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Patricia Plataniotis Obituary
TRUMANSBURG - Patricia Jean Plataniotis, a lifelong Trumansburg resident known fondly as "Aunt Pat", passed away at Cayuga Medical Center on Saturday, November 10, 2007, at the age of 68.
Born, November 9, 1939 at Aunt Bert Selover's house on Kingtown Rd., Trumansburg, Pat was a daughter of the late Clifford MacCheyne and Marion Goodrich (Aunt Mermie).
While a student at Trumansburg High School, Pat waited tables at Cronk's in Interlaken and Aunt Mike's Snack Bar in Trumansburg. After graduating in 1957, Pat worked in Day Hall at Cornell as a Keypunch Operator, then at The College Spa, The Rosebud, What's Your Beef, Taughannock Farms and The American Legion Post 770. No one could deny what a great waitress she was. Pat met so many nice people throughout her career, and so many of them have remained lifelong friends.
A wonderful friend to those lucky enough to know her, Pat was a fixture in the T-Burg community in her minivan with "Aunt Pap" vanity plates. She loved life and believed in living it to the fullest. She was a brilliant mathematician, enjoyed square dancing and the jitterbug, bowling, playing darts, Fish Frys at the Legion, Bingo, working the Legion Tent at various functions, collecting elephants, a lover of NASCAR, and enjoyed a good game of euchre. In keeping with her generous spirit and helping others, Pat donated her beautiful corneas so another could be blessed with the gift of sight.
In addition to her parents, Pat was preceded in death by J. Lewis Raymond, Nora (Aunt Mike) MacCheyne Raymond, Dorla J. Raymond Cronk and Raymond L. MacCheyne.
She is survived by Deborah I. Nottke, Stevey MacCheyne, Vanessa Willard, Ben Willard, Mike Willard, and a community that will keep her memory alive and well.
Those who wish to remember Pat in the form of a contribution are asked to kindly consider the charity of one's choice.
Pat's personality naturally put a smile on faces and warmth in hearts of those around her. She was happiest when surrounded by family and friends and most often had a zinger to keep everyone on their toes. In keeping with Pat's vivacious spirit, her family has scheduled a time of celebration on Tuesday, November 13, 2007, from 4:30 p.m. to 6:30 p.m. at the Arthur E. Bouton American Legion Post #770, corner of Rt. 96 and Seneca Road, Trumansburg. Food will be provided. Those who attend are asked to be casual and come with a fond memory of Aunt Pat in your heart and perhaps a zinger of your own to share.
For additional information, please contact the Ness-Sibley Funeral Home, 23 South St., Trumansburg. 1-888-534-5446. www.ness-sibley.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Patricia Plataniotis
Nancy (Thompson) Staples
November 27, 2007
Pat was my supervisor at Ithaca College when we worked in the Data Processing Department. She started out as my supervisor and became my friend.. we partied together, bowled together, and generally had a great time together. When I moved away, we stayed in touch and always laughed and reminisced when we got together again.
I will miss her smile and friendship. God Bless.
Nancy Langlois-Telech
November 14, 2007
Patti will be oh so missed by my family here in Horseheads. Patti became part of our family as she and my mother (Betty) came to see us often and spend time With Frank. Patti spent part of every holiday with us and we will be forever grateful for her presence in our lives. Frank will miss her grately.Patti will always be a thought away and forever present in our hearts. God's blessings and peace to all of her family and to all of us who will so miss her.
Linda Harding
November 14, 2007
Dear sweet "Pat" will forever remain in the hearts of my family. She was instrumental in getting my mom out and about and keeping her active for which I will be eternally grateful. She has forever touched the hearts of everyone that was lucky enough to know her and will forever be missed. We all loved her and will miss her tremendously.
Lynda P
November 13, 2007
I'll never forget the good old days at TFI. All the hard work and fun we used to have. May the angels be waiting on Pat now.
Rest in peace!
Linda Wheeler-Fink
November 13, 2007
So sorry to read of Pat's passing.She and I worked together at the Holiday Inn and What's Your Beef.She was a great friend and we had a lot of fun together.Pat always put her family before everything else.My husband and I thought the world of her.
Don Raymond
November 13, 2007
May god be with you aunt "PaP", my thoughts are with the family
Arissa Albro
November 13, 2007
I had the pleasure of working for Pat several years ago at Post 770. Pat was a very special person to me and helped me in more ways than I can express. Over the years, I regretfully lost touch with her... But the following definitely pertains to Pat.
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time,this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they pass away. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
Patricia Bonsall
November 13, 2007
Pat touched many lives, as she wore many hats through her life's journey. Her tireless efforts and service at the American Legion, Post 770 will never be matched and will be replaced by a big emptiness. The entire Trumansburg community will feel a loss. I know Wazoo will be glad to have her serving him a brew again and being able to pick on her. Pat had no reservations about making fun of herself it it made people laugh. Debbie, she always took every opportunity to express her pride and love for you and your family. Paul and Jeff join me in sending our prayers and condolences during this sad time. Pat Bonsall
Martha Bizzell
November 13, 2007
I worked with Pat at What's Your Beef years ago and some of the funniest memories I have of waitressing, was with Pat. She was a mentor to me in my high school years when I worked with her. Even over the years I continued to run into her when in Ithaca visiting and she never forgot who I was and always cared about what I was doing. She was the best darn waitress, ever and I will greatly miss seeing her. Rest In Peace Pat!!
Arissa Albro
November 13, 2007
I had the pleasure of working for Pat at The American Legion several years ago. This wonderful woman touched my life in many ways. She was such a hard worker and became such a good friend to me. I lost touch over the years and deeply regret that. But the time that I spent knowing her was very meaningful and I have come to realize that there is a reason she was in my life.
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time,this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
God Bless!!!!
Linda Cole
November 13, 2007
Will miss you on Friday Night fish frys and always enjoyed bowling with you.
Harry & Karla Ferguson
November 13, 2007
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Nancy Wright
November 12, 2007
Having only know Patti for a short time, she definetly made everyone around her smile. Recently, She had been stopping in for lunch at the Crystal Lake Cafe after her doctor appointments. We were always thrilled to see her. She will be missed by all of us at Americana Vineyards and Crystal Lake Cafe.
Gini Moore
November 12, 2007
I bowled with Pat years ago, she was always fun to be with. T-burg has lost a faithful servant.
patricia champion
November 12, 2007
i bowled with pat for years and i loved her as a sister we shared a lot of good times and will be missed by everyone god rest her soul
Rick Mehlenbacher
November 12, 2007
I remember Aunt Pat from my early childhood years as a lady that told you just the way it was and made no bones about it.. I found her to be the best type of person and one that I looked for in others.. Honest, sincere, loving, giving & there for you whenever you needed her advice.
She was a hard worker and would give you the shirt off her back if she thought you needed it more than she did. I never told her any of this, Because I'm just learning that you need to let people know what they have meant to you in your life. I'm sorry that I never got to tell her what a truly amazing person I thought she was.. I hope she knows as she looks down on us, how much she meant to so many.
Go with God Aunt Pat....
Rick Mehlenbacher
Winter Park Florida
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