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Ruth Allen Obituary


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ALLEN, Ruth Dabney RUTH DABNEY ALLEN Ruth Dabney Smith Allen passed away peacefully Sunday evening, October 18, 2009. She was born September 25,1907 in Raleigh, N. C. to the late Ruth Heywood and Robert W. Smith. She was the widow of the late Roger Wolcott Allen to whom she was married for forty-four years. Ruth moved to Ansley Park in Atlanta at the age of eight and began studying piano; at ten she added the violin, an instrument that would shape her life and those of many pupils through seven decades of teaching. Ruth graduated from Washington Seminary in 1925 with an additional certificate in music and from the Atlanta Conservatory of Music in 1926 with a major in violin. During this time she had scholarships to study with Leon Sametini and Leopold Auer in Chicago. She earned her Bachelor of Music degree in violin performance from Syracuse University in 1934. During summers of the 1940's she studied at the Julliard School with Edoard Dethier and Louis Persinger and with Ivan Galamian at the The Meadowmount School of Music. Her teaching career began while she continued her studies: she taught piano at North Avenue Presbyterian School from 1925 -1934 and opened her private violin and viola studio in 1925. She taught violin at Washington Seminary in the mid-1930's, at Agnes Scott College from 1942-1950 and at Brevard Music Center during the summers from 1950 to 1957. She and her husband later built a summer home in Brevard which she named "Fiddlesticks." Ruth was an integral part of the South's twentieth century musical development. During the 1930's she was the concertmaster of the Atlanta Philharmonic Orchestra and she soloed with Enrico Leide and the Buckhead Summer Symphony. In 1958 she was a founder of the Atlanta Community Orchestra and served as its concertmaster for three years. During the 1960's she served in both the Savannah, Georgia and Jacksonville, Florida symphonies. Ruth served as president of Mu Phi Epsilon and as vice president of the Atlanta Music Club. She was an active member of the Thursday Morning Music Club. In 1979 she was chosen as the String Teacher of the Year by the Georgia Chapter of the American String Teachers Association. Ruth's legacy continues with former students now performing in the Atlanta, Baltimore, Boston and London Symphonies. Others teach and perform around the world. Ruth was an exceptional person who was easy to love. While focused on her career and possessing a superior intellect, she was engaged in all aspects of her life. She was a devoted friend to many and a wonderful step-mother to her three step-daughters who survive her, Pattie AIIen Bock, Tamara Allen Bazzle (Ken) and DeeDee Allen Burton (Wayne). She is also survived by her six grandsons, Richard W. Bock, M.D. (Jennifer), G. Steven Bock (Suzanne), Douglas H. Bock (Charlotte), Tyler Oxford, Hunter Oxford (Liang Yeh), and Clayton Bazzle. She is also survived by five great-grandchildren and her cousins Toni Long of Jacksonville, IN and Killian and Tom Smith of Atlanta. Ruth joined First Presbyterian Church of Atlanta in 1915 and served into her nineties as the concertmaster of its St. Cecilia Consort. Her memorial service will be held at First Presbyterian in the Chapel on Wednesday, October 21 at 11:30 a. m. with a reception following in the Berean Room. Graveside Services will be private. In Lieu of flowers donation may be made to First Presbyterian Church Atlanta music Club or Mu Phi Epsilon music sorority.

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution from Oct. 20 to Oct. 21, 2009.

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Elizabeth Brock

November 30, 2009

Miss Ruth was one of the most remarkable women I've ever met, as well as a tremendous role model. She was such an important part of my entire life. I am proud to be one of the many fortunate enough to call her "Teacher". I will miss her very contemporary thoughts on the world.
All my sympathy and warm thoughts to her family.

Naomi Counter-Singleton

October 21, 2009

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

October 21, 2009

Ruth Dabney was my cousin, my friend, and someone whom I admired very much. Her musical talents and abilities were great, and her enthusiasm for life was amazing. She loved her daughters and their families and led a very long and happy life. My sympathy is extended to all of her loved ones.

Killian Smith, Decatur, GA

Lisa Cameron (Ruth's accountant)

October 21, 2009

To Tamara and Ken and the rest of your family, my condolences on the loss of such a wonderful and talented lady. I will miss her telephone calls.

Sandy Blessinger

October 21, 2009

DeeDee,
Please accept my deepest sorrows for your lost. This is amazing, she sounds like she was a great lady!
I am sure she made an impact on your life and will be missed.
Take care of yourself! Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sue Ownbey

October 21, 2009

Dear Pattie - a funeral notice in the paper can bring many memories to mind. My sister, Judie and I, lived next door to you on Dale Drive. We were the Hayes sisters. Judie reminded me that I still had some of your Nancy Drew books so we do go back a long way. Your mother lived a very influential and beautiful life, giving much to many. My prayers are with you and you family.

Sue Hayes Ownbey

Jane Wagner

October 21, 2009

Dee Dee,

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Your stepmom seemed to be an outstanding lady and touched the lives of many with her love of people and music, and the passion to teach others. I believe she has passed those qualities onto you and may you find comfort in knowing a part of her will always be with you. God Bless

DEBBIE BROOKS

October 21, 2009

TO THE FAMILY, FRIENDS, STUDENTS AND MANY LOVE ONES OF RUTH DABNEY ALLEN, I SEND TO YOU MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES, I AM ALSO SENDING TO YOU ALL A MESSAGE FROM GODS WORD THE BIBLE, WE ARE TOLD AT ( REVELATION 21:3&4) THAT OUR HEAVENLY FATHER JEHOVAH IS GOING TO BE WITH US AND WE ARE GOING TO BE HIS PEOPLE AND HE IS GOING TO WIPE ALL THE TEARS FROM OUR EYE'S AND DEATH AND THE PAIN THAT WE SUFFER NOW WILL BE GONE FOREVER, FRIENDS ALL THAT MRS ALLEN HAS DONE FOR PEOPLE WITH HER MUSIC AND TALENTS WILL NOT BE FORGOTTON BY THOSE WHO LOVES HER SHE WAS A WONDERFUL LADY AND OUR FATHER JEHOVAH WILL NOT FORGET HER, OUR KING AND SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST, PROMISES US IN THE BIBLE AT ( JOHN 5:28&29) THAT THE DEAD WILL HEAR HIS VOICE AND COME OUT, THEY WILL BE RAISED FROM DEATH, WE ARE TAUGHT SO MUCH IN THE BIBLE IT IS A BOOK OF INSTURCTION AND GUIDANCE FROM OUR FATHER, WHEN WE READ THE BIBLE WE ARE READING GODS WORDS HE IS TALKING TO US, PLEASE FRIENDS READ YOUR BIBLE AND LISTEN TO HIM AFTER ALL WE PRAY TO HIM ALL THE TIME AND HE LISTENS TO US , PLEASE TAKE SOME TIME AND LISTEN TO HIM READ YOUR BIBLES HE WILL COMFORT YOU. YOUR FRIEND DEBBIE

Laurie Berger

October 20, 2009

Mrs. Allen gave me the gift of music and along with that grace, joy and beauty. She will always have a special place in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

irene constantinides

October 20, 2009

Ruth...a legend in Atlanta's musical life and history. The Atlanta Community Symphony Orchestra as well as members of ASO revered her. I am among the many fortunate enough to have been in her company. A life well-lived.
With deepest sympathy to all
of her family,
Irene Constantinides

Zack & Cathy Bazzle

October 20, 2009

Ruth was a wonderful lady she will always be remembered in our hearts

Marlana S. (Psalm 55:22)

October 20, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

KAREN HITCHCOCK & BETSY BLACKARD

October 20, 2009

To DeeDee & Wayne - we never met Ruth, but talked to her when she called for you here at the office. From everything you have ever said about her, she was an exceptional woman and one you loved very much. She had a long, full life and a very remarkable one. We are deeply sorry for your loss, but know that Ruth is with your dad once again.

joe and debbe wombwell

October 20, 2009

Please accept our deepest sympathies. I feel fortunate to have known such an exceptional woman who lived such a full life.

Naomi Counter-Singleton, (caregiver)

October 20, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

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