Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
FUNERAL HOME
Robert Wallenstein Obituary
AGE: 62 • Toms River
Robert Thomas Wallenstein, 62, of Toms River, passed away Wednesday, April 9, 2014, at Ocean Medical Center in Brick, after a long illness. Born in Huntington, Long Island, NY, Bob was a graduate of Bayshore High School, Bayshore, NY, and attended New York State Maritime College. A man of the sea, Bob began his career on the water by operating a clamming business in Great South Bay, NY, while still in high school. He worked for many years in the Marine Transportation Department, Mobil Oil Company. He began as a deckhand in the tugboat fleet and worked his way up to a Mate and, eventually, a very well respected Captain. In recent years he was employed as a tugboat captain for Moran Towing Company, working all along the east coast and in the Caribbean.
Bob was very well known as a deep sea charter boat captain during his times between shifts on the tugboat. His boat, "Ridge Runner", was highlighted in many newspaper and magazine articles about fishing on the Jersey shore and in Massachusetts. He is the author of two fishing books, "Fishing Saltwater Structure" and "Best Kept Secrets of the Giant Tuna Highliners".
He was known to his family and friends as a wonderful husband and father, gourmet cook, blackjack player, pool shark and all-around great guy. He loved music and played the trumpet in the drum and bugle corp as a child.
He is survived by his wife, Patricia Wallenstein, of Toms River, daughter Kristin Polhemus and her husband, Adam Polhemus, of Hamilton, daughter Kelly Wallenstein and sons Michael and Brian Wallenstein, all of Toms River. Also surviving are his mother, Barbara Wallenstein, of Toms River and brothers William Wallenstein, of Middletown, Barry Wallenstein and wife Candy, of Harbeson, Delaware, and Jim Wallenstein and wife Marty of Tinton Falls, along with several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his father, Raymond Wallenstein, and brothers Thomas and Eric Wallenstein.
A reception, with a memorial service, will be held at the Sandy Hook Chapel, in Gateway National Recreation Area, on Monday, April 21, 2014 from 4-7 PM. Condolences may be sent to the family by visiting www.jerseyshorecremation.com
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Robert Wallenstein
Brendan Cassidy
August 27, 2014
I was lucky enough to work with bob on the Sheila Moran. He was a man that didn't require you to give your all, you gave your all because he deserved it. Thanks for the time we had.
April 22, 2014
Bob,
I'm sure you were proud of your Children Yesterday.They spoke volumes to the type of Man you were and the life you lived. RIP
Rob Wallman
NICK CICERO
April 21, 2014
Goodbye and may you always sail across smooth seas my old friend
I will always remember the fun times we shared and all that I learned from you.
lenny zorcik
April 18, 2014
My sincere apologies to the Wallenstein family. Thank you Bob for the wisdom many will pay forward.
Leroy Gordon
April 17, 2014
Goodbye Bob. I will be forever grateful for the interest you took to help me move up in my career. You had the patience of Job, but you stuck with me. God bless you. Sorry you had to leave us soon.
April 17, 2014
To Patty and her children, We are saddened to hear of Bob's passing. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
The Stinziani family
Brian Wallenstein
April 17, 2014
Love and miss you, Dad. I hope the seas are calm and the skies are blue where you are. <3
Robin Fallone
April 17, 2014
To the whole Wallenstein family,
Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your loved one. I never had the pleasure of meeting Bob but the stories Barry shared says it all. All my love. Robin
Showing 1 - 9 of 9 results
Make a Donation
in Robert Wallenstein's name
Memorial Events
for Robert Wallenstein
Funeral services provided by:
Jersey Shore Cremation Service43 Taylor Avenue (Hwy. 71), Manasquan, NJ 08736
How to support Robert's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief
Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.
Read more
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreWays to honor Robert Wallenstein's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
