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Sally Elizabeth Merrill Sutcliffe

Sally Sutcliffe Obituary

SALLY ELIZABETH MERRILL SUTCLIFFE
TRUMANSBURG - June 5, 2007. It's 5:45 a.m., a red sun pierces the hedgerow of black locust blossoms, a dawn chorus of birds--wrens, robins, bluebirds and more--announce a new day. Life is complete except that Sally Elizabeth Merrill Sutcliffe is not with us in person to celebrate this dawn. Sally died last weekend, the result of a debilitating auto immune disease.
Sally was a proud New Englander from Hopkinton, NH. Her parents, Malcolm and June Merrill, raised Sally, her two sisters (Sandy and Susan) and brother (Brian) to be responsible, caring, and giving world citizens. Sal was immensely proud of her New England heritage and parentage, only leaving New Hampshire to settle into Trumansburg, NY, because of her love for Scott Sutcliffe, a friend and kindred spirit she met as a student at the University of New Hampshire. Sal and Scott embraced their destiny of marriage on their first occasion of prolonged personal conversation, a June midnight in 1984 when they borrowed a canoe and plied the moonlit waters of Squam Lake. She was a perfect bow paddler, strong and steady, and he the same in the stern—the canoe slid forward, straight and powerful for 22 years, with barely a ripple.
In short order, they married, accepted jobs at the Cornell Lab of Ornithology, bought a treasure of a farm in Trumansburg, and commenced a life together; based on mutual respect, trust, camaraderie, love, shared values, hard work, birding, and an intense appreciation of life and friends. Jennie Merrill was born in 1988 and Lee Andrew in 1992. They, too, are considerate world citizens, imbued with an appreciation of family, of life, of strong friendships. The Sutcliffe dogs (Kate and Fly), their chickens, and their home farm is the center of the Sutcliffe's universe. But the world is theirs for travel, for cultural enlightenment, for learning, and for paddling ever-forward as a family united in mutual respect and love.
Sally's gone, but in her wake everywhere; at the Lab of O, the Audubon Society of New Hampshire, the Ulysses Philomathic Library, the TBurg Methodist Church, the TBurg Central Schools, in Hopkinton, NH; she leaves behind calm waters of admiration.
In honor of Sally, we'll celebrate her life on Saturday, June 9, in a get together of prayer, thanksgiving, and fellowship at the Sutcliffe's farm, 6300 Waterburg Rd., 11:00 a.m. In the tradition of Sutcliffe barn festivities, the celebration will be followed by a dish-to-pass luncheon (bring your favorite cuisine), walks through the Sutcliffe gardens, fields, woodlot, swimming the creek or pond, and relaxed conversation. A second celebration, more convenient for Cornell friends, will be held at the Cornell Lab of Ornithology later in the summer.
In honor of Sally, please take a walk, go birding, plant a tree, pull a weed, buy a book for yourself or your favorite library. Do these things for Sally, she will be appreciative beyond measure.
In closing, here's a short passage by Walt Whitman inscribed on Sal's bow paddle. The paddle and words, professed by Scott in marriage and lived out in their life, led Sally, Scott, Jennie, and Lee through a remarkable journey of life.
Camerado, I give you my hands.
I give you my love more precious than money,
I give you myself before preaching the Law;
Will you give me yourself?
Will you come travel with me?
Shall we stick by each other as long as we live?

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Published by Ithaca Journal on Jun. 6, 2007.

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Emma Lou Sheikh

June 24, 2007

Sally's beautiful smile and sparkling personality will remain with us despite her untimely passing from this world. My deepest sympathy to Scott and her daughters at this most difficult time. Emma Lou

Debra Howell

June 23, 2007

Dear Scott,Jennie,Lee,Family of Sue Smith,and Sutcliffe family. Sally's sister Sue is a very dear friend of ours, and we would like to extend our deepest sympathy to you for your loss. We did not know Sally, but through Sue, have learned what a beautiful person she was. Our prayer is that you will all know and feel God's presence at this sorrowful time, and that your pain will ease. What a beautiful smile to remember. Our prayers are with you all. Bruce and Debbie Howell, NH

Scott and Darlene Campbell

June 15, 2007

To Scott, Jennie, and Lee - When we think of Sally we think of her wonderful smile and the way that her presence was immediately engaging – it seemed that to know her for a minute was to know for years. She saw the good in people and was a remarkably kind person – the world is poorer for her absence. She lives on in the warmest of memories.

Scott and Darlene

Nancy, Peter and Magdalena Demjanec

June 12, 2007

Dear Scott and daughters,

We are very sorry to learn about Sally. I remember reading in the newspaper about all kinds of events in T'burg and it seemed that Sally was always somehow involved in them or making them happen. Your house and gardens were always delightful and a joy to pass by. I hope Sally's memories give you strength in the years ahead. Your daughters are beautiful.

Mark Brandhorst

June 9, 2007

Scott, I'm sad at hearing of the loss of your wife Sally. I never met her but can only imagine knowing you, that she was a gem. I would love to see you again. Possibly a hike or a paddle. be well. Mark Brandhorst

Monica, Dan, Matt, Amy & Rachael Pritchad

June 9, 2007

Sometimes a soul burns so brightly with Gods love and joy that they accomplish their goals here early. May her achievements in life and the joy she so generously shared sustain us in our future here without her. We do not hurry the day we will be with her again, we do know her ever present smile will be there to greet us at the gate to the best garden ever.
Scott, Jenny & Lee our thoughts and prayers are with you as well as the rest of her family and friends as we adjust to her transition.

Mimi and Bill Schaffner

June 8, 2007

Dear Scott, Jennie and Lee,
We are so saddened to hear about Sally. She was such a special, warm, caring person. She will be so missed by all who knew her. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you.

Toby Dean

June 8, 2007

Scott and family-You may not remember me but in another chapter of my life we were neighbors, and I have a vivid memory of meeting Sally while we were walking with our infant son up Waterburg Rd. We met Sally just after you had moved in and she was so excited about starting to work on the house and the garden, which of course you both did to beautiful effect. My deepest sympathies, and the obituary was beautifully written.

Diane Tessaglia-Hymes

June 8, 2007

Scott,

I am so saddened that Sally was not able to recover from her illness. When I first started working at the Lab, Sally worked in the same department. Her cheerfulness made me feel right at home quickly, and I always enjoyed whenever we got a chance to visit with each other at Lab events. It is so unfair. My heart aches.

Carol Pyhtila

June 8, 2007

Dear Scott, Jennie, Lee, the Sutcliffe and Merrill families:

I am so thankful to have known Sally. Her bright sunny smile and cheerful personality were a reflection of her joy of life. Even on her way to the hospital when she called me to confirm directions, her voice was cheerful inspite of her pain and suffering. Sally was truly an amazing woman. I know you will forever cherish the loving and fun memories you hold in your hearts.

With heartfelt sympathy,
Carol Pyhtila

Todd Engstrrom

June 8, 2007

Dear Scott,
I was very saddened to learn of Sally’s passing. I will remember the way her face would flush when she was excited—either in happiness or anger—and her eyes would sparkle. Her rare incandescence made everyone around her smile and feel happier. Sometimes she would get so giddy that she spoke in a unique tumble of laughter and words. Sally was fearless and forthright, and thinking of her will always make me a little braver, happier, and better. My heart goes out to you. With much love, Todd

Jenny Smith

June 7, 2007

You've lost your sole mate, your best friend, and your mother. But you will forever have the memories and the love and support of your friends. My heart breaks for you as I pray for strength for all of you.

June 7, 2007

scott and family
what a wonderfull person sally was she will be missed by all in trumansburg and were ever any one new her god bless all of u remember to all she is in gods hands

Tim Gallagher

June 7, 2007

Dear Scott,

I'm so sorry about Sally. She was a wonderful and beautiful person, and I always enjoyed seeing her. I'll never forget the kindness and generosity the two of you showed me years ago when I first came to Cornell for a job interview. Even though I was a complete stranger, you and Sally let me stay at your amazing farm and made me feel like part of the family. I'll miss Sally. Please let me know if there's anything I can do.

Beth Campbell

June 7, 2007

Dear Scott, Jennie, and Lee,

Nothing I can say to you will ease your sorrow. Sally was a lovely, kind, one-in-a-million wife, mother and friend. She will be missed by all who were privileged to know her. My love and thoughts are with you.

With love,

Beth

Patty Tunison

June 7, 2007

Dear Scott, Jennie and Lee,
Sally was one of the busiest people I have ever known, but somehow she always found time for the things and people she loved, especially her family. I think about the many times she complimented me on my garden, even when it was full of weeds. But that was her magic; she could find the beauty in everything. Her sparkling eyes reflected her warmth and her bright smile revealed her love of life. I will carry these images in my heart forever.

Nancy Rice

June 7, 2007

Sally's radiance and love of life were truly special. My heart goes out to Scott and their entire family.

Joel,, Mindy, Amy, Heather & Tim Wilson

June 7, 2007

Scott, Jennie, Lee & Family:
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Sally was a dear friend to all and will be missed. We will carry her in our hearts always.

Amy, Billy, Chelsey, Zak and Dalton Kenney

June 6, 2007

Dear Scott, Jennie and Lee,
Words can never express our deep, deep sorrow for your loss. This world will never be the same because of the beautiful impression that Sally made while she graced us with her unending smile, the warmth of her heart, the beauty of her laugh, her kind and comforting words, and her enormous generosity. She was a shining example of what we should all strive to be. May God grant you peace and comfort in the days to follow.

John and Molly Fitzpatrick

June 6, 2007

The
luckiest among us are those blessed to know individuals of uncommon
happiness and love. Sally was one of these. Molly and I feel so lucky
to have known her, traveled with her, laughed with her, and learned
from her. We will miss her unending smiles, and we grieve deeply for
you, Scott and Jenny and Lee, for you were luckiest of all to have
lived with Sally's sunshine every day. May you radiate it, for her,
always. We'll never forget her.

Our beloved Sally at Thanksgiving, 2006

June 6, 2007

Amanda

June 6, 2007

Scott,Jennie and Lee
My prayers are with you. Your wife and mother was a wonderful person. I know she will be dearly missed.

Lynn and Carl Leopold

June 6, 2007

Dear Scott and Family,
It is with great sorrow that we learned of Sally's untimely death, but all we have seen in the past many weeks is how brave and gracious she was even in the worst of her illness. Carl and I send you our deepest sympathy and good thoughts. While she leaves a huge void in your lives, her life was exemplary and will remembered as such by all who knew her.

Pat Leonard

June 6, 2007

We understand the measure of a life by the memories left behind. I never knew Sally but I have heard nothing but the most heartfelt praise for her in the days since her passing. Here, truly, is a woman I regret not having met. My deepest sympathy to all the family with wishes for strength to bear such a loss.

Roger & Le Moyne Farrell

June 6, 2007

Given your love and devotion to natural life, we cannot imagine the depth of your loss.
When you both came to our house during our move, we were so impressed by her good looks, sweetness, and intelligent kindness. Please accept our sympathy to you and you daughters. Fondly, Roger and Le Moyne

Terry Mingle

June 6, 2007

My sympathy goes out to all of Sally's family and friends. There are no words that can ease a loss as great as you have experienced. Keep all the good memories in your heart, as they will carry you through.

Virleen Carlson

June 6, 2007

Scott, Jennie, Lee,

This comes as a shock to us as we have moved from the area. Sally will be frozen in time, just as I last saw her, looking great, being in church, always with Scott, living for the girls, or quietly moving about the barn in the summertime. She is still everywhere.

Our condolences to you all. Love, from David, Bethany, and Jill Carlson

Bonnie DeSombre

June 6, 2007

Dear Sutcliffe Family,
I hope it gives you some comfort that Sally is remembered so well.
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Linda Minde

June 6, 2007

Sally will be missed by many, but especially her many friends at the Lab of O...no longer having her shining eyes and smile at the many Board meetings and Lab gatherings will be sadly noticed by all.

Muriel Horacek

June 6, 2007

Dear Scott, Your dear Sally is up where she always looks - the first to spot a bird, always cheerful, with an encouraging word to those who lack her sharp eye.

Ellie O'Connor

June 6, 2007

I watch the birds at the feeder and think of Sally. Because of her, I know not to mow the pasture before July 1st.Not to see her at Church, at the library seems unreal. But, Sally loved her girls, Scott and her life. She lived life with joy and wonder. I'll miss her.

Phyllis Dague

June 6, 2007

May all your good memories of Sally help you through this difficult time.

Francine Darling

June 6, 2007

We were very sad to hear of Sally's passing. We know she will be missed terribly. Our heartfelt condolences to your family. Francine, Jack, Abbey, Emily and Dana Darling

Donna Sherwood

June 6, 2007

Our hearts go out to all of you at your time of loss. Cassy had a great time at your house and Sally was great with the kids at the soccer party. May all your memories of Sally bring you comfort and love. She will always be in our hearts and memories

Sonja Vann

June 6, 2007

Scott, Jennie and Lee,
Out thoughts and prayers are with you all. Although Sally's beautiful smile will be truly missed, it lives on in her daughters.May you all feel some comfort in knowing that Sally got her wings. God Bless, and we wish you peace. Mark and Sonja

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