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John Randolph Ingram MYRTLE BEACH - John Randolph Ingram, 83, a lawyer and North Carolina public servant, passed away on January 6, 2013, in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. John was born June 12th, 1929 in Greensboro, North Carolina. John graduated from Asheboro High School as an honor graduate and co-captain of the football team. He graduated from his beloved University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, first in his accounting class, member of Beta Gamma Sigma, Business Administration Graduate, and was inducted into Phi Beta Kappa. In 1954 he received his Doctor of Law Degree, was a member of the UNC Law Review, and President of his Law Class. He was a Life Loyal Sig of the Sigma Chi Fraternity. In 1955, John volunteered and was commissioned a First Lieutenant following the Korean War in the military tradition footsteps of his brother and his father. As a Judge Advocate General (JAG) Officer he prosecuted a Second Lieutenant at Fort Benning, Georgia, for assault, which almost caused a miscarriage of the female victim. The Defendant was sentenced to a dismissal and confinement for two years. He successfully defended, as appointed counsel, two sergeants who allegedly falsified their security clearance applications for "Top Secret", during the Senator Joe McCarthy hysteria, which was used to reduce our Armed Forces; one sergeant was a Lt. Col. at Anzio Beachhead , where he was awarded the Silver Star and retired at pay grade of Lt. Colonel. The other sergeant, one week before graduating from OCS, was summarily removed without a due process hearing from graduation by a Colonel, who told him the Army did not want any Communists in the Army Corp. Civilian counsel, and Ingram, as appointed counsel, successfully proved to his Board that the Colonel was a loyal American, and according to a full- Colonel witness, who had been in charge of food and quarters as a first lieutenant, the defendant could have retired as a Colonel had he been granted a due process hearing during WWII. Ingram proved beyond a reasonable doubt that this Sergeant was a loyal American. Additionally, Ingram was a life member of the Disabled American Veterans. John was a member of several religious and professional affiliations including, Asheboro Kiwanis Club, Chamber of Commerce, Heart Fund (Chairman), Director of Exceptional Children, 60 year Mason, (Past Master), Shriner, United Methodist, Sunday School Teacher, Certified Lay Speaker, NC Bar Association, Chairman Young Lawyers Section, State President of the Conference of Local Bar Presidents, and a member of the Sons of the American Revolution. Ingram practiced law in Randolph County and was honored as a North Carolina State Bar Member for over 50 years. He was elected to the NC State House of Representatives as the only Democrat ever elected from the Randolph-Montgomery House District and served in the 1971 session of the North Carolina General Assembly. During his term, Ingram Introduced House Bill 736, for North Carolina as the 37th state to ratify the 26th Amendment to the United States Constitution giving 18 year olds the right to vote. He Introduced House Bill 1414, establishing the State Zoo in Randolph County. Additionally he Co-signed the Absentee Primary Ballot Bill, helped end discrimination against Sickle Cell Trait carriers, voted to protect the rights of newborn infants in insurance discrimination, fought for smaller classroom size to insure quality education, and voted for a balanced state budget. In 1972, John Ingram was elected North Carolina Insurance Commissioner. While in office he created a statewide Consumer Hotline helping citizens across the state. While in office, North Carolina became the First state to abolish the Assigned Risk, to abolish age and sex discrimination in auto insurance, and the first State in America to create a Special Office for the Handicapped. His staff designed the blue and white handicapped parking signs that are now seen across the globe. Under Ingram's direction, his Fire and Rescue Department, became the first state to require smoke detectors in all new homes, and required energy-saving insulation. He was instrumental in bringing competition to Worker's Compensation insurance for employers, saving millions. Ingram won over $20 million dollars in settlements for North Carolina tobacco farmers for contaminated fertilizer claims. He Helped form and license malpractice insurance companies after recommending the same to the North Carolina Medical Society and North Carolina Bar Association then formed their own mutual malpractice insurance companies in order to create competition in malpractice insurance; again, first in America. In 1978, Ingram ran for the United States Senate as the Democratic nominee from the State of North Carolina, spending only $150,000 for two Primaries and a General election to replace the late Senator, Jesse Helms, who spent $7.5 million dollars, the most ever spent in a Senate campaign to that date. John was preceded in death by his parents, Henry and DeEtte Ingram, and brother Henry Ingram Jr. He is survived by his wife Virginia (Gini) Ingram, his best friend for over 58 years, his three daughters, Gini Linn Abee (Chester), BB Gooden (David), Michelle Cox (Ron), all of Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, and son Randy Ingram (Kim) of Cary, North Carolina, Grandchildren, Dean and Matt Abee, Lauren Roy, Trey and Chelsea Ingram, John David, Liz, and Zack Gooden, Austin, Carson and Ingram Cox, and six great grandchildren, John and Will Abee, Cray, Clark Gooden, Camden and Lila Grace Roy, many nieces and nephews as well as his two aunts. The family will receive friends at the Gooden Home, 1734 Cliffwood drive, Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, from 4-7 pm, Tuesday afternoon. The funeral service will be held at 10 am in the Sanctuary of the First Presbyterian Church of Myrtle Beach located at 1300 North Kings Highway, officiated by Dr. Lewis Johnson, Special hymns and patriotic music will be shared by the family and congregation in memory of a true patriot, a devoted public servant, a beloved family man and a Christian with deep seeded faith. Interment will be at the family plot at Oaklawn Cemetary in Asheboro, North Carolina, Albemarle Road at 4 pm, on Wednesday, with the Reverend Mike Holder, of Brevard, North Carolina and former minister of First United Methodist Church, Asheboro, North Carolina, officiating. Masonic rites will be administered. Military honors will be performed at the gravesite by the Randolph County Honor Guard. McMillan-Small Funeral Home in Myrtle Beach and Pugh Funeral Home in Asheboro, North Carolina will handle all funeral arrangements. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorials be made to your chosen local Volunteer Fire and Rescue Department or to the Fire and Rescue Department in care of the North Carolina Insurance Commissioner's Office, Raleigh, North Carolina.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Jan. 8, 2013.

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Susan Hadley Cyr

October 2, 2024

Randy & Kim,
My parents & I thought the world of your parents. I grew up in First United Methodist Church in Asheboro & remember them so well. (I also had a paternal great-grandmother who was Wincy Turner Ingram & mother of my paternal grandfather, John Walter Hadley, Sr.)
My heart goes out to your family! What a as beautiful legacy of achievement & caring your parents leave!
Susan Hadley Cyr

Buck Lattimore

January 16, 2013

Gini and Family....my thoughts and prayers are with each of you. The Commissioner was an amazing public servant and politician. He was never afraid to "go against the tide" provided it was for the good of the people of North Carolina. He was a champion of young people, the handicapped, fire and rescue squads, and especially insurance consumers. No public servant will ever be able to match his legacy of "fighting for you."

Buck Lattimore
Raleigh

Rhonda Neff-Pate

January 15, 2013

So sorry to hear about your father, Randy. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Truett Canady

January 14, 2013

Randy
I was sorry to hear of your father's passing. I hope you and your family are drawn closer to each other and to the Lord during this time. No one can tell you what it's like to lose your father unless they have been there!

john proctor

January 12, 2013

Randy and BB,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your families. Your Dad was a great man who did many great things for the state of NC. I'm honored to have known him. John Proctor

Arlene Pulley

January 11, 2013

I worked with Lt. Gov. Jimmy Green when John was Commissioner of Insurance and he was truly a " public Servant"! A great Commissioner and a great help to me when constituents had questions about insurance, which to this day I don't understand! Too bad everyone everyone didn't have an opportunity to know him. My prayers go out to his family.

Eric Roeser

January 11, 2013

Randy and Family, Julie and I were saddened to hear of your Dad. Know you're all in our thoughts and Prayers during this difficult time!

Fayleene Talton

January 10, 2013

Dear Gini and family. I considered "The Commissioner" one of my best friends and mentor. No words can express the true feelings that the heart feels; however, may God be with you - I know that the memory of "our Commissioner" will be with you and all others that loved him. Love to all of you, Fayleene

Sandy Marion-Gallos

January 10, 2013

Dear Gini and Family,I am so sorry to hear of John's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

January 10, 2013

Gini and Family- We were so sorry to hear of John's passing. Our family has such fond memories of him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.

The Fusco Family
Vera, Cristina, Nick Jr., Matthew and families.

January 10, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rusty Key
Franklin, NC

Richard Beatty

January 10, 2013

Randy and Kim, I am think of you at this time. He was a great man!!! The times I met him, I was always impressed!

Gib & Kelly Davis

January 10, 2013

Ron, Michelle and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with during your time of loss and sorrow. Hold on to the memories of your father now and in the days ahead to help you through. May God bless each one of you.

David Winstead

January 10, 2013

Gini, BB, Randy
So sorry to hear that yor father passed away.He was a good man.
Hope you remember me, as we had many fun times in MB.

Carla and Rick Hamilton

January 9, 2013

BB and family. We were so sorry to here of the passing of your father. You are very special to us and whatever we can do for you during these difficult days we would be happy to do. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Your father is now in a much better place. God Bless.

Connie Goss-Taylor

January 9, 2013

Randy, so sorry for the passing of your dad Randy and to the rest of family my condolences also. Will be praying for the family.
Connie Goss-Taylor and Alan S Taylor

charlie waisner and family

January 9, 2013

god bless such a nice man and peace to his family

January 9, 2013

I was sad to hear of the passing of Commissioner Ingram. Commissioner was always a good friend as well as an excellent boss. I know that each of you will miss him. Richard and I send our love and condolences.
Richard and Fayleene Talton

Marshall Tutor

January 9, 2013

I worked for John Ingram both politically and in the Insurance Commissioner's office. He, with the love and support of his wonderful family, always did what was best for the people. Sad that today we have so very few true public servants. My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this very difficult time.

Karen Brewer

January 9, 2013

Our sympathies to Mrs. Ingram and the family at this special time.

Chuck Mooney

January 9, 2013

John's life and public record clearly shows that he cared about the regular, common people of N. C. All drivers benefitted when he served as Insurance Commissioner. My sympathy goes out to his family.

The Roy's

January 9, 2013

To all the Ingram family and Gini, our deepest sympathy. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.

Bert Anderson

January 8, 2013

John was an amazing and gracious man, who was honored with an adoring spouse and loving family. God bless you all and take comfort in that he is home, smiling that smile of his.

Tammy (Scheid) Berry

January 8, 2013

To all of the Ingrams: My thoughts, prayers and love are with each of you. Wish I could be there as you were for us with Daddy. Hoping you find peace in pleasant memories. Love, Tammy (Scheid) Berry

January 8, 2013

Love to Gini and our cousins who survive John; love and respect and admiration for John's full life. W.N.Harrell Smith, Mary Oakes Smith, Harrell and Caroline and their families.

Alysene/Rick McAbee

January 8, 2013

Please know you are in our prayers!

Joy Chandler-Thrailkill

January 8, 2013

I had the great pleasure of working with John as his assistant while he was NC Insurance Commissioner. He took me under his wing and taught me so much about the insurance industry. After all these years, I can still say that he was the best boss ever! Heaven has received a very special Angel! My thoughts and prayers are with Gini and family.

Paula Benson

January 8, 2013

Please know that you are remembered, and held close in thought and prayer.

Heather Young

January 8, 2013

Condolences to Randy and the rest of the family.

January 8, 2013

HELEN @ VAN RICH ASHEBORO N C

Claudia Rackley

January 8, 2013

Randy, Kim and family, I just heard the news of John's passing. I am so sorry, wish I was there to comfort you all. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. If there is anything we can do from this distance please don't hesitate to let us know. We love you all very much. God bless, Claudia and Jim

Dr. Phil Hillen

January 8, 2013

Gini and Chester,

My solemn condolences for your loss. He was a true gentleman and a devoted public servant. He will be truly missed.

January 8, 2013

He was a great friend - May God's peace be with you all during this time.

Larry Davis

Karen, Mac and Emma

January 8, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. May God's blessing be with you during this time of sorrow and in the days and weeks and years ahead.

Bob Scarborough

January 8, 2013

Dear BB, David and family, What a great legacy he has left for the Carolinas. May God's peace be with you all during this time.

Peggy Garner

January 8, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jesus will surround you with His love, comfort, and peace- as well as all your friends and church members.
Peggy Garner

January 8, 2013

I have the deepest respect for this true servant of North Carolina and its people.

Grover McCain

Betty Lowery

January 8, 2013

Love and prayers for you and your family, Gini, at this most difficult time.

Sheri Lilley

January 8, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with you

Kim Matthews

January 7, 2013

May God bring comfort to your family during this time.

Rae Worsley

January 7, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

David Diamont

January 7, 2013

As a member of the NC House of Representatives, I had a great deal of respect for Insurance Commissioner John Ingram. He was a great North Carolinian and public servant.

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