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Dean Herrin
December 6, 2003
Dear Roger and Sallie,
We are very sad to hear of the passing of your son. We were in St.Louis when we got the news, so we were unable to attend the services. Please know that you are in our hearts and our prayers.
Dean Herrin Family
Teresa Neely
December 1, 2003
I was deeply sadden to hear of your loss.
Wayne and Jan Melton
November 30, 2003
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this time. May God touch your hearts with his loving power and give you comfort.
Jan and Wayne Melton
Annette Lowder
November 30, 2003
Thinking of you and your family during these difficult days. Keep the wonderful memories and remember that your many friends, family members and church love you.
janet thomas elder
November 29, 2003
Dear Mr and Mrs Dick, I am Kim Elder's wife Janet. I am so very sorry to hear about dear Jonathan. I still cannot get my mind or my heart around it. I cannot imagine the intensity or depth of your grief but perhaps hearing this will make you smile and realize just how special jonathan was to lots of other people too. Jonathan spent lots of time at our house in hickory when he was piping regularly with the band. I always told kim that if we had had a son, i would have wanted him to be just like jonathan. He was always welcome, fun, helpful, delightful, considerate, happy, clever, imaginative, adorable, sweet, and precious in every way. One evening he stayed over with us and slept on the couch in our den downstairs - i heard him playing chanter long into the morning and am not sure just when he went to sleep, but when we got up he had written each of us a pipe tune. we named mine the quilter's reel - i was so touched by that - noone had ever written a song for me before. We didn't have kids but our scottie dog stinky was just like flesh and blood to both of us. Jonathan came to see Kim the day we learned that stinky had lymphosarcoma and a terminal prognosis. Kim needed someone to console him in his grief and jonathan stayed the night with kim just for that reason. I arrived from charlotte the next day and jonathan stayed most of the day with both of us - i wept practically the whole time but having jonathan there helped keep both of our spirits up and keep the whole thing in perspective. He spoke of his family often and i always thought it so special that he was so enamoured of his grandparents - children so often don't appreciate family and it was so refreshing to see how much he truly cared for his. I will not be able to attend this morning's service but I will have you in my thoughts and prayers today and in the coming days. I am glad that you chose Kim to be the piper - he is honored and overwhelmed at the same time by the significance of that request and the charge it carries. I wanted you to know that jonathan played going home and amazing grace for my father's funeral on sept 1, 1997 and then two days later piped the service for my father in law as well, as they died 36 hours apart. although it is the saddest task imaginable, I am glad that kim could repay the honor. May God help you find solace in this time of what must feel like bottomless grief and remember what a gift the life of your child was to the many many people who loved him like we did and always will. most sincerely, janet thomas elder
Lane & Vicki Brown
November 29, 2003
Roger and Sallie - it's with much
sadness that we just learned of the most untimely death of Jonathan. I remember well his matriculation in
First Church - his confirmation day.
Our prayers are with your family.
Loren & Brenda Poplin Thomas
November 29, 2003
Our deepest and most sincere sympathy to the family. May God grant you the courage and strength to get through this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Annette Lowder
November 29, 2003
Dear Sallie, Roger, and family:
Thinking of you at this sad time. It is never easy and will probably remain a deep mystery for you. Keep your sweet memories. Love and care for each other. Always, Annette
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