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Phillip Formel Obituary

LENOX - Phillip A. Formel, the patriarch of the Formel family in Berkshire County, and a well-known general contractor, passed away at his home in Lenox on Thursday, March 17th, 2011.
Phillip Adrian Formel was born January 28th, 1923, in Pittsfield, son of Fernando Augustus Formel and Lillian Smithson Formel. His father died when Phillip was just 4 years old, and he was raised by his mother, Lillian. He was a devout Roman Catholic and worshipped at St Mark's church where he was an altar boy for many years. He attended Pittsfield Public Elementary schools, and St. Joseph High School, where he was quarterback on the football team and graduated in 1941. Despite a burning desire to better himself, he had little hope of attending college because of financial reasons, and began working at the GE immediately after graduating. When World War II broke out, he enlisted in the Horse Cavalry, which still existed at the start of the War. As a boy, he had worked on horse farms and as a goalie judge for the local Pittsfield Horse Polo team, which explained his interest in the Horse Cavalry. Shortly after he joined the Calvary, it was disbanded and he was reassigned to the Army Postal Service in Alaska. His duties there kept him on the road for many days at a time as a liaison to the outlying post offices, and he was full of stories about traveling through what at that time was really a frontier. He was accepted into the Army Engineering school and attended Texas A&M, Manhattan College and Siena College, until the engineering program was abandoned and he was assigned to the 69th Infantry and was shipped to England in 1944. From England he was sent to France during the Battle of the Bulge, and from there pushed continuously through France, Belgium and Germany, participating, in amongst others, the Battle for Liepzig. He was proud of his service, and thankful for and took advantage of the opportunity to go to college after the War.
Upon returning to the states, he married his high school sweetheart, Norma Haskins, beginning a lifelong love affair, and they moved to Lansing, MI, where he graduated from Michigan State as a Mechanical Engineer, in 1950. The young couple moved back to the Berkshires and had a house built on Barker Road in Pittsfield, where they began their family, which produced 15 children.
After a short stint with National Radiator, and several years with Pittsfield General Electric, he began, with his cousin, a General Construction firm, based in Pittsfield. His projects were generally highly technical industrial jobs. In 1959, the company moved to Mayaguez, Puerto Rico, where he built a nuclear test reactor at the University of Mayaguez, and a salt water reactor for the government in Rincon. He returned to the United States in 1960, bought out his cousin, and built a construction and metal fabrication yard in Housatonic in 1962. During this time, he took on the civic duty of being the Building Inspector in Lenox, and put the town's building code in place.
He kept close ties with Puerto Rico, and in 1974, again moved to Puerto Rico and continued his construction business there, performing primarily industrial and commercial construction. In 1981, together with some of his children, he began an interisland Maritime Shipping firm, owning and operating his own cargo ships. He left Puerto Rico in 1995 and returned to Lenox where he built two houses for himself and a number of condominiums in Lenox, as light work during his "retirement" years. He also had a house built in Homestead, Fla. where he and Norma resided.
He was a devout communicant at St Ann's Church in Lenox.
He was a brilliant, loving and serious man, and left a large footprint on our Earth. He will be missed by all who had the chance to know him.
He is survived by his wife, Norma Haskins Formel of Lenox, his 15 children, Michael Albert of Columbus, MS, Stephen Fernando of Claverack, NY, Phillip A. Jr. of Homestead, FL, Eugenie Formel of Becket, Shaun Joseph of Searcy, AR, Ann Frances Formel of North Chatham, NY, Mark Anselm of Great Barrington, Norma Frances Formel of York, PA, Kristina Marie Burkhart of Averill Park, NY, Brian Damian of Great Barrington, Richard Murray of Gainesville, FL, Paul Gilbert of Geneva, FL, Mary Formel Woodger of Stockbridge, Fernanda Meagher of Piedmont, CA, and Matthew James Joseph of New Orleans, LA.; 60 grandchildren, and 20 great-grandchildren.
He was predeceased by his parents and his four siblings, Eugenie Phillips of Pittsfield, Dr. Paul Formel of Albany, NY, John Formel of Chicago, Il, and Robert Formel of Peachtree, GA.
FUNERAL NOTICE: The funeral will be Monday morning at 10 am from the ROCHE FUNERAL HOME followed by a Liturgy of Christian Burial at 11 celebrated by the Rev. Christopher J. Waitekus, pastor. Burial will follow in St. Ann's Cemetery. Calling hours at the funeral home are Sunday from 1-4.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Mr. Formel's memory may be made to the Massachusetts Audubon Society in care of the funeral home, 120 Main Street, Lenox, MA 01240.

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle from Mar. 19 to Mar. 20, 2011.

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Dean R White

March 13, 2024

Poppy & Ma , it's been a long time and you both are very missed by all who loved you , Mtn Man / [email protected]

DEANO

March 13, 2022

poppy and Ma god bless you , Ma don't know if you know but the other half of the Mtn man team died "Andy" https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/berkshire/obituary.aspx?n=andrew-wood&pid=181285405&fhid=4866

Tee Rubin

March 14, 2021

Thoughts & Prayers for the loss of Phillip My deepest Sympathy goes out to the Formel Family

dean r white

March 13, 2021

another year and another beer , GOD bless poppy

d r white

March 15, 2020

Poppy an Ma , gone but not forgotten GOD bless

Deano

March 13, 2019

GOD bless you Sir and Ma , you are missed / Mtn Man

April 6, 2011

Fernanda and all the family. We are so sorry you had to lose your father, but I think he'll always be watching over you. He sounds like an amazing man. Our prayers are with you all.
Love, Steven, Rita , Liza, Kristen, Scott and Robert

thompson kara and jr

April 2, 2011

So sorry for the loss you all have endured. Losing a loved one is never easy but knowing he is in a better place I hope is comforting to you. Uncle Shaun my I am here if I can do anything for you, I love you and Im sorry you had to say goodbye to your Dad for now....May Gob bring you all peace and comfort

Shawn Bostrom

March 29, 2011

With sympathies and prayers for the entire Formel family and for Phillip, as well. I did not know Phillip--but I do know his Son, Stephen, and knowing what an awesome person he is, is certainly a fine reflection on his parents. So sorry for your huge loss, Stephen. You know my heart goes out to you and your family.

March 28, 2011

Dear Aunt Norma and Cousins,
My thoughts are with all of you at this difficult time. I will always remember Uncle Phil as a kind and patient man. He shared stories at my father's funeral that were new to me,and meant so very much. What an amazing group of siblings.
Warmly.
Michele Formel

Yvonne Formel

March 28, 2011

Dearest Aunt Norma & Cousins – A wonderfully written obituary for Uncle Paul. I learned many things about him that I never knew before. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Best regards,

March 24, 2011

Mark,Brian and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Marie Cook(and the kids)

Bert Haskins

March 23, 2011

Aunt Norma and cousins, I will always remember visiting your family on Barker Road with my father as I was growing up.
I am sorry for your loss; Uncle Phil was a loving man and may he be at peace.

March 23, 2011

Dear Aunt Norma and cousins, What a wonderful, moving, poignant and respectful celebration of Uncle Phil's life we all experienced this past week! Well done! He was truly a remarkable, loving and loyal man, and I will always remember him with great love. It was, as always, great to see everyone in your family in spite of the circumstances which drew us together. Love, Rosanne...and Michael, Noah and Celie too.

Elizabeth Crandall

March 23, 2011

Mary and Girls and the Formel Family,
So sorry to hear of the loss of such a great man and role model. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love the Crandall's Betsy, Joe, Avis and Janice

Linda Grant

March 22, 2011

Ann and Family, I never met your Dad But knowing you I know he was a wonderful, Loving and Blessed Family Man.
you are in my prayers.

dean r white

March 21, 2011

l,m truly sorry l missed this / god bless

Mountain Man Deano

March 21, 2011

Dear A. Norma and cousins,

I am so sorry for your loss. I recently came across a photo of U. Phil and A. Norma at my Nursing Graduation. At the time, I appreciated their sharing my day and remember their kindness. Although I was unable to attend his Mass, he will be in my prayers. Fondly, Sharry (Haskins) Zepko

Michele T Sisak

March 21, 2011

Ann and family:
While I did not know your father, his obituary conveys the image of a vibrant and loving man. It is never easy losing a parent. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May God hold you all in the palm of his hand

Kristen Bercury Wampler

March 21, 2011

Dear Norma and family,

So sorry to hear of your loss.
You are in my thoughts during this difficult time.

Fr. Daniel B. Brunton

March 21, 2011

To Norma and all the Formel Family:
As I read & reread (online) Phil's obit.
(much of which I already knew) I began to think that each & everyday of his long life, he wrote his own (key to happiness in Heaven) obit. He was such a Faithfilled man, not ashamed to practice that Faith openly for others to see & imitate. Seeing the beautiful couple at Mass each am, I was touched by the way they lived out the Sacrament of Matrimony,each & every day in St. Ann Curch in Lenox. I remember (vividlly) the morning that I did not have an altar server. After Mass Norma told me that it was a logtime wish of hers (since her sons could serve Mass, but not her girls!) to one day serve at the altar. Since the Deacon was not going to be there the next am, I invited her to join me as my Server. She came to the Sacristy before Mass, helped put things out for Mass, and served! After Mass when we went back to the Sacristy, she jumped in the air, clicked her heels together, and told me that one of her dreams had just been fulfilled! I still tell the girls & new servers that story of the privilege to serve on the altar. Phil & Norma's life are a testimony of Faith in action for all to see. (Her 2nd wish was to be onstage someday! Maybe Broadway, or Tanglewood, I often wonder if she had her 2nd wish granted, or was the 1st enough to to satisfy her?) I know that Phil is now at peace in the hands of the Lord that he served so well. Unfortunately I cannot attend the Wake or Funeral, but I will celebrate a Mass for Phil and the intentions of the family he loved so much. Phil, may you Rest in Peace, until we can all be together someday. With Prayers & Sympathy, Fr. Dan Brunton

March 21, 2011

So sorry for the loss of Uncle Phil. Work is keeping me from being able to attend the funeral. Missed the wake due to my job also. You all are in my prayers and heart at this time of loss. Take care to all of you, God Bless. Maureen Magner Brodeur~

Lenox Police Department

March 21, 2011

Please accept our sincere condolences at the passing of Mr. Formel. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.

sandy

March 20, 2011

prayers during this difficult time. i had the pleasure, via the lee vna, of working both with your mom and dad. and truly a blessing for me!

March 20, 2011

Richard, Donna and family, your Deland family is praying for you and your family during this sad time. Your dad's name was read at mass this morning.
We love you,
Jean Williams

March 20, 2011

We were great admirers of Phil & are sorry to hear of his loss to his amazing family. Working with him to build us a lovely home was a pleasure & getting to know him even more so.
Gail & Leonard Silverman

March 20, 2011

Sorry to hear of your loss,we have many fond memories of Uncle Phil. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. Love, Bridget and Chris Stanton

Tom Filippini

March 20, 2011

My sincere condolences to the Formel family. Stephen, Mark and Brian, I only wish I had known your dad.

Alan Hebert

March 20, 2011

Mark: Sorry to hear about your pops. Love you buddy.

fjohn reinke (mc1968)

March 20, 2011

The Manhattan College alumni community shares the grief, and is now praying for our fellow attendee and the family at this time. Attendees are recognized on the theory "if it's important to some to mention in an obit, then we can spare a few prayers". Perhaps, the time at MC was both formative and important to our comrade. The Alumni Office has been informed. As well as the Jasper Jottings community that I personally can reach. We are all a little poorer now. "No man is an island, entire of itself ... any man's death diminishes me". We are sorry for your loss.

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