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July 5, 2017
Just a beautiful light of uniqueness who touched many souls. This tradegy will not be in vain. My children will grow up knowing your name & to believe and love everyone, for each of us are pure beautiful energy. You will not be forgotten xxx
Richard
August 28, 2015
RIP Sophie. Forever in our thoughts and in our hearts xxx
Jodie Gee
June 20, 2015
I didn't know Sophie or her boyfriend Robert, I heard about their awful attack on a show on the tv called Investigation Discovery, as it brought a lot of tears to me, I was shocked and appalled on how other people could do such a crime to those who they do not know. May your beautiful, unique soul be at rest now. You shall not be forgotten!!!!! I am from Maple Ridge, BC Canada.
Living Dead Girl Nicole Garcia
January 9, 2015
I didn't know Sophie, but following her story for these past few years and learning about her I know that she would have been the type of person I would have had a lot in common with. I look at her photos and you see how wholesome her soul is even behind the artistic black eyeliner and fun hair. Such a shame that this world has lost such a beautiful and rare gem. Her name shall live on as we fight and support the S.O.P.H.I.E. foundation. May her soul rest in peace. May her family find joy in knowing how many lives she has touched.
Jamie Smith
January 7, 2015
When I was introduced to your story a few days ago, my heart was both touched and broken simultaneously. I am a 21 year old girl living an alternative lifestyle in the United States, and the thought that one or more human beings would do that to another is truly sickening and disgusting. The disregard for human life based solely on ones appearance is appalling. Sweetheart, you will never be forgotten and you will (and have) left a legacy that will not be forgotten as well. I will do my best to spread a message of tolerance and acceptance in your name.
sandy
September 1, 2014
You will never be forgotten
Lorraine Cowell
July 5, 2014
I was extremely saddened to hear your story. you were obviously a beautiful person inside and out. and you will never be forgotten sophie.
thoughts and love to your family.
R.I.P Sweet, Bright, Angel. xxxxxxxx
shairon halliwell
June 11, 2014
Sent with love
shairon halliwell
June 10, 2014
Sent with love.
Sean Storm
January 8, 2014
I myself am a Victorian Goth, and the level of violence towards Sophie and Robert is appalling to me. I hope that this will never happen again. I hope nobody, either Gay or straight, black or white, Wiccan or Christian, Goth or Punk will ever suffer this kind of violence because of their God given right to be who they choose to be. God bless you hunny, and may you rest in peace
August 14, 2013
Sophie you are not forgotten i know you are at peace...much love to your family
JON R BOLTINGHOUSEII
April 22, 2012
We were so sorry to hear of the loss of your loved one. We're sending you a hug from afar.
Astrid Koelsch
August 28, 2010
I am sitting here, crying, though I've never gotten to know Sophie. Nevertheless, I've been carrying her story around with me for the past few days and I am grieving. I am so sorry for her family and friends, because they have lost such a wonderful and beautiful girl, and I am so sorry for today's society, that things like this are still happening. I wish I was able to do anything to ease the pain for those, who have lost a loved one. But I am not. And I am sorry for that. I do not know, if me being sad about this tragedy will be any helpful, but still: I will be thinking about Sophie for the rest of my life. Rest in peace, my dear Sophie. I hope you are in a better place now.
Paulo Cardoso
July 6, 2010
I'm a kind of a cold person used to look at unknow people death with some indiference. But i couldn't help to avoid tears in my eyes reading the description of the barbarian attack to Sophie and her boyfriend.
May you rest in piece wherever you are Sophie. May you have eternal solace to make up for the life they didn't let you have.
June 2, 2010
I just read about Robert's art exhibition, well done, Sophie would be so proud of you.Sylvie.
June 1, 2010
Dear Sophie, I'm so sorry. I hope that you are at peace now. I just saw the movie that was made for you. I promise that I will not forget you. Love, Annie
Richard Mackie
May 26, 2010
Members of the Goth subculture are intelligent, caring, tolerant and always make their parents proud, no matter what their choices in life are. I'll bet Sophie was all that and more. She didn't deserve to be attacked for daring to be different.
R.I.P Sophie Lancaster.
"A rainbow in the dark"
April 3, 2010
R.I.P Sophie Lancaster.
Raymond; The Netherlands.
Ryuu
January 3, 2010
I had heard of this shortly after it happened and now, a few years later I saw this again, through the VNV-wikia. It still feels so unfair... So wrong. I get the same feeling as then. Anger, fear and sorrow. Not as much as you, which only states how horrible it is. I will allways think of this when Illusion is heard.
D Thompson
December 28, 2009
At this time of year, in particular, we think of family and friends I hope this Christmas you draw strength from those around you and the memories you treasure from times gone by of Sophies young life.
May your faith, whatever it may be, give you belief that she rests in peace.
DET
Sepultric Pete
December 17, 2009
So so sorry. May you be in a far, far better place than this intolerant society.
Alice Andretti
December 4, 2009
RIP Sophie, Wish you were here still, Your memory will live on forever.
November 25, 2009
Happy Birthday Sophie x
Scott Beal
October 17, 2009
Rest In Peace Sophie! Where you are nobody can hurt you anymore! Your memory will live on in our hearts forever! Fly with the Angels! True Love is Eternal! Scott, Katie, Shannon, Oivia and James!
Mel
October 10, 2009
You are with us still, every single day.
Anna Karaski
October 5, 2009
R.I.P Sophie. Thank You for having the guts to be yourself in a cold intolerent world that trys so hard to put us all in neat "normal" little boxes. Thank You for having the courage to stand out. Thank You for teaching the world a lesson in tolerance and acceptance. You continue to inspire courage in others, courage to be different and courage to accept those that are.
Niki Hirsch
August 12, 2009
Isn't it the 2nd anniversary of this horrible crime? I'm thinking of Robert and the family even more today. How is he doing? Love to all.
Melisa Way
June 26, 2009
R.I.P. Sophie Lancaster. I'm so sorry such a horrific thing was done, and no one deserves such a thing. I hope you are fine where you are now. Best wishes and condolences to the Lancaster family, and to Robert.
Catherine Smyth
June 7, 2009
I've written so much about you, and yet I never had the chance to get to know you. You will never know the profound effect what happened to you has had on so many people.
I hope you now can truly rest in peace. Sleep tight Sophie, you will never be forgotten.
Sami Hussey
June 7, 2009
R.I.P darling, our thoughts go out to you now and forever. you will never be forgotten. you truly were a hero of our times. love you always girl
Catherine Bergeron
April 21, 2009
R.I.P. Sophie
My most sincere condoleances to the family.
James Reed
April 18, 2009
R.I.P. Sophie Lancaster, I will always have a place in my heart for you.
I will never give up on my Gothic image and lifestyle.
I will make you proud and make sure that everyone will have the freedom to dress how they choose to.
Bobby Paul
April 15, 2009
R.I.P. Sophie, my heart goes out to your family, and I can't believe that someone would commit such a horrible crime. I'm very sorry for your loss.
Albert Levy
March 11, 2009
I never met Sophie I only heard of the story online. What a great loss on all sides..
Krystle Clayton
March 1, 2009
I just wanted to express my sorrow that this amazing girl was taken from you in such a horrible way, I can't even imagine the pain it must have caused. I promise that I will do all that I can to support the S.O.P.H.I.E foundation as it is a cause close to my heart.
Tori Massie
January 12, 2009
Hello i was just looking and reading all the things on the computer about sophie and im so sorry for your loss i am a goth myself and i wish that things in the world today werent the way they were.Your daughter was very pretty and she seemed from the way you talk very nice and an amazing person im cery sorry for your loss.
Samantha Cox
December 30, 2008
R.I.P.
Francesca Nardin
December 14, 2008
R.I.P Sophie, I dedicated my presentation at college to you, and based it on the stereotypical goth, i hope it brings closure to your family
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Shawn Jackson
November 26, 2008
Today in remembrance of a life cut short, a dream not lived.
To us that live, to us that dream our work has only just started.
We remember.
Joel Berkey
November 18, 2008
My condolences on behalf of my wife and my family. It saddens me that this would continue to be a problem even ten years after my expiriences. Most best wishes for the family.
Joel J Berkey-Lewis
Beverley Smith
November 14, 2008
To Mrs Lancaster, I am a mother of five children, four of which are girls, from 12 year old twin daughters to a 29 year old daughter. I like my kids to find their own identity and was horified by the sensless death of your Very Beautiful and precious daughter. My own daughter Kelly is a Goth and recently her and her boyfriend had to endure being followed around Coventry City Centre by a group of youths shouting abuse at them. Why? Our Goths are wonderful people, they should not have to put up with such intolerence. Good luck with your campagn, she is constantly in our thoughts and we hope that the angels are with her always.
November 4, 2008
I'm sorry I've taken so long, Sophie. I only met you a few times through Rob, but every single day I think about you, and what happened. I'm so angry I wish i could change it. It's been a long time since I've seen you and Rob walking around bacup or rawtenstall, and if i had one wish i would see you two across the street like i used to, such a small change to my life would make it seem right again. I only ever had kind words from you although I barely knew you. I know your parents will feel so proud when they see just how many friends you made, how popular you were. I am never going to forget you, and I will miss you always. This never should have happened to someone like you. xxxx
Rebekah
October 16, 2008
To Mrs. Lancaster: my heart still aches for you, and I can only hope that you are beginning to be able to make sense of a world without Sophie. I have been following her story since the case was first reported outside the UK. Please know that there are elderGoths (such as myself) and younger Goths alike across the pond who continue to hold you in our thoughts and hold Sophie in the Light.
M M
October 7, 2008
Reading of her death sent shivers down my spine.
I send you all my best wishes and love in this time of need.
Having been attacked myself, I can only but feel lucky I'm still here today...
Be at peace, Sophie.
PRINCESS GOTHICKA
October 1, 2008
I AM GOTHIC, AND THIS IS SO WRONG VERY SAD MAKES ME SO ANGRY, I DIDNT KNOW SOPHIE BUT I FEEL AS IF I DID.SHE WILL NEVER BE FORGOT SHE LIVES ON FOREVER, MY HEART GOES OUT TO HER FRIENDS, HER BOYFRIEND AND FAMILY, BLESSED BE ,
Rosalind Morley Souter
September 16, 2008
I know it's long over due, but the world has lost a good, kind and intellegent person. I can only offer my deepest and heart felt sympathies to her mum and family, as well as Rob and his family. I can't imagine how terrible it is to loose a daughter or a partner to such mindless prejudice. Maybe, just maybe, things will change. I live in hope.
Sophie lives in the hearts and minds of the alternative cultures and in those who loved her.
clive bowker
September 11, 2008
to the family of sophie our thoughts are with you and your loved ones i am so so sorry to hear what has happened i no thank some of us never met your daughter i am very ssure she was a very good person and a very very lovely person rip sweet angel nite nite and god bless
Andrew Madden
September 9, 2008
a true angel in our hearts may the goths in our culture unite in memory and one day unite the whole world in recognising that predudice is wrong
David Gray
August 27, 2008
Through the love in which she was clearly held, Sophie has left an astonishing, positive legacy for other young people. Thank you Sophie for living an authentic life. The world was devestated when it was cut short, but the way you lived will inspire others far into the future. We are all certain that you are blessed in eternity as you must have blessed those who had the honour of knowing you.
All at Gorton's gothic Monastery.
michelle pollard
August 26, 2008
Both Sophie and Robert had hearts of gold, i have small children and whenever they saw them my children could and would ask them questions about their piercings and they always had time to stop and answer them. We have truly lost an angel. Please god look after her she may not be what an angel would normally look like but she will always be one, may you rest in peace Sophie. god bless.
Stephanie H.
August 25, 2008
Oh Beautiful Sophie, May you rest in peace. The world is missing a beautiful, poetic soul. xoxo
Jess R
August 16, 2008
No other News story has effected me as much as Sophies. i did not know her but it is clear from accounts by family and friends that she was a kind, caring and very loving individual who i would have been honoured to have known. my heart goes out to her family, to Robert and his family and to all that knew her.
Nell Paterson
August 13, 2008
I only heard of this shocking crime today and it has shook me terribly.
Sophie was a beautiful girl and Im deeply sorry for your loss.
Never change x
Chris Whittaker
August 11, 2008
I ll burn a candle tonight in memory of Sophie. The flame of hope still burns in a dark world because people like Sophie and her family fight darkness with the light of there integrity and compassion.
Niki Hirsch
August 11, 2008
One year already, how is Robert? I will never forget poor little Sophie.
The Imp Nation
August 10, 2008
We remember.
Mojo Jojo
August 7, 2008
It's strange how people react to whats different, and when you are different you don't react. I feel for the friend and family and the boyfriend. but for Sophie's memory, I am proud to be different and will continue to be so. R.I.P. Sophie.
Mark L
August 6, 2008
I'm 43, and I thought I'd seen everything, but I've never been moved by a news story as much as I was by what happened on 11th August last year. I still weep when I think about what happened to poor Sophie, and about the pain it must still cause Robert and their families. We must never be ashamed of our differences and our individuality, and we must never be afraid of using and celebrating our freedom.
Patrick Thompson
August 3, 2008
Will never be forgotten. Tragic as the story is some has come out of it atlast.
sylvie H
July 24, 2008
It's been nearly a year, I would be very grateful if someone from the family would let us know how Rob is doing, please.
Becky
July 11, 2008
I never knew Sophie but I have known many people like her and I'm sure we would have been friends. As with many others in the alternative scene my friends and I have often been ridiculed and victimised simply for being the people who we wanted to be. I count myself lucky as I realise now how much worse things could have been. My heart goes out to Sophies family and friends.
Alan Mark
July 11, 2008
I would like to pass on my condolences to Sophies friends & family - me and my friends are doing everything we can to help promote the charity this August on the anniversary.
I didnt know Sophie personally, but I know we would have been friends.
She will never be forgotten.
Tremayne Crossley
July 2, 2008
I wish I could have known you
I wish I could have met you
I wish I could have protected you
I would have told you, you burned so bright that the light will now shine for eternity
A beacon for all those lost to intolerance, hatred or prejudice.
You will never be forgotten.
Arlene O Toole
June 26, 2008
it makes me so sad to think that people are capable of such hate,to murder someone just because they look unique or different is a vile thing.although i didnt know sophie her story made me shed many tears,
my heartfelt condolences go to her boyfriend,family and friends.
may she rest in peace xxxx
Philip Morgan
June 24, 2008
I Wish i could truley express how much this has saddened me, made me lose faith in mankind, such a beautiful girl with her whole life only to be taken away by thugs.
The only way i could come close to Expressing the way i felt was to write a song dedicated to Sophie wich i would like to share with you all.
"Proud To Be Different
You never did anyone no wrong
I hope at least your suffering is gone
They never let you fight for your right
And with this tragedy we will all unite
Cuz we are proud to be different
And we will never be the same (as them)
They are afraid of what’s different
But you will never be alone
We all salute you, the bravest of them all
No matter how hard they try, we will never fall
And although our hearts are broken, your spirit will never die
For all those who are just like them, I will tell you why
Cuz we are proud to be different
And we will never be the same (again)
They were afraid of what’s different
But I promise you wont of died in vein
We will unite
And they won’t win"
If you would like to actually hear the song then you can do so at:
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=131940066
R.I.P Sophie
Lynsey
June 24, 2008
I did not know Sophie, but she was a beautiful girl, and let us all hope that her premature death is not in vain, and that something positive comes about in this country as a result of this horrific crime. I think anyone who expresses themselves and their appreciation for music in the way that they dress, in the way that Sophie did, should stand up and let the bigots know that they wont win, and won't beat us down, and we should do it in Sophies memory.
My sincerest condolences go out to Sophies family and friends
freya gill
June 23, 2008
i never knew sophie but she was a beautiful young woman who will no doudt be sadly missed by everyone who knew her! may she rest in peace and may her family an friends in time find comfort!
Nicholas Norris
June 23, 2008
What happened to you should never have happened. Senseless, vile cruelty that has no place in this world. It breaks my heart.
Sleep peacefully Sophie.
Nothing is forgotten. Nothing is ever forgotten.
Sandy
June 23, 2008
Some old saying goes through my head, about 'don't curse the darkness, light a candle'. Sophie lit a beacon by her actions but it is so wrong that she suffered this horror. Could we have been so brave? Sleep well Sophie and watch over your loved ones.
Chris Kraetzer
June 21, 2008
If tears could build a stairway,
And memories a lane,
I'd walk right up to Heaven
And bring you home again.
I'm just feeling sad...may you rest in peace!
Tina, Gavin and Jamie Archer
June 15, 2008
Although your smile has gone forever, your spirit will live on in the hearts of those who remember you. Sleep peacefully beautiful Sophie.
Chris Manning
June 13, 2008
I never knew you Sophie but I know you brought colour, love and life into this world which will last longer than any of us know.
kerry smith
June 13, 2008
sophie was a beautyfull girl and never should of experinens such a heart braking matter xxx you will allways be in our hearts xxx
Liz
June 12, 2008
I am so, so sorry. She was beautiful.
Carel Greyling
June 12, 2008
me and my brother, from South Africa, never knew Sophie, but we know that we lost a precious member of the goth family. our condelences go out to her family and friends. R.I.P Sophie
charlie morris
June 12, 2008
She will be missed by all those in the goth community. i only hope she is watching over all of us.
Andy Cole
June 5, 2008
I never met Sophie. I wish I had. She was my sister as she was one of the goth family. Now she has been taken away from us all. The world is a worse place. It's strange to think I will miss someone I never met, but I will. My love to you, Sophie - sleep in peace, Sister. My love to you all in Sophie's family, who have lost their Sophie. My love to Robert, who lost his love...
patricia veale
May 30, 2008
I never knew sophie or robert but i cried for them and still think about them RIP Angel
lisa thomas
May 29, 2008
RIP Sophie, we never knew you personally but this horrific attack brought tears to our eyes. We have finally got your dad in for a tattoo, its of a portrait of you so he can always remember your smile, rest in peace sophie,
love gods of ink tattoo studio, cheadle hulme, cheshire
Lenny
May 24, 2008
Even though I never knew you Sophie, I still feel deep down that I and humanity have suffered a deep, deep loss. I hope that your at peace and I don't doubt your watching over those dear to you. My condolences go out to your friends and family.
Lesley H
May 23, 2008
When I must leave you for a little while,
Please do not grieve and shed wild tears,
And hug your sorrow to you through the years,
But start out bravely with a gallant smile,
And for my sake and in my name,
Live on and do all things the same.
Feed not your loneliness on empty days,
But fill each waking hour in useful ways,
Reach out your hand in comfort and in cheer,
And I in turn will comfort you and hold you,
Dying is not the end it seems
For I am with you in your dreams
John McNulty
May 15, 2008
I would like to say that my deepest feelings go out to sophie's family. What she and rob suffered was inhumane, she was such a beautiful person, she filled everyone's day with joy and happiness, be it strangers or people she knew. She may not be with us physically, but she will ALWAYS live on in our hearts. She will be deeply missed. Rest In Peace Sophie x
Alan Bryant
May 13, 2008
Deepest empathy and condolences to your family Sophie, and I hope you are at peace.
From the other side of the world your story is heartbreaking, as you and your partner remind me so much of so many of my friends.
The wishes of all the goths here are with you, and you will be remembered on the far side of the world by those who never had the privilege to meet you.
Blanca
May 12, 2008
We have never met eachother, but I feel as if I have lost a dear friend. Now you are always in my heart. Love from Spain.
Emma Gallimore-Martin
May 12, 2008
I will never forget you Sophie, even though we never met. You have touched the hearts of so many people with your story and so many have vowed that what happened to you will not be for nothing. You have done more with your short life, than most will do if they live to be a 100 and your loved ones should be so, so proud of the wonderfull things being done in your memory. We won't forget Sophie. We will never forget. xoxo Sleep well.
Marianne H
May 11, 2008
I didn't know Sophie but I can't speak about her without fighting back tears.I can only imagine what it must be like for her friends and family,specially Rob. I hope with all my heart that he will recover one day and eventually find peace.
jo oreardon
May 11, 2008
they may have taken your life beautifull sophie,but they can never take your spirit or your soul....you can spread your wings and fly now free as a bird.
myself and my family were devasted when we heard wat happened to you and Rob as we too are individuals because of our appearance.lets hope people can learn from this tradedy and look beyond our piercings,tattoos,long hair,dreads and into our hearts we are no different to anybody else
R.I.P SOPHIE
Juliet Macintosh
May 10, 2008
My heart is forever broken for Sophie, Rob and families. It is just not fair. There are simply no words to express this grief. May God bless you all. I hope some good can come of this in some way. But it will still be little comfort I know.
Pedro Cochofel
May 9, 2008
May you rest in a better place now...
May your spirit be free...
May your memory remain for all eternity...
Karla Pearce
May 8, 2008
Your death was a tragedy that touched us all.
You will never be forgotten by those that knew you and those that didn't.
R.I.P Sophie.
Stephen Leadbitter
May 8, 2008
May your name live on in the hearts of all those touched by this tragedy and reach around the world to bring a change for the better.
Lydia English
May 7, 2008
This tragedy leaves me weeping with the ignorance of those that never took the time to know you.
My thoughts are with you!
Stacey
May 6, 2008
I always knew the world was a sad place and this tragedy, unfortunately, proves I was right. They may have beaten your body Sophie, but your spirit and soul will live and rock forever!
I never knew you, but I'm sure I'll see you on the flip side!
XOXO
Fido
May 5, 2008
You will not be forgotten Sophie.
John Murray
May 3, 2008
I never knew you sophie, but what happened to you makes me feel sad, angry, frustrated and disgusted. It's a tradgedy that can't easily be put into words.
I hope you are resting peacefully, and my thoughts and prayers are with your family, friends, and indeed Robert.
RIP.
Nicole Mollet
May 2, 2008
I will always remember Sophie as a beautiful, courageous, innocent victim of a most hainous crime, I have cut her picture out of a newspaper and put it on my wall to look at every day, even though I never knew her, but her story has affected me more than any other these last few years.
stella
May 2, 2008
You are beautiful brave special person and we will never forget you, Sophie.
Katie
May 1, 2008
Sweet dreams Sweetie.
It'll stop someday.
x
May 1, 2008
I'll always remember.
also I found this
http://www.poems-and-quotes.com/sad/poems.php?id=941125
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