, and in the later years, in the Far East, to be with son, Bill, and his family.
In addition to his family, his Piper Twin Comanche was his other joy. The plane logged over 25 trips to Florida, four long tours of the US west coast and numerous short jaunts to see friends and family along the eastern sea board. Calm and cool in the cockpit, John was always excited to fly. He took every opportunity to fly family and friends as well as lend a helping hand by transporting those needing a quick flight for medical reasons or to make an important appointment.
A memorial service celebrating his life will be held for John on October 17th at the Unitarian Church in Ithaca, New York. In lieu of flowers, the family has asked for donations to the Robert Tisch Brain Tumor Center at Duke University (www.cancer.duke.edu/btc/modules/waystohelp10/index.php?id=2); or to the Lansing Central School Music Fund, attn: Sue French, 284 Ridge Road, Lansing, NY 14882.

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Published by Ithaca Journal from Oct. 9 to Oct. 14, 2008.

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Richard Greenburg

October 17, 2008

Dear Barney Family,

I have many pleasant recollections of working with John during my 20 years of law practice in Ithaca and was very saddened to learn of his passing. My sincere condolences over your loss.

Nelson Bills

October 17, 2008

Barbara and I extend our thoughts and heartfelt wishes to John's family. Neighbors for 22 years and many a good visit over the hedge. Thanks, John, for your friendship and your contributions to our community.

Carol and Bob Verfuss

October 16, 2008

Joyce -We are so very, very sorry to learn of John's death. Our sympathies go out to you and your family. Sincerely

Adonna McFarland

October 15, 2008

Dear Dr. Barney,

I am so sorry about your loss. Please accept our condolences.
Love Adonna, Nia, Najee and Jaden McFarland

Bernice King-Strong

October 15, 2008

Joyce and Family,
LeNorman and I are sorry for your loss.
Bernice

John Hays

October 15, 2008

Joyce & Family, please know that we offer our sympathy on the loss of John. He has been a friend and a competent lawyer for me for over 30 years. He helped me start Ithaca Peripherals (now Transact Tech across from the Post Office) in 1983. He also helped Karen and I in many issues including our wills. He was always kind and understanding and worked at the highest professional level on every project. He will be remembered for a long time and sorely missed.

Betty Poole

October 15, 2008

To The Barney Family:

I had the great honor of working with and knowing John during his tenure as the Attorney for the Town of Ithaca and considered him a great friend and confidant. His soft spoken but yet knowlegeable and assertive words had a great impact on all who knew him. He was admired and loved by all who had the great pleasure of knowing and working with him.

John always acknowleged everyone from every walk of life and always made time to talk to those who needed him, regardless of what the need was.

May you find solace that he is at peace and never forget he loved his family and will always be there watching over you. May you be blessed with his loving protection and know he will be flying high above, guiding you through life with admiration and love for all of you.

Elaine and Bud Buchanan

October 14, 2008

Dear Joyce and family
We are saddened to hear of your loss. We have fond memories of our shared Rotary sons, as well as being involved in Lansing activities of all kinds. Our thoughts are with you at this time of grief.

valerie grinston

October 14, 2008

To Joyce & family, may you all be at peace.keep your faith in God, he will carry you all through this journey. My prayers are with you and your faimly at this time. it was good to see you at the sciencenter with the grandkids.

Letha Henry

October 14, 2008

It was with sadness that I learned of John's death. He was definitely a positive force in developing Lansing's educational programs through his involvement on the Board of Education. His candid assessment of issues and his willingness to work to resolve these was exceptional. My sincere sympathies to the entire family.

Pat Archambault

October 11, 2008

Dear Joyce,
What a loss for you, your children and grandchildren, your many, many friends, and the entire community. John was a kind, generous man and an inspiration and role model for so many. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

deborah manning

October 10, 2008

joyce when i notified the kids that our john had passed they were all deeply moved. Kahil captured it best by reflecting,'we lost an important and special member of our extended family.' John was my attorney and friend for thirty years. John is what some of us old schoolers call a agentleman and just a good man. We extend our deepest symphathy to you, John Jr.Bill and Karen.

Libby Casey (Pinel)

October 10, 2008

My prayers are with you and your family. I remember John fondly and always appreciated his contribution to the Lansing school community. He could be counted on as a man of his word, a trait missing so often today. I just wanted you to know my thoughts were with you,

Matt McHugh

October 10, 2008

Dear Joyce, Alanna and I have cherished our friendship with you and John for many years. He was truly a special person, a fine lawyer, a generous and decent man, who contributed much to the community, and a loving husband, father and grandfather. He will be sorely missed, but long remembered. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Karen Friedeborn

October 9, 2008

Dear Joyce and family,
Please know that our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. I'll always admire how John lived such a full life up until the end. Such a great role model he was to us all!

Sheryl N

October 9, 2008

Mrs. Barney, I am sorry to hear of your lost. May God be with you during this time of need. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Susie Walsh

October 9, 2008

Dear Barney Family,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of "Papa Barney". He was an awesome man and will be missed! Our thoughts and prayers are with you all as you endure this difficult time. With much love and friendship, Susie Levy Walsh (Part of Karen's Colgate Clan)

Corey Gettig

October 9, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you all, Joyce. I truly enjoyed working with John over many years and loved seeing you here in Florida. I will look forward to seeing you on Sanibel this winter. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to be of help to you or your family.

Vikki Patacca

October 9, 2008

Dear Barney family -
Please accept my deepest condolences on the passing of "Papa Barney" (as Karen's Colgate buddies called him). He had such a good heart and kind soul. He raised a wonderful family who was by his side through good days and bad. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love,
Vikki Anderson Patacca

Andrew Frost

October 9, 2008

Rest in peace John. Your were a GOOD man and so well respected !

Susan Hanley

October 9, 2008

Dear Barney family,
I can't express how terribly sorry I am for your loss. What a wonderful man John was. We've lost yet another amazing Barney man. I'll always cherish my memories of John. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. With much love and sympathy, Susan Barney Hanley

Candi Collins Griffin

October 9, 2008

Your family is in my prayers. Keep the memories in your heart.

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