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Dave Couturier
February 10, 2025
Hey Doug,
Hope all is well up there with You, Mom and Dad. I have been following your kids on Facebook and they are doing well. But you know this I'm sure. Retirement is good. Has relieved me of a bunch of stress, but cost of living is still a major issue. Dale is hanging in there fighting the C battle. Dan had a C scare, but seems to be good now. All other family members are doing good.
Love,
Dave
Dave
February 10, 2024
Hi Doug,
Been and eventful year since our last conversation. I retired sooner than I thought. Pulled the plug the end of July 2023. Had cataract surgery and my right eye has improved to where I don't need glasses, at least for now :). Kathy is doing well. she is not liking work and want to retire, but we cant' go there yet.
Dale was diagnosed with kidney cancer and had part of his spine rebuilt. He is walking again and undergoing immunotherapy for the cancer. Improving tremendously over the last two months.
Dan was diagnosed with bladder cancer. They have removed the cancer and he is going through immunotherapy as well. He is doing well and things have improved for him as well.
Dick is doing well and living his dream. Went to final visit him at his home this year. Was great to see him and Tammie, as I had never been to his house. Was a great trip. He raises a flag at his cabin every visit, in honor of you.
Good news is everyone else is doing well. I think Jennifer is getting married to some rich guy; Dianna is doing great with Donny; Jason and Bea are enjoying life as well. Lots of grand kids :)
From what I see on Facebook, Kyle is a journeyman lineman, and Ashley is doing great with her business. Stacey is doing well too.
Time is flying by and we are all getting old quickly, LOL. Pretty much sums up our year. Miss you brother D
Love Dave
Dave
February 10, 2023
HI Doug,
Seems like time is just flying by. We are pretty much settles in in our home in Florence. I plan on fully retiring the end of this year. Not sure how I will handle not working, but worth a shot.
You should be very proud of your kids and grandkids. Ashley has grown and matured in many ways. Kyle has done very well himself. Miss you brother D
Love Dave
Dave Couturier
February 10, 2022
Well brother D, another year has passed and not much has changed in my life. Still working, but have a paln that by the end of next year, I will pull the plug and join the ranks for the unemployed. Your kids have had some major accomplishments. Ashely has started a very successful business and is a tremendous mom. Grand kids are going great. Kyle has been a lineman for some time. He is really seeming to enjoy it, and he has really contributed to keep people with power through some rough times. He is happily married and his son is doing well. Kyle is definitely your son, reminds me of you in your younger days.
Love you Doug, and miss you.
Bro Dave
DAVID COUTURIER
February 10, 2021
Hi Doug,
To keep you updated, Kathy and I have moved to Florence, Az. We are very close to the place we used to go dove hunting in Maricopa. I tried to retire, but still working. I guess some things never end. I am sure you are aware of the pandemic, but all our families have been safe. I am sure you know, but you should be very proud of Kyle and Ashley. Both of them have become very successful in both their family and work arenas. You are a great Dad, and they love you dearly. Keep smiling the way I remember.
Love,
Dave
Dave Couturier
November 15, 2020
Doug,
Just checking in and letting you know another Veteran's Day has gone by. Veterans are slowly getting recognized for serving to their country. I don't think the majority will ever understand the sacrifices we all have made in serving our country.
Always thinking of you, but even more during Veteran's Day. Thank you for your service Doug
Love,
Your brother Dave
Steve D White
July 11, 2020
Stacie and the Family,
I've been to this site reading entries for almost 10 yrs now.
Me and Doug were really good friends in high school. I never had a friend that we had so much in common with. We even shared the exact birthday. He's the most talented guy I knew.
We spent many hours working in his baja VW (Stacie can relate).
I think me and Mark Laplante were there when you guys met even.
Doug called me one day and said we need to meet for lunch. Arby's was where he told me he was going into the military.
I had no idea that would be the last day I was able to sit and talk to him him.
We always talked over the years (usually about every 3-4 yrs to catch up).
I was heart broken to find out several years after he passed what happened.
He's made huge impact on my life on many levels.
Much love to the family and I really miss hearing his voice.
Dave Couturier
February 10, 2020
Hi Brother Dough. A friend of mine named Doug, was called Dough today, and made me smile about when we used to call you brother Dough. I hope things are treating you fine. Just wanted you to know how proud you should be with your kids. They have really grown up and are proud of their Dad. But of course you knew that. things are good with me. Planning on retiring this summer. Take care of yourself Doug.
Love, Brother Dave
Dave Couturier
October 19, 2019
Happy Birthday little brother. I have been following my nephews on Facebook here lately. Kind of nice to see how well they have been doing. Your a good father, and a good man.
Love you brother Doug
Mir Ali
February 22, 2019
Recently one of my units lost an Airman and I thought about you. I didn't work with you directly although I was assigned to the same squadron as you. I had heard many great things about all the great things you had accomplished and all the lives you had touched specially within the maintenance world. I was there during your memorial ceremony and I remember hearing many people's cries and witnessing many tears of sadness. You left a legacy behind and were a remarkable asset to our Air Force community as a whole. Thank you for your nearly 20 years of honorable service to our nation. RIP my brother.
February 10, 2018
Doug,
It's been forever since I talked to you. Today, the sun came out for the first time in weeks, and my thoughts went out to you. I love and miss you Doug
SSgt David P Couturier
Keith Brown
December 2, 2016
Brother we steam roll into 2017, You should be freaking out with a HUGE "I Love Ya Man!" I instill your drive into every young Airman that touches/fixes flying steel to this day. Miss ya much...I still hear your voice and use it to do good things. Keep touching us mortals...Much Love to Stacy & Co....Love ya Man! KB
Molly Lilienthal
April 18, 2016
Got an email that said there was another entry. So here I sit & think of you. Love to your family. Somehow I think they are well watched over. Forever in our hearts.
Ashley Couturier
April 15, 2016
Dad,
It's been awhile since I've written here. When I got the email that someone else had signed this I expected it was family...there is comfort found in the fact that it wasn't a blood relative but rather military family. That means we're not the only ones still thinking of you! I'm getting married in 3 days and my heart aches that you're not here to celebrate...but there will most definitely be a shot of jack and green day to keep us all company. I love and miss you more every day. Love always
Your Little Girl
John Langdon
April 14, 2016
Not sure why but was reminiscing about the good ole days and thought of you. You were such a class act man. Miss you Doug and hope to see you again some day.
kyle couturier
November 10, 2014
Hey dad, i turn 22 today. God the time as flown. I wish you were here to see me now. I feel like you would be proud. I want to tell you I love you and I think of you all the time. Wish you were here.
Love,
Kyle
Ashley Couturier
October 18, 2013
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD!!! I love you very very much. I miss you so much. Your loss sometimes seems like it hurts more now than it did almost 8 years ago. Your grandbabies are growing faster than I can keep up with...and they are missing out on the best grandpa they would have ever had. I'm sorry you can't be here to see them grow. You'd love them to pieces I know. Know I'm thinking of you today and every day. I love you so so much. <3 your little girl
Ashley Couturier
September 5, 2013
Dad,
It's been awhile. I'm sorry for that. So much is going on in my life right now that I wish you could be here for. You always had the right answer for everything. <--I didn't get that trait. I miss you so so much. You'd be super proud to hear that 13 months ago I taught myself to crochet and exactly a year ago today I started my own business. Today almost perfectly timed I received my first real international order and will be sending my stuff to England. I sure wish I could just call and tell you all of this. Your loss is just one that is impossible to overcome. I love you so much and will always be your little girl <3
Floyd Martinez
February 24, 2013
There is a new series on the Nat Geo channel called Inside Combat Rescue. It's focuses on the PJs but very time I see the maintenance crews running up the Helos, I see you. I think of you all the time brother. Miss you
richard couturier
February 11, 2013
so I've had this horrible feeling for the past two days and finally realized what it was. I can't believe how long it's been...seven stinking years - are you kidding me. Still sucks just as much Brother Doug. Dispite my beliefs a part of me is missing and it is my little bro. Dont even mnow what to say except you are remembered loved and treasured.
Ashley Couturier
October 19, 2012
I have found myself in tears for the last hour because somehow even though I have been thinking about it for weeks...I managed to almost completely forget your birthday. I haven't forgotten a day that was significant for you since you passed and something about almost forgetting is really bothering me. I don't want to forget anything because forgetting makes me feel like I'm slipping further and further from you...nothing about this is getting easier for me...I just don't get it and we're slowly sneaking up on 7 years. I love you so much Dad...your grandbabies love you too, I wish so desperately that they could meet you...but I'm doing my best to teach them the same things you and mom taught me. Have a very happy birthday and know that despite me almost forgetting it I think about you all the time and miss you more and more with each day that passes. I love you!!!
Richard Couturier
February 10, 2012
How in the world I ended up on this website six years to the day later I will never know. It was really strange. I walked in the room and was telling Tammy that for some reason I googled Doug's name, honestly I had not recalled that today was the anniversary. She asked how I was doing with it today and I was shocked when I finally realized what day it was.
Time passes but the significance of the legacy Doug left will never fade. What great Inspiration it is to go back and read all of the heartfelt thoughts and comments. True, life goes on but how it goes on will never be what it was with the gift Doug was and still is to so many.
You left a significant mark on this world Little Bro and I love you more for doing so every day. I tell Vance stories about you all of the time. As a six year old, he probably thinks you were 12 feet tall. The coolest part is I do not have to embellish the stories because you were just a solid guy. Thanks for the lessons I can teach him that will benefit him for a lifetime.
God Bless those who will always remember you.
Oh, and when we were little, sorry for all of the abuse and poor examples I set. - obviously it had no adverse effect.
I love you Brother Doug,
Ricardo
Ashley Couturier
September 11, 2011
Dear Dad,
Went to the ten year anniversary for Sept. 11th here in town today and realized that for the last almost 6 years I've avoided pretty well having to hear TAPS and bag pipes...needless to say they caught me off guard and not only did someone play the bag pipes but they played TAPS and I found myself in tears immediately. It seems like just when I think I am coping well something like this happens and I realize that time is not healing everything like everyone says it will...instead it hurts more and more each day. I miss you so much just thinking about how much I miss you makes me well up with tears. I am expecting your second grandbaby...we're hoping for a boy this time...and it kills me that you aren't here for any of it. Makenzie is going to be a year old on thursday...and she has lots of wonderful people in her life but I wish she got the chance to have you too. Anyway just found myself in a weird mood today and decided that I should get on here and get it off of my chest. I love you more than words could ever say and miss you just as much.
Your little girl.
Matt Riley
January 21, 2011
Thought of you today bud... Miss ya man.
Dan Hills
November 11, 2010
I salute you, old friend, on Veteran's Day.
God bless you and yours.
Ashley Couturier
October 15, 2010
Dear Dad,
Its almost your birthday...you would have been 44...and I can't help but tear up a bit thinking you won't be here to celebrate it. I had your first Granddaughter a month ago today...her name is Makenzie Grace. You would love her, she is perfect. It breaks my heart that you'll never meet her...but mends it a little knowing you are looking over both of us. Please help guide me to be a parent to her like you and Mom have been to me. I love you and miss you more and more as each day passes...and think of you very often.
Love Always,
Your little girl
Ed Just
May 29, 2010
You taught me more on the flight line than we learned together in Tech School. I'll never forget the good times we had and the quotes I still use to this day. Miss you; Rest well!
Just Ed
Matt Bryant
May 17, 2010
Miss you buddy.
Ashley Couturier
January 28, 2010
Dad,
We are coming up on 4 years since your passing and some days seem easier and others I'm just as big of a mess as I ever was. You are going to be a grandpa! And just typing that makes me well up with tears...I never thought I would be going through this stage of my life without you. It's funny the things in life you just assume you will have. I am every emotion in the book right now...and missing you is definitely an added emotion. I love you loads and miss you more and more each day. Its all still hard to believe you are gone...but I know you are with me.
Love always,
Your little girl
December 30, 2009
Doug was one of the greatest person that I've met. The type of person that one never forgets. RIP Doug.
Gary Dorsey
Matt Riley
December 29, 2009
Great, great man. I had the pleasure of working with him in Iceland. My prayers to his family. He is missed by all of us.
Chadwick Wilson
October 15, 2009
My thoughts are with you. I have fond memories TDY with Doug crawling around the Paves. He was a true friend. May there be comfort in the fact that he truly touched so many people who new and respected him. God bless you and your loved ones forever DOUG.
Kyle Couturier
September 21, 2009
Hey Dad,
I have been looking online at a beetle. Everytime I look at it i think of you and how we were working on mine just before you passed away. Just another little thing I took for granted.
It has been a while since I looked on here or even just sat down and thought of you. I'm not sure what it is but lately I have been doing it alot. I wish you were around still more than ever. I miss the little things more than ever.
Wherever you are, I am thinking of you....
jon rice
August 28, 2009
My best AF memories were from my assignment at Kadena from 1997 to 2001. Doug you are truly missed but not forgotten. God bless you and your family
August 24, 2009
Dear Dad,
It is comforting to see that even nearly 4 years after your passing...I'm not the only one still deeply saddened. I'm still trying to find what is going to help me face what has happened and move on. I struggle a lot and cry a lot more...but I am trying, I think. My life has changed so much...and it seems like just when I think I have it under control crazy things happen. Things that would have been much easier to deal with if you were here to make me feel better about them. You always had this way of making things easier to cope with...and really you didn't have to do much at all. It's funny how life works...and how you were just naturally an amazing person. I've come to realize in the past four years that people like you are one in a million. I'd like to hope that your ability to touch people in a special way has rubbed off on me a little bit...I'd love to be thought of the way you are when I go. I wonder how it came to you so easy...like you were born for that purpose and that purpose only...to be the most amazing individual anyone would ever meet. It's no wonder God wanted you early. He and I will exchange words when I make it up there...because I still needed to learn lessons from you and I'm certain the world did too. I love you so much Dad...and missing you hasn't gotten any easier. Talk to you again soon.
Love always
your little girl.
Lt Col Patrick Ballard
July 15, 2009
Couturier Family...I was sitting in my office tonight catching up on some work when I had a thought of Doug which I have from time to time.
I had the distinct honor of working with "DC" while at Keflavik as the Squadron Maintenance Officer to the 56th Rescue Squadron. I am now the commander of the 5th Aircraft Maintenance Squadron and since Keflavik summer'01-summer'02 I have had the opportunity to work with many many fine technicians/airmen. To this day, DC still comes to mind as one of the best I have ever had the pleasure of working with. His professionalism, expertise and passion for the mission are still a standout in my mind. I have a lot of things hanging on the walls of my office, one of my favorite is a casual photo of a group of us next to a Pavehawk we took to Hofn that the guys had matted/framed and signed and gave to me as a farewell and DC is front and center. What a crew and what a great man. I was incredibly saddened when I heard he had passed a while back and saddened still that we have lost such a fine airman, American patriot and man. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Know that he is still thought of often.
Victor Saldana
May 16, 2009
We are a breed of a different kind of human. One who volunteers to support and defend all others. I didnt know you but have been told alot of nice things and have met the people that youve touched. Am grateful for that cause its helped me out in the long run. You will be missed but because you still are a soldier just like me will never be forgotten. We always will keep you in our prayers and memories. Thank you again for raising your kids and helping Stacie with your life. They all are better for knowing you and I even am better for knowing of you Thanks again for your service.
Andy Keys
May 15, 2009
Just dropping a line to Doug and his family. Is it not amazing how many people you touched during your life. Doug could not have been the man he was without his awesome family. I know this because now that I have a family It completes me. God Bless the Couturier family! I am sure Doug is proud of all you guys!
Jeremy Gall
May 13, 2009
You were a great man and you will be missed. Thank you for your expert teachings. You were one of the most dedicated NCOs I have ever known. Your memory lives on.
Scott Duncan
April 24, 2009
Doug,
I am deeply, deeply saddened to hear of your passing. Your uncompromising integrity, your natural ability to lead, and your effortless ability to make others laugh will stay with me always.
Your sacrifice, and your family's sacrifice are not forgotten.
Farewell and God Bless.
Mike Breyfogle
September 26, 2008
Doug,
Wow, I read the entries here in and found myself shaking my head and saying yes, yes, yes. You were always there to guide me as well as others in the right direction. The 20th is about to be no more in about 3 weeks and I cant help but think about you and Geno. I am flying down for the deactivation/reunion and would kill to sit down with both of you and drink a cold one and talk about old times. God bless Doug, I will look up at the reunion knowing you and Geno are kickin it. I have to add... Ashely, I have read your post with nothing but repect and a few tears, your Dad was a great guy, and freind. God bless you and your family!
Floyd "Marty" Martinez
June 15, 2008
Well its Fathers Day 2008. We will be seeing you in Silverton in 10 days time along the Las Animas River. Happy Fathers Day Brother. You would be very proud of your families' accomplishments.
James Warner
June 3, 2008
My sympathy goes out to Doug’s family, as if living the military family life wasn’t hard enough. Doug was my supervisor and a friend. He was respected and liked by everyone I knew. I’ve lost touch with nearly all of my Green Hornet friends, but I think about and laugh often reflecting on those experiences. Doug and I went TDY and enjoyed getting our vehicles stuck in the boondocks of Okaloosa, thanks for the memories. The Air Force doesn’t have enough strips or stars to honor men like Doug.
Ashley Pacelko
February 12, 2008
Dad,
Sorry I haven't written in a long time...this thing was supposed to be shut off after a year and by some miracle it is still up and running. I feel like I can still talk to you when I put a message here...maybe because the whole world gets to read it. It's been a fast two years of life but a slow two years of trying to cope with your death. It doesn't feel like two years...it still feels like yesterday. I remember the phone call like it was just made. I had no idea what was coming. I can tell you though that I have finally gotten somewhere. I got ACC Ophthalmic Technician of the Year for 2007. I know you would be proud, but that doesn't change the fact that I sure would like to just be able to call and tell you. I can't tell you how much I still miss you. You will however be happy to know that I found a man who treats me the way you treated Mom...and to be honest Dad I wouldn't be doing as well as I am if it weren't for him. I breakdown sometimes and he doesn't say anything he just holds me until I'm done. I still have my days Dad...but I am trying. I love you so much and miss you more than I could ever tell you. 2 years or even 200 years won't change that.
Love always
your little girl
Erin Krokos
February 11, 2008
Stacie, Kyle and Ashley,
I cannot believe it has been 2 years - there are so many times Jay and I think of Doug and your family - it continues to sneak up that he is still gone. I hope you are all doing well, that the passage of time has helped to ease the pain and the wonderful memories of Doug continue to lift you up and provide you daily comfort. Bless
Andy Keys
October 7, 2007
Doug
I was just in Destin and saw Randy Marshall and then came back to Valdosta and ran into John Render. Those two guys raised me just like you did. I miss you alot and think of you often.
Monk S-L
October 5, 2007
Too soon. Mouth full of chew and a smart wit.
You'll be missed.
Tammy Couturier
February 14, 2007
It doesn't seem possible that it has been a year since you've been gone. I wanted to wish you a Happy Valentine's Day from me and Richard and Vance. We miss you and love you very much and we know that we will see you again. Tell Grandma and Grandpa hello. Love you. Tammy
Mistie McGuire
February 13, 2007
I know it has been a year since your death and I just can't believe it. We miss you alot:0) I know that some day we will talk once again and laugh about your slurpy's and our fun in the mountains. I hope to visit Stacie really soon and I know the conversations will be of you Doug, we will have a great visit and I know you would only want it to be happy times for us. We love and miss all of you like crazy and are so fortunate to have all of you in our lives. Stacie, I am coming real soon to visit you girl!!! XXOO Friends always, Mistie
Janine Lutz
February 12, 2007
Stacie,
I was thinking of you so much this weekend. I know you have had an incredibly difficult year, and I wish there was some magic potion that I could give you to make the pain go away. From the outside looking in...you amaze me! Your strength and attitude throughout this year have been an inspiration to me. I didn't know Doug very well, but having known him at the very beginning of your relationship all those years ago, I knew he was a pretty special guy. He had to be if you loved him so much! And he taught me how to play quarters ("flat like your head"), so he was ok in my book! But I must say, that attending his service was AMAZING! I have never been to such a touching service. To see all of the people there, to hear what they had to say about Doug, and to read this guest book...what a wonderful man! He touched so many lives. It gives me goosebumps just thinking about it. You had what so many people only wish for...true, never-ending, unconditional love. Just please know that I am here for you...whenever, wherever. Love to you and the kids, and Sabrina and her family too! You have no idea how happy I am to know you have them so close!!!
I love you Stac!!!
James Furlow
February 2, 2007
Stacy,
Please let me start out by saying that I am so sorry for your loss.
I was a pavelow crew chief stationed at Hurby from 1995 until 1997. I am sure that I worked with Doug during that time. I was so long ago that my memery escapes me. If I remember Doug was doing vibration balancing on the -53s during that time. If I remember correctly you guys drove a white Ford Bronco and then purchased a new Ford Expidition shortly before getting orders to go to Japan. Also I believe you guys lived just around the corner from us in base housing. Please let me know if this is correct.
Again I wish I could say how sorry I am for your loss. Doug is one of the few guys I remember for my time at Hurby.
I left active duty after ten years of service. I transfered to the Army Guard shortly after I left Hurby and will retire at the end of the year.
I found the link to your guest book while looking for pavelow stuff on the web.
Again I am so sorry for your loss and even if I had never knew your husband he was a fellow pavelow crew chief and we were part of the same brotherhood.
Sincerly,
James Furlow
UH-60 Blackhawk Flight Instructor
Ohio Army National Guard
Your Little Girl
January 26, 2007
Hi Dad...
Yet again I find myself turning to this guestbook as a way to talk to you. I guess I'm just trying to get this last one in before they shut this off. I miss you so much. I thought that when we hit this point the realization of your passing would have actually hit me...but it hasn't. I still keep catching myself wanting to email or call. I got an Achievement Medal, and there wasn't anyone in the world that I wanted to tell that more than you...as a matter of fact the first words out of my mouth were "I can't wait to tell my Dad, he will be so proud." And although I know you already know about it...and that you are proud of me...it sure would have made it seem more worthwhile if I had been able to tell you that myself...and hear the pride in your voice. It's almost like I am just going through the motions now...I don't feel like I have any direction...I have no idea what I want to do with my life. For that matter I have no idea what I want to do with myself tomorrow. Since your passing days seem like weeks...and weeks seem like years...its like everything is just going in slow motion. I can't tell you how I am going to feel from hour to hour...because well my mood changes that often. It's funny how when we had our whole family I felt like I didn't have anything to worry about...things that probably should have stressed me didn't...and now every little thing worries me...I'm stressed 90% of the time...and I honestly feel like the whole world was turned upside down. I'm worried about Mom and Kyle...I wish I was closer to them...because when I'm visiting I actually feel like I am doing okay. Here I feel alone...nobody can relate...nobody understands...and when I find someone that I think does they don't stick around for very long. I really don't know how to explain how this situation feels...except by telling you that there isn't a day where I don't think of you or miss you even more. I guess that is it...I feel a little better just from writing this. Happy New Year Dad. XOXOXOXOXOXO
Stacie Couturier
January 24, 2007
We are coming up on a year of you being gone. It is still so vivid in my mind that I can hardly believe it. It has felt like time stood still for me since your passing. Lives are going on around me but I'm waiting for you to catch up to them. It is an undescribable surreal feeling. It's still so hard to do day to day things without you here. My concern from the minute I got the news was for our kids. It has been so hard on them missing you. If it weren't for them I would have shut down. They have gotten so much strength from you and they are what keeps me going. God had a plan when he brought you into my life. It was a beautiful plan and if I can accept that it was meant to be, then I must accept that his plan to take you away was also meant to be. I will miss reading the entries in this Legacy Book. You were a great man and touched so many lives. What a perfect legacy to have left behind. If everyone could live their lives the way that you did, what a wonderful world it would be. I love you Doug and I always will. You have taught the kids and I the true meaning of unconditional love. Thank you for loving me. I was so blessed to have you in my life. See you in my dreams and one day in a far better place than this. May God bless all of you who have written here and helped my family through this first year. Please keep in touch! [email protected]
Stacie Couturier
Sabrina Martinez
January 24, 2007
We are looking down at alomost a year without your laugh, I guess thats what I miss the most. Your wicked, witty laugh, the one that would make me take notice and want to butt into whatever you were taking about, so I might have the chance to hear it again. Your family is good, not great but good. They take it one day at a time, like I'm sure so many of us do. But they are strong, so much more than they know. And the kids are a wonderful example of what good parents you and Stac are. She is ok, misses you so very much, but she tries to find laughter. Don't worry she never cries alone when I'm around. She is simply amazing to me, even when she is extremely humble. Kyle reminds me so much of you, from his sense of humor to the little wrinkles that he has like yours that go from the corner of his mouth to the corner of his eyes. Ashley is having the hardest time, but she too like her Mom, is so much stronger than she even knows. This year has been extra hard for her, but she has walked through it with pride and I know again its because of you and Stacie. Your wonderful parenthood has made wonderful people that you both can be very proud of, but thats no news to you. I am still amazed that your family moved here, and we get to see them everyday. We are happy to share them with your Brother-in-Law and his family, they are so good for Stacie and Kyle, and loved very much. I guess I just want everyone to know that although this year has been the hardest one ever for your beloved family, they have survived it, with grace, hope and love. They survive it with you watching over them. We love and miss you so very much Doug. We always will. I hope Floyd and I have made you proud, I hope we are worthy of your friendship. I will see you again in the stars. Love forever, Sabrina
David Galt
January 22, 2007
Was thinking about y'all today.
Something about the word "legacy"
put Dougs face up on the screen.
One night at Osan we were all getting rowdy & stenciling horse-heads in places we shouldn't, drinking, etc. Somebody, Dave Beals, whose name I won't mention,
got carried away with the soju and stencils and the base was a bee hive the next morning.
Just about everybody I can think of took an evening too far at some point. Except Doug. He was always
at the forefront of some sort of mischief, but never crossed the line into irresponsibility or immorality.
You guys are from good stock.
John & Toni Boucher
December 27, 2006
Merry Christmas Doug. We are always thinking of you and your family. I would also like to thank everyone who has shared the memories. We have all been touched by you Doug and we all love you.
Floyd Martinez
December 26, 2006
Merry Xmas Doug, Wish you were here...I miss you. Taking Kyle ice fishing tomorrow...Hope he catches his limit. Wish you were going. Later Brother, Marty-Mar
Jacqueline Couturier
December 24, 2006
Hi Uncle Doug! I just wanted to say Merry Christmas. Love you.
Your little girl
December 15, 2006
Hey Dad,
Yep...it's me again...I just wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. I got to thinking the other night and realized that this is the very first Christmas in 19 years that I won't get to spend with you. I cried because of it...and then I started thinking some more...and realized this is the first Christmas that you will get to spend with your parents in 20 years. So I guess I should stop being so selfish and give Grandma and Grandpa their turn again huh? Well regardless this Christmas and all the rest to come will never be the same without you. I love you Dad...and I am thinking of you always :)
December 14, 2006
Doug and Family,
I was thinking about this Holiday season, and Doug, you and your family came to mind. This is a time for giving and caring, and I again realized how important it is to love the ones that are close to you. Doug, I miss you and have a very Merry christmas with Mom and Dad. Stacie, Ashley, and Kyle, Kathy and I wish you the best for the holidays. Merry Christmas to all.
Love Dave and Kathy
Keith Brown
November 29, 2006
I typed the dates wrong, they should be Aug 05 - Jan 06.
Keith Brown
November 28, 2006
Stacie, Ashley and Kyle,
I was swapping rotorhead stories with one of my new troops today (MSgt Chris Cahalen) and he asked me if I had heard about Doug and I had not so I just learned of his passing and I am very sorry and deeply saddened by your loss. Not sure if you remember me, but Susan & I were at Kirtland from 91-94. We got together a few times four-wheeling / camping and a few BBQ's at your place with the gang. I kept in touch with Doug over the years via email and the global. The last email he sent me was while I was in Iraq (Aug 06-Jan 07) and it had an attachment of Ashley's BMTS graduation photo; he was a very proud father. When I got to Kirtland I latched on to Doug and followed him everywhere and learned everything I could. I held lots of flashlights at night for him so I could watch and learn from the best. He taught me everything I know about the H-53. When I finally got my own MH-53J 4428 "The Old Lady" and fixed it up just like he showed me it ended up being the High Flyer 4 months straight. I remember the friendly competition between his 1649 and my 4428. Those are some of the most memorable times of my 25 year AF career. I always hoped that one day when we were retired we would go fishing and reminisce about the old times. I will never forget Doug, the lessons he taught me about maintenance and life are part of everything I do daily in the Air Force as a Chief Master Sergeant. I will continue to pass those lessons on to our Airmen. If there is anything I can ever do for you please do not hesitate to contact me.
Respectfully,
Keith Brown
[email protected]
DSN: 784-4890
Your little Girl
November 16, 2006
Dad,
I know I've written in here a lot...but it seems like one of the few things I can do to make myself feel better. I'm having a rough day...for that matter a rough week. I miss you more than you will probably ever know...and it seems like the longer you are away the more I realize how much I still need you in my life. I'm still dealing with the insurance company for my car accident...and of course the lady isn't answering her phone so it is being prolonged yet again. There are HUGE decisions I am being asked to make...that I'm not entirely sure I want to...or even need to at the moment. My motivation for the Air Force gets better and worse depending on the day...when before it seemed like I just knew I was making the right decision. I think I've finally realized that I was trying to be just like you. That I looked up to you so much...and now that you aren't here...I lost the picture for my puzzle...and I can't seem to put any of the pieces in place without you. I know there are plenty of people still here for me...and I am thankful everyday for that...but the just aren't you. I have lots of fatherly figures in my life...but nobody compares to you. And I am definitely not trying to discredit Mom...because believe me Dad...she makes me feel better everyday. If it weren't for her I don't think I would be doing as well as I am. I don't mean to complain Dad, I just really miss you. Well anyway I guess I just needed to let you know that I am thinking of you always...and missing you more and more every second. I LOVE YOU!
November 15, 2006
DC, This is very simple but to the point. Thinking about you lots lately. You would have been retired by now. I miss our discussions. Hasta Wil
Stacie Couturier
October 28, 2006
Doug,
I've followed through with your final wishes. On your birthday your ashes were taken to Silverton, Colorado. It was the one place in the world we would choose to go over any other. We have some great memories there and they will never be forgotten. It was hard to be there without you physically but I feel your presence where ever I am. Marty took Kyle hunting. The elk were hard to get to because of the snow so he didn't come home with one. We were riding the quads one day and Kyle was breaking trail where no one else could get through. He said that you were telling him what to do. You would be so proud! Ashley was able to make it to Silverton too. She is a tough young lady and she misses you so much. She is going to go so far in the Air Force with the guidance you have given her. We had a cake in your honor. I hope you celebrated with Mom & Dad once again. We all love and miss you!
Forever Love,
Stacie
Jon Sorensen
October 26, 2006
Hey DC
Happy B'day (a few days late) -- been busy getting ready for my year-long trip to Iraq. Just wanted to say hello, your memorial service at DM was great, you are surely missed. Miss our days at Kirtland, Osan and Hurlburt. Your kids have really grown, you have much to be proud of. Brother Gene headed your way.... please tell him hello. Miss you guys & will always have you/your families in my heart & prayers.
Richard Couturier
October 19, 2006
My Dear Brother Doug,
Happy 40th Birthday! This has been a day filled with emotions. I go from laughing with joyful memories to crying with a lack of understanding. As has been the case for the past eight months, words cannot touch the feelings I have for you. You are my brother and I miss you so dearly. You are a legacy Doug. I respect and love you very much. Your memories live on and the world just isn't the same without your smile, laughter and funny outlook on just about everything. Your spirit is with us all and we will never forget the brightness you brought to the days of so many people. As I have said before, I am honored to be called your brother and I am humbled by the lives you touch so meaningfully. I will keep you close in my heart for all of the days of my life.
I Love You Doug!
Brother Dick
Dale Couturier
October 19, 2006
Happy Birthday Doug,
The thing I miss the most about you being gone is how whenever we got together, no matter how long it was since we saw each other, it was like we were never apart. We just picked up from where we left off. I hope I make it to heaven someday and we can do that again. We all miss you and I think about you everytime I see Darren. He reminds me of you. He is not as ugly as you but he still reminds me of you. LOL. I guess thats because you were about his age when you went into the Air Force. I will go home tonight and have a drink in your honor. I love you.
Dale
Jacqueline Couturier
October 18, 2006
Hi Uncle Doug! Well, it is a few short hours until your birhtday so I wanted to wish you a HAPPY BIRTHDAY!Miss and love you always :)
Robert & Rosemary Trenary
October 12, 2006
To Doug: The 19th is your birthday so Happy Birthday Doug we miss and love you so much! Not many people get to have a Son- in- law like you. Dad and I have always said you were a Son, not a Son- in- law. From the time Stacie brought you home and introduced you I knew you would protect and take care of her under all circumstances. Even Ginger the dog fell in love with you. I knew that because she didn’t even bark at you and she barked at anyone who walked by. I knew that you would be there in life and in death as long as Stacie lived and you were. My heart is filled with so many emotions right now. We want you back just for one more camping trip, one more laugh or one more hug just to say what we never said enough “we love you.” We want to see all your Christmas decorations and we want to see your smile when you looked at the Thanksgiving Turkey that looked more like a Cornish Hen. It didn’t look like it would feed anybody but you said it was fine. You always had a way of making things better. We want to eat some of the salsa that you made just for us when we came down to visit. We would make ourselves sick eating it. The thoughts just keep rolling like a movie on fast forward. Just to see you and Stacie argue and laugh at the games we played in Georgia. Watching Smokey chase you on the riding mower while you held your kids in your arms for the ride. You were so calm and laid back & just enjoyed life. You would grab the kids & hold them & wrestle with them and look in their eyes and just enjoy being with them. You took me for the longest rides sight seeing even after driving 3 hours to get to our house. Just because we said we wanted to go for a ride. You tried to teach me not to be such a worrier but to just enjoy the moment. You gave us so much in life and in death, please come through and accept our hugs and love no matter where you are. We know you are at peace, we know you have reached perfection in this lifetime and from the other side. Help us to do the same. Dad and I would gladly give our lives so you could be with your family. You and Stacie were both so totally one and it was so obvious to everybody who knew you. See you soon, all our love forever. Mom & Dad Trenary.
Ashley Couturier
October 4, 2006
Dad,
So it is almost your birthday...well okay so we are about 15 days away from it...however I won't be near a computer then to write to you, so I have to do it now. First and foremost HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! I'm sure birthdays in Heaven are far better than any birthday celebrated down here. Although I would much rather have you here. The big 4-0 Dad...you are almost an old man. lol. I miss you so much. I tried to sign this thing last month and it didn't work for some reason, but I wanted to tell you that I helped change an engine on a friend's car. Everything you taught me hasn't gone to waste :) I did find myself going to call you several times though. The urge to do things like that hasn't gone away yet. And I know I can talk to you...but you can't exactly tell me how to change an engine :P I have a new boyfriend now...I know you would really like him. He reminds me of you in a lot of ways. Oh and I just wanted you to know that your technique with fishing is still being passed on in the world...I took my little sister fishing for big brothers/big sisters, and this guy next to us told her she had to call the fish..."here fishy fishy fishy". It made me laugh so hard and for a second I would have swore that it was you standing next to us. I'm finding it was the little things in our relationship that really mean the most to me now. So THANK YOU!!! Because I have some of the best memories any little girl could ever ask for. I love you Dad and I miss you heaps.
Your little girl forever and always!
Darren Couturier
September 9, 2006
Uncle Doug,
Everytime someone gets in my jeep, they ask me about the sticker I have with the big green feet. I didn't want to put in on my bumper where no one would ever see it, and where I would forget about it. I put in on my dash, so that I could see it every day and it would remind me of you. And I take that oppurtunity (when somebody asks about it) to tell them a story about what a great man you were to a lot of people, and the great man you still are in my heart. And if anybody doubts it, I will just email them the link to this website and they can sit and read for hours and cry out loud the same way I am right now, and the same way I do everytime I get on this website.
I don't know what exactly it was that made me get on here today, but the other kids in the library are starting to look at me werid while I am crying at my computer. So I better get off here before I completely embarrass myself (just in case there are any cute chicks in the library today).
I love you man. And I think about you all the time.
Gary Moorhead
August 23, 2006
Doug you will be greatly missed. There are so may of us now older NCO's that you taught when we were just very young Airmen. You have molded all crew chiefs that have come in contact with you. We can only hope to be as succesful as you in life and career. RIP Brother, till we meet again
John Rogers
August 21, 2006
Doug,
You bailed me out of a couple predicaments while I served with you. You were a great crew chief and more importantly a great man. The helicopter world has lost a one of a kind. I think of you from time to time. You will be greatly missed.
John
Gary Webb
August 21, 2006
I cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. I worked with Doug for a few years at Hurlburt Field and shared the vibe shop office with him for a while. I can honestly say that in my 18 year career I have never met a crew chief with the intelect, whit, honesty, devotion to family, and the work ethic that Doug had. He was truely one of those people you could never forget. I never got the opportunity to tell him how much of an impact he had on my career and my life. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Rest in peace my brother!
Mistie McGuire
August 9, 2006
Doug, we are thinking about you everyday as we have always thought of you and your family. People get so busy in their lives, forget to say things, forget to laugh and appreciate. Forget just how lucky we really are and forget to tell all that we love them. With your passing, you remind me everyday to let my family and friends know that I think of them and to tell them that I really love and miss them. Doug, you already know but I love and miss you more than words could say and I love and miss Stacie, Kyle and Ashley just as much!! Until next time my friend:0)
Frank Reilly
August 8, 2006
Doug,
I saw a big Truck today with big green feet on the back windshield. I immediatly thought of you I had to see the driver, is that Doug? I thought to myself. Just hoping I could stop you and talk for a little while just like we used to do. If I ever had a problem you always had an answer. I felt you always had my back when I was up in the helo 300 miles south of Iceland or out in the middle of the desert. I miss ya.
RIZZO
Stacie Couturier
August 5, 2006
To Doug:
It is almost six months since your passing. It is officially the longest I have ever been without you since I was 17 years old. They say that time makes it easier but that hasn’t been the case for me. I guess because I’m so used to you being gone, it is now finally starting to hit me that you aren’t coming back. I miss you so much! I’m trying hard to keep life as normal as possible for the kids and I. I know that is what you would want. Everyone keeps telling me how strong I am, but I don’t feel very strong. I guess I put on a good front. I feel so lost without you. In a few more days we would have been married 20 years. I wish we could be renewing our vows in Silverton as planned. I guess God has other plans for us both. Besides our kids, our marriage was one of the proudest accomplishments in my life. You made it so easy to be married to you. You will always be the love of my life. Thank you for taking care of me. Every woman should be so fortunate. Most of all, thank you for letting me know you are still here. I feel your presence every day and all the little signs have not gone unnoticed. As before, I will miss you every second of every day until we meet again!
To Doug’s Friends & Family:
You will never know what a comfort it has given me to read your entries in this guest book. It made me realize that I wasn’t the only one who thought so highly of him or lost so much. I appreciate your thoughts and prayers, your kind words and stories. There are so many of you who have done so much for me and my family. We can never repay you for your kindness. If you would like to keep in touch our email is [email protected]. Please let Doug’s memory live on in your stories you tell and in your actions toward others. And most of all, live with no regrets. I can honestly say that Doug did that and it makes his passing a little easier. I know he is smiling down on us all. Our sincere thanks and love to you all!!!
shawn heminger
August 5, 2006
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Joel Happeny
July 23, 2006
What can I say about Doug that hasn't already been written here? I can only reiterate what a truly great person he was. Of all the people I've had work for me over my 25 year career, Doug was without a doubt the best. To anyone else who's worked for me over the years...sorry, but you're standing in line behind Doug. His knowledge and personal drive to get the job done was second to none.
I had the privilage of having Doug as my assistant crew chief on several acft at Kirtland...1631, 1649, 1652. I remember coming in one Sunday night at Kirtland and finding sharks teeth painted on the EAPS doors of 1631 at Kirtland. Some sort of secret pact between he and Killer kept me from finding out who really did it. Back in '92 we flew 100+ hours/month on 1649 for 3 out 4 months...something that almost anyone who's ever worked an H-53 will tell you is IMPOSSIBLE! My name was on the forms as the crew chief, but it was Doug who made it happen.
Doug loved to tell stories...his stories about 4-wheelin' kept us laughing all the time. He went TDY to Hurby for manning assist during DESERT SHIELD/STORM along with Phil Bean, Eddie Lucash, and Richard Hurst (more commonly known as "Hick" or "Pig Farmer"). His stories of how they tortured Hick for those 3-4 months would have us rolling on the floor. Nobody told a story like Doug!
To all of Doug's family...I'm sure you know how special Doug was. His impact in the helicopter world will be felt for many years to come. He was a great crew chief, a great man, and a great friend. My sincere condolences for your loss.
Slade Burke
July 14, 2006
Doug was a great guy, he and I did a lot of fun & funny stuff together. If there was one thing that stood out about him to me it was I could come back after the crappiest flight and Doug would crack on of his one liners and put the the whole thought to bed. He will be missed by a lot of folks including me. Good Luck and please take care
Capt Slade Burke (prior 53 gunner)
Jacqueline Couturier
June 28, 2006
WOW, I can't believe how fast time really flies. We all miss and love you very much Uncle Doug!! You will forever be in my thoughts.
Ashley Couturier
June 6, 2006
Dad,
Well I am at work, with nothing to do...and I just got to thinking we are about to hit the four month mark since your passing. It hasn't gotten any easier. As a matter of fact I think every day I find something else that makes me miss you even more. I'm trying really hard though Dad, I promise. I wake up every morning and put a smile on my face...because I know that is what you would want to see, and because I have realized since your passing that life really is TOO short. And so I need to make the most of every day that I am given.
The other day I recieved an email, about someone passing away and he left behind a box with a pocket watch inside and a letter to his friend thanking him for his time.
I was really touched by this and felt like that is exactly what I should be saying to you. Thank you for your time. Thank you for all your love and kindness. Thank you for all the wonderful lessons you taught me. Thank you for our relationship, and for helping me become the young woman I am.
I miss you so much...but each day I remind myself that you are only a prayer away, and that if ever I need you, you will be right there. I love you Dad, I truly hope you had the time of your life.
Don Robison
May 24, 2006
Doug was by far not only one of the best crew chiefs I've ever met, he was also one of the finest men I've ever had the pleasure of working with. He helped me many times when I was a new flight engineer and I will forever be indebted. My condolences and best wishes to the family.
Andy Keys
April 26, 2006
Dear Couturier Family,
You have my deepest sympathies on the passing of a great Dad, Husband, and the Best Helicopter Crew Chief I know. I was good friends with Doug and visited you guys in Kadena. He always treated me like family. I will miss him greatly, for he was a great influence in my life. If I can be half the man he was I will be doing great. Love you Doug try not to play too many practical jokes on the angels.
Rodney Brooks
April 21, 2006
Doug,
It has been a pleasure to have worked with you. You were someone that could always be looked up to and talked to openly. I pray the best for your family.
Richard Couturier
April 18, 2006
Dear Friends and Family of my Brother Doug,
I have already written in this guest book but have a few things I would like to add and hope that is okay.
First, thank you John & Toni for creating this wonderful memorial forum for so many of us to share and enjoy. What a nice tribute to Doug. Great initiative! On behalf of our entire family, thank you for creating and maintaining this website.
Next, thank you to all who have so graciously shared your stories, thoughts and memories of Doug in this guestbook. Like many, I read it regularly and glean something new each time.
Most importantly, time and again we have all remembered and commented as to Doug being a great Father. Most certainly I have always known that but wanted to share a recent experience with you. Over the April 1st weekend, I had the good fortune of getting to spend a couple of days with Kyle. WHAT A FINE YOUNG MAN!!!! I am sure you already know that but words cannot even begin to explain how solid Kyle is. Like his Dad, he is a rock. He is incredibly smart, witty, kind, and compassionate, looks new people in the eye when he meets them and shows respect and gratitude to everyone. Kyle is a giver and does not know the meaning of being selfish (wonder where he learned that??). The way Kyle carries and conducts himself is so refreshing in a world where seemingly it is cool to be rude, talk tough and dress on the edge. Not Kyle. Kyle knows who he is and what he is doing. I know Kyle’s Dad is resting peacefully with the comfort that Kyle has a solid foundation for his life’s journey today, tomorrow and forever.
Kyle is wise beyond his years and as I am sure you know he is carrying his Fathers legacy quite nicely.
Kyle, YOU ROCK!
Love,
Doug’s brother / Kyle’s Uncle,
Dick
Floyd "Marty" Martinez
April 10, 2006
Well my friend, today marks two months since your passing and it has finally sunk in that you will not be here sitting next to me by the campfire discussing where we will ride the next day. I'll surely miss you and the times we had and were going to have. I promise you these things; We will carry on the outdoor trips with Stacie, Kyle and Ashley (when she can make it), I will pass guidance to Ashley in her Air Force career as you would've, and I will do my best to be a good role model for Kyle. He will know the outdoors as you would want him to. I will continue to tip my glass to you and carry on your memory.
Tim Hatmaker
April 4, 2006
I'm very sorry to hear of Doug's sudden passing. My sincere condolences to everyone. He was nice to me, Thank you Doug...
Rick Thibert
March 29, 2006
Although I only knew Doug for a short while at Hurby before I went to Mildenhall, he left a lasting impression on me. Nice guy! I hope all his family and friends are coping well with his tragic loss.
Matthew "Doc" Holliday
March 27, 2006
I only worked with Doug for a couple of years around 1994 and have not spoke to him in probably 10 years.
However, during my time at Hurlburt, I developed a tremendous amount of respect for him. Not only as a talented crew chief, but as a good man.
Doug was a role model to all the younger mechanics and a source of strength for those senior to him. I know that Doug's impact in the Pave community will be felt for many generations as those who he taught pass on his lessons to those who follow.
As sometimes happens when one learns of the death of someone they knew many years ago, so many memories came back. Many good stories will be told around the flightline and certainly, many lives in the air will be saved by his good example and work ethic.
I know the pain we as his friends share cannot compare to the pain his family feels, but I hope it is some comfort to Stacie and his children that we all respect him and miss our friend.
John Render
March 27, 2006
Words cannont express the hurt after hearing about Doug's passing. We followed each other around the world for over 15 years. Traveled to some great places and some not so. Whatever the situation, Doug helped to keep things positive and moved us forward. His wit and intellect made him a true people person. We all have lost a great friend and mentor. He will be eternally missed and will never be forgotten.
Stuart McCoy
March 24, 2006
My sympathies go out to Doug’s family. I worked with Doug for a couple of short years at Hurlburt Field. I will never forget his first day on swing shift, when he was introduced as a new face, Sgt. Revolinksi fumbled with his last name….He just looked at us all and said three words, “Call me Doug”. It didn’t take long to realize that Doug was a vast well of knowledge and he was always willing to share his knowledge. He was a person who would take the time to show you how to do things the right way, no matter how busy he was.
Doug was a great person to be TDY with, he was dependable and one of the hardest workers I have ever been around. I only worked with Doug a short time, its been 11 or 12 years since I last saw him……But there are some people you meet in this world that you never forget, Doug was one of those people.
John Blake
March 22, 2006
I knew Doug at Hurbie, I remember him as the AFCS God. If anyone had a problem that had never been seen before, he had an answer and even if he didn't, as you tore it apart he made 18 hour shifts fun. When I found out he was gone it was like a typhoon had hit Kadena, those who knew him told stories and those who didn't learned of the best PAVELOW guy there ever was. You will be missed but never forgotten.
Rodney and Kelly Abad
March 19, 2006
Doug was a great friend and the best damn mentor/supervisor I've ever had. He was also a great role model both at work and as a family man. I first met Doug at Kadena when I was assigned to phase dock and he was the NCOIC there. Doug and his family welcomed my family into his home. And so it became almost a weekly tradition for all the phase guys and anyone else to hang out at Doug's house for some stories, good food, and beer. I learned a lot from Doug, and wish we had more people like him. Doug, you will be sorely missed and we will never forget you! Our deepest condolences are with the Couturier family.
Brian Lilienthal
March 15, 2006
Doug,
It was really hard to hear the news. I can't thank you enough for being the person that you were. It is not the same walking around the 55th without hearing you yell out across the hangar to get someones attention. You were a great role model for me and really showed me how to deal with things in the military. You welcomed my family and I into yours without hesitation or predujice. I only hope that I can become HALF the father, husband, crew chief, and person as you. Thanks for making some great memories in my life as well as some great advise to help me get where I am today. I can still hear you saying, " I love you man." no Doug, WE love you.
Dave Couturier
March 15, 2006
Doug, as my younger brother, I have to admire you for your family and military life. You have alsways taken care of everyone you have been in contact with. Stacie, Ashley, and Kyle you should always be proud of Doug as a husband, father, and best friend. He was an exemplmary example of a hsuband, father and a friend. I remember Doug asking me about my time in the Air Force 20 years ago, and I told him that he would become part of a very special family. He has touched hunderds and possibly thousands of lives and has left an invaluable impression with each and everyone he came in contact with. I am touched by all the responses in this guest book and thank you all. Doug, I love you and will miss you. I will keep you and your family in my heart forever. Thanks for being my brother and say Hi to Mom and Dad for me.
Love, Brother Dave
McArthur Heath
March 15, 2006
Whats up! I wish that we could have had more trips together like the one we had in Iraq. I remember all of the fun times and talks we had. I was nervous when you took me out to the flight line in Balad and in 15 minutes showed me how to drive a stick shift truck. I will always remember the humerous conversations you, Capt Baker, Scott Collins, and I had. Hearing that you were called by GOD while I was in Afghanistan left me teary-eyed and emotional. We shared our dreams and had memorable convos. I want you to know that you will always be missed.
Jason and Erin Krokos
March 14, 2006
Doug,
When Jason called to tell me you had left us, my heart broke for Stacie, Kyle and Ashley. I feel like we were blessed to have the time in Iceland we had with you and your family. You were family to us in that first time we ever lived overseas and away from anyone we knew. I'll never forget the patience and humor you found in teaching me to drive in the snow - a true challenge for a Florida girl - and how that probably saved my marriage since I don't listen to my husband that well! I'll also remember your voice when you called to say Stacie was going to the hospital for surgery - the love you held for her was such an inspiration as everyone is also writing in these letters to you.
I'm sorry I didn't get to see you in October when Jason did. I'll truly regret not making that trip with him forever. I will hold on to the memory of all the times we had playing cards, sledding Dead Man's hill, cooking dinners and just surviving Iceland. I don't know that we would have made it those first two years without you and your family.
It is not fair you are not with us any more. We will both always miss you.
Dick Couturier
March 13, 2006
Excerpt from my personal journal to Doug - sorry if it is too personal but here goes......
Douglas William Couturier
October 19, 1966 – February 10, 2006
My Little Brother and BIG Example
March 13, 2006
Dear Doug,
I Love You!
I cannot believe that you have died! It hurts so bad. Here it is a month and three days since you passed and I am just now able to put a few random thoughts down that may help me to deal with some of this incredible hurt. As my words will undoubtedly show, I am deeply sad, mad, confused and feeling so lost as to why you died. I just can’t believe I won’t see you again on this earth and that is so amazingly painful! I am sure for you that in a special, difficult to understand way, all is good. I felt the most amazing peace when I saw your body at the viewing because it was so clear to me that it wasn’t you. Your sprit filled a body and without your sprit inside of it, the body was a blank. The second I saw it, God filled me with this incredible comfort that He has you and as you would always say “It’s all good”. This is the strangest feeling.
I thing of you constantly. I think of how much I admire you as my little brother but even more for the man you became. I respect you Doug. I am honored to be your brother. I talk about you to people all of the time, telling them how great you are. I want as many people as possible to know how a great man lived his life. I will always remember the Doug Acronym:
Dedicated man
Outstanding husband
Unbelievably great Dad
Genuine friend
I guess at the end of the day you can’t hope to be any more than that!
As you know, Stacie, Ashley and Kyle are doing great. That is a huge testament as to who you are to them. You lead them as a man is supposed to do and they learned from you enough to survive your death and thrive for the rest of their lives. I know you are with them and all of us in sprit and I know they make you smile every day.
I Love You Little Brother, with all of my heart!
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