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Richard Jones Stilwell, Sr. HUNTERSVILLE - Richard Jones Stilwell, Sr., 83, of Huntersville, NC, passed away Saturday January 26, 2013. Richard was born August 8, 1929, in Mt. Mourne, NC, to the late Samuel Jones Stilwell and Hazel Elizabeth Cornelius Stilwell. Richard was retired from the Mecklenburg County Police Department. He started his career as a police officer in Davidson, NC. Richard served his country in the US Navy aboard the USS John Bole during the Korean War. He was a member of the Independence Hill Baptist Church. Richard was a member of the Williams Masonic Lodge #176 for 59 years, a lifetime member of the VFW in Croft, NC, and a 30+ year member of the Eastern Star. He enjoyed the fellowship of the fellow retired Mecklenburg Police officers and he loved to fish. Along with his parents, Richard was preceded in death by his wife, Barbara Wesson Stilwell; son, Mark Stilwell; brothers, George, Henry, Jack, Tom, and Bob Stilwell; and sisters, Margret Chrisenbury and Ethel Hastings. Richard is survived by sons, Richard Stilwell, Jr. (Sandra) and Keith Stilwell (Kathy); daughter, Anne Velez (Peter); grandchildren, Tony and Jessica Velez, Jonathan, Paul , Megan, Allison and Bryan Stilwell; sisters, Charlotte Mills, Mary Frances Moorison, Dorothy Cockrell; and many nieces and nephews. Funeral services will be conducted on Thursday January 31, 2013, at 1:00pm in the Chapel of Raymer-Kepner Funeral Home. The family will receive friends at the funeral home on Wednesday January 30, 2013, from 7:00-9:00pm and also one hour prior to the service on Thursday from 12:00-1:00. Memorial contributions may be made to the Independence Hill Baptist Church, 10220 Eastfield Road, Huntersville, NC 28078. Raymer-Kepner Funeral Home and Cremation Services is assisting the family. Friends may offer condolences to the family at www.raymerfh.com.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Jan. 28, 2013.

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January 31, 2013

From all of Richards friends at the Waffle House in Huntersville , we will truely miss him. He was always so friendly and pleasant even though he was suffering.You will always be in our hearts, Tom and Waffle House crew.

RONNIE OVERCASH

January 31, 2013

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

January 31, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Gary Baker

January 30, 2013

Richard Stilwell is remembered as a very fine man. I knew him and his family as a neighbor of theirs during the 70's and early 80's in the Greenfield Park subdivision in Huntersville where my parents still reside. While I have not seen Mr. Stilwell in many years, my mom and dad always thought and spoke highly of him. He will be missed. Condolences are extended to the family, along with thoughts and prayers.

Kathy Jones

January 29, 2013

Condolences to Ricky, Anne and Keith and your families. Richard was a good man, police officer and friend to my dad. Sending prayers your way.

Pope family

January 28, 2013

u will be greatly missed

Bennett Brown

January 28, 2013

Richard is a good man and friend. He will forever live in our memories.
so more it be my brother

Don G Putnam Cmdr. NC KWVA

January 28, 2013

Richard was a former member of the Korean War Veterans Assoc. Of. NC He served his country with pride

Bud & Ila Nofziger

January 28, 2013

Richard will be fondly remembered by all his Bingo friends at Croft and all of us members of VFW and VFW Auxiliary.

Richard Wesson

January 28, 2013

Condolences to the Stilwell family. Richard was a fine man. Prayers sent your way.

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