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Mary Rattley Obituary

Rattley, Mary A.
Mrs. Mary Adeline Rattley, 85, of Trumbull, CT., passed away peacefully on October 10, 2016 at St. Vincent's Medical Center in Bridgeport, CT. She was born on June 9, 1931 in Plainville, CT. She was preceded in death by her parents, Frank and Maude (Woods) Alexander Sr., and her beloved husband and love of her life for 63 years, Herbert C. Rattley Sr. They enjoyed holding hands on long walks through Beardsley Park, movies, sporting events, and other outings that would come to include their four sons.
Mary was a Licensed Practical Nurse for 40 years. The majority of the time was working at St. Vincent's Medical Center. She was president of the St. Vincent's recreational club, St. Vincent's Retirees, and the Saint Francis Cabrini Columbiettes. She was also a member of the Parish Society of Our Lady of Good Council Church, St Andrews Friendship Club, Sikorsky Aircraft Club #1150, the Anchor Club of Bridgeport, and the Bridgeport Senior Center. Mary was a loving and caring mother who loved her husband and sons, unmeasurably. She was also a mother to the neighborhood, her family, and reached out with her gracious heart to many and enjoyed family outings at Beardsley Park Beach, backyard barbeques at 110 Valley Circle, entertaining family and friends at her home and having many "crazy fun" moments in the house and the backyard pool. Over her years she loved the water, and enjoyed teaching young people to swim. Mary had many many friends whom she loved and loved her dearly.
Mary was predeceased by her only daughter; Gina Marie Rattley, grandson, Eugene Arthur Jones and her five brothers and three sisters. Surviving Mary are her four sons; Herbert C. Rattley Jr. and his wife Beryl, Douglas Wm. Rattley, Stephen C. Rattley Sr., and Michael E Rattley. Survivors also include 16 grandchildren, 24 great grandchildren, one great-great granddaughter, a host of loving nieces, nephews, cousins, friends and one brother-in-law, Samuel Shepherd, two sister-in-law's Gail Lawyer and Eleanor Alexander. She had a "posse" of dear friends which included, Kathy Barrett, Roland Wright, Raquel Figueroa-Heath, Sydney Avery, Wanda Wilhelm, Patricia Brady and Valerie Rockhead. Friends are invited to attend her Funeral on Saturday. At 10:00 a.m. at St. Andrew RC Church. Burial will be in Gate of Heaven Cemetery in Trumbull. Friends may call on Friday at the funeral home from 6 to 8 p.m.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Oct. 12 to Oct. 13, 2016.

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Billy DeBerry

October 20, 2016

Cork,Doug,Chris and Mike, You have our deepest sympathy over the passing of your mom. Another great one is gone, but she leaves us all with the greatest of memories. my mother will truly miss her cards and phone calls.May the lord bless and keep you all. Billy DeBerry and family

October 17, 2016

I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. Please find peace and comfort in Psalms 119:76.

Shepherd family

October 16, 2016

Cory,Doug,Mike, and Chris ; With sadness we offer our condolences for the passing of your beloved mother. As so many have expressed, Aunt Mary was one of a kind; loving, giving and always with laughter in her heart. We are the blessed ones to be a part of your family. May you keep GOD in your heart as HE has for your mother.

beth Zavatsky LeBel

October 15, 2016

To "MARY,S BOYS".....simply put I just loved & adored your mother...We went way back from the births of my babies to our days working in ICU @ st,V, & She sure loved her HERB & the boys!

Susie and Bennie Whitmore

October 15, 2016

Aunt Mary you will be missed but I know you are with love ones in my heart. You fought a brave and long fight its time for rest. To Cork, Doug, Chris and Mike wish I could be with you but I will keep you in prayer.

hanna luden

October 15, 2016

Michael and all the Rattley family , my condolences . May your Mother rest in peace.God Bless you all.

Wendy Fuller-Jones

October 15, 2016

Cork, Doug, Chris, Mike & family..You already know that your mother was a CHAMPION! She was a soldier and fought an impressive battle for life, for a long time. I will NEVER forget Aunt Mary. She will be greatly missed!

Fuller, Johnson, Jones family

DEBO9RAH BELTON-REYNOLDS

October 14, 2016

GOD be with you in this time of need. Keeping you all in prayer.

Deacon Bill & Elaine Bissenden

October 14, 2016

Dear Rattley family, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Mary truly was one of a kind, a force to be reckoned with. All our love.

Beverly & David Blackwell & Family

October 13, 2016

Keeping you all in prayer. Rest in peace.

Minter Cluff III

October 13, 2016

Rev. we are so sorry to hear of your loss. Much prayers go out for your family> There is no greater love on earth than a Mother's love, I know this so well, my Heart goes out to you an your family, may GOD comfort you through this time of bereavement.. Much love for you my brother...

October 13, 2016

Sounds like a full and loving Life; thoughts and prayers with all, Diana and Dick{from Milford}

October 13, 2016

Cork, Doug, Chris and Mike and family. We all love Aunt Mary and will miss her a lot. I pray the family stays strong now even though it is hard. Love you guys and the whole family. Butch

Toni Alexander-Hill

October 13, 2016

To My Family, Aunt Mary will be so missed. She was one of the must beautiful aunts that anyone could ask for. She will never ever be forgotten, I have so many ways like her, and I believe she will live on in all of us. She has now earned her rest, after fighting for life so long. Now with the rest of the family in heaven. REST MARY, WITH ALL MY LOVE.

Connie and Stan Bonds

October 13, 2016

My Dearest Family, I know we are all saddened by the passing of our Matriarch. Aunt Mary shared her faith, her home and all she had with anyone who was in need. She loved us all dearly, laughed freely and held us accountable. She will be deeply missed, yet never forgotten. A piece of her lives in each of us and as we share stories and memories, we will keep her alive. Rest in Peace, Beautiful. We love you.

October 12, 2016

Rattley Family:
Very sorry to learn of Mary. A lovely lady,great worker and compassionate care giver. Prayers are with you.
Dr Joseph A Rose

Veronica Brown

October 12, 2016

To the Rattley family. Aunt Mary was the warmest, kindest person I have ever met. I will always remember her beautiful giving spirit, her love of family, her beautiful cheese cakes, her love of holiday celebrations, and so much more.
I will always love you Aunt Mary. May you rest in peace.
In Love,
Veronica Brown and family

Jackie Ryan

October 12, 2016

Mary, a woman with a heart of gold, you will be greatly missed. Your wittiness, positive energy, and fun attitude brought many smiles to our Columbiette functions. May you rest peacefully in our Lord's hands and may our Blessed Mother Mary receive you in her company with St. Teresa and St. Joan of Arc forever in Heaven. Lovingly, Jackie

Bernadette McCall

October 12, 2016

To the family of Auntie Mary Rattley:
Our deepest condolences and prayers goes out to each one. Auntie Mary was one sweet and beautiful woman who has always welcome people with open arms. We will miss her beautiful smile. We will always remember the funny jokes she share with those who was willing to listen. I wanna thank you Auntie Mary for always showing so much love to my late brother Dexter and the Hill's family. You and Auntie June has always showed love. S.I.P Aunty Mary. You have earned your wings. To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.

Love always,
The Hill's, Hopkins, Belle, Jones, and McCall family

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