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Helen-Jill Whitaker Barkley

1935 - 2019

Helen-Jill Whitaker Barkley obituary, 1935-2019, Palos Verdes Estates, CA

BORN

1935

DIED

2019

Helen-Jill Barkley Obituary

February 9, 1935 - August 30, 2019 Helen-Jill Whitaker Barkley February 9, 1935 August 30, 2019 Jill was raised in Denver, Colorado, by Dr. Harry L. Christy Whitaker and Inez Spires Whitaker. Jill was a model and socialite in her youth. She graduated from Pine Manor College in Wellesley, Massachusetts, and married Littleton C. ("Bark") Barkley Jr. in 1959. Jill and Bark moved to PVE in 1968, where they raised their two beautiful daughters, Christy and Amy. The family immediately jumped into civic life. They initiated a Supper Club, hosting legendary parties, as well as bridge clubs and mahjong lunches. Jill was a long-time member of Las Vecinas, where she served as president from 1989 to 1990. Jill was: a Girl Scout leader in PV, an instrumental leader in establishing Neighborhood Watch in PV, the founder of a welcoming 9-hole ladies' golf group at the PV Golf Club, and an active leader in early Red Hat clubs who eventually became the YaYas and Babes. Jill was an active Christian in the Neighborhood Church for over forty years. She served on many boards and was surprised to receive the church's "Good Shepherd Award" in 2012. Her active participation included: liaison and organizer of the pictorial church directory, President of the Women's Fellowship, Chairman of Yule Parlor Parade homes tour and often overseeing the annual Maundy Thursday celebration. She passed away gently to be with her beloved Bark. Jill was predeceased by her older sister, Barbara Anne Smith, and her younger brother, Harry L. Christy Whitaker. She is survived by her daughters Christy Barkley-Fisher and Amy Barkley Morris, Amy's husband Matt Morris, three grandchildren, and one great grandson. In lieu of flowers, the family requests contributions in Jill's memory to The Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson's Research at www.michaeljfox.org .

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Published by Daily Breeze on Oct. 6, 2019.

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Jill Barkley received the Good Shepherd award at Neighborhood Church.

Bea Walker

October 9, 2019

I remember working with Jill on many projects together. Jill worked tirelessly for the Neighborhood Church for many years. She will be remembered for her generous service and caring for others.

This photo was taken when Jill received the Good Shepherd award from Neighborhood Church.
~Bea Walker

Ron Updike

October 7, 2019

I was saddened when I read of Jill's passing, but out of that sadness comes a flood of wonderful memories of the Barkley's. I was their mailman for over 32 years.I was 22 just out of the Army and took a job with the Palos Verdes Post Office in 1969. Little did I know that this family would be with me from the beginning of my career to my retirement. The conversations I would have with Bark in the garage, the running of packages to the front door for Jill, and I loved their dogs. I was fortunate enough to watch Christy and Amy grow up with so many of the other kids in the neighborhood and to move on to have families of their own. Girl Scout cookies were always on the table! Again, I will say how fortunate I am to know this family and how sorry I am for your loss. I can only sign this one way. Love, Ron (The Mailman)

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