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Gerald O'Hara Obituary
Gerald K. O'Hara, 83, of Fairfield, passed away peacefully on Monday December 10, 2013 at Bridgeport Hospital. He is survived by his loving wife Eileen and son Gerald Edward. Born August 7, 1930 in the Bronx, NY, he was the son of the late Margret McGuane and Joseph O'Hara. Gerry graduated Iona College and Fordham Graduate School before spending over 45 years in education. He was a grateful member of the Irish Christian Brothers in which he served as teacher, principal, and guidance counselor. Gerry retired from Brien McMahon High School after serving over 20 years as a guidance counselor, but remained active in education and outreach for many years to follow as a tutor, volunteer, and mentor. Humble member and mentor of the 12-step programs. Gerry's legacy was and is one of service; his contributions to the community and love of life will be greatly missed. Friends are invited for a viewing on Sunday December 15th from 2pm to 6pm at Spear Miller Funeral Home 39 South Benson Rd. Fairfield, CT Services will be held at St. Anthony's Church 149 South Pine Creek Rd. Fairfield, CT on Monday, December 16th at 10am. Memorial contributions may be made in Gerry's memory to the Alzheimer's Foundation of America.
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Memories and Condolences
for Gerald O'Hara
Raymond Mendoza
December 8, 2024
Sleep well my friend in the arms of your Savior!
Raymond Mendoza
December 9, 2022
Been so long, but still can see his face and feel the honesty and compassion he would give to anyone he met! Continue to S.I.P my friend
Raymond Mendoza
December 8, 2021
Still seems like just yesterday and after all these years STILL one of the finest people I had the pleasure to meet! RIP my friend!!
John Manning
March 10, 2014
Gerry was a favorite teacher of mine many many years ago. One reason would have likely been that my own background of Irish parentage and limited financial resources made him see me as someone who grew up from a background similar to his own. From helping me earn a scholarship to recommending me for an after school first job..he played a great role in getting me started in life. I was able to resume an e mail relationship with him about 5 years ago and we would occasionally stay in touch. I just became aware of his passing a few days ago. I will remember him always.
Martha Stucker
December 22, 2013
Dear Eileen, You are in my prayers as you begin a new chapter in your life.
Linda Corby
December 16, 2013
My prayers are with you Eileen. You both have given me so much. Know that you are loved.
Elizabeth Zezima
December 16, 2013
Dear Eileen,
Any day I was fortunate enough to run into Gerry walking his beloved Spirit left a smile on my face. I am so sorry for your loss. Gerry was a much loved and treasured member of our community, and we all grieve his passing. We know you have wonderful memories and his kind and gentle spirit to sustain you, but please let us know if we can help in any way. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Liz Zezima
Nancy Donne
December 16, 2013
God has a new greeter for the gate, Gerry's warm smile and genuine love of service will always be remembered. Love and prayers to Eileen and family.
Katie S.
December 15, 2013
My heart goes out to you both. I know though, memories of Gerry will leave us all..."reasonably well".
Greg
December 15, 2013
A gentile smile and a hand shake was Gerry. I will always remember what a difference he made in my life and the lives of many. Such a sweet man.
bob donovan
December 15, 2013
Always a smile and outstretched hand. I'll miss him but the memory is indelible.
Bob
Carole Garrity
December 15, 2013
Eileen you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Carole Garrity Westport.
Kevin Leary
December 15, 2013
The good that people are, lives on forever in hearts of those that cherish their memory.
Linda Smith
December 14, 2013
Oh, Eileen and Jerry Jr., our love and prayers go out to you today. What a wonderful man Jerry was, and you will miss him so much. Hope you find the love of your many friends will help. nmw
Ray Mendoza
December 14, 2013
Jerry was a true gentlemen and I am honored to have known him and call him friend! God's Comfort & Peace be with the family!
Pat Filan
December 14, 2013
I enjoyed his friendship and the pleasant talks we had. God bless Eileen.
December 14, 2013
Eileen,
Gerry was a great man and a kind soul and friend to all in need. His gentle presence will be missed. Carole's and my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mike Sonick
Eve Darcy
December 14, 2013
Eileen, I am so sorry for the loss of your Gerry. I'd only know Gerry for a short time, just two years, but the impact he made on me will endure. His kindness, his wit, candor, and compassion will never be forgotten. He was a power of example to me and I am the better for having known him. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Eve D.
John O'Connell
December 14, 2013
My deepest condolences on your great loss, Gerry impacted so many, we will all miss him.
Gladys & Tom Graham
December 14, 2013
Dear Eileen and Gerald,
Our deepest sympathy to you and our prayers are with you. We have been away from Fairfield for many years but still have fond memories of you all. May God bless you with many happy memories.
Sincerely, Gladys and Tom Graham
December 14, 2013
Dear Eileen and Gerald,
There are no words that can capture your feeling of loss. Our prayers and love are with you at this time. Blessings!
The Cotters from 209th St.
Patricia Harrison
December 14, 2013
Dear Eileen and Gerald - our thoughts and prayers go out to you today. Gerry was an outstanding, kind and giving person who will be missed. Patti and Don
Neal Fitzpatrick
December 14, 2013
This kind and gentle friend will be missed but not forgotten.
Helen Carr
December 13, 2013
Dear Eileen and Gerald, Your Gerry is free of pain and at complete peace. You are both left with a huge hole that I pray time will fill with memories. Try to live his outlook of living by enjoying and giving. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Fondly, Toni Carr
The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home
December 14, 2013
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