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Jerry McConkey
January 25, 2023
So sad. She was to to young to be taken away.
The Barry Family (John and Sandy)
November 21, 2021
Dear Phil, I pray you and Michael are doing well. It does not seem like Susan has been gone for all these years. I have to tell you that she often pops into my head and I just think of how lovely she was to so many people. I pray her spirit is at peace and that you and the rest of the family are doing well.
Stay well,
Sandy and John Barry
George Murphy
November 20, 2019
Once again, my sympathies to Phil and Michael on this third anniversary of Susan's passing.
George Murphy
June 22, 2019
I wanted to offer another word of support to this great family about a wonderful lady. I pray that all is well for you, Phil and Michael. God Bless you all.
Elizabeth Weddington
June 20, 2019
Phil, my blessing to you and your children. I lost my Husband to tonsil cancer on 11-6-16. This July it would have been 30 years with the love of my life. God, the Son, and Spirit are with you.
February 16, 2018
So sorry Phil for your beloved wifes passing!! You were always my favorite Raider !!! She was too young brother!! But in a far better stratosphere!! Regards, Dean J. Donelson
Betsy Holderman Bradley
December 11, 2017
To the family of Susan Penrod Villapiano,
I was friends with Susan in grade school at Hawthorne Elementary. I have just learned of her passing and am shocked and so sad. Susan, even in grade school, was amazing. So very bright, energetic and motivated. Truly a gifted and talented woman that was loved by so many.
Beverly Keatley
November 13, 2017
Dear Phil, Michael and family ~ So sorry to hear the news of your devastating loss. I lived in Rumson, and since my move I've been out of touch, only recently hearing of Susan's passing. Michael you may remember me and my daughter Emma. You used to babysit her and actually taught her to ride a two wheeler. Once you got locked out of my house on Heathcliff Road with Emma and you and the other teenage boys in the neighborhood were on the roof looking for an open window. I must say you were as cool as a cucumber when I got home, never letting on what happened. It was your mom who blew your cover the next day and told me what transpired. I have many fond memories of my times with Susan. Wicked smart, opinions that matter. We read a book a month together for many years in book group and enjoyed talking literature. She came to our apartment in NYC on numerous occasions and we had lively discussions regarding current events, local, national and political and of course our beloved children. With heartfelt sympathy to you and yours.

Me & Susan
Bob Penrod
September 27, 2017
Susan, It has been almost one year since you passed on. During this time, I have missed you very much. But I know that you are still here when I think of all the things you taught me whether you knew you were influencing me or not - encouraging my individuality and goofy sense of humor, classic music including a deep appreciation of Bruce, to believe in myself and an intense loyalty to friends and family but also brutal honesty when needed.
I can't thank you and Phil enough for allowing me to share Michael's childhood. I loved watching you teach him to sing, dance, read, laugh, build Playmobil and just letting him be a kid. He is still the same sweet, caring son you raised and will always make you proud and I will always see your character when I look at him.
Eva and Lillian miss you terribly. You are a perfect role model for them. Teaching them that they can be strong, intelligent, independent women and they can decide their own path through life. Thank you. Your example has made my job as a father much easier.
I have thought many times on how to talk to you again not knowing the best way. I believe the Guest Book only lasts for one year so that time is rapidly approaching and it was now or never.
Susan, you are not gone. You are with still with me as strongly as you have ever been. Thank you for being my sister and friend.
Never saying goodbye - Love, Bobby xoxo
Mark & Maryanne Wetzel
August 22, 2017
Phil, We just learned of Susan's passing and we are so sorry for your loss. She was a special lady. We have fond memories of our times together. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Michael and your family.
Marilynn M Schroeder
April 8, 2017
Dear Phil and Michael, I just learned today of Susan's passing, how sad. I have such fond memories of our time at Seashore School. My son Michael Rubens was your classmate Michael. Your Mom will be missed. She was a special lady.
Gu Henrich
March 22, 2017
Mr. Villapiano.. I just saw today about your loss. Bless you and your family. Best wishes to you and your children
Cathy Hamilton (Gurrieri)
February 20, 2017
Dear Phil
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Susan. I found out today while I was reading a magazine regarding the Craniosacral Therapy Scholarship. I have such fond memories of Susan during our Amway days My deepest sympathy to you and your family
February 16, 2017
Phil, I just learned today of Susan's passing and my heart just "sunk"! I have such fond memories of my brief times with her during our ICL days, especially, remembering when we all were trying to gather enough coins to pay our way through the toll booth...She was a beautiful lady and my prayers are with you and your family. Take special care my friend! Gayle Hentz
Jamie Henneberry
December 22, 2016
Phil..just heard today of Susan's passing. From the first and only time I met Susan I knew you had found a diamond. It struck me how kind and classy she was. My very best to you and your family, and I am very sorry for your loss.
Robert (Bob) Bruno
December 20, 2016
Phil, I just discovered that your wife passed in November. I send a prayer and my heartfelt condolences to you and your family
Randy Lubbering
December 12, 2016
You know someone touched your life when you have not seen them for over 30 years and when you hear of their passing it just breaks your heart. I was friends with "Penrod" as we called her, in high school and thru the college years, we never used our real names. She was a wonderful and caring person and from what I have read she had not changed in the years since we last saw each other. I still have a picture she gave me of her from our yearbook at York and with the exception of her hairstyle, she looks exactly the same as the one on this page. Every time I see the movie Grease I think of her as we went to see it in high school at the theater. Did not want to see it but was easily talked into going by Sue. To Phil and your family and to the Penrod family my thoughts and prayers are with you. You have a shining star looking down on you and many happy memories to keep close to your heart. Sue is still with us in our hearts and memories. "Lubes" just wishes he could have seen her one more time.
Bob Havranck
December 11, 2016
Sorry for your loss Phil, Susan Elswick let me know. Be well my friend.
Karyn Walsh
December 7, 2016
Dear Michael and Phil,
We were so sorry to hear of Susan's passing. She was such a lovely lady and we enjoyed getting to know her the last few years at Brown. May her memory be a blessing to all of you.
Our deepest sympathies,
Karyn, Jim, Michael, Jacqui and Collin Walsh
Al Gordon
December 5, 2016
Phil,
Our sincere and heartfelt sympathies from Marge and me to you and the family. You and the family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Al & Marjorie Gordon, Trumbull CT
Tom Swinchatt
December 1, 2016
Phil,
My prayers are with you and your extended family. May God's love soothe your pain and provide comfort in this time of loss.
Scott Abrams
November 30, 2016
Phil, Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. We are so sorry for your loss.
Our deepest condolences,
Scott Abrams & Julia Warren
David Bower
November 30, 2016
Phill, I was very sorry to hear about your wife. Please accept my sincere sympathy.
Greg Meczka
November 29, 2016
Phil, My heartfelt sympathies go out to you and your family.
Condolences to you, my Falcon Brother.
November 29, 2016
Phil,
My sympathy to you & your family. I was so sorry to hear of your wife's passing. I will keep you & your family in my thoughts & prayers.
Sharon ( Lewis ) Blackman
Seth Chasin
November 29, 2016
I'm in shock ... even though we haven't been in touch the last several years, Sue was always one of my favorite people. She was a huge part of my life back in business school and the early years of working in NY. Always a smile, always a kind word, the epitome of someone who lights up a room just by walking in.
To Phil and her family, our deepest condolences. Please know that we're praying for you and thinking of "Penrod" during this difficult time.
Seth and Bonnie Chasin
Jan McGarvey
November 29, 2016
Phil and Michael we are so sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you both in your grief. Celebrating Susan's life is something we can all do.
From Toledo, Ohio friends,
Jan and Mark McGarvey
November 29, 2016
Phil, my sympathies for your great loss. Wishing you and family peace and love.
Gregg Shinn
November 29, 2016
Dear Phil and Michael, We were so saddened to hear of Susan's passing. She always had a smile for everyone. Love and Prayers, Kathy, Rich and Mike Moralle
Dawn Massabni
November 28, 2016
I'm so very deeply sorry for your loss. Thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. Susan was a beautiful person inside & out. God bless.
Andrej and Victoria Samets
November 28, 2016
Remembering Susan, wonderful women and tennis player and sending healing thoughts to the family. Sorry for your loss.
John Joyce
November 28, 2016
Phil,
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time
November 28, 2016
Lorraine & Peter Schaefers
Dear Phil,
It is with deep sorrow to hear of Susan's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time. May she rest in peace.
God bless all of you.
Peter & Lorraine, West Milford, NJ
John Marshall
November 28, 2016
Phil, I am so sorry for your loss.
The Kutsak Family
November 28, 2016
Phil and Michael,
We extend our deepest sympathies to you. Susan touched so many of us with her warmth and kindness. She will be greatly be missed by Michael and myself, our children, and many others.
Michael Moralle
November 28, 2016
Phil and Michael,
Thinking of you both during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
The Moralle Family
Michael Moralle
November 28, 2016
Phil and Michael,
Thinking of you both during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
The Moralle Family
Bob (Army) Armstrong
November 28, 2016
Phil,
So very sorry to hear of Susan's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with her, you and your family. May she RIP.
Gary&Donna Bartz
November 28, 2016
Our condolences on your loss. You and your family are in our prayers. God Bless.
regina bennardo
November 27, 2016
Sue was a wonderful mom and friend. Our condolences for michael and phil.
Regina Bennardo and sons
Kim Nitto
November 27, 2016
Dear Phil and Michael,
She was a wonderful women.
Live life as she did with strength and dignity.
God bless you.
Love The Nitto Family
Michele Lanfrank
November 27, 2016
My sincerest condolences. May all the beautiful memories live on and may the Divine's light and healing surround all of you during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Michele Lanfrank
Linda MacDonald
November 27, 2016
Phil and Michael,
Our deepest sympathy in the loss of your beautiful wife and mother. Phil we always admired your quiet strength and the support Susan said she received from you. I was lucky enough to have a couple memorable conversations with her that left me in awe of how smart, strong, and passionate she was. Michael is a lot like her. In typical "mama bear" fashion Michael was her pride and joy and through him, her inspiration and huge heart clearly live on. You are both in our thoughts and prayers. Peace and Love, Linda and Ron MacDonald
Jill & Sean Healey
November 27, 2016
Dear Phil & Family,
Our condolences on your loss. Susan was such a dedicated volunteer and someone I admired and enjoyed working with on the REF board and other school projects over the years. She was always gracious with her time and talents and she leaves a legacy of dedication to the Rumson school community.
Darlene Heller
November 27, 2016
Phil: Gale and I are just so sorry to hear about Susan's passing. I know Gale wants to talk to you when the time is right. Our sympathies go out to you, Michael and all of your family. Much love, Darlene & Gale Heller
Mary Croci Gibadlo
November 27, 2016
Dear Phil & Michael,
My heart was broken when I heard the news of Sue's passing! Sue & I were dear friends in high school and college. Unfortunately, as life turns it's pages we lost touch through the years. I will always fondly remember "Penrod" as a the glowing energy we all
wanted to be around. Her soft spoken voice, beautiful smile and intelligence compared lightly to her huge heart. The World has most certainly lost the sparkle she created!
Much love & God's grace to all of you!
Mr & Mrs Brian Englert
November 27, 2016
Dear Phil, Michael & family,
Thinking of you during this difficult time. We'd like to extend our deepest sympathy to the entire family. So very sorry for your loss.
Sincerely with love, Brian & Cathy
George Murphy
November 27, 2016
Phil and Michael:
Very sorry to hear of Susan's passing. She will be in our prayers. Only great memories of Susan - My sympathies to all of the Villapiano family members.
Victoria McPeak
November 27, 2016
Dear Phil and family,
We are so sorry for your loss of Susan. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Fondly,
Tori and Brian McPeak
Vince Raine
November 27, 2016
Phil so sorry to hear about the loss of Susan. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Vince and Noelle Raine
November 27, 2016
Phil and family,
Our deepest sympathy on your loss - perhaps you can gain some comfort from the words of Cicero:
" The life given us by nature is short, but the memory of a life well spent is eternal"
Our thoughts and prayers are with you...
Keith and Joan Hancock
ANGELA MURPHY
November 27, 2016
DEAR PHIL & MICHAEL, WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.WE ONLY MET SUSAN A FEW TIMES BUT SHE WAS ALWAYS GRACIOUS & FRIENDLY.OUR THOUGHTS & PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. COUSINS; ANNIE;ANGELA & DAN;CHRIS & LYNN; MATT & DIANE FROM SPRINGFIELD.
November 27, 2016
DEAR PHIL & MICHAEL, WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.WE ONLY MET SUSAN A FEW TIMES BUT SHE WAS ALWAYS GRACIOUS & FRIENDLY. OUR THOUGHTS & PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. COUSINS;ANNIIE;ANGELA & DAN;CHRIS & LYNN;MATT & DIANE FROM SPRINGFIELD.
November 27, 2016
Phil and family, Sorry to hear of your loss of Susan. Our prayers go out to you and your family. Ken and Rita Schoeni
Bill McKenna
November 27, 2016
Phil, Michael and family. I'm sure the love and affection for not only Susan but your entire family will carry you forward. Susan was a woman of grace, elegance and class. Everyone who had the pleasure of meeting her saw those qualities from that initial meeting. All the McKenna family send their heartfelt sympathies to you all. She is at peace and will be surely missed but not forgotten.
William Centa
November 26, 2016
Phil and family!
Ver sorry to hear about passing of Susan. She was always ver gracious and welcoming when we came and visited John for family vents. She will be in our prayers!
Our deepes condolence cars to you and your family.
Bill anfpd Renee Centa
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November 26, 2016
Phil, Michael and family,
We are so sorry for your loss and we know she was the bright light in your lives. She will always hold a sprecial place in our hearts. We will keep all of you in our prayers......
Bob and Janice Shellman
William Centa
November 26, 2016
Phil and family,
Phill, my deepest condolences in the loss of Susan, she was always very gracious and welcoming when we came east to visit your your brother John. We will keep her and your family n our prayers.
May god bless.
Bill amend Renee Centa
Debra Reed (Racaniello)
November 26, 2016
To the family of Susan Villapiano,
I am very sorry to hear of Susan's passing. I'm deeply sorry for your loss. You have my sincerest sympathy. Susan was very kind to my sister Linda Sabat, when Linda was diagnosed with breast cancer. Susan extended herself, and was a true friend, teacher and support to my sister, which I appreciated, and for which I was truly thankful. Please accept my condolences. I pray your grieving is brief, and your loving memories of Susan linger forever.
November 26, 2016
Knew Sue from elementary school. Was a great friend of my sister, Nancy. She put up a good fight. Be restful in peace now.
November 26, 2016
Phil, Michael and family,
Our sincere condolences go out to you over the passing of your beloved Susan. She was an amazing and courageous women who fought so hard not only for herself but more so for the ones she loved so much. She will be truly missed and I know will be watching over all of us.
Chuck and Susanne Gianci and family.
November 26, 2016
Phil. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Susan. She was a fighter and gave this terrible disease the best fight she could. she will be missed. Love to you and Michael.
Doug and Arlene Gallagher
Dennis & Gina O'Keefe
November 26, 2016
Dear Phil & Family,
Please accept our deepest condolences. You are on our prayers.
Sincerely,
The O'Keefe family - Dennis, Gina (Morpurgo), Michael, Christian & Anna
Julie & Hugh Macwillam
November 26, 2016
Phil and Michael, I was so sorry to hear of Susan's passing. She holds a special place in my remembrance of our time living in Rumson and our work together in the PTO and the Education Foundation. I wish you peace in this time of grief.
Julie MacWilliam
November 26, 2016
Phil so sorry for your loss our prayer go out to you and family.
Bob and Fran Spence
Kelly Christen-Curatolo (Skripko)
November 26, 2016
To Phil, son & family I send my sincere condolences to you & your family & to your beautiful wife's family. May God guild you all with strength during this difficult time. Kelly Christen-Curatolo (Skripko)
Ken & Judy Grasso
November 26, 2016
So very sorry about your loss. Our most sincere condolences to your family.
Christina Quatrano
November 26, 2016
The comfort I can tell you is that as Susan is a Christian who loves Jesus, we will see her again in heaven. He made that all possible when He died on a cross to all who gives their life to Him. It does not end here.
Lori Burton-Admokom
November 25, 2016
To the Penrod and Villapiano families, So sorry for the loss of a beautiful daughter and sister, wife and mother. She was one of a kind and certainly will be missed. Praying for peace and love during this time of sadness.
November 25, 2016
So sorry for your loss. Susan was so helpful and comforting to me when I was diagnosed with Breast cancer. Susan caring and love for her family was truly something I will always remember. I enjoyed our time together to go see Dr. Fox, and all the encouraging talks. You family are in our thought and prayers
Sincerely, Lori & John Sickles
Stephanie Woolley
November 25, 2016
So very sorry Phil and Family for your loss. My heartfelt condolences for you all. Prayers
Robert Snyder
November 25, 2016
Phil and family
So sorry to hear of your loss, hope you will find the strength through your faith and the love of family and friends.
Bob Snyder
Holly and Dale Oehler
November 25, 2016
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. In time, may you find comfort in your memories and knowing she is at peace.
Robbin Shepley
November 25, 2016
Phil, Michael and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Susan was a beautiful and courageous woman who inspired so many people.
Sending prayers and hugs to all of you.
Robbin and Darwin Shepley
Tammy Gough
November 25, 2016
Villapiano and Penrod families.
My heart is broken to hear of the loss of Sue... or "Penrod" as she was affectionately referred to by her Theta friends. As her college friend, roommate and sorority sister... my heart and soul are filled with love and wonderful memories of my beautiful friend. My thoughts and prayers are with your families and I wish you peace in the pride of her legacy.
November 25, 2016
Phil, Michael and Family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. Our memories of Susan will be of a loving and courageous woman.
With sympathy and love,
Deanna Leake and family
Paul and Mary Jo Bilzor and family
Paul Dellaluna
November 25, 2016
DEAR PHIL, MICHAEL AND FAMILY, SUSAN AND
I WERE VERY SAD TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS . SHE WAS A BEAUTIFUL AND COURAGEOUS WOMAN. PLEASE ACCEPT OUR SINCERE CONDOLENCES. SUSAN AND PAUL DELLALUNA
Judge & Mrs Thomas Shebell Jr
November 25, 2016
Phil and family: we are so sorry for your loss. Hard to even imagine! Gus always said"life goes on, but it can be tough"
Bob Cecere
November 25, 2016
Phil, Michael, and Family,
Heartfelt thoughts to you all from all of the Cecere's. It was our pleasure to have Sue a part of our Rumson lives. We stand with you in honoring a great Lady.
Liz Swikart
November 25, 2016
Dear Phil, Michael and Family~
We are so very sad about the loss of Susan. She was one of the smartest people I ever met. An amazing combination of focused, fierce, gentle and incredibly kind. Her love for her "boys" always her center and you all gave her so much joy. Love and prayers, The Swikart Family
November 25, 2016
Phil and Michael, We are so devastated for
your loss. Susan was an amazing person who fought a courageous battle. May she rest in peace. Charlene and Angelo
John Bamberger
November 25, 2016
To All the Villapianos - I write these words with deep sadness and deep appreciation. Susan is a very special friend to all who were fortunate to know her. Today is Thanksgiving and I am so thankful to be able to say that Susan V Is part of my life. Phil is the toughest person I know. Phil told me a few weeks ago that Susan is the ultimate warrior. Susan is everything a person should be.
"B" Carr Mahon
November 24, 2016
Phil & Michael
My deepest sympathy to you both on the passing of Susan. She fought a great fight for sure and now she is at peace. Please know you are both in our thoughts and prayers during this sad time.
God Bless you guys and her entire family !
Lora Campbell
November 24, 2016
Dearest Phil and Michael. Our hearts are broken. Since our days working together for the Rumson Education Foundation, it was clear that Susan was truly dedicated to her family and any project in which she set her mind. Susan was so strong. She never complained. She was so proud of Michael . We pray for your strength during this very difficult time. Lora Joe Nick and Ryan Campbell
Lynn Crupi
November 24, 2016
Our hearts go out to all of you on the loss of sweet Susan.
You were the best neighbors we have ever had....such wonderful memories that will last in our hearts forever!
Love you, Lynn & Tony Crupi
Sandy & John Barry
November 24, 2016
Dear Phil and Michael, Our hearts are broken to hear about Susan. My children were sad as well. I explained to them that Susan was brave and courageous and God thought it would be best to give her rest and feel better in heaven. We are all praying for you and Michael. Please if there is anything you need, we are here for your family. With warm and tender thoughts The Barry Family...
Mick Kahler
November 24, 2016
My sincere condolences go out to all of Susan's loving family and many friends. I knew her as 'Sue' as we first met back in Duke Larson's sophomore World History class at York High School. After that, we would run into each other and exchange greetings in the school halls or at weekend parties. Sue was beyond smart, she was quietly wise and cool in the way that I and others admired. Her many professional and personal accomplishments come as no surprise to those of us who remember the soft voiced but witty and fun Sue Penrod. Over the years I would occasionally hear of the ups and downs of her life from Cindy Raymond who was a dear friend of hers since their days together at U of I. Cindy & I have been friends since the late 80's. She told me how great it was to see Sue when she came back to Illinois this past summer. The last time I saw her was at our 20th High School Reunion looking as pretty and together as ever. We shared some laughs and hugs and I'm left here remembering that time and all the fun we had back in that History class. Again, I wish all who knew Sue the best during this terribly sad time. And I feel bad for those who never got to know her, she was one of a kind!
November 23, 2016
Sweet Phil, you and Michael are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you all so much. We truly hope you find comfort in the memories of Susan's beautiful soul. May she rest in peace. Love Always, David, Joanie, Peter and Bridget Casey
November 23, 2016
To Susan's Family, My deepest sympathy. She fought a tough battle. My prayers are with you.
Iligene Anderson
November 23, 2016
Phil sorry to hear about Susan, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, she was a great woman.
Joann Rosamilia Beck
Mark Mitchell
November 23, 2016
Phil, I am so sorry to hear of Susan's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your son during this most difficult time.
Karen Pollard
November 23, 2016
Phil my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of grief.
VADM Ed and Chris Straw
November 23, 2016
Phil,
Until I met Susan, I thought you were the most courageous person I know. You and Michael are in our prayers. Please remember these words: "...one must wait until evening to see how splendid the day has been..." In this the evening of Susan's life, I believe all will conclude just how splendid her day has been.
With our love and friendship,
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