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Charles Clark Obituary

The Reverend Charles Halsey "Kelly" Clark, ninth Rector of St. Paul's School, a kind and gentle man, a respected leader, Episcopal priest, and theological educator, beloved within the St. Paul's School community and beyond, died in Exeter, N.H., on March 11, 2019. He was 92 years old.

Born on December 2, 1926, in New York City, Kelly was the son of Martha Keck Clark and Alfred Marling Clark. He grew up in Coronado, Calif., attending the Francis Parker School in San Diego and the Thacher School in Ojai.

In 1944, Kelly enlisted in the U.S. Naval Reserve Officers Training Corps V12 program at UCLA, later graduating in 1948 from Yale. He earned his M.Div. from Virginia Theological Seminary in 1951 and was ordained priest in the Diocese of New York in December of 1952. In 1953, Kelly married Priscilla, another native Californian and student at the Yale Divinity School. With Priscilla and her daughter, Pamela, the couple began a wonderful 66-year partnership. From 1953 to 1957, Kelly served as assistant chaplain at Yale, lecturer in Old and New Testaments, and director of Yale's International Student Center. During that time, he received an M.A. in Old Testament studies from Yale in 1956.

For 20 years, from 1957 to 1977, Kelly worked for the Overseas Department of the Episcopal Church, living from 1957 to 1967 in Singapore, where he served as canon at St. Andrew's Anglican Cathedral, as a faculty member of Trinity Theological College, and as Warden of St. Peter's Hall. He spent an additional 10 years as the dean of St. Andrew's Theological Seminary and dean of Trinity College, Quezon City, Philippines, where he co-founded the South East Asia Institute of Music and Liturgy.

Kelly returned to the United States in 1977 to become dean of Berkeley Divinity School and an associate dean of the Yale Divinity School. In 1982, Kelly and Priscilla moved to Concord, N.H., for Kelly to begin his Rectorship at St. Paul's. He would later share that he was drawn to the School both for its mission and for the beautiful fields and ponds that dot the campus.

As the Ninth Rector, Kelly led 10 happy, fulfilling years among the students, faculty, staff, and families of SPS. During his tenure, Kelly oversaw a number of renovations of dormitories and classroom spaces, as well as the restoration of key buildings from the early years of the School. The construction and dedication of Ohrstrom Library in 1991 were conducted under his watch. Also of particular note were the 1988 celebrations surrounding the 100th anniversary of the Chapel of St. Peter and St. Paul. On May 12, 1988, Kelly helped dedicate the "Newest Window" to commemorate the Chapel's centennial.

Upon his "retirement" from St. Paul's, Kelly served as interim rector at St. Bartholomew's Episcopal Church, New York City, and then as Vicar of St. John the Evangelist in Dunbarton, N.H. The historic Abbott House in Concord became home for many years, as Kelly stayed active in the Concord community as a member of the Rotary Club, on the Board of the Friendly Kitchen, and as chairman of the New Hampshire Humanities Council. In 2010, Kelly and Priscilla moved to the Riverwoods Retirement Community in Exeter, N.H.

Throughout his life, Kelly received several honorary degrees and served on the boards of schools and organizations, including the Thacher School, the White Mountain School, and the Yale in China Program. An avid sportsman, Kelly was a champion tennis player all his life and a great horseman, including playing on the Singapore polo team.

Always gracious, Kelly was a true teacher, an elegant athlete, a devoted priest and missionary of the Gospel. He had a great sense of humor. He loved his family and friends, dogs, horses, tennis, poetry, music, acting, dancing, and the beach. He loved God and was devoted to following God's call wherever that led him, faithfully pastoring all the communities under his care.

Kelly is survived by his wife, Priscilla; four children, Martha, Nathaniel, Mary, and Anne; 11 grandchildren; four great-grandchildren; and two great-great-grandchildren. He was predeceased by his daughter, Pamela.

A Requiem Eucharist will be held on Friday, May 3, at 1:30 p.m. in the Chapel of St. Peter and St. Paul, St. Paul's School, Concord, N.H. A reception will follow. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to: Victory Programs (Boston, Mass.) and to the Advanced Studies Program at St. Paul's School.

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Published by Concord Montior on Apr. 16, 2019.

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Evelyn D., Rose B. and Angie

February 18, 2022

Sending our sincere condolences to the family. Indeed, Rev. Charles is a great kind man. Truly a Christian. Evelyn and Rose use to serve them while in the Philippines. Angie, as a child, visited during summer vacationing with the family's house in St. Andrews compound. Sorry, we just learned of Reverend Clark's passing this time. Our best regards to the family. Hope all is well. God Bless.

Jonathan H. Ryder-Clark

September 14, 2020

I know you are always with me

Lawrence Braden

May 14, 2019

This man forever changed my life, and the life of my entire family. After over twenty years, I was desperate to escape the insane cost of living, high crime and high taxes of Honolulu. Kelly interviewed me for a teaching job at St. Paul's and said "I can't promise you which house you will be living in or your salary. Will you still come? "You bet!" It turned out that we were given our own house on Fiske Road to live in plus a salary much more than I would have asked. Not only did Kelly generously provide our physical needs, he was a gentleman of the old school and quite a comfort to us as a pastor, both at St. Paul's and at our church in Dunbarton.

When I was a toddler, Kelly was living not a mile away from me at the Thatcher School in Ojai, California!

Although Kathy and I mourn his inevitable loss, we will meet again in Heaven soon enough!

Kathleen Braden

May 13, 2019

It was an honor to know Kelly. I adore him. He ministered to my soul at SPS and at Dunbarton's St. John's Episcopal Church. I remember setting up to tell fortunes at the Wrectory and not really paying much attention to what I assumed was a dummy mummy... Until said mummy started to move ever so slowly. It was Kelly of course! His words comforted us on several tragedies and the memory of them comforts me still. A high point in my culinary life was when he went back for thirds for my Coconut Chicken Curry. He said it was just like the dish he had at the seminary in Singapore every Sunday back in the day. I will be happy to share with anyone who would like the recipe!!!

Martha Clark

April 18, 2019

Prayers for Resurrection Joy. Peace be with you, dad.

Carter Barger

April 17, 2019

Remembering Kelly from Concord Rotary Club days. He was the consummate gentleman, in every sense of the word. It was always a pleasure to be in his company. Rest in peace.

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