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Elizabeth Brock
November 30, 2009
Miss Ruth was one of the most remarkable women I've ever met, as well as a tremendous role model. She was such an important part of my entire life.  I am proud to be one of the many fortunate enough to call her "Teacher".  I will miss her very contemporary thoughts on the world.
All my sympathy and warm thoughts to her family.
Naomi Counter-Singleton
October 21, 2009
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
October 21, 2009
Ruth Dabney was my cousin, my friend, and someone whom I admired very much.  Her musical talents and abilities were great, and her enthusiasm for life was amazing.  She loved her daughters and their families and led a very long and happy life.  My sympathy is extended to all of her loved ones.
Killian Smith, Decatur, GA
Lisa Cameron (Ruth's accountant)
October 21, 2009
To Tamara and Ken and the rest of your family, my condolences on the loss of such a wonderful and talented lady. I will miss her telephone calls.
Sandy Blessinger
October 21, 2009
DeeDee,
Please accept my deepest sorrows for your lost. This is amazing, she sounds like she was a great lady!
I am sure she made an impact on your life and will be missed.
Take care of yourself! Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sue Ownbey
October 21, 2009
Dear Pattie - a funeral notice in the paper can bring many memories to mind.  My sister, Judie and I, lived next door to you on Dale Drive.  We were the Hayes sisters.  Judie reminded me that I still had some of your Nancy Drew books so we do go back a long way.  Your mother lived a very influential and beautiful life, giving much to many.  My prayers are with you and you family.
Sue Hayes Ownbey
Jane Wagner
October 21, 2009
Dee Dee,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Your stepmom seemed to be an outstanding lady and touched the lives of many with her love of people and music, and the passion to teach others. I believe she has passed those qualities onto you and may you find comfort in knowing a part of her will always be with you. God Bless
DEBBIE BROOKS
October 21, 2009
TO THE FAMILY, FRIENDS, STUDENTS AND MANY LOVE ONES OF RUTH DABNEY ALLEN, I SEND TO YOU MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES, I AM ALSO SENDING TO YOU ALL A MESSAGE FROM GODS WORD THE BIBLE, WE ARE TOLD AT ( REVELATION 21:3&4) THAT OUR HEAVENLY FATHER JEHOVAH IS GOING TO BE WITH US AND WE ARE GOING TO BE HIS PEOPLE AND HE IS GOING TO WIPE ALL THE TEARS FROM OUR EYE'S AND DEATH AND THE PAIN THAT WE SUFFER NOW WILL BE GONE FOREVER, FRIENDS ALL THAT MRS ALLEN HAS DONE FOR PEOPLE WITH HER MUSIC AND TALENTS WILL NOT BE FORGOTTON BY THOSE WHO LOVES HER SHE WAS A WONDERFUL LADY AND OUR FATHER JEHOVAH WILL NOT FORGET HER, OUR KING AND SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST, PROMISES US IN THE BIBLE AT ( JOHN 5:28&29) THAT THE DEAD WILL HEAR HIS VOICE AND COME OUT, THEY WILL BE RAISED FROM DEATH, WE ARE TAUGHT SO MUCH IN THE BIBLE IT IS A BOOK OF INSTURCTION AND GUIDANCE FROM OUR FATHER, WHEN WE READ THE BIBLE WE ARE READING GODS WORDS HE IS TALKING TO US, PLEASE FRIENDS READ YOUR BIBLE AND LISTEN TO HIM AFTER ALL WE PRAY TO HIM ALL THE TIME AND HE LISTENS TO US , PLEASE TAKE SOME TIME AND LISTEN TO HIM READ YOUR BIBLES HE WILL COMFORT YOU. YOUR FRIEND DEBBIE
Laurie Berger
October 20, 2009
Mrs. Allen gave me the gift of music and along with that grace, joy and beauty. She will always have a special place in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
irene constantinides
October 20, 2009
Ruth...a legend in Atlanta's musical life and history. The Atlanta Community Symphony Orchestra as well as members of ASO revered her.  I am among the many fortunate enough to have been in her company. A life well-lived. 
      With deepest sympathy to all 
            of her family,
            Irene Constantinides
Zack & Cathy Bazzle
October 20, 2009
Ruth was a wonderful lady she will always be remembered in our hearts
Marlana S. (Psalm 55:22)
October 20, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
KAREN HITCHCOCK & BETSY BLACKARD
October 20, 2009
To DeeDee & Wayne - we never met Ruth, but talked to her when she called for you here at the office. From everything you have ever said about her, she was an exceptional woman and one you loved very much. She had a long, full life and a very remarkable one. We are deeply sorry for your loss, but know that Ruth is with your dad once again.
joe and debbe wombwell
October 20, 2009
Please accept our deepest sympathies. I feel fortunate to have known such an exceptional woman who lived such a full life.
Naomi Counter-Singleton, (caregiver)
October 20, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
 Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
 Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
 That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
 God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
 It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
 God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not 	be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me. 
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
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