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Matthew Bennett Fitting IthacaMatthew B. Fitting, 31, passed away peacefully in his sleep during the early morning hours of September 19 at his home in Ithaca. Matt was born in Utica. He graduated from Christian Brothers Academy in Albany where he wrestled, and won several awards in his weight class. He played varsity soccer at CBA during all of his high school years. In 2009, Matt graduated from Hudson Valley Community College with highest academic honors. A student at Ithaca College, soon to complete his degree in exercise science, Matt was also a full-time employee of Lowe's in Ithaca. Matt was a gifted writer and artist, as well. Matt was a lover of the simple life and nature. He was never happier than when he was climbing up or diving off a gorge, swimming, hiking, fishing or camping. Animals also held a special place in Matt's heart. He especially loved his dogs, Busta, Wolfgang, and Shorty. The rock group, Further, an outcropping of the Grateful Dead, could view Matt in the audience during many of their concerts, as he was an ardent fan. Matt is survived by his parents, Gordon and Susan Fitting of Delmar; his aunt, Martha Bennett of Cicero; and his uncles, John and David Fitting of Columbiaville. He also leaves behind several great-aunts, great-uncles, and cousins; and several cherished friends. Matt's family and friends were precious to him. Matt was predeceased by his paternal grandparents, John and Mildred Fitting, and his maternal grandparents, Donald and June Bennett. The family would like to send special thanks to Dr. James D. Chang, Matthew's cardiologist, mentor, and champion. For those who prefer an alternative to flowers, a memorial contribution in Matthew's memory may be made toward Dr. James D. Chang's heart research. Donations can be sent on line, bidmc.org/giving, or checks can be sent to the following address: Office of Development Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center, 330 Brookline Avenue, (BR ) Boston, MA 02215. Checks can be made payable to Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center (BIDMC), with a notation, In Memory of Matthew Fitting. Calling hours will be held from 5 until 8 p.m. on Sunday, September 23, at the Bond Funeral Home in Valatie. His funeral will take place on Monday, September 24 at 11 a.m. at the Trinity United Methodist Church on Joslen Boulevard in Hudson.

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Published by Boston Globe on Sep. 22, 2012.

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Mary Sheevers

September 15, 2025

I´ll always remember the sound of your skateboard with that handsome smile on your face to the delight of all of the children (and their folks) as you rolled home. Forever loved, forever missed.

Mary and Harry

September 15, 2022

Always in our Hearts.

Janet and Brian Howard

October 12, 2012

Dear Gordon and Susan,

We were so sorry to learn of Matthew's death. There are really no words to tell you how sorry we are for your loss. Our thoughts are with you.

October 6, 2012

Mr.and Mrs.Fitting..
You have our unyielding support in your time of sorrow. Our prayers go out to you.
Laura,Greg and Bekah Manzi

October 2, 2012

My heart goes out to the family of Matthew Fitting. Although I had only met him a few occassions and I knew his father and from everything I have heard on here and everything I know about his father I feel safe on betting Matt was a nice and decent man taken by a flawed world before his time. Its hard to offer any word that might be comforting to the family but if it helps at all I believe Matt is with God now and at peace. This is only goodbye for now, you will see him again. He will never really die as long as his memory remains in your hearts. God bless

Jeremy Arenos

September 25, 2012

Dear Gordon and Susan,
I'm so saddened to hear of Matt's passing. He is a special person and will always be a great friend. Matt and I had truly great times years ago. I have so many wonderful memories of Matt and both of you, and I am so grateful for his time here with us. I will miss him.
Jeremy

September 25, 2012

Dear Susan and Gordon: We are so very, very sorry to hear about Matthew... We always loved having Matt over at our house in Slingerlands and enjoyed many wonderful times with him, including CBA functions, birthday parties, drives in the car. He is in our prayers and in our hearts. We are just so shocked..... Love, Greg Devine and Mom, Rosemarie Devine Scalzi, Wilton, Ct.

September 24, 2012

Mr. and Mrs. Fitting,

We just learned of the untimely passing of your wonderful son, Matthew, who we remember as a charming and happy young boy in the Bethlehem Soccer Club. Our hearts go out to you.

The Corrigans

September 24, 2012

I'm very sorry for your loss. I worked at Lowe's with Matt, and he made a very positive impression with customers and coworkers alike.

Kim Azaceta

September 23, 2012

You will be missed.

Debi Ryan

September 22, 2012

Mrs. Fitting - so sorry to read of your sons passing. While I've never met him, I'm sure he was a wonderful young man. You flourished so many minds through Scotia Glenville's Fine Arts program for so many years,that I'm sure you raised a very kind hearted son. Thinking of you at this time. Bill, Debi & Kaiti Ryan

Sharon Siegel

September 22, 2012

Dear Susan -
I am so very sorry to hear about your son Matt. May your memories of his smile and good times replace the sorrow.

September 22, 2012

Gordon & Susan -- We were saddened to hear of Matthew's passing. You have been in our thoughts the past few days. May your memories of joyous times with him make you smile despite the sorrow in your hearts. Linda and Harold Noble

Barbara and Jerry Klein

September 22, 2012

Dear Susan and Gordon...although no words can help ease your loss, know that our hearts go out to you at this most difficult time.

Carol Hargis

September 22, 2012

Sending our deepest condolences from The Hargis Family, Chatham, NY.

Nancy Nielsen

September 22, 2012

I just met Matt official on Tuesday at Lowes. I am a cashier there also and I was so impressed by his smile and kindness. He introduced himself to me and extended his hand to shake mine. I told him that I'm not good with names and may forget his.....he said, "oh you won't, I'm unforgettable"
I was sadend and shocked to hear of his passing. I was looking forward to working with such a nice young man. My heart goes out to his family. May the memory of his common kindness lift your spirits at this time of sorrow.

Janice Gradel

September 21, 2012

My heart goes out to Matt's family. He was such a warm wonderful person. He will be missed at Lowe's. May he rest in peace.

Marianne Mankad

September 21, 2012

Dear Gordon and Susan I remember Matt coming to my house when he was little. He was such a wonderful boy and looks like he grew up a fine young man, My deepest sympathy to you both at this most difficult time.Marianne and Dhimant Mankad

Theresa & Owen Johnson

September 21, 2012

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. We have wonderful memories from his time at CBA.

Frank and Jean Tuccillo

September 21, 2012

We are deeply saddened by Matthew's passing. We remember a cute, active and funny little boy who lived across the street in New Hartford. Our heart go out to Susan and Gordon.

Faith Gimzek

September 21, 2012

We'll miss you, Matt. Earth lost and the universe gained a man with a kind soul and joyful spirit. RIP.

Dennis Clarke

September 21, 2012

We have lost a wonderful person, and a great friend. You will be missed.

Steve and Peggie Constantino

September 21, 2012

Gordon and Susan,
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Matthew's passing. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

marlene countermine

September 21, 2012

Dear Gordon and Susan:
I am so sorry to hear of Matt's passing. I very much enjoyed his company when Brad and he played soccer at CBA. I hope you can find comfort through your wonderful times with him.
Marlene Countermine

Michael & Miriam

September 21, 2012

We are heartbroken at the profound loss you suffer at Matthew's passing. We know how you stood by him always, offering your all: your hearts and souls. No words can convey our sorrow at the death of your dear son.

Jack Devine

September 21, 2012

Gordon and Susan, we are so sad to hear of Matt's passing and so sorry for your loss. He was a joy to be around and very special to our son, Greg. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Beth McCarthy

September 21, 2012

Mattthew's determination and joyful spirit was an example to us all.

Calvin Chestnut

September 21, 2012

Never have I met someone as warm and kind as Matt. He was always such a positive person, a true friend to everyone he met.

Sarah Landers

September 21, 2012

Thinking of you my thoughts and prayers are with you always.

Mary Sheevers

September 20, 2012

His smile and his warm greetings will always be remembered and greatly missed. He was genuine and wonderful. God Bless you all.

The Sheevers Family.

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