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BARBY LILL KAY

1956 - 2019

BARBY LILL KAY obituary, 1956-2019, St Charles, IL

BORN

1956

DIED

2019

FUNERAL HOME

Yurs Funeral Home of St. Charles

405 E. Main Street St.

Saint Charles, Illinois

BARBY KAY Obituary

Barby Lill Kay, 62, wife to Forrest Kay, died unexpectedly Saturday December 29th in their St. Charles home. Barby was born on June 3rd, 1956, in Geneva, where she spent her childhood, before settling in St. Charles. She was energetic, enthusiastic, and loved to make people smile. She genuinely cared about everyone, especially her many customers throughout her working career. She is survived by her husband, Forrest; her four children, Jeannette (Corey) Felkins, Jason (Erin) Parker, Julie (Dylan) Jeffries, Jerry Parker; seven grandchildren, Cody Felkins, Emilie Felkins, Lynze Jeffries, Callie Parker, Daniel Parker, Logan Jeffries, Lanna Jeffries; the father of her children, Jesse Parker; her mother, Patricia Thompson; mother-in-law, Marilou Kay; three brothers, one sister, many nieces and nephews and good friends. Barby was preceded in death by her father, Oscar Thompson; father-in-law, Robert Kay; and sister, Holly Fisher. A Memorial Service in memory of Barby will be held on Saturday, January 19th at Hosanna! Lutheran Church, 36W925 Red Gate Rd., St. Charles. The memorial service will start at 11 a.m., with Pastor John Nelson officiating, with a luncheon to follow. Respects may be paid before the service from 10 a.m. to 11 a.m. Donations in Barby's memory may be made to 4Paws4U4Ever at 29W150 Roosevelt Rd., West Chicago, IL 60185. To leave an online condolence for the family, visit the funeral home's obituary page at www.yursfuneralhomes.com. For more information, please call Yurs Funeral Home of St. Charles, 630-584-0060.

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Published by Daily Herald on Jan. 3, 2019.

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Jeannette

June 6, 2019

Hi Mom-Your birthday was a nice day. We interred you in your memorial bench. All the kids participated in a mini service for you. Julie put it all together and it was perfect. I hope it made you smile in heaven ❤ I miss you so much. I wish you could just call me like you used to and spend a few hours talking about nothing.

Kathy Elstrom

January 19, 2019

So sorry to hear of the passing of such a sweet & friendly lady that was my pleasure to have worked with - when she was at Wasco post office. Rest In Peace

Jeannette

January 17, 2019

I miss you and love you Mom. It still doesn't feel real. I go about my days as usual, but nothing feels quite the same. I always have a heavy feeling in my chest. I'll be strong for you, but it really hurts sometimes. I'll love you always.

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

paul christensen

Sent Flowers

January 12, 2019

I am sorry for the loss of your loved one. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Remember that praying to God for endurance will help the grieving process. Psalm 146:9

Paul Christensen

January 10, 2019

So sorry for your loss. May you find peace in this troubled time, and succor from your sadness in remembrance of better times.

Sue McMahon

January 2, 2019

I am so saddened to hear about Barbys passing.
She was one of the hardest workers I ever met.
She truly was the Energiver Bunny.
I extend my heartfelt condolences to Forrest & her children whom she adored & loved sharing with such pride stories of their lives.
Rest In Peace Barby you will be missed by so many.

Love,
Sue

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10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Hosanna! Lutheran Church

36W925 Red Gate Rd., St. Charles, IL

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19

Memorial service

11:00 a.m.

Hosanna! Lutheran Church

36W925 Red Gate Rd., St. Charles, IL

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Yurs Funeral Home of St. Charles

405 E. Main Street St., Saint Charles, IL 60174

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