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1934

DIED

2015

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McNerney's Mortuary - San Pedro

570 W 5th St.

San Pedro, California

Carmela Tomasello Obituary

Carmela Joy Tomasello

Our Loving Mother

Born May 6, 1934 in San Pedro, CA passed away peacefully with her family at her side on December 4, 2015 in San Pedro. Joy was a lifelong resident of San Pedro. She is preceded in death by her husband, Tony Tomasello; father Carmen DeMeglio, mother, Carmela DeMeglio and sister Lucille (Frank) Pilichi. She is survived by her devoted and grateful children, Jan (Rick) Christensen, Jim (Kristi) Tomasello, grandchildren Erik (Jennifer) Christensen, Brianne Christensen, Kaitlin Tomasello, Emily Tomasello and great-grandchild Madelyn Christensen. She is also survived by her sister, Pauline (Fred) Hooker, as well as numerous nieces and nephews. Joy graduated from San Pedro High School as part of the Winter Class of 1953. Joy and Tony were married in April 1953 and enjoyed 55 years of marriage until Tony's passing in 2008. Joy loved music. She was a product of the original Rock 'N' Roll generation reveling in the work of Elvis in the 50's, The Beatles in the 60's and The Eagles in the 70's. She also was very fashion-conscious and loved stylish clothing and accessories. Most of all, she was a loving daughter, sister, wife, mother, grandmother, aunt and friend. Her family was her life. Everyone she touched is better for having had her in their lives. Visitation will be Sunday December 13 1-6 PM at McNerney's Mortuary. Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Monday December 14 10:30 AM at Mary Star of the Sea Church. Interment will take place at Green Hills Memorial Park. Please sign the guestbook at mcnerneysmortuary.com or dailybreeze.com.

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Published by Daily Breeze from Dec. 10 to Dec. 12, 2015.

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Erma Albano-Camello

December 14, 2015

Dear Janice and Jimmy and Family

My deepest sympathy to you and families during the loss of your mother. Your mom was always so nice to us kids while growing up on 8th street. She would always give us treats. She was a wonderful woman. May she rest in peace.

Ruth Hummel

December 13, 2015

I can truly say, the nicest, kindest, most down-to-earth neighbor I've known here in the Gardens, in my 32 years living here!
May you rest in peace Joy!! You will be missed!!

December 10, 2015

Love you and miss you grandma.

Terry Hoinsky Family

December 10, 2015

our deepest sympathy on the passing of Carmela. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. God bless you.

December 10, 2015

Grandma.. Thank you for being amazing and loving to all your grand kids. You taught us great life lessons and will forever love you.

Erik, Jenny and Madelyn

December 10, 2015

Joy - you will be truly missed. You are among the Angels now - surely watching over all of us right alongside my Nana. Thank you for always treating me like family. Love you Joy!! We will make sure to take care of your family down here!

Jason, Maria, Justin and Jaden Kusar

December 10, 2015

Love you Auntie Joy.

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1:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.

McNerney's Mortuary - San Pedro

570 W 5th St., San Pedro, CA 90731

Dec

14

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10:30 a.m.

Mary Star of the Sea Church

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570 W 5th St., San Pedro, CA 90731

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