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John Lavery Obituary


John (Jack) Lavery, 86, passed away on Sunday, April 13, 2014.

He was born in Clifton Springs, N.Y. on Feb. 15, 1928, and was the son of the late John Raymond and Mary Irene O'Bryan Lavery. He was preceded in death by his brother, Dr. William E. Lavery. Jack was a devoted, loving, caring husband, father, grandfather and friend. A humble man, accomplished athlete, and musician who loved to travel; Jack was a professional educator who was passionate about lifelong learning and assisting individuals and organizations to reach their maximum potential. In pursuit of this vision he served in many roles in the community college systems of Virginia and New York, including professor, dean of students, director of educational programs and college president. Lavery earned his bachelor's degree from the State University of New York-Geneseo, his masters and doctorate from Michigan State University as well as serving in the US Air Force during the Korean Conflict. Surviving are his wife of 57 years, Lois T. Lavery; three sons, Mark J. Lavery and wife, Katy, of Richmond, Va., John J. Lavery and wife, Yolanda, of Potomac, Md., and James T. Lavery of Richmond; six granddaughters, Emily, Shannon, Eliza, Natalie, Ellie, and Hallie; and a step-grandson, Noah. Other survivors include sisters-in-law, Jeanne Cullings and husband, Emerson, Carol LeRoy and husband, Peter, and Peggy Lavery; a brother-in-law, Thomas Thurlow and wife, Judy; and several nieces and nephews. A memorial service will be held Saturday, April 26, 2014 at 1 p.m. in St. Anne Catholic Parish Hall-Church, Edenton. A reception will follow the service. Miller & Van Essendelft, Funeral and Cremation Providers, 1125 Harvey Point Road, Hertford, is assisting the family with arrangements. In lieu of flowers, contributions in his memory may be made to the Albemarle Chorale, in care of The College of the Albemarle, 800 N. Oakum St., Edenton, NC 27932. Online condolences may be made by visiting www.millerfhc.com.

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Published by The Daily Advance on Apr. 18, 2014.

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R & B Hollowell

May 2, 2015

Lois, we have been thinking about you and wanted you to know we have you in our thoughts and prayers. Difficult to believe Jack's been in heaven for over a year-April 14th...--sorry we haven't been in touch--we have no excuse..Our e-mail is [email protected] God bless, Richard and Barbara

Lisa & Russell Gregor

April 25, 2014

Lois, May the Lord hold you in his hand and give you peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

Sam & Margie Mills

April 24, 2014

Lois, our prayers are with you and the family at this time. May God bless you and keep you, may his light shine on you and give you peace. Jack will be missed.

Kent & Lorraine Saunders

April 18, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with you Lois, Mark, John and James and the rest of your family. May God's love provide comfort in this time of loss. The Albemarle Chorale will miss Jack dearly singing in the bass section but he will always remain in our hearts.

Judy Ascher

April 18, 2014

A shining light of Snug Harbor has been dimmed, but a brilliant star has been added to the Heavens above. I shall miss that loving, sweet gentleman. My love to Lois and family.

Janet Dingman

April 18, 2014

Jack was a special person and a huge advocate for student services in the community college system. He will be missed.
Janet Dingman, Virginia Beach (formerly Janet Wilkinson of CVCC)

Carolyn Meadows

April 18, 2014

Lois, my thoughts and prayers are with you.I am so sorry about your loss.I always enjoyed talking to you and Jack in the office.

Carolyn Meadows

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