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Joseph Kochiss
Joseph P. Kochiss, age 94 of Trumbull, beloved twin brother of the late John M. Kochiss, died Wednesday, November 11, 2020 at his home.
Mr. Kochiss was born in Bridgeport to the late Joseph and Rose (Suhanovsky) Kochiss.
He received an Associate in Arts degree from Junior College of Connecticut follow later by a Bachelor Degree in English and History from the University of Bridgeport. He then received a Master Degree in Education.
He taught English and then Special Education in Stratford for 32 years. During his teaching career he wrote six musicals which were performed by his students. Recently, one of his plays was performed at the American Embassy Academy in Dubai.
He wrote many articles about St. Thérèse in "The Apostolate of the Little Flower." His latest writing was a lengthy book "A Companion to Saint Thérèse of Lisieux: Her Life and Work & The People and Places In Her Story."
Mr. Kochiss maintained his interest in art, especially portrait painting. He studied with Carl Anderson at The Frank Reilly School of Art in NYC. As a violinist he performed in college and community orchestras, and chamber groups. With one group he performed at Carnegie Recital Hall with his late twin brother.
He and his brother had traveled extensively in Canada, the Neat East, North Africa, and Europe where they did a lot of skiing. He visited France numerous times doing research on his book about St. Thérèse.
Friends are invited to attend the funeral on Tuesday, November 17, 2020 at 11 a.m. at St. Theresa Church, 5301 Main Street, Trumbull. Entombment in St. Michael Cemetery, Stratford will follow. Friends may call the morning of the funeral from 9:30-10:30 a.m. at the Pistey Funeral Home, 2155 Main Street, Stratford. Adhering to COVID guidelines and wearing a mask are required. Due to capacity limits, please do not linger so that others may be able to pay their respects. Visit www.pisteyfuneralhome.com to express condolences online.

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Published by Connecticut Post on Nov. 14, 2020.

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Pattie Gunther Haselman

November 8, 2022

I had the privilege of having both brothers as my Teacher. I will never forget them. They were the best Teachers anyone could ever have. RIP I just thought of so many happy memories ring In Their class.

Catherine Winters

December 13, 2020

We were unable to reach Joe by phone andjust found his obituarynotice today. Such a loss. Jack and Joe (we will always think of them together) werean amazing gift to anyone who knew them.They were full of life and joy;enthusiasm and creativity. It was always apleasure to be with them. They were wonderful guests bringing laughterand music to every occasion. It was always a joy to be in their home and seetheir books,pictures, paintings and hear their stories. We will alwaystreasure Joe's memory and the memory of Jack and Joetogether. I know how hard it was for Joe after losing his brother. I amsurethey are together inheaven – and that heaven is more joyful with their presence. With our loving prayers, Carl and Catherine

Kevin

November 16, 2020

Bless you, my dear friend. You are now in heaven with St. Thérèse like we so often talked about. You will be missed.

Peggy Karbovanec

November 16, 2020

No one can ever replace the amazing person Joe was - he was the Renaissance man

Christine Fortek

November 16, 2020

Rest in peace Joe, I will forever cherish the memories of Pleasure Beach. You and Jack were always there, at the cottage next door. The Kochiss family were good neighbors to the Boros family.

Ron Clough Jr

November 16, 2020

I have the honor of being the a student of this fine teacher. I had the honor of being in one of his theatrical players in “Who’s mummy are you”. I was grateful for his instrumental help in forming a ski club in our school. And was honored that he chose me as a student to help a new teacher acclimate herself on arrival to a new school that we are attended. He was a man of great intellect that I wrote books in place but also invented many games that were bought by Milton Bradly and other companies. I always admire the dedication that he and his brother shared for one another it was always good to see him or run into him anywhere he was always happy to see anyone he knew and was interested in how There life was going. He will be missed.

Pattie Gunther Haselman

November 16, 2020

Both Joseph and his brother were the best teachers and always respected!! so sorry he has passed RIP. Pattie Gunther Haselman

Linda Montecalvo

November 15, 2020

I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of Mr. Kochiss. I was a student of his in Stratford CT. He and his brother were amazing people and were both such wonderful role models for students. Always inquisitive and interested in Art & Music. They both always had a great interest in so many things and seemed to live life to the fullest. May he rest in peace knowing he lived a life well lived. Linda Montecalvo, Westport, CT

Charlotte Matthews

November 15, 2020

So sorry to learn of Joe's passing, John's as well! They were both such beautiful and engaging folks. May God Bless them and those of their family at this difficult time. Very sincere sympathy goes out to all.

Alan Aurelia

November 15, 2020

I remember Mr Kochiss teaching when I was a student in Stratford CT graduating in 1969. He was such a talented man.May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Gail Finnegan Bourdeau

November 15, 2020

I had him as a teacher at Johnson Jr. High. RIP

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