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Mary Tucker Obituary

TUCKER, Mary Margaret nee Cook -- A lifelong resident (except for a brief, mid-1920s stay in Nevada) of the greater San Francisco and Monterey Bay area, died from complications related to esophageal cancer, at her home in Watsonville, CA, at about 1:45 a.m. Sunday, August 31st, 2003. Her daughter, Sharon Spellman, (aka Gordon) and her grandson, Thomas Spellman (aka Milner) were both with her at time of death. Funeral services have been previously held on September 12, 2003 at OAK HILL FUNERAL HOME. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to your local Wild Life Rescue or Restoration organization to Hospice, or to another charity of your choosing. Born the only daughter of Earl Roy and Margaret Cook nee Storey, in Oakland, CA, on May 7th, 1923, and baptized at Oakland's St. Francis de Sales, Mary Margaret (called Midge by many of her closest friends) moved to San Jose in 1932, with her now-deceased mother and brother, Margaret and Francis Cook, respectively. During her 60 years of residence in Santa Clara Valley, Mary Margaret was employed for 47 years of her life in a variety of Santa Clara Valley businesses. When about 15 years old, (about 1938) one of the first places Mary Margaret was employed, was at a coffee and sandwich shop, "with a pin-ball machine in the corner," located next to where the main San Jose City Library currently stands, and across from the old Hotel St. Claire, at San Carlos and Market streets. A few years later, after turning down an opportunity to embark on a professional roller-skating exhibition tour of Europe, and after completing courses at Healds Business College, Mary Margaret became employed by a number of other Santa Clara County businesses. As a young working mother, Mary Margaret worked in the offices of the Rosicrucians; Western Electric Company; International Paper Company; New York Life Insurance Company; and Memorex. At various other periods of her working life, Mary Margaret owned her own dry-cleaning business, was an office manager for Ann Darling Bowl, was a saleswoman for Sarah Coventry Jewelry, and, during WWII, worked briefly at a Moffett Field-based dry cleaners, where she once got to meet actor Jimmy Stewart, when he came in to claim his Army uniform. Mary Margaret retired from her most recent employer, Edwards Wood Products, in about 1993, shortly after moving to Watsonville, in about 1991. Besides her brief, childless, late-in-life marriage to Mr. Robert Tucker, Mary Margaret was also married twice before: First, for about 5 years, to Patrick Dominick Spellman, a current resident of Escondido, California, and then to now-deceased Robert Raymond Gordon, for about 30 years. Mary Margaret is survived by her three children: Sharon Kathleen nee Spellman (aka nee Gordon), resident of Nevada City, CA; Robert Michael Gordon, resident of Watsonville, CA; and Charles Victor Gordon, III, a resident of Kalispell, Montana. Mary Margaret is also survived by her four grandchildren: Corey Heller nee Spellman, Thomas Spellman (aka Milner), Steven Gordon, and Stacy Gordon. Mary's great grandchildren are Jenna, Alex, Tyler and Grace Ann Gordon; and Patrick and Christoph Heller. In addition to her love, care for, and support of her family, friends and pets, some of Mary Margaret's other interests and hobbies included, over her life-time, square-dancing, bowling, golfing, leather-work, ceramics, sewing, gardening, cross-word-puzzles, and membership in the fraternal/social organizations, N.D.G.W., Vendome Parlor, and in the Kappa Mu Chapter of Epsilon Sigma Alpha. Inurnment at Oak Hill Memorial Park, 300 Curtner Ave., in San Jose.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News on Sep. 9, 2003.

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Back Row: Leticia, Steve, Thomas, Mike, Lynn, Corey, Rainer & you (Mary Margaret). Front Row: Grandma, me (Sharon)

Sharon Spellman

February 21, 2007

Found the photo. It was on the beginning of a pre-dgital camera roll of film, that wasn't developed 'till after Grandma Gordon's 100th year birthday party. It's Christmas 2000, when the septic tank got plugged up, about the time Christmas dinner was close to be served, and everyone was outside working on it. But, working together, we got it fixed, just in time to sit down and eat dinner together.

Sharon Spellman (AKA Gordon)

February 21, 2007

Grandma Gordon died a few weeks ago, on Jan 26th. Mike, Lynn and I have been taking care of the arrangements since she died. She'll be at Oakhill with you, but in the same gravesite with Grandpa Gordon and Robert. A memorial service, with an Episcopal priest, Paster Bowman, and a special ceremony by Native Daughters' Vendome Parlor at the Great Mausoleum will be held on Friday the 23rd. Liz was taking care of grandma, at Liz and Tess's home in Grass Valley, for the past couple of years, after Liz left her nursing job at Highgate. Thomas and I visited grandma at Liz's every couple of months. Wish we'd visited more often. Thomas and I also visit Steve, Leticia and their two little ones, in Reno, every few months, and still visit Corey, Rainer and our/their three beloved little ones, in Seattle, about 5 or 6 times a year. We also manage one or two trips a year to visit Patrick Sr's family in Southern Calif. and usually stop and visit at Mike and Lynn's on the way. We love you and miss you and wish you were still here with us! (Was going to add a Thanks-giving or Christmas photo I just looked at the other day, of all of us around our table here: You, grandma, Steve & Leticia, Mike, Lynn, Corey and Rainer, but haven't found it yet.)

Sharon Spellman

September 24, 2003

An "Everlasting Memorial" to my mother, Mary Margaret nee Cook, may be viewed, and tributes may be added to it, at Oakhill Funeral Home, or at website address, http://mem.com/display/Biography.asp?id=345486 , or by contacting me.

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